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ok last night i think i slept the whole night on my stomach but when i woke up like my pubic bone was sore but when i turned on my side it wasnt hurting anymore and there isnt a bruise or anything and it kinda scared me? does anyone know what it was or what happened? im thinking mabye it was just a nerve ending or i cut off the blood circulation to there when i was sleeping on my tummy please help!

your probally right....i wouldnt worry about it sugga! you might have just had alittle pain...no biggie! :-)

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i have a strange feling of the urge to do it but don't have a boy friend what do i do?

wait for the right person to come along and follow your heart from there!

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Well this morning i woke up and my boob was hurting. what could this mean?? 14/f. thanks

you could be about to start your period or they might be growin! hehe

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does anyone have any ideas about what to name my puppy? hes a black lab and hes so cuddly, and hea boy...and fluffy..i rate high!thnx bub byez

bear, buddy, sammy, donner, blaze, jack, moose, travis, liberachie, pacino, casino, vegas, magnum, scout, mickey,....umm those are the only ones off the top of my head....lol

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how shuld i tell mi mom that i need deoderant?

nuther ?-i like to stand out, im outgoing and i like to be noticed. is this a good thing- or shuld i blend in more?if i carry it out thru mi life, will peepl make fun of me or......

thanx

well for you first question.....just tell your mom next time she goes to the store, be like "hey mom could you pick me up some deoderant?".....that should work hehe. for your second question, be yourself and do what you feel comfortable doing. i am a very outgoing person and i just do what i want to do and don;t worry about what other people think. being different is an awesome thing. anybody can be like everybody else. nobody is going to make fun of you for being different and a nice person. and being noticed is a very good thing. its a great way to meet people and its awesome to know people are looking at you and smiling! let me know if you need anythign else

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ohk well im sick of people hating me because im a "slut, hoe, whore, or skank" the thing is dat im really not any of that ... how can i make people see who i really am, or just get da image of being a hoe out of my life?


i rate high so please help

find out what is making people think that and change it. if people think that because you are really cool with guys and you have more guy friends then girls then start hangin out with alot more girls then guys. just whatever is making people think that....do the opposite! let me know if you need anything else girl!

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What do you do when you lost something you cherished so much? And you know you'll never get it back again? And it can't be replaced? How do you get over losing something that important?

if your talking about what i think your talking about then there is nothing you can do. but know you made the choice and to live life with no regrets! if its not that then try and get something as close to it as possible!

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What should i do, i like a person but i don't know if they like me back?

turn on the flirt switch and see what happens....if they dont flirt back then ask them straight out if you could ever see you in that person getting together in the future. if flirting works....then just let things go from there hehe

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OK.. well usually my period is.. well i dont really know how to put it.. thinck i guess. and dark. But this month it seems a lot thinner and lighter. Is this normal? Or should I see a doctor or something?

its not going to be the same everytime sugga.....you might just not be as heavy this month :-)

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I love denim skirts and flouncy skirts from abercrombie! ..the problem is..They are too expensive! Do you guys know anywhere I can get a bargain skirt?..don't say ebay! Thanks!

hollister, forever21, khols, ummm.....thats all i know!

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My girlfriend is a quite beautiful girl. And I know she knows she's beautiful. She's also pretty damn confident. But, for some reason it seems like she's insecure around me. Every time we're intimate and I try to slid my hand down her stomach she sucks it in. I guess she doesn't think I notice but, I do. She has a fine, flat tummy so why she feels the need to suck it in is beyond me. I also don't understand if I did anything to make her feel insecure. I tell her that I think she's beautiful every chance I get. I don't know what to do here.

no matter what any girl tells you....girls always think they can look better. i know when my boyfriend tries to do anything like that i always used to be really jumpy but then he confronted me about it and now i feel fine just letting it all hang out around him lol....next time she does it...whisper to her in a really sweet and loving voice "why are you doing that" or something like that. then she will probally start talking about it. then its your chance to brag on her like no other! lol....let me know if you need anything else!

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I am trying to get a fashion style. I like like long flowing skirts and jean jackets but I also like sweatbands and spikes and stuff like that. I wanted to know where I could get some cool rocker clothes and some good but cute femine clothes for important events such as school trips, concerts, and such. I know I am going multi-personality right now...but im just 15 and am trying to find out who I am so cut me some slack. Do you know any cool stores that would be a lot of help to me?...Their websites would be best if you know them..ThAnK-YoU BuNcHeS
I RaTe HiGh!!
*~*mAdDiE*~*

bananna rupublic.....abercrombie....gadzooks(they would probally have the best stuff for ya!) forever21....ummm abercrombie doesnt really have like rocker stuff but they have alot of cute clothes hehe....ummm...thats all i can think of might be good for you right now....the websites to those are just their name and then a ".com" after!

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I don't usually cut myself, but something really bad happened, and I did it again. I know it's wrong, but I was going through a rough time, and I don't plan on doing it again, but anyways, I have to attend a pool party, but how do I cover up the marks, from my wrist up to high up the arm. theres a few of them. please help me cover them up. I don't wanna hear you should tell someone, because I go to a therepist. PLEASE HELP ME. rating high.
xoxo.

well i would say makeup but if you get wet then it is all going to come off.....what you could do is get a long sleve net shirt and have a bikini on under neath it....so that way your arms are covered up! let me know if ya need anything else!

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Ok, so i have a boyfriend, pico and i like him and he likes me but it just seems like hes gettin kinda like too obsessive and i want to break up with him but i don't want to break up with him and i don't know what do do....please help me!


Notes:
- he's "flirted" wit my friend but it was just a joke (as he says)
- tons of other girls have asked him out but hes said no becuz he loves me sooo much
- he says that i'm the best thing a guy can have

well first decide if you wanna break up with him or not lol.....and if you do then just tell him straight up that you want a break. and make sure thats its nothing against him (even though it may be)...just try to make yall's break up as painless as possible for both you and him! let me know how it goes!

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HELP!....i am a skinny girl(not anorexic) but tons of people think i am, what should i do? PLease help me!

don't listen to them! as long as your eating right and your not doing anything unhealthy...then its all good!!! :-)

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it is my 16 birthday and i dont know what to do so if anyone can help i relli need it thanks verry much. i rate high

throw a party! either have it be formal, dressy casual, or have some kind of crazy theme. make all the girls dress in white and all the boys in black or pick a theme from a movie...somehting like that! oh and as far as gifts....ask for a car! lol

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Where do all you advicenators get all your answers?

i just give people my personal oppinion on stuff. i dont get mine for anywhere :-)

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what does it mean to masterbate?

for a girl or a guy to get freaky with themselves!! lol

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My boyfriend and I had sex a few weeks ago and I was due to get my period today. I still haven't gotten it. We didn't use a condom, but we didn't finish either. He was only in me for a few seconds, not even a minute. Is there any chance that I could be pregnant? I'm showing all my regular signs of PMS, but still no period.

as long as your 100% sure he didnt finish in you then you having nothing to worry about. if you hadnt had sex in a while then that could also be why. your boyd just got a little thrown off and is trying to re adjust

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10/f theres this boy in a hier grade than me but he was on mi bros b.ball teem( they just lost and got out of the ternament) so i saw him alot... and he goes to mi skool- for 3 mor dyz.shuld i ask him out and hope fur te best? or just leeve it the way it is? he aredy nos thet i like him but..... thanx for any advice! ill rate high!!!


thanx, wundrin

you mine as well go for it! but dont you think your just a little too young to have a bf sugga?? lol......if you think you really like him then the worst that could happen is him saying no! good luck

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