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Does anyone know the name of this song from an episode of neds declassified

I don't wanna be a loser

I just wanna be a rockstar like those guys on the M tv

haha i saw that episode! :) def, "Rockstar" by Everclear

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if u no any web sites like myspace or anything else can u tell me ..thanx !

bebo.com
xanga.com
livejournal.com
mycrib.com

hope those help!!

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ok..well..i feel really stupid and embarrassed to be asking for advice on this one, but i dont know how to tell my mom i want a bra. cause i wear sports bras...but umm..i need like a real one. haha. and me and my mom arent really open and we dont talk about things like this. and id feel so dumb telling her i wanted one, let aloe go shopping with her..er...

thanks :)

Ask her if she'll let you go shopping and even if she comes with see if you can go look around for yourself and tell her you'll meet her at the registers at a certain time, so that way you can look at bras and just be able to pay and not have her hanging around

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Ok so I know this site where you can get a person's IP address. So i randomly google'd IP address and i got a site www.ip-adress.com and like you can find out where people live. It's creepy. So I'm just wondering like..why are their sites like this. It's just helping online predators find people to rape and stuff. Any opinions.

P.S. like i seriously looked up my IP on it and it showed my location

wow thats kind of scary! im honestly not sure why they would make that kind of a site, but i looked it up and i found this "IP addresses can appear to be shared by multiple client devices either because they are part of a shared hosting web server environment or because a proxy server (e.g., an ISP or anonymizer service) acts as an intermediary agent on behalf of its customers, in which case the real originating IP addresses might be hidden from the server receiving a request. " so maybe they are there to help host sites and let others know which are being used...im sorry if this didnt help any

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Omg..I cannot stand it when people use your instead or you're or their instead of there or they're.
OH MY GOSH. Example : Your so stupid. & Their retartarded. & Their you are! & You're shirt. And...would you look at that...another error! : Are princess. -_- (meant to be "OUR princess")

GRR. This happens a lot to me. Like I see people doing it over and over and over again. It annoys the hell out of me! Would it be too rude to correct them? They should know by now, right!?

Ugh.

haha i know how you feel! You can correct them :) just be nice about it!

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if youre getting a professional wax..down there, would that be embarrasing? who does it for you? and when you do what should i wax- hair everywhere except for the front, right

Its not that embarassing its their job to do it! :) You'll usually get a girl i dont think theres to many guys that work in giving bikini waxes ~ you can wax where you need if you want to leave some hair in the front you can and if you dont want to you can have it all removed....heres a link that might help if you want to check it out http://ezinearticles.com/?Your-First-Time-Brazilian-Bikini-Wax&id=107316

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What can you do if you are having sex and the condom breaks and your parents are going to kill you if you get pregnant or even find out you had sex again?
Oh and we have no way of getting the morning after pill either.

PLEASE HELP ASAP

Is there any way that you can get to a clinic?? There should be free health clinics around you that can help also take a pregnancy test...you might have to tell your parents bc if you are pregnant your going to need the support, they might be mad at first which im sure they will be but trust me just tell them and everything will cool down it might take a while but it will! Goodluck!!

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okay this kid named David called me fat. And he wouldnt drop it and he told me i should buy a tredmill and dumb stuff like that, i know im fat but i donno i didnt think it was that big of a deal.
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=41915905
thats my myspace and i was wonderingif i really am as ugly as he says.. be truthful please..:(

girl you are GORGEOUS! not ugly at all!! dont even listen to what that kid says hes just insecure about himself! never let anything negative that someone says bring you down What you think of yourself is the OnLY opinion that matters!

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Here's a picture of me: http://a315.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/88/m_44aea35bd4d6651369d25f4366f364aa.jpg

What kind of make-up should I use? I'm not a big fan of eyeliner, but I will wear it if necessary...

What kind of mascara, lip stick/gloss, eye shadow, concealer, .etc should I use?

Thanks! :D

your very pretty!! ~ you look pretty without make up on :) ...but for make up i would suggest since you have blue eyes black mascara & if you want also black eyeliner - that always brings out blue eyes...Loreal has amazing mascaras!, for concealor you might want to do a medium tone, eyeshadow you could do a shimmer skin tone color or if you want an actual color i think pink colors work best or even silver - you could experiment with the colors & revlon has cute colors but they can get expensive, lipgloss i think a neutral pink would look pretty!

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ok well theres this really cute guy that i have the BIGGEST crush on. hes two years older than me (im going to be a freshman and hes gonna be a jr)and i dont know what to do. how can i get his attention without being a slut. oh. and im such a bad flirt cause im so shy..
HELP PLEASE
thanks
:)

i know how you feel im a little shy sometimes to! i found the best thing to do is just try and talk to him, like make tonnss of eye contact so that he notices and when you talk to him smile as much as possible so he knows your interested! it helps! ~my boyfriend told me when we first started talking thats one of the things that told him i was interested was the fact that i kept smiling so i figure that must be what does it! - and hes also 2 years older so i kinda relate

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what are good songs to listen to when you're pissed/frusterated. songs like
never again by kelly clarkson
kick me when i'm high by sr-17

stuff like that? no like screamo though

thanks

not sure if you like them but Linkin Park has some good songs to listen to when your pissed! and some Avril Lavigne songs are good when ur mad too!

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this song has been on the radio but i dont know what it is..

it has a guys voice but there are other people like girls in the background kind of.

"finding a replacement when a hearts sedated, i'll forget you"- i think it says that. if not it repetes a line like that.


at the end there are different people saying attic in the basement.. i think? im not sure

I think your talking about "The Owls Go" by Architecture In Helsinki

heres the lyrics if you want them....
http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/The-Owls-Go-lyrics-Architecture-In-Helsinki/23E25B90B98052364825716A000882D0

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I'm a virgin and me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex. How much would i bleed. What if i end up bleeding on the bed or something. any tips?

thanks.

You might or might not bleed it always depends on the person, some people do and some dont ~ If you do you could always put a towel down on the bed before, or make sure there are sheets on the bed that you can get rid of so your not ruining anything good! Goodluck!! since its ur firsttime it might hurt alot tell your boyfriend to take it slow :)

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i want to post a blog with pictures in it
but after i uploaded the picture on photobucket
none on the links seem too work
how do i put pictures in a blog then?
and dont tell me tinypic cause i just resized and uploaded 36 pictures(:
haha

take the link from the photobucket and put this code (& put the link where it says "link here", keep the quotes in the code):
< img src"LINK HERE" >

~but push the arrows closer i had to do it like that bc i couldnt get the code to show up
hope i helped!:)

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i want to ask a question but i dont know how to add a link for a picture..can someone help me, thanks

you can upload the picture to a hosting site such as photobucket.com or tinypic.com and they will give u different links to be able to put the pictures where u want :)

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I've only had my Sidekick ID for a month and it already broke. I didn't drop it or do anything to it and the "Jump" button snapped off and it's only on 3 quarters of the way. It looks bad and I can't buy a new one. Do you think they can fix it? Because it looked like it came unscrewed or something.

you should be able to send it back and get it fixed! that wasnt your fault that it broke that was the makers, they might not have screwed the button in tight enough

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If a girl gives a guy a Bj, can the girl get pregnant?

no!! a girl can only get pregnant if the cum goes into the vagina, its not possible to get pregnant if you swallow any from giving a bj
:)

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So one of my best friends, who I met freshman year, she was really shy and quiet, and got nervous really easily, just got her first boyfriend, we will be juniors next year. So I've had time to get ot know her and she's great.

Except the guy that asked her out, she showed no interest in at first, but its like since he asked her out and there 'dating' she's a whole different person. I dont think she's used to the attention, she blows me off now to hang out with him, sure he;s really nice. Except I dont think she knows how to deal with it all.

She flirts with other guys, and it pisses me off. Because I went to the pool with her, and she started flirting with this guy and totally just blew me off, I told her I was leaving, and then she "understood" what she did and talked to me.

I've tried talking to her about it all, but she's spending too much time with him. And I dont want to be the friend that she runs too after everything fails, because I dont think I'll have any compassion left.

since the whole boyfriend thing is new to her be patient (as hard as it is), it could be she just loves the attention and feels good about herself now that she has a boyfriend...if your really her friend be there for her because if it does end she'll need you there more than anything the - breakup thing will be new to her too! I think ur friend just wants to spend time with her boyfriend, i dont think she realizes shes blowing you off..start planning days with her for you two to just go to the mall or go somewhere to hang out, try doing that at least once a week so you wont feel like your being left behind, call her alot more now too, if she keeps blowing you off ask her if she wants to be your friend anymore ~ & tell her a girl shouldnt make a guy her whole world until theyre completely serious

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Okay so I have been going out with this girl for a little less than a year. I am COMPLETELY in love with her, she is literally my life. I dont get along with my family anymore and I'm now 18 so they keep threatening to kick me out, but my girlfriend says it would be okay with her dad if i moved in (i'm just setting up for the question i like to explain stuff.) I am convinced she loves me but ,heres the problem, I dont know if she truly loves me. I completely trust her sometime and others I dont. She knows how i feel about her talking to other guys about having sex and she stil does. She says it a joke, its always over texts or AIM (which i now hate AIM because when shes onine i am scared of losing her). Well needless to say after a few time of catching her talking about it she has started hiding it, ALL OF IT. But not very well and i see her hinding it. She says another guy wouldnt go through what i do go through with her, becaseu she has an Eating Disorder, since theres no names i think she would mind me sharing. But then I think well if its sex no guy will care becaseu its just sex.


Well she hides shit all the time and today i cought her big time. After she fell asleep. Everyone please dont get mad at me for this. But i logged on to her AIM and started talking to a guy i saw the words "well we could do it for SEX...)" then she closed the window and tihs was earlier. Nows shes asleep and i talked to this guy again. Apperantly he has everything planned out. He says he wants her to come party with no strings attached so the BF doesnt get mad. Then i said something about partying and what they would do (i'm impersinating her) he said they would drink, she gets really horny when she drinks and doesnt hide it but she only drinks around me so far, during the day then go back to his house and nap and/or shower. then go out and party all night and who know what else might happen after we shower... He plans on it and just hiding it but i dont know her plan. She has blown him off several time and most of the otehr guys she talks about sex with, but it scares me that the guys plan on just a good time and hidind it so the BF doesnt get mad...

I cant say how much she means to me though and now i have to get a job and that means she will ahve more alone time to do whatever. She is incredibly gorgeous and is hit on all the time and i know how guys are with you know just sex, they dont care. I'm terrified and I am actually planning on jumping this guy sometime soon because of how he just blown me off and it would all be hidden with SEX!!! I cant lose her, it would crush me. When i think of losing her i think of bad thought but they all seem so easy and a quick way out of pain. I cant do that. Does she intend on doing anythign with them or is she just leading them on and screwing with them thats why she blows them off? She told me she wouldnt do anythign like that and swore on my life she never would. Please help anyone, you dont have to answer you could jsut give advice or something. I cant function and all i can think of is the fucking asshole (sorry) dude who i would love to jsut puch right now. That was probably really jumpy and probably many typos. But i need someone to help just a little bit i cant deal with this alone all i think of is jumping that fucking klfashdl;fashgj;. It just pisses me off so much. (sorry again i'm just so mad right now, i already broke my punching bag.)

you can even email me at VTA_bum@yahoo.com

i can give you more info there and more of what is going on.
thanks in advance, i'm just so confused.

m/18

It sounds like she just loves the attention, I think you should talk to her more tell her straight out that you dont like her joking with other guys like that, dont sugarcoat anything just say straight out that it needs to stop. Ask her if she would like it if you were doing that try and get her to realize that if the situation was switched around she would most likely feel the same way that you do. It sounds like she's not planning on doing anything but still if it bothers you this much it needs to stop. Maybe theres something behind it like she is doing it for the attention which might mean that she needs more attention from you. If she has an eating disorder she might not feel to great about herself, just try and show her that you love her alot more. Talk to her ask her if theres anything that you need to do for her to stop...i hope it gets better for you, from what it seems she does love you and doesnt mean anything by talking to the guys like that, hope i helped a little - let me know how it goes goodluck !

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How do you decorate your column. Such as background, color, and text with color. Please help ASAP!!

Go to "Column Settings" and theres styles you can pick from and then below that you can pic the colors and use backgrounds if you want, also you can use your own backgrounds by loading the picture you want to imageshack or photobucket (a hosting site) & putting the link where it says "page background image " & "side background image" - which is your side info background :) have fun!

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