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im a 14 year old female and theres this boy i knew for a month and we just started going out 2 weeks ago i really like him hes really kool and niice i like to be with him and we always talk and i know alot bout him when im with him it feels so rite ...But im not a virgin and im thinking thats hes the rite 1 but hes not a virgin ...i know i seem young but i cant help my feelings ...so what should i do ????
You will make the right decision when it comes to the time to make it! I know your afraid that you might do something that you don't wanna do, but you will be fine other than that! I know it maybe so tempting, just try not to rush into things so quickly okay??? i hoped i helped!! :)
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omg... all of my questions have been about ummm... ben... lol... ok well here is another... my boyfriend (ben) likes this other girl and i guess she likes him but she has a boyfriend also... so im really worried... should i dump him and get it over with, (although i kno she's not dumping her guy)... or... should i wait till it passes... i heard she is swithing schools... help me please!!
...claire
This is my opinion, but i really think that you should dump Ben... I mean, he is like totally being so dishonest to you! I hoped i helped!! :)
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Yeahhh... my boyfriend, who I like a lot, is a different race and my parents are racist. That caused some bumps in me just telling my mother that I liked him, and put drama on us already. And I don't see him much, and hes in one of my classes. He says that hae cares about me, and I believe that he does. But how do I know how much he cares about me with out asking him annoying questions?
If he is there for you through thick and thin no matter what, then he truly cares for you! I guess you can try to put him up to a test or something if you're still unsure... I hoped i helped!! :)
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i'm 13/f. i want to have new hair styles. like i see my frineds with their messy buns and stuff. but i don't know how to do them. whenevr i try my hair just flips over. they have theirs like pinned to their heads and mine are like all loose. how do you do them???? and if you have any other cool hairstyles please tell me and explain to me how to do them. thanxs. p.s. how do you make your hair wavy without one of those Conair things??????
If you have a scanner... there is this thing where you scan in your picture and they have like 100's of different hair styles so you can see what they would look like on you before you go get it done at your salon... I recomend YM Makeover Magic!... Here's the website so you can buy it from... http://shop.soft32.com/buy-B0000DBO5E-AsinSearch-us.html
I hoped i helped!! :)
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Okay, I'm friends with my best friend's ex boyfriend.We've always been friends. But I've also always hada little bitty crush on him. He lives in PA and we live in DE though, so boy me and my friend never get to see him. Lastngith he said he missed me and he wanted to come visit me. I asked him why he didn't ever call, and he said he didn't have any minutes, but if he did, I would be the first person he would call. Is that just me or does he sound like he likes me just a little bit? Help me! I rate good!
xoxo
It sounds like he likes you hun... For the holiday gifts, you can give him pre-paid cards and stuff so he can call you! Lol. I hoped i helped!! :)
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hey
well let me start from the begining:
i have had a friend briana for the longest time. this school year is the first year that we are in different schools. both of us have gone to the same catholic school since kindergarden. now she is in public school which means that she has a ton of friends bcuz shes reelie pretty nd evry1 loves her. well recently she was throwing a halloween party and i was invited. it ended up that i couldnt go. on mi cell phone i got a message from her saying that i can bring a friend, but the weird thing is, i got it a week after her party. then the other day i went to call her to apologize 4 not calling her back sooner but she hung up on me, and since then shes been avoiding me wen i talk to her on the computer and things like that. i dont know what i should do. :( is there nething that i can do? any advice?
~avoided
If you can, you should just unexpectedly go to her house and apologize for not being able to make to her party... She maybe ignoring you because you didn't come to her party... i hoped i helped!! :)
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Ok well i like this guy (we will call him Bob) Well Bob just had a really bad break up with his Gf and was sulking about it all day, but that night he and i went to a F-ball game and we were sitting next to eachother (I really like bob)he then puts his arm around my shoulders and we just stayed like that for a while then one of his friends came up with his Gf and they were sitting next to us, Bobs friend grabbed his Gf and went "Mine" then bob like hugged me and said mine. then later someone comes up and goes way to go bob, but he claims that it was cold and was just keeping me warm. (It was really cold)So was he being all serious when he went Mine? Dose he like me? Were always on the phone with each other and hes always there for me, when we talk he goes "Love you" But i dont kno if its friendly love or like Lovey love, Also he is moving to Colorado next week and i dont kno if i hsould tell him how i feel before he leaves.
Thanks Girl (Haha chelsea its Darcy! Im me if u wanna kno who Bob is, u probably dont kno him)
Darcy, go for him!!! He is moving and he will never know that you had feelings for him if you don't tell him! It's always hard to tell if i guy really likes you or not... lol. Luv ya!
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Okay how do I change my user name because I really want to have a new nickname for my column. PLZ tell me how!!!!!!PLZ!
You have to make a whole new column, sowy! I hoped i helped!! :)
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what should you do if ur friends wont talk to you just because you want to hang out with your girlfriend???
They're probably just jealous because you got a girlfriend... Start hanging around them more, but make a compromise, don't hand out with one group more than the other because BOTH sides HATE that! I hoped i helped!! :)
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my 16th birthday is dec. 27, and i know it's a little early, but i want 2 have a party but i have no idea what i want to do? does anyone have any suggestions? what did u do on your 16th? thx
You can just hold a big party at your house with a DJ and everything and around midnight, play fugitive with everyone! (Fujitive is like hide and go seek sorta, but it's ALL over town and yall can chase eachother in yalls cars and yall can make up your own rules...) I hoped i helped!! :)
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My parents disapprove of a lot of my friends. One of them.. ok.. shes a slut.. and they know that.. and they think im gunna be like her (i sorta am.. but not NEARLY as bad.. shes been with like 15 guys.. me only 2) and another friend has been pregnant before (shes 16) and another friend Steals and gets high alot... (they only know about the stealing)
My parents dont know i've had sex.. and they dont know i've been high (AND THEY AINT GUNNA!)
Since I hang out with these people (nicest people i know).. they dont trust me to even be around them at skool.. how can i get my parents to trust me more? I havent done anything to lose their trust (that they know of)
Theyso wont let me stay the night with anyone.. even the people they trust.. how can i change this
DONT TELL ME QUIT DOIN THE STUFF I DO!! I DONT DO IT NOW! AND DONT TELL ME THAT THEY DO HAVE A REASON NOT TO TRUST ME CUZ I ALREADY KNOW THAT.. BUT THEY DONT KNOW MY LIFE.. SO THEY ACTUALLY DONT..
Hun, you can never have parents trust you or your friends... it's their nature! You can start hanging out like people who have like staight A's and stuff and invite them over for dinner or something and then your parents may trust you and when you go out withn you other friends, you can pretend your with the "safe ones." I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
ok well theres this guy that i like but hes 2 years younger than me and i wanna go out with him but he sees me only as a friend and he knows i wanna be more than. he just doesnt understand and i have talked 2 him about it. wut should i do??
Hun, you shouldn't really fall for a guy who is younger for you because it never works out, but that is my opinion... You can't force him to like you... If you spend a lot more time with him and flirt with him a lot, maybe he will catch on and start liking you more than a friend... I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
my boy friend is always calling my bf a bitch..shes like awsome though and i tell him not to call her that infront of me..but he still does..what do i do?
Ask him why he is calling her that and tell him to grow up! If he still continues, stay away from him for a couple of days so that he knows you are being serious... I hoped i helped!! :)
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theres this girl that i am madly in love with..she used to like me a lot and we have done things together, but after homecoming she didnt like me anymore and now she likes a sophomore and hes a pothead and everything and i just hate him..i want to know how i can get her back..i love her and i need her and i just want her back so bad..so yea..how do i get her back
Hun, if she dumped you for some crackhead, then you don't need her! You got to move on... Trust me, you will find someone much better! I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
there is this boy in school that i really like and today my friend told him that i like him but my friend told me that he doesn' like me. how do i get him to like me?
It's hard to make a guy like you, but you can hang out more and flirt with him... I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
thiz guy we'll call him "bob" well bob is a really good friend of mine and we like each other well on aim the other nite i wrote in the wrong box "the condoms are in the pantie drawr" n he got it instead of mi friend n i realli dont hav condoms in thur mi friend sed she dose and so i 4got 2 put the ? at the bak so i was talking to him and he was like so can i come over so we can use the condoms and i was like i seriously dont have any but u can come over any way and he was lik sure but now he thinks i keep condoms and im only 14!!! so i dont know what to do now!
please help
thnx
Then tell him when he comes over! If he is your friend he would believe you... I hoped i helped!! :)
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I AM IN LOVE WITH MY EX B/F!? but he goes out with my sister hes 3 years older then me but hes soo cute... help
OMG, he must have like NO respect for you for going out with your sister! Well, if you really really love him, i would tell him... I hoped i helped!! :)
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14/m my parents are always talkin about how bad life used to be for them. They keep telling me how they used to get beaten for everything they did wrong. I know i'm not perfect and i deserve punishment sometimes, but this is torture! I made it known that im not interested in hearing these depressing stories and its like they don't hear me because they keep telling the stories. and its not even like they change it up, cuz they don't. I just got in trouble for saying i didn't want to hear it again about 2 hrs ago. How can i let them know that i don't want to hear the stories anymore? What should i do? plz help. thx
Sorry hun, you can't change that... all you can do is just try not to get into trouble about something... Lol, i am soOo sowy! I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
ok my boyfrend broke up wit my like 1 month ago, nd we were goin out for like 4 or 5 months... and i got lik really attached to him nd i think im in lov with him... i cut myself (once) over him... and i cry soo god damn muich im soo sick of all of it... and then just a few nights ago i told him i still lov him nd how i feel and everything.. and he sayd if i want him back i g2 earn him back... but he likes one of my best frends too... and then i talk to him yesterday nd i asked if we got a chance to go out again and he sayd no cuz he aint lik me no more... and then today he just totally lik destroyed my heart again.. and say I WILL NOT GO OUT WITH U and im lik ok sorry and he sayd i dont care.. shut up and now i dont kno what to do... some people say i shudent go out wiht him again.. bcuz hes had sex with like 16 year olds nd were only 13... nd he drinks nd smokes sometimes... but then some of my other frends say we shud go out again... and for me to just keep trying bcuz i was soo happy wit him... but i dont kno
Hun, don't go back with him, you deserve better! He is just playing with your emotions... Go out with your girlfriends to a party and you might just find another guy you will get attached to! I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
I have this friend that one day can be like my best friend and the next day act like she doesn't even know me/ like me. She is someone i want to be friends with but i just can't really take all the confusing things she does. I just kind of need a good friend in my life that is pretty stable since i dont really have to many other friends where i live. 15/f/wa thanks
Well, if your looking for a stable friend, then this girl is not the one! Go out and make more friends in your classes and eventually you will find one... I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox