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Q: Ok my boyfriend and me are in a long distance relationship, he has a myspace and he wont add me, should I be worried about this? My friend said he prolly has girl friends on there and that I would get jealous. He tells me his computer won't let him on it he doesn't get on that much but he leaves comments on his cousins profile.....
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I think you should be worried about it. Because if your boyfriend was dedicated with you and completely honest with you then he would add you on myspace without a problem. He is obviously either hiding something or he doesn't trust you enough. I think you should ask him about it. But don't be too harsh because he could have a GOOD reason that he is doing this. Or...it could even be that he is cheating on you. Ask him about it =] good luck. =)
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Q: what does IMFAO mean??
Thanks.
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I think you mean LMFAO.
LMFAO = Laughing My F!@#$%^ Ass Off.
=]
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Q: Hi, I Am Female And 16 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and we are thinking about having sex in the next few months. Me and him are both virgins though. I am worried about how much it is going to hurt on my first time. I am quite shy sometimes and don't like showing I'm in pain. So the question is How much does it actually hurt? And How can i cover up the pain or reduce the pain? I desperatly need help with this. Please help. I am kind of scared about how much pain I may have to go through, but I just want to get it over and done with. So, How much pain? and How can I cover up the pain or reduce the pain? thanks xx
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Well, I think the pain really varies for everyone. You can't estimate the amount of pain...because nobody knows how you are down there. Of course, the first time does hurt. Because if you are "tight" down there, the penetration process will break through the hymen tissue in your vagina. The pain is different for different people. I remember asking my friends about it, and they said it doesn't hurt. But for some, it does.
Now about reducing the pain...You can always try masturbating and getting yourself "less tighter" down there. Preparing...you know? You can also tell your boyfriend to go slow with you the first time, so it won't be too painful the first time. Just squint your eyes or bite your tongue, or grind your teeth or something. =/
I really hope I helped. And the best of luck to you..
x
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Q: 15 female
this is really long and i'm sorry !
okay so my friend Derek was having people over to swim one day but my friend Melissa was over that hes never met before and i asked if it would be okay if i brought her along with me since she was spending the night. He had no problem with it so we went over there to swim along with a few other friends.
i introduced Melissa to everyone there. after a while Derek and Melissa started flirting a lot. and i didn't really think much of it because when i first met Derek he acted the same way towards me. plus i was glad Melissa was getting along with people there.
Then that night Derek called Melissa to talk cause he was really bored and hyper. They ended up talking for about 2 hours.
Two days later the exact same thing happened. we went over to Derek's to swim ( because he has people over a lot ) and again Melissa was at my house and i asked if it was okay if she came along again. of coarse he had to problem with it. They flirted a lot again. When we got home Derek told me to tell Melissa to call him. They only talked for a little because he was really tired and didn't sleep the night before. Now today we were supposed to hang out again but we couldn't because stuff came up. They have been talking on the phone all day..
The thing is - Derek has a girlfriend and they have been going out for 6 months. Derek's girlfriend has been on vacation for the past 3 weeks thats why she hasn't been around. I know he loves her a lottt. but for some reason when him and Melissa were in the middle of talking on the phone his girlfriend calls him and he flashes over and they only talk for 5 minutes. Then he says he will call her back later (but doesn't tell her why) then he calls Melissa right back and they keep talking foreverrr. Then im like "shouldn't you be calling your girlfriend back now ?" and hes just like "shhhhhhh"
Then they were talking on aim. She admitted to him that she likes him. Hes like you know i have a girlfriend ive been going out with her for 6 months and i like her a lot! and shes like yeah i know. hes like you are fun to be around you are cool funny nice and hot...lol but i do have a girl friend and i like you but i have a girlfriend and i like her a lottt.
Derek's girlfriend and i are good friends i don't want her to hate me because of this. its not like i meant for this to happen. i really don't want things to get out of hand.
i feel really bad for introducing them. i dont know if i should tell melissa to stop talking to derek or what ? im afriad if they do keep talking as much as they have been derek will begin to like melissa even more. and maybe go for her instead.
someone please help.
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Hi there...well, it seems to me that it isn't really your fault for introducing them. People are supposed to meet, you know? So don't blame yourself. I'm sure if it was up to them...they would meet one way or another anyway. But that's not the point. Don't tell Melissa to stop talking to him...because she probably won't listen to you. It's not YOUR fault they started getting closer and talked more on the phone. Why would it be? You just introduced them. And it seems to me, from what you have stated about Derek, that he is a flirt. So I'm pretty sure he probably does this with a lot of girls as well. If he was a nice guy, he wouldn't have led her on like that, and this situation would've never happened. So if his girlfriend DOES get upset at you, she shouldn't. Because all you ever did was introduce them. It's their own fault that this happened. If you think he's capable of leaving his girlfriend for Melissa, then he's not very truthful and faithful to his girlfriend. Just don't worry about it too much. It isn't your fault.
I really hope I helped. Good luck! =]
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Q: my dad abuses me. mentally and emotionally, sometimes even beats me. i have asked this question before. i have gone to all the hotlines on the internet, but i am scared to tell anyone.
if it helps, my dad was beat and touched by his parents. it has been going on for....4 years maybe. well hes done it all my life, but not this bad. he makes fun of me all the time, so does my stepmom. i live with my dad, but im going to try to go to court to live with my mom. please help me.
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I'm very sorry to hear that. But at this point, the only thing you can really do is try to stay somewhere else. Maybe go over a friend's house? Or, if you have a boyfriend, stay over there with him. Any other relatives...your mom. Even if that breaks court orders. Because if your dad is abusing you, I think you can be excused from breaking the custody thing. If it gets really bad, call the police. Never try to stand up to him, because he's older and larger. He might...and can do something awful. Just run. I wish you the best.
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Q: ive ben dating this guy for a long time about a year and one day my boyfriend and my bff were hanging out my bff said go buy us some pizza so i left to get the pizza when i came back with it the door was locked so i went in the back door and when i came in i didnt see then i looked in the hole house ecsep her bedroom so i went in her bedroom an they were both naked having sex.what should i do about my friend and my boyfriend?
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I don't think your bff deserves your trust anymore. And as for your boyfriend : Leave him. He's a scumbag for doing that to you.
I hope all works out well.
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Q: are there any web-cameras out there that have more than 1.3 megapixels?
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Yes. I do believe there are. But they're probably more expensive than the cheaper 1.3 (and lower) megapixels. There are those with 4-5 megapixels even, I believe.
=]
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bio
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I'm Annie and I'm 16. I know a lot about being stressed and anxious and all those things teens go through. I also know a great deal about relationships. I just went through a breakup and I know what guys can be capable of doing. I'd love to help. ;]
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Info
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E-mail: Gender: Female Age: 16 Member Since: July 18, 2007 Answers: 67 Last Update: June 23, 2008 Visitors: 5057
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