hey all i love giving advice, and if anybody wants to ask me something or needs advice, and you dont want any one to read it, then just email me at: amand12@bellsouth.net. i am 15, and i know that my first favorite topic is sex, but i have had A LOT of experience in sex...lol.
E-mail: amand12@bellsouth.net
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I would assume this would go under mental health, cause I am sure it is all in my head.
Everytime I get extremly upset, I get really nausous feeling. I am in the middle of a pretty bad pending breakup (only time will tell what will happen with that) but everytime something happens that would upset me, or I dwell on something that may have upset me in the past, I actualy do get sick. I dont go one day without throwing up, and recently, I feel nausous all the time, so I cant eat, therefore getting dry heave. What can I do to stop getting sick? (link)
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meditating or on a day that you have nothing to do. calmy sit in a dark room and just think about everything, but not the really upsetting things. and just release all the sadness and anger(it always works)! well good luck
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Me and my boyfriend have 1 class together and thats lunch, and i barely see him in between classes b/c he always goes to his locker and we only have 4 mins so it takes up like 2-3.and in lunch i sat with him and i'd sit on the end and never talk because he would barely talk to me and hes like oh god whats wrong? and i tell him nothing just being ignored like usual and he just says okay and goes back to talking with his friends..he wont let me sit inbetween him and his other friends justin cuz he says im takin him away from his friends? i wanna know why he doesn tlike me haning out with him when hes with his friends. actually why he wont even let me hang out with them? please help me i wanna know why he acts like this? (link)
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well, he may not like you anymore. or he may just likes someone else. or that he just likes hanging out with his friends, you should go to his house sometime or something, good luck
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My boyfriend and i have been goin out for about 11 months and between the first day until maybe th 6th month mark he was the sweetest guy in the world he sang me the dumb cute little love songs and he'd lay on the couch and like wrap his arms around me and say the sweetest things and lately i ask him if he's lost intrest and hes like no baby i love you but i just dont get it, how he doesn do or say the sweet things any more. whats going on?? (link)
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well, sorry but, i dont think he likes you or...he just isnt as excited about you anymore.
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ok this guy at my skool has a gurlfriend..hes beeen with her for 9months...but he TOTALLY flirts me with me...i flirt back because i really like him...we sat next to eachother in english and we recently moved seats...he sits like 2 rows away from me and when he walks in he always comes over to my desk and plays with my hand or something...he always gives me candy and stuff and he just does little stuff like that and today i gave him a hug after class bc i wont se him for 2 weeks and he like kept his hand on my waist for soo long....he tells me im pretty and stuff to....he does more stuff but yea...what do i do about it?? (link)
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well if you like him and he likes you, then go for it stay with him! and if the other "girlfriend" does not like it, then forget her!she is a dumbass!
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Alright, well I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday that I had been dating for 2 months and some days. And we had tried going out like 8 times before and this time it worked out for a while. Well as the relationship went on the attention he was giving me slowed down immensely and he started talking to other girls way more than me and hardly called me anymore and stuff. We talked about it for hours and he didnt change so I finally decided that I could do better. I was pretty happy when I first broke up with him. But then I listened to a song that I used to tell him was to him and tried talking to him online and that upset me and I cried a lil bit but after I stopped talking to him I was better. And he suppesdly still likes me and cares and crap. Should I try and go back out with him or just get over it considering he doesn't want to pay attention to me when he had plenty of opurtunities to change.. thanks xo (link)
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get back to gether with him! well i know this is crazy but, if he talks and flirts with other gurls slap him! but u never know the gurls may be his friend or sumething. good luck, sweety!
love,
charolette
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Hi!
OK i was wondering if anyone could tell me...where can you get really cheap mens pants and jeans, because i wanted to get some for my dad for christmas but i don't have much money and i wanted to get him like four pairs....(2 dress pants and 2 jeans) but i have a small budget....does anyone know where i can find cheap pairs like this!?!?!
((his size is 30x32 if anyone needs to know that info...?))
Thanks!! (link)
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two words....thrift store!
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Ok every night I go to sleep and I dream about this boy I like and I always dream that me and him are having sex....I dont realy know whats going on or like what these dreams mean. (link)
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it means you love him. and if you get all that horny dream stuff over him then go for it have sex with him.
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okay im 14/f...and ive been best friends with this guy for 3 years and hes been in love with me for 3 years, we've never done anything sexually er w/e..but hes been wait'n on me fer 3 years and ive had like 5 er 6 boyfriends in the last 3 years but he still stuck with me...soo i went out with this one guy over the summer and at the beggining of the school year for 3 months and i broke up with him and my best friend was rly sad b/c i went out with him..and it never rly bothered him before but then when me and this guy broke up my best friend caught us in the hallway makin out and that lead him to cutting...witch i got him to stop that now but i felt rly bad...but now i dont like my ex-boyfriend and ive ALWAYS had feelings for my best friend but i never realized how strong they were this past like month....and i mean hes always loved me and hes always been there for me so i dont know if i should go out with him or just be friends...b/c i mean we do everything together and wherever you find him youll find me and wherever you find me youll find him...so i rly dont know what to do b/c my ex-boyfriend is still in love with me and i dont know b/c i dont wanna hurt him by goin out with my best friend er w/e so what do you think i should do? should i hook up with my best friend? (link)
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yes go for the best friend..i mean you have known this guy for 3 yrs. you haven't known ur ex for that long and if ur friend likes you well that must mean something.....good luck...bye
love,
charolette
p.s. if you ever have anymore questions feel free to ask me in my Inbox.....bye
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hello
everytime when i eat the foods it always cause heart rate even it is good healthy foods.i dont know if it from anxiety or could be something else.. like everytime when i go get the foods to eat then my mind starting to freak me out that will cause my heart rate. i used to love foods.. so now i dont know what s stopping me from there.. please i need ur help. (link)
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well if it is not medical then it could be something like: 1. if you have been trying to lose weight then a lot of people get nervous about eating, and nervousness causes heart rate to go up. but other then that i am not all that sure....so good luck
bye
love,
charolette
p.s. if you EVER have anymore questions feel free to ask me.
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I'm 13. I have 5 pairs of shorts, 2 pairs of pants, 5 shirts and 2 sets of pJ's.
I keep asking and asking my mom to take me out shopping, but she always keeps saying no. I get in trouble at school a lot because my shorts are to short and my pants are too tight, but I can't help it if my mom never takes me shopping!
How do I get her to take me out shopping? (link)
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earn some money then tell your mom, " hey mom, will you take me out shopping, i got my own money." then she should take you shopping.if any one who reads this needs advice email me at nanasim4@aol.com
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I hate going to work with my boss. She makes me feel SO ignorant! Whenever I do one little thing wrong she raises her voice at me in front of customers and pushes me out of the way to show me how to do things right. One time I got this customer's order wrong because she (the boss) and the customer were talking to me at the same time so I thought the customer told me she wanted the 3 cookies instead of a medium drink. After I finished the order and she paid I asked her what cookies she wanted and she said she wanted the drink instead. So then the boss looks over at me and rolls her eyes and was like "What happened?" So I told her and then she started yelling and everything.
Sorry that was so long! But anyway I really like where I work and I don't want to get another job but then again, I hate feeling so low about myself like I can't do anything right. I don't like confronting people either. ESPECIALLY my boss. So what should I do?
Thanks, and I rate! (link)
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well you know you should try your best to stay away from her and when she talks to you say " yes ma'am," "no ma'am," be nice as possible they love that.if any one who read this needs advice email me at nanasim4@aol.com
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ok..my best friend lives in a lil town outside the city i live in..someone frum her skool invited me to theyre homecoming..so i get there and find out he got grounded that day..i wasnt gunna let that ruin my time..but my friend had been crushin on this guy a hole bunch..and he asked her to homecoming..but i kinda like him..and i think he likes me..we were at a party and he kept tryin to dunk me..and imma major flirt..so i did too..but after homecoming..me and her were talkin and she made it clear that he was hers..idk if i should tell her i kinda like him..or if i should stop cuz my homecoming date..if he duz like me..im afraid shell get mad at me.. (link)
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well go with the guy you like the best. i mean if your friend gets mad, well she really aint your friend.if anyone that reads this needs advice email me at nanasim4@aol.com!
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Well my boyfriend was here today and we were makeing out and he got my shirt off and then i told him to stop but i love him so much and we could of had sex but i told him to go home and he knows what makes me feel better and stuff like that well he was kissing my neck (which i like ALOT) and then he took my shirt off. I then told him to go home and but i think i am ready (well at least i think so) What do you think is wrong? (link)
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you are HORNY i mean if you like him and trust him have sex with him!
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months and i was at his house the other day and we were getting kind of sexual... we didn't have sex or anything but we were like "dry humping" and my underwear shifted and his penis went in... it wasn't for like that long because as soon as we both felt it we like jumped apart from eachother. he said that he didn't cum but there is still the whole issue of pre cum and he might have a little bit... he didn't go in deep though it was like hardly an inch. is there a chance that he could have cummed a little bit and i could get pregnant? or does he have to go in deeper? (link)
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he has to go in a lot deeper no there is a 99% chance you are not pregnant.
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Okay, this is gonna sound really, really dumb... but how do you tell if a guy likes you? :/ I'm clueless when it comes to this, I've heard so many things... so could someone sum it up? Thanks, 13/f :] (link)
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you know if a guy likes you because:
1. he is sweet to you.
2. he is honest.
3. ask him if you love him i mean , dont be scared to ask
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Okay .. well I basically Just Started Cutting Myself! + Now i cant Stop.. It like takes controll over me! I dont and wont tell mY Parents and i dont wanna get help or tell anyone* Not even Friends.. but i think they might know.. I dont know what to do ? Im only 13! Should i continue?
Sign
CUTTER! (link)
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hey if cutting your self helps you then keep doin it. i mean i cut myself too no big deal
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Me n my friend have been best friends for a few years now but then she met this girl and shes a really bad influence on her-drinking smoking and cutting herself. now me n my friend arent really best friends nemore and shes lost a lot of her friends because no1 really likes the other girl and she's really mean to me. My friend's been cutting herself fer about a year and i don't know what to do to get her to stop but she's going to start drinking too cuz she thinks it will help and she wont really listen to anyone. she told me she's turning into a person she never wanted to be-doing the things she does and ruining her life b4 she's even 13 but she still doesnt stop. theres a lot of crap going on in her life right now but still.. i dont know what to do anymore please help me! (link)
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well first of all tell someone that you know really good and tell them what she is going threw and tell them not to tell you friend that you were the one who told on her.
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i met this guy at adventureland (he was REALLY hott!!) in des moines and i got his # but i dont want to call it cuz im afraid that its the wrong number! but then again the area code and the first 3 numbers were from the area that we were located in...what should i do? call him or not?
-confuzzled! (link)
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call!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Ok im like alaways masturbatingwith my self! yes im a girl! no bf either what do I do?
*Unknown sender* (link)
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do worry dear.. it is perfectly fine...o.k.
if any body needs great advice, e-mail me at nanasim4@aol.com
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Me, and my friend have been fighting alot. Lets just say her name is ellie, well ellie and me have been best friends since the 3rd grade, so now thats about 4 years of being best friends. but now shes starting to get a little bossy, saying stuff like im getting to comfertable with her family like i dont say thank you enough. that kind of stuff tho i am fine with. but this morning she started to say that i was getting to comfertable again, and saying was acting really bitchy and all i did was i was hangin out with her brother, and her neighbor, but i was leaving her out. But besides this morning shes been fighti with me over a lotta little thing, and im starting to get really stressed out. i dont kno wut to do anymore. PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP ME. should i break the friendship, or try to work with it. im starting to feel like i cant breathe. (link)
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well first you should tell her to stop being bossey... and if that does not work give her a taste of her own medicine.... start acting bossey to her and then she'll tell you to stop then you say '' well that's what you did to me''..... and she'll relize that that she does not need to be bossey.
Or; she may not relize that she is doing it, it may be somethin' with her family... or she may be going threw ''love'' troubles.. you know.
if any body need's some great advice e-mail me at nanasim4@aol.com..e-mail me anytime!!
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