heyehy i'm ashlee
most people call me ashlee but i personally like ash. i'm 14 and i live in connecticut, i have the most amazing friends ever. i'm not perfect one bit, i have many things about me people don't know, i have anxiety&&depression i was diagnosed with my anxiety when i was about 7 but i had it since 5. my depression was last year and it was so scary, i love to help people with any type of problem they may have. back in 1st grade my best friend and i actually had a fix fight club, when two people were fighting we would help them sort it out haha
E-mail: omgitsashlee3@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: connecticut
Occupation: student
Age: 14
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I need some hair/makeup tips for the begging of school!
Okayy, I have very very light tanned skin, and i have little freckles on my face that aren't that noticable to some people but to me i can see them so well and a few zits. i have brown eyes and dirty blonde hair. my hair is always frizzy any products i can use? and what things could i use on my skin so the zits and everything aren't noticeable, and what eye shadow should a brown-eyed blonde use? Anything helps! i will send feedback! (link)
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well my friend uses proactive, she breaks out a little because of all her sports but still try it, use it all the time. take off your makeup at the end of the day. for your hair, tru sunsilk shampoo&&conditioner that helps frizz, it will say it on the bottle, tru straightning it too that may help and try rubbing dryer sheets through your hair that may also help in the winter. makeup, tru some gold or silver glitter, it matches everything, i would say gold for brown eyes. you can get it anywhere, mac walmart anywhere. if you have any other questions im me xoashhx33 msn&&email are the same xoashhx33@hotmail.com
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15/f
so, ive kissed guys before. i;ve just never really MADE OUT with a guy. and this guy and i are planning on dating, haha, sounds kinda funny, but anyway, i'm sure he'll be the one i'll end up making out with for the first time. he's 18 and he most defiently knows a lot about making out.
just any tips or stories would be great.
i reeally woulld appericate it [: (link)
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just let him lead and follow him the 1st couple times till you actuallt get what its all about. then try different stuff.
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heyy
i have braces and had them for about 2 years now top and bottem.
i want my top teeth stright and alighned (all is going well) exept i have a small gap in between my front teeth that wassnt there before (at least i dont think it was) ive noticed it for like 2 months now mabie...
and i think its cute and unigue and i like it its not big its just really small. and i want it there, i always admired models with a small gap in thier teeth. =] and i want mine to stay that way i always felt a model doesnt need perfection and i too want to be a model and will want it there.
and i dont want the braces to fix it eather.
even if i dont become a model.
is there anyway to tell my orthadontest that i want to keep the small gap?
is there anyway i can keep my braces to help alighn my other teeth and keep the small gap between my fron teeth
some people might think its wierd but it looks cute on me and i like it.
thnaxx (link)
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i think since its your parents money as long as your parents agree on the gap to the ortho has to listen to them, he may just try to convince them to close it but if you want it im sure they can figure something out
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ok well im 5'3 and im 13/f and i weigh 122 pounds. I want to weigh 103 and i have about 1 1/2 months to do it. is that possible? also what are some excerises you can do at home that will decreses your fat in your buns, abs, thighs, ect. if you dont have any excerise equipment. picutures would be awesome if you could find some. thanks in advance. (link)
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just run, go for a run and run stairs and hills
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13/F
I always avoid guys I like. I'm either really intimidated by him or I want to seem more confident by not talking to him or I'm embarrassed of liking a guy.
I'm quite an introvert. I'm really embarrassed that a guy might know I like him and I try to hide the fact that I like him by never to talking to him much, or avoiding him, never making eye contact, etc.
I'm too shy about this and I need some advice. (Books, tips, exercises? Anything.)
Thanks. :) (link)
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okay well there must be something you are good at like sports or a hobby, maybe your good at math or something like that. and concentrate on the good in yourself! find a new hobby that guys are involved in also (make sure it is one you will actually like) and you dont even have to like any of the guys in it, just be with the girls and guys and just get comfortable around them, just start a conversation calmy if your all together and just be like hey that math test was hard today wasnt it? or like are you ready for the science quiz tomorrow then when it comes to the guy you like, it wont be so hard to be yourself, you can just strike up a conversation with him without being nervous, try looking(the guy in your new hobby) in the eyes when you talk, not like crazy just be polite.
i know this is hard to answer on here, i could help better on aim email or msn,
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email=xoashhx33@hotmail.com
msn=xoashhx33@hotmail.com
message me anytime i will always be glad to help
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whats with girls and being all "oh my gosh, im so fat, i need to lose soo much weight" when they look really good? are they just fishing for compliments or really think that they are fat? (link)
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most of the time girls just fish for compliments, give her a few once in a while even if its just like wow you look nice today or i love that shirt it will make her feel 10 times better, girls are normally fishing for compliments when they tell that to guys, if they say it to one of their girlfriends they probably want some honest feedback and normally arent fishing.
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Can anyone help me to predict when I will get my period?
Info.
F/15 -going to be in 10th grade
dicharge: about 1 1/2 years
Mom started: summer going into 8th grade
Dad's side: late bloomers
Bra size: 32A
Arm pit hair: none
Pubic hair: much
will i get arm pit hair after i start or before?
please any estimate is good!
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When will my breasts get bigger. My mom isn't small and my dads side is just late but not really small. Just want to be bigger!
any brands of bras I should try to help me look bigger in tee shirts and low cut ones? (link)
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i think it should be anytime now, discharge normally is the last thing that happens, armpit hair i have no idea.
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Oh my gawd! In Book Burger's interview with Lisi Harrison, she said that the rights were just purchased and that there will be a clique movie! I want to know if anyone has heard about when and where the auditions are going to be held!?!?!? i am desperate to find out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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yeah in her latest book its not easy being mean, they have Q&A with lisi and someone asked about the movie she answered everyone asks this question...everyone and i wish i had better news for you i really do.all i know is that there are powerful suit wearing people in hollywood trying to make this happen but until they do you will have to keep reading the books and imagine yourself saying the lines.as soon as i get an update i wil post it on lisiharrison.net
i hope the movie is gonna be good, this book was written in like march or may so who knows what has happened. the next book is in august so maybe something will be in there
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Hi i just turned 15 2 days ago!! I have little breast buds and have had pubic hair for over a year. I started to get under arm hair about 2 months ago and get white discharge in my undies. I am wondering when will i get my period and when will my boobs get bigger? My mum is a C cup and i was wondering if i will be her size? I feel so left out that i do not have my period and i am scared i wont get it!!
Am i just a late bloomer?? I would love for people to answer my question and to tell me if im okay or not.
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okay discharge normally means your period will start soon, its like the last stage before it happens, honestly your not missing a thing! between cramps and pms be happy you dont have it!!!!!
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i really love my boyfriend. but it seems like all he wants to do is kiss and make out, and i just hardly ever feel like it. i have to force myself to do it so he wont think i dont like him. but i wonder if there is something wrong with me. i mean i really really like this guy, so shouldnt i want to do that stuff as much as he does? btw im 13/f and all we've done is kiss and make out a little so far. but we've been going out since we were 11. (link)
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tell him that you love him and that you think he should just take a down a little
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i have constant suicide thoughts and know i must be checked into a hospital i went to crisiskids.com or whatev. and they didnt understand im seriously considering this. im 13 years old, female. i feel like im not wanted here, and no one even cares anymore. i constantly fight with my mother and father and sisters. how can i get the medical help i need before i seriosly kill myself. (link)
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i jsut got over my depression. mine got so bad that i couldnt stand it and i told my mom and she got the nameof a doctor who put me on anti depressants andit helped. you don't need to be checked into a hospital, just talk to your doctor and she ask for names on doctors near you who can help...if you need to talk im me xoashhx33
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13/f. I think I am depressed and its not helping that everything is overwhelming me and stressing me out. Also I'm going to say before hand that I know most the things on here don't sound like a big deal but keep this in mind; I'm a person who gets stressed out at the most littlest things. So please, please understand that I'm having trouble here.
1. I am super stressed. nervous, and scared about going to high school for the first year. Most my friends are excited but I'm not. I'm rather shy, so its hard to make friends. And I've been working my butt since 7th grade, to get the social life I have now in 8th grade, which is practically no where. I have friends, but only 2 of them we actually make plans with each other and stuff. I am scared that I will not be able to make friends in school next year. I am terrified to the point where I will just start randomly crying from thinking about it.
2. We have to do this thing for our foreign language classes as part of the end of the year exam, where you leave the middle of class to go to your language teacher and you have to have I believe 4 conversations in the language you take with them. Well, you were also supposed to go to a few practice sessions which counted as a grade. I didn't go to any because I just kept putting it off and before I knew it I couldn't. I am pretty good at the forein language class. I went down and she asked why I didn't go to any and I told her the same thing I told you, that I was putting it off. And I apologized and stuff. Lucky for me she was SUPER nice about it. She did not get mad or anything. She just told me to go to a practice session Friday (today) and stay after another day to do the talking thing with her. I wanted to just get the talking thing over with, and I understand 100% that I put myself in this situation and that it's my fault I didn't go to practice things. Well, I was soo stressed about the practice session that I begged my mom not to make me go to school today. She let me stay home.
3. We got back interms and I'm failing a ton of classes. My grandma passed away in late April and I missed a few days of school to go out of state for her funeral and I was so stressed about the work I missed that I failed a test I missed (that I was making up later) and didn't get some assignments she never gave me but I didn't ever know about them. I'm failing 2 classes, not doing so well in 2 other classes, and doing good in the last 2 classes. My mom is not mad at me but she wants me to work harder to raise them up but I'm very stressed out. I do not want to go to summer school which is manatory if you fail at least 2 classes which I am right now so I NEED to get my grades back up.
4. My dance recitals on Sunday and I've been working, so, so, hard to get the dances down. I've got one down but the other there are a few parts I just can't get no matter how many times I practice it and people are explaining it, I forget it within a minute! I'm working SOO hard in dance but I'm so scared to mess up on stage infront of hundreds of people. Also at the parts I can't get, I look at the people around me but it's hard to keep up with them.
5. I have been lazy lately. Not feeling really up to what I usually like to do. And I know thats a sign of depression. I also know loss of appetite or gaining appetite is. I eat a lot of junk when I get home from school. ALOT. And I'm skinny not fat or anything and I think I'm pretty so I dont have NO self-esteem or anything. But I'm scared I'll get fat but I just can't get myself to put the junk down and eat healthier things. I'd never ever let my self go anorexic or bulimic though.
6. My homework is overwhelming. I put little effort into it too. I know its my fault. I don't care how much you say everything going on here is my fault because I know it is, that I'm the one that got myself here and put myself in this situation. I just can't handle it all. Please help me. What should I do, how do I fix it?!
-Confused (link)
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okay well im super stressed about high school also, i think most people are just some put a brave face on better than others, i don't think oyur depressed i just think your stressed out about everything,you need to take a deep breath and organize everything,sit down with a paper and pen and write what you need to do like you foreign language thing, thats top of your list and each time you finish one cross it off and reward yourself like with something you like. you will become less stressed and you will feel a lot better
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Ok well when you're sad they say you should like tell someone and stuff but when i tell my best friends it seems liek it doens't matter much to them or they don't really feel any sympathy or they're not good at like cheering up.
And I can't jsut write all my feelings on this site and stuff you know, what can i do?
I feel so down and not even my best friends know how I'm feeling. And every part of my house is occupied so i can't even try to phone the kids help line thingy that I've always wondered what it's like.
Is there a site where you write all your feelings and people write stuff for you? I dunno I just feel so weak! I always need my spirit to be up and people to cheer me up. I'm sick of it! (link)
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im me whenever you need to talk honest i hate it when my best friend is like that, im me xoashhx33
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kay so i like this guy and i am not sure that he like me back.and i have liked him for a year and a half. do i give up and move on or wait a little longer and see what will happen.pleezzee help!!!! he hasnt said that he likes me but he also hasnt said he doesnt (link)
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the same things going on with me, i don't know what i'm waiting for but start hangin out with him, invite him to hang out with you and your friends for a little bit and that will make it easier to see if he likes you or not
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I'm 15 F
I started going out with a guy from school on Friday. I like him, a lot.
I'm really nervous around him.
I wanna hold his hand and kiss him
but I get so shaky, and I'm so afraid of messing up.
I don't wanna be moving too quickly
and lose him but yeah lol
Thanks in advance. (link)
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well you should just let him take the lead but as long as your ready for the next move like don't kiss him until YOUR ready to, if he makes the moves it should ease your nervousness a lot! ps have you made out before or would it be your 1st time? im me if you want, xoashhx33
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Please help i want my period to start im 13 how do i?
thanks in advance. (link)
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you don't want it! all you do is worry all day for like a week and you get cramps and get all bloated...not fun at all, be thankful you don't have it
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Ok so, im 14 years young and ive recently been diagnosed with depression. Isort of saw it coming, but for some reason it came as a huge blow. ive felt different ever since, but at the same time, im relieved to know that my personality has a justification. I have a lack of energy and happiness, and lately not only do i REALLY dont care about anything, but i've become extremely suicidal. Yesterday all i could think about was death, i just DON'T see any point in living anymore. I'm become more afraid of myself, because I actually might committ suicide [I've tried it twice before]. In my mind I ask myself why I haven't done it. I know I need help, but people reminding me each day is making me feel like I deserve it even less. There's a lot more to my story, but I know well that people are sick and tired of listening to other's problems when they have their own to deal with. I don't feel that anyone cares anymore, as hard as they try to pretend. So, should I just do it already?? Thanx for reading (link)
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yup whats yours, im me whenever you need
xoashhx33
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What flavors do guys like when kissing a girl? Like what flavor lip balm or gloss would you like the gilr to be wearing? (link)
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honestly i don't think you should wear any... have some clear lip gloss on hand and puut it on a few minutes before the kiss
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and also kinda gross so...yeah.
My nipples have this roughish stuff on the tips...its like brownish yellowish and...its sick. It doesn't really bother me, but when I try to get it off it leaves me really sore. Its pretty much always been there..but I don't really think its normal lol so what is it and how do i get if off? (link)
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yeah i agree with below me, google it and see if you can find out what it is then if it says something like you need mdication obvii go to the doctor
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hey! so we have to write a graduation speechh ( graduating middle schoooll)
before reading my speech you should know..
- the theme is THE FUTURE IS STILL UNWRITTEN. MAKE YOUR MARK.
- my school is HBT / Thompson
As we graduate Thompson today, we reflect on the three years of growth and friendship we have experienced as a class. We arrived here in the fall of 2004 from our elementary schools. It didn’t take us long for us to become a family, a class, and not just any class, but the graduating class of 2007. And with the family we have made here, we will continue on our journey into the high school and make a new, bigger family.
Each one of us came from our own small family, our own parent’s arms, to begin our academic careers, in kindergarten. Looking back, elementary school taught me lessons I will keep with me forever, and I am very thankful for such a wonderful first step in my journey. But after those 6 years, we all came to the next step in our journeys, Middle School. What we faced in fifth grade is exactly what we are facing now. New school, new step, new beginning.
I am so thankful that I had the opportunity to experience middle school at such a warm, caring environment as HBT. The 3 years I have spent here have been nothing short of amazing. Through the good times and the bad, Thompson has given me not only knowledge, but the ability to move unto the next chapter in my life. As we progress to the high school, we will forever keep all that Thompson has taught us. We are still learning who we are, but our Thompson family will always be a part of us, that much we do know.
Today marks not an ending, but a beginning. Sure our days at Thompson are over, but our days at not only the high school, but the rest of the world are just getting started. The future is ours.
any suggestions? does it portray the theme?
thanks for reading it! love youuuu. (link)
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i think this is really good!
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