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Q: Are there many girls that don't shave down there? Or do most? I was messing around with my bf today, and his hands "slipped" down there and I hadn't shaved. I asked him if he minded and he said he didn't, but I dunno. I've never shaved it before and am not sure whether I should start. Can someone give me some advice? I don't want him to be grossed out.
if you are sexually active then you should shave it!!!

Q: i recently learned i am pregnant. so far, im thinkin its prolly a month and a half along. im 16, and there is NOOOOOOO way in the world i can have this baby. theres no way in the world i can tell anyone my boyfriend of over a year got me pregnant. my family's real good friends with his, and things just wouldnt be pretty. also, both our families are real religious and would drown us in all the 'sex before marriage is a sin' stuff. well, fact of the matter is, since we havent told anyone about it yet- i havent gone to a doctor. i know youre supposed to get prenatal care the second you find out youre pregnant- but i cant bring myself to tell anyone, and truthfully- i really dont want to have this baby. i will NOT have an abortion, but i think i might be having a miscarriage, or about to be having one. i have all of the symptoms. i guess my questions are;
1. how do i tell people?
2. how do i know for sure if im having a miscarriage?
and 3. am i a horrible person?
No your not but why did you have sex with your boyfriend if you didn't want a baby???
I think thats the sensible question you should ask yourself. And you know what, I think you should take care of that baby cause its a human being. It has a heart and a mind. what would it say when its old enough to understand that its mom wasn't ready????

Q: im supposed to think of 3 different types of songs for our 8th grade farewell dance (im on student council) and i need a "Rap/hip hop" song, a "slow" song and a "overall" song..by overall they mean how the year meant..and it was good and bad and i cannot think of ANY!

5s for anything.and i mean anything!
lose my breath by destiny's child
Your Beautiful by James Blunt
Baby got Back by Sir Mix Alot
SOS by Rhianna
1,2 step
My Humps by Black Eyed Peas
Pump It by Black Eyed Peas
I don't what this song is called but it goes like this 3,6,9 dam ur fine . . .
Thats about it, hope I helped.

Q: I'm a 16 year old female. I've never had problems with acne on my face but ever since I was about 13, I've had embarrassing acne on my chest and back. I've tried everything (ProActive, Acne-Free, all kinds of prescription creams and pills, etc) and the only thing that's ever worked was tanning on a tanning bed. I'm not sure why that works but after going a couple of days, my skin was totally clear.

Anyways, now, my parents don't want me to tan and I don't know what to do because I can't wear a bathing suit or any kind of revealing clothing at all because the acne is so obvious.

So is there any obscure, rarely heard of kind of treatment that I would be able to use to cure this acne? What is it that made sitting in a tanning bed make my acne go away?

Thank you so much.
Your skin needs to breathe so just wash it as much as you can and eat one mango and 20 walnuts a day. You'll see fast results, just don't think about and don't give up.

Q: Ok I'm a 13 year old girl and im about 5'3. I weigh probably around 110 pounds. I know this is not fat, but sometimes i really feel like i am. But it's not really my stomach that borhters me, its more my thighs. There just so, big. One of my best guy friends is having a hugee pool party in about 4 weeks and i really want to look good because there will be about 80 people from my grade (7th)((including the guy i like!)) and about 80 people from the 6th grade (not that i try to impress them..) Is there any weigh i can lose weight off only my thighs? I'll rate high for anyone that helps. I really need this! Thanks so so much!
Okay the 2 best tips I can get you is run atleast run 5 miles every week and do those bike peddling exercises. I'm sry I don't know what their called. Try that if you push yourself you can make it.

Q: What's a good program to use ( for free ) to edit your pictures?
Photobucket. com or you could buy a photo editing software from Best Buy etc.

Q: okay i have side bangs and i just wanted to trim them a little. i didnt want to go to a hair place just to do that so i asked me mom to. yes bad idea. i told her under my eye and then she did it at my eyebrow!! i look so bad what can i do to fix it. it to short to put in the poof so i cant do that, what should i do i have school tomorrow!!!!!!1
That sucks. Ummm. . . Straighten the bangs perfectly straight and pin them back with a bobby pin or something until its grows at a good lenght. I'm sorry but there's not much you can do.

Q: I'm 13/f and have the most "gorgeous" bedroom. or so my mother says. it's all matchy matchy and looks like it could be in one of those design magazines, because my mom is an interior designer. but i don't like it, its too stuffy! What are some easy ways to update my room? i want it to be like a teen chill out place. and where can i get these things? thanx! xoxo alicia
Base your room on a favorite film or a singer etc. I just moved and I'm basing my room on Phantom of the Opera and Dracula. Like an old fashioned gothic room.

Q: is there any thing that makes your hair grow faster?
Drink milk.
Eat a lot of PLAIN yogurt.
Brush it or comb it as much as possible.

Q: Hey i am really skinny but the thing is I eat properly (vegetables, meat etc)n sometimes induldge myself with chocolate or chips or anything i can find but i never get fat. Its damaging my self esteem and I dont dare to wear short sleeved tops or a bikini or anything.

Is there anything that can help me be more evenly proportioned- Ive heard of fattening milkshakes but I dont know how they work or if they work..

ty luv rach xxx
Yah I'm thin to but it's actually good to be thin think of it like this when your in your 30s or whatever age you can eat any fattening food you want but you will constantly be seeing poeple who have a normal figure watching what they eat. So enjoy it while it still lasts then again you can stay like that forever. But trust me even though they don't mention it girls would die to have your figure. Trust me.

Q: Is it possible for a 13 year old to stop growing breasts? I'm 32A, my mom is 32A, and I started growing when I was 9. They haven't grown since I was 11 or 12. My breasts are identical to my mom's, and she developed really late. Does this mean that I'm done growing?
Your still gonna grow

Q: My mom thinks I'm to young to date, ?I'm 13/f. How can I get her to think I'm responsible to date now? She said I have to wait until I'm 16!!!!!!
Sorry I know I'm a horrible person agreeing with your mom and everything but I do think she's right. First of all if you date guys you'll only think about pleasing them and you'll forget about your future (education). Second guys around your age don't even know what they want.
Third guys only use u even if they say they love you. Fourth why do you need a boyfriend? Just to fit in or to prove to your friends that you can get a boyfriend or to prove to yourself that you can actually get a guy. Take my advice you don't need a guy 2 feel better about yourself.

Q: Why was Robert E. Lee unique in the war? I just need like a sentence or two describing that. I'LL RATE 5'S FOR ANYTHINNGGGG THAT EVEN SLIGHTLY ANSWERS MY QUESTION. Please helppp!!!
Robert E. Lee was the general in the South during the Civil War. He was the best general the south had so far.

Q: well every time like i go to the bathroom or somthing in my underwear there is like this clearish gooey stuff andi cant get rid of it please help me !
Everyone has it you can't get rid of it so don't worry about.

Q: well ya i used to pee the bed until i was 12 now im 14 and i still pee the bed like 5 times every year ... why??
maybe cause you don't have any bladder control I think there are pills for this kind of problems. Go to the doctor I'm sure they can help.

Q: a few questions;
do you have any advice on having sex for the first time, and ways to be ..good?
also, by the end of the day, my underwear is always wet and a bit of a smell, anyway i can get rid of these problems, they're kind of embarrassing, which is why i dont really want to go to the doctor unless i HAVE to...
thank you soo much.
No i have no advice to give you on your first time because I've never had sex. But for your underwear problem maybe its because you don't eat a lot of healthy food or maybe after you pee you don't wipe yourself well. But I could be wrong.

Q: can you give me some tips on making out, first time..never kissed a boy or anything..also, can you explain to me some alternatives other then sex..thanks
The only tip I can give you is that you need to relax, don't be nervous. Just go with the flow, you might not be as bad as you think. What kind of alternatives? theres fingering, handjobs and blowjobs.

Q: im into rock music. fall out boy, taking back sunday, halifax, hellogoodbye, panic! at the disco, etc. and i just got a new ipod. can someone suggest songs? thanks!
Marilyn Manson - Mobscene
Relient K - Be my escape
HIM - wings of a butterfly
Linkin Park - paper cut
my chemical romance the whole album is awesome
hawthorne heights - ohio is for lovers
lost prophets - last train home
metallica - hero of the day
metallica - master of the puppets
the vines - ride
9 inch nails - every day is exactly the same
nirvana - in bloom
nirvana - you know you're right
poison the well - apathy is a cold body

Q: Hey!
so i always feel that i'm competing with my cousin. She is 14 and i'm 15 turning 16 in 8 days..lol..anyway i got my hair highlited and then she did..i'm having a sweet 16 and she is haveing one..and my aunt is always talkin about her and everything she does..i don't want to sound mean, but i like to look better then her..what are some things i can do to have them notice me and what i do? any cute oufit ideas that might make me lok older and more mature? any cute hair styles...thanks in any way you can help!!
okay well the most adorable, instyle and mature outfits you can wear are those dress shirts women wear under the suits you can have stuff on it like stripes or small flowers or plain colors like coffee but remember you have to roll the sleeves otherwise the whole look looks like crap. Wear some nice fitting jeans that your comfortable with and flats or highheels around 2 inches. For the hair side swept bangs and hair pulled up in a messy bun. For the makeup light eyeliner with coffee colored lipgloss should do it. You can wear eye shadow too really your choice but I think that look is really sophisticated. Hope I helped let me know if you need more help.


Q: OK i am 14 now and my hole life i have never cut my hair ewell i mean trims and when i got gum in it but thts diff. ok its dirtyblond brownish. and past my hips. and lots of people think i should cut it but others think i should leave it alown. and it looks really good when i curl it or what ever but i don't know cus i don't look at it from other peoples point of view so I don't know what i should do with it cut it or no. and also if you have any ideas about stuff i can do with it like styling it like other than down and ponytails. please help
~Goldylocks~
I think you should cut it but like 1 or 2 inches above your hips. Trust me its really cute like I hade my hair 3 inches above my hips and I cut it now its like 3 inches below my shoulders and I really regret that I cut it.

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