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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 4 months, and all we have done is make out. I told him before that i want to do more n he says that he feels the same way. But he never has done nething about it. im ready to have sex like i really love him but i dont know waht to do. Please helpp
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This is a tough one, well if it makes you feel any better me and mine first did it at around 4 monthes into the relationship. I was 14 and he was well...older, im 18 now and we are still together
YUP 4 YEARS LATER. We plan on having a family and getting married soon, we love each other more the life itself and we've both proven that to each other on many occansions. You are young, yes, but listen to your head. What does it tell you, really think about doing this before you do it. Ask your self coudl you love him forever? could you see yourself with him forever? what are his future plans? is he thinking about moving away to a college somewere to a far away place were it would makes things hard on your relationship? I say if you really feel this way then go with it. I did it and we still together, but we are just lucky i guess.
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Ok well I like a guy who doesnt like me dont know how to get his attention, im 14 and i dunno I want him to like me... i try to look the other way(try to like other guys) But for somereason i still like him(liked him since like 7th grade and now im a freshmen... we talk on the phone sometimes (as friends) I know who he likes...(makes me kinda sad... so i cant ask him out!)Friends with the girl he likes... which is also hard... hard looking at her knowing she has everything i want... she used to like him not anymore...wish I could be everything she is... even tho I dont know why...I try to keep my self from crying... but sometimes it doesnt work...(its hard knowing we can only be friends) dont talk that much at school (i guess hes shy! and i am too) he knows I like him which also sucks(ooh so do his friends... i think he told them all)... it makes it harder to talk to him sometimes... when i do talk to him i try not to think about him knowing i like him...I think hes the cutest person ever... i dunno i just need advice I dont want to cry over him... but i dont just want me friends with him... and I dont wanna get over him... yea confusing... well help if u can...
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The only thing i could say is ether let him know you want to be more then friends, or nothing at all.
I know that sounds harsh but if your this stressed out over it then you need to do somethng about it.
Have you seen the way he treats his girlfriends?
Does he treat them well? if not then you may want to think about that, as you would be in for the same treatment they have gotten. OR you could keep being the girlfriends friend, and see what they say if she ever gets in a fight with him or upsets her. Get her to talk to you if there is any sort of proublems, because then youll know how he treats other girls.
Remember though, that just because he's cute doesnt mean that hes the person you think he is behind closed doors. The solution to that? buddy up with his girlfriends more, see what they say when they talk about him. Then youll know wheather to really go for him or not.
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