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My best friend got her first boyfriend.
So one of my best friends, who I met freshman year, she was really shy and quiet, and got nervous really easily, just got her first boyfriend, we will be juniors next year. So I've had time to get ot know her and she's great.
Except the guy that asked her out, she showed no interest in at first, but its like since he asked her out and there 'dating' she's a whole different person. I dont think she's used to the attention, she blows me off now to hang out with him, sure he;s really nice. Except I dont think she knows how to deal with it all.
She flirts with other guys, and it pisses me off. Because I went to the pool with her, and she started flirting with this guy and totally just blew me off, I told her I was leaving, and then she "understood" what she did and talked to me.
I've tried talking to her about it all, but she's spending too much time with him. And I dont want to be the friend that she runs too after everything fails, because I dont think I'll have any compassion left.
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She's probably just excited about this relationship/being able to hit on people and stuff. It's all new to her. And she's probably not intentionally blowing you off. Like how you mentioned she didn't realize that she blew you off that time at the pool.
But I hate people like that, i had a friend like that and i just stopped being her friend. I cussed her out during one of our fights and told her the truth of how i felt about her all along.
and she left me alone.
not saying u should cuss ur friend out or anything.
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since the whole boyfriend thing is new to her be patient (as hard as it is), it could be she just loves the attention and feels good about herself now that she has a boyfriend...if your really her friend be there for her because if it does end she'll need you there more than anything the - breakup thing will be new to her too! I think ur friend just wants to spend time with her boyfriend, i dont think she realizes shes blowing you off..start planning days with her for you two to just go to the mall or go somewhere to hang out, try doing that at least once a week so you wont feel like your being left behind, call her alot more now too, if she keeps blowing you off ask her if she wants to be your friend anymore ~ & tell her a girl shouldnt make a guy her whole world until theyre completely serious
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