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im belle.
i absolutely LOVE giving advice, it has to be one of my favorite things to do. feel free to ask me anything. i will try my best, and i wont judge anyone. i know that everyone has rough times and things that they go through in their lives, as i do also. everyone is important. and i will try my best to treat you that way through my advice. if i say something that you don't agree with, then im very sorry. but remember that you are asking for advice... there isn't a right or wrong answer. it goes by opinion. and i'll try my best to make you love mine. thanks!
**BeLLe**
advice
how can i make my mascara appear more dramatic?
You can make it appear more dramatic by putting on your mascara like you normally do, but then once it dries, add another layer. The second layer should make it stand out a bit more. Also, try using an eyelash curler. That will curl your eyelashes up so that you can see them a bit easier.
**BeLLe**
kay theres this guy and he likes me. but he doesnt want to show his feelings and hes playing hard to get. i need something that i can say to him thats short and quick and will make him think twice about playing hard to get. idk what to say to him but i really need help!!
You could just tell him to stop playing hard to get, if you're that outgoing. But if you aren't, then just sort of give him signs that you don't really like it. Maybe even do it right back to him, that might teach him not to.
**BeLLe**
I have tryouts for a talent show tomorrow and I don't know what I should do. Have any ideas? I tried singing but I only have CD's with the voices on them!!!!
Well you can pretty much do anything... i can't really tell you what to do. I mean... it isn't MY talent!! LOL. Just find something that you are really good at, something you wouldn't mind doing in front of people. Maybe a cool trick you can do that most people can't, or maybe if you have learned a dance you can perform it. If you think that singing is a really good talent of yours, then beg your mom to take you to the store and buy you a karaoke CD. They don't cost as much as regular CD's and they don't have the voices on them. You would have to memorize the song though! It might take a while to learn it and everything, but if it is something that you like to do, then it shouldn't be too bad, right?
Well good luck!
**BeLLe**
whats that song that goes
"california here we come, right back where we started from...."
band/song name please!!
~The song is called California, and it is by Phantom Planet~
PHANTOM PLANET LYRICS
"California"
We've been on the run
Driving in the sun
Looking out for #1
California here we come
Right back where we started from
Hustlers grab your guns
Your shadow weighs a ton
Driving down the 101
California here we come
Right back where we started from
California!
Here we come!
On the stereo
Listen as we go
Nothing's gonna stop me now
California here we come
Right back where we started from
Pedal to the floor
Thinkin' of the roar
Gotta get us to the show
California here we come
Right back where we started from
California!
Here we come!
Hope i helped!
**BeLLe**
Is there anyway to go in the pool or ocean with out your mascara running? I heard if you put like clear mascara over your normal stuff it would work. I use Big Lash.. i think it's from Maybalene?
Um....well the best i can tell you is to just get waterproof mascara. It might run a little....cuz you're swimming and everything.... but it definitely wont as much as the regular kind.
But if you don't want your mascara running at all, then i suggest not wearing any. I doubt anyone will notice if you are swimming, and you could just hurry and run to a close bathroom right after you're done and put some on.
Not wearing any mascara would probably be better than having black running down your face the whole time, right? If you didn't wear any, then you just wouldn't have to worry about it.
**BeLLe**
My bedroom is white and boring. I've been thinking about redecorating it. mostly painting the walls. I just have no idea what color to paint it. My favorite colors are pink and black. I'd be scared to paint it black and plus, im not allowed. but im not sure if i wanna paint it pink. Please help.
What colors would you suggest to paint a bedroom.
I'll rate 5's for anyone that tries.
Yea that would be kinda dark and creepy to have the bedroom black, but maybe you could paint it pink, and have a black border or something.... or you could get a new comforter *or something else* with pink and black..that way you would have your favorite colors in your room. But pink would totally be cute! I know someone who's room is pink and she did like a hawaiian theme... and it is WAY cute. But pink would not look weird or anything if that is what you were worried about.
Some other colors that would look really cute are light green.....or dark blue.
i hope ur room turns out really cool!
**BeLLe**
My best friend spends WAY too much time with her bf and whenever I try to tell her she gets mad and calls me selfish. She does EVERYTHING with him now and I think she likes him more than me. What can I do?
Its okay...you are still her best friend. She isn't trying to replace you or anything. So don't feel left out, She is just in love. Give her some time... and she will be back to normal in a few weeks or so. Just ask her about it nicely so that she doesn't take it the wrong way like what she has been doing. Plan ahead with her and say "hey so do you wanna do stuff this weekend" or something like that. Find a good time...i mean she can't be doing stuff with him every moment of her life, can she? So you should be able to find some time to do something with her. If she can't ever do stuff with you, then just hang out with other people... just give her some time... it will all be better soon... i promise.
**BeLLe**
**BeLLe**
ok i was leaning behind my couch to get my dogs bone, and i must've leaned the wrong way on my chest becuase the place between my breasts, the bone, is hurting EXTREMELY badly. It happened after I leaned over, so its nothing to do with anything else. I heard a little crack when I leaned over, so could I have maybe fractured one of my ribs? My mom says no and it'll go away soon, but I really cant bear the pain. Please Help ♥
Well you're pretty much stuck until your mom will take you to the doctor. Just ask her to take you to the doctor, and tell her how much it hurts and tell her that you heard a crack. A doctor is pretty much the only one that can really tell you what is wrong, unless you can feel a bone out of place or something. Even then, you would still have to see the doctor though. But if your mom won't take you see the doctor, then maybe try calling him? Good luck! Feel better!
**BeLLe**
does proactive really work? im asian and my skin is kinda oily.. soo do you think it might work? i know its different for everyone but i dont know
Proactive is like the best stuff out there! My sister uses it and she has like no zits. I used to have a lot of zits too, so she let me try it for a few days, and after only 3 days i didn't have any. It should work for almost everyone... so chances are it will work for you. If it doesn't, then just send it back and get a refund.
Hope i helped!
**BeLLe**
I am very pale and I get very self concious when Im wearing shorts or skirts. The problem is I want to wear skirts and stuff because I think they are cute.
I guess my question is, is there any way to take peoples eyes off how pale I am or to make me look darker without tanning?
Just don't care what people think! What will it matter in the long run? If anyone should be making fun of you, then it is just because they are insecure about themselves and they have nothing to talk about, plus I am sure that there are people with the same problem as you! They are people.....and no matter what, everyone is going to say something about someone else. But they have their insecurities too, everyone does. It's a natural part of life. And, by the next day, no one will remember how pale your legs were, or how your hair was sticking up, or how you didn't rub your makeup in all the way, or how you tripped over the guy you liked. It happens to EVERYONE! Don't get too worried over it. So girl, you go show off that stuff! Don't feel unconfident about it, either, because people can actually tell when you are uncomfortable with something. Just be proud of who you are!
**BeLLe**
I need to make my parents understand that some kids will drink and some kids will smoke once in a while. [[those some kids arent me, but they are my friends]] My parents are trying to keep me away from my best friend because I got caught with alchohal when I was with him.
I cant live without him he is a big part of me and keeps me happy and alive. What can I say to my parents? help me please!
Well, your parents probably won't change their minds. They just don't want anything bad to happen to you. They are just trying to do what is best for you. Plus, do you really want to be blamed for drinking when you really didn't? Someone could accuse you of drinking if you are with them a lot. If your friends are drinking, it can lead to them doing a lot of other stupid things too. So just ask your friends if they can let up on the drinking when you are around them, and if they say no, then you can tell them that you probably won't be able to do much with them anymore because your parents don't want you around friends that are drinking. If your friends say that they won't do it around you, then you can just tell your parents that, and maybe they will let you do stuff with your best friend again.
I hope things work out for you!
**BeLLe**
Is it possible to make a new part line in your hair? If it is how would I go about this to make a new one?
I've had a straight down the middle of my head for about as long as I can remember so a new part would be nice.. Please and Thank you :]
It is totally possible to make a new part line in your hair. All that you need to do is, after you wash your hair and it is still a little damp, brush your hair really well, so that there are no snarls. After that, just use the end of a comb to make a part line where ever you want it on your hair. You can do it either from front to back, or back to front, it doesn't matter. Just drag it along your head, slowly and carefully, in a line where you want your hair part to be. Then just separate the two sides using the comb. This might not make very much sense the first time, but if you part your hair a lot, you should get used to it. Then all you have to do is comb it down flat, possibly using a clip or barette, or bobby-pin...just something to hold it down so that the part stays. Sleep with it like that overnight, and in the morning, your part should look totally good.
**BeLLe**
Next year I will be trying out for V. track at my middle school. How can I prepare for running miles besides just practicing running? (I mean, keeping on course with my breathing, etc.) Thanks.
I was going to try out for track at my middle school, and they gave us a paper that said all of the things that we need to do to get ready for it. I'll just type what it says on the paper:
This is a basic overall conditioning workout. This workout should be completed in the order listed, at least 3 times a week. Before you begin the workout, warm up and stretch. Conditioning helps avoid injury, and will allow you to practice during the season without getting too sore if you follow this workout.
WEEK 1: jog 1 mile, sprint the last 100 meters.
WEEK 2: jog 1.5 miles, sprint the last 150 meters.
It is very important that you have fun as you work through the workout and try to challenge yourself.
After each workout, please end with these "Strider Exercises."
LUNGES: 30 meters-keep back straight don't bend too low
HIGH KNEE SKIPS: 30 meters, thrust knee high.
PUSHUPS: 10-15 reps - 3 sets.
SINGLE LEG JUMPS: 3 sets - 5 hops.
CRUNCHES: 2 sets of 30.
CALF RAISES: 2 sets - 25 each leg.
SQUAT STAR JUMPS: 2 sets - 15 jumps.
JUMP TUCKS: 3 sets - 10 jumps.
SPRINTS: 3 sets of 40 meters.
SLIDES: 2 sets of 25 meters.
End with a slow cool down jog/walk and STRETCH!!
So those are some good exercises that you can do to prepare you for track. If you want something that I did... I walked around my block, then when I felt I was ready, I would run as far as I could *dont push yourself too much* and then I would walk again. Just do as much as you can each day. Push yourself a little farther every day, and soon you won't have trouble breathing, and you will stay really fit.
So good luck!
**BeLLe**
ok so lately a lot of people have been talking about a show or movie called high school musical. what is it about? is it like grease or something? i've never even heard of it but people around school seem to know all about the thing. what tv station is it on too?
thanks im just curious.
No, the show isn't like grease. It is a show that is on the disney channel. I haven't really seen the whole show, but my friends were over one day and we saw part of it because they are obsessed with the *hot guy* on it! LOL. But anyways...it is about this kid that plays basketball, but he finds this girl that he likes and he decides to try out for the school play because she is. But it is hard becuase people don't want him to be in the school play...and he is like trying to decide between basketball and the play.
**BeLLe**
Okay so I am 14/f and will be graduating from 8th grade this year. The only thing is i do not want to go to my graduation because i dont want to have to walk infront of all the people, this is because I have Cerebral Palsy. It is a disorder that cause tight hamstings and makes me walk ver different from others. I am very self consious of this. I want to be a part of graduation but walking on stage and down an aisile(sp?) really acres me. I know that other should not judge me but. I just really dont know what to do any advice would help.I also have a big problem with stage fright and public things such as this ..if that means anything.
If you go to your graduation and walk in front of everyone, then I think that people will really look up to you because you had the courage to get up in front of people. So I really think that you should do it.
You shouldn't care what people think about you, because no matter what, there is going to be someone in the world, somewhere that will say something behind your back. And it happens to everyone. But the only reason that they say that is because they are unconfident about themselves.
So just don't care what people think! In the end, you'll probably never see them again, and there are plenty of people out there who love you just the way you are!
**BeLLe**
are you from ky?cause i might no u
Nope, sorry!! I'm from UT
**BeLLe**
what is the weight that a 13 year old 5'5 girl usually is?
Well it totally depends....Someone could have more muscle or could be bigger boned, which would make them weigh more. Or someone could just be really tiny. It just depends. I am 13 and I am 5'5 and I weigh exactly 100 lbs. I have a friend that weights 83 lbs, and it's just because she is really little. I also have a friend that weighs about 140, but don't get me wrong, she isn't fat at all....She is just big boned. So do you get the idea?
Hope I helped you out!
**BeLLe**
I think my two best friends are bullying me! They act like my best friend when its just one of them indivally. but when they're both together with me they call me names and then say its a joke and take the piss otta me.
plz help
Madi
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I know exactly how you feel. Both of my friends used to do that. Trust me...it happens to everyone. Just tell them that you don't like it when they do that. If they don't take you seriously, then tell them you're going to leave if they don't stop.
When this happened to me, they tried to stop, but later I realized that it was really just one of my friends and that I was just blaming the other one for something that she didn't do. So I'm not friends with the girl that was being bratty anymore, because that is just her personality, and I don't like it.
So if that is happening to you, then consider that it just might be one of them acting up when there's more than one person around her. Or maybe you do need to find other friends. If you don't have fun when you're around them, then it isn't worth it. They are wasting your time if they won't be nice.
Always remember: Good comes out before evil.
Hope I helped!
**BeLLe**
Ok so my msn said it didn't have no new e-mails like 3 days in a row and I was puzzled so I was going to send a e-mail to my aunt and BOOM..there are 99% full! And now anytime i get mail it doesn't show! Do I need to somehow download msn again or can i fix it and if i can fix it how?
Well that's pretty stupid! I think you should try calling MSN and talking to them about it. Tell them what it is doing, and usually they can instantly fix it for you, since they have had millions and millions of problems like that. If you really really don't want to call them, then yes, just try downloading it again. You can have the same name still, just let it re-download, and maybe it will fix the problem.
**BeLLe**
What should I do? there is this boy i've been dating over a year and i have feelings for someone else that likes me alot. the boy i'm dating can't seem to make up his mind about if he wants to be with me or not. so should i choose the new guy or stick with my boyfriend?
I think you should go with the other guy that likes you a lot. He obviously likes you a lot more than your boyfriend, who can't make up his mind. Your boyfriend is obviously having feelings for someone else, Since he isn't sure to stay with you or not. Maybe you should have a talk with your boyfriend. Maybe you could just tell him that you would like to see other guys too. But it is still your decision. Don't let me, or anyone else decide for you. You need to decide for yourself, because no one knows how you really feel inside.
**BeLLe**