I'm 13 female. I like to talk on the phone, aggravate my sister, argue with anyone who's willing to put up with me, i luv to act crazy around my friends, i luv hanging with my cuzin who is like a sister-big shout out smartgirl321.
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Location: New Orleans
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Age: 13
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smartgirl321
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i have the boy that i like number and i dont want to call it becuz im too scared. i dont know how will react to the fact that i got his number from my cousin. i took it from her phone. and i really don't know why i did it. and somehow i memorized it. i can't call it without my name being on the caller ID. and i dont know what to say to him. and i know what he's all about so i dont wanna do no mushy stuff if i do talk to him. and i dont want to forget about it becuz i think i would regret it. and most of my friends dont know him that well. and i really don't want to do three way with my friends anyway. so what do i do? (link)
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* 69 him meaning dial *69 and then dial the number your number wont so up on the id
good luck
talktome224
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I have a 12 yr old cuzin who i'm really beginning to get worried about. The thing is, she's starting to get into this whole emo look by dressing up in all black and stuff and the worst part is that she even told me that she's started cutting herself. I really don't understand why she would do this because my aunt and uncle treat her with kindness and respect. The problem is that she's always so negative towards everyone and my aunt tells me that she doesn't have a single friend at school. I try to help her but she simply brushes me off and i don't know what to do before this case gets seriously worse. Please help! (link)
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well cutting is a way of punishing yourself for something hang out with her a lot even if she pushes you away then go right back fighting twice as hard dont let her push you away
she needs you now more than ever
good luck
love talktome224
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well....i've been having such a hard time lately....i've been sooo stressed out with school and stuff.i know its almost over but its really a pain.in school today i wasnt acting myself and everyone was asking me what was wrong.im not even sure what is wrong.my mom constantly hassles me to the point of my wanting to stab myself and im really afraid that if i dont do sumthing soon them im gonna end up killin myself or something.please help me!!!!!!! (link)
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i went through this you need a you thing like mine is running and no one can take that away when im upset i grab my shoes and a cd player and hed for the door fing something that takes your mind off of everything else this passes tiime and gives you a mini vacation
hope this helps
love talktome 224
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i'm going to florida in 2 weeks and i'm staying there for awhile. when i wake up early in the morning to go to the parks and stuff, after i get out of the shower i don't really have all that much time to do my hair. i don't like blowdrying it down there because it is really hot! does anyone have any cute & easy hairstyle that i could do while my hair is wet without making it frizzy? thanks! i rate high! (link)
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well if you want curly hair then while your hair is wet put in in a pony tail and using hair spary and moose then sprunch your hair up and it will be curly
hope you like the hair style
love talktome224
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15/F
Okay, I have a problem.
I have a dance performance on the 17 and 18 of June, I normally get my period on the 15th. I have researched tampons and the pros and cons but the problem is they(tampax.com) say that when you start to wear tampons you should just wear the ones for lighter days. That sucks because my period is normally really heavy and the preformance is from 5:30 to about 12:00 both nights. There is only one bathroom and its normally filled during recital nights. I have my dressing room with about 60 other girls and there is no possible way I could wear pads with my costumes, one I have too many white outfits and two I move around too much on stage. I can't have the pad go flinging out. That would be disgusting.
So the question is, is it okay to try wearing tampons for heavier flo on my first time?
Yes, I have tried tampons before and it always feels uncomfortable because i'm not use to having string stick out of my vagina but I would go with the discomfort for my dance. (link)
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well they have new tampons by a company call o.b.
they have tampons that expand to fit your *body*
but they also have the teen version like that that way you dont have to have a heavy or light day kind
good luck at the review but i hope this helps
love talktome224
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if i ride my bike for around 30 minutes ..will i get a flatter stomach (and how long will it take to see results) and what else will it help ? (link)
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well it helps bur calories so if you do it enough you might have a flatter stomach it could take stwo weeks depending on if you ride 30 min a day however riding your bike really works thighs cavs and legs so it will help improve those areas if you want it to
hope that helps
love talktome224
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I'm currently on a swim team and eatin much healthier, but today my friend and I went to the pool and she only brought sodas to drink it was very hot so I broke my 3 week chain of no sodas. I feel terrible, I also ate a few cookies, how can I keep from eating the bad stuff when the oppurtunities right in front of me? .. Ill rate :] (link)
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well iv been on a diet for some time now and when im faced wih a problem as you are the i just think about how i really want to lose weight and i picture my self skinny that makes the cravings go away and if there is nothing else then have a cookie and soda but then you might have to work out a lilbit longer that week
good luck hope this helped
love talktome224
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i asked a question before about my hair and so i got it cut. the lady cut it too short! i have dark brown hair- shoulder length- layered. what should i do with it? (link)
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try straighting it that makes your hair look longer than it really is my aunt is a hairdresser dont worry hair grows back in the mean time try differnt styles like curl small curls tend to look better with longer hair so try fatter curl.
good luck
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talktome224
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i play softball and slid into third base. i got this really bad scrape. i kept picking at it. so now it is a really big pink scar. i cant shave over it because it make cut the scar and icant use nair because its going to affect the scar. what should i dowith the hair that is on my scar? (link)
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i know what you mean i have two really big scars on e one each arm but mine arent hairy
however you can pluck the hair with twezers or maybe even use tape and kinda wax or pull the hair if nothing else the just shave really lightly over the scar depending on how old it is it shouldnt reopen
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talktome224
good luck
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I want to take up a babysitting job for extra cash but, i dont know the neighbors that just moved in and thats the ones whos baby i want to sit, and my dad doesnt get home from work till 5:00 and i want to babysit!
should i meet the neighbors and babysit till my dad comes home or should i ask my dad and risk not being able to do it?
please hurry
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ok well im 13 and just started babysitting at first my mom wasnt crazy about the idea so i told her that it would help me have better social skill and maybe even help get better at babysitting for the furture plus it would give me something to do and stay out of trouble not to mention that this would give me a way to make some money and i wouldnt ask her for it as much
just try talking to your dad about it going behind his back would make you untrust worthy and that might prevent you from babysitting later so good luck
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talktome22
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Alright well my friend gave me this stuff to try because I really want a tan but im really pale. Well she kinda didnt tell me the full directions.. she told me to rub it in and stuff.. and then wait 5 mins.. and that the tan would show up in 5 mins.. well she was so wrong and she didnt tell me it takes a few hours for it to start showin up.. so i got home na dim putten some on.. and i dont look tanner.. so i wait like 15 mins still dont.. so i put some on and more and more ect. well i wake up and my legs are really dark and sorta orange!! how do I get it off!? (link)
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most rub on tans take about one to two weeks to wear off but they can also wash off see when you take a shower the tan should wash off however not just one shower i would say just to take one extra shower a day this should increase the chance of it wearing off early
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talktome224
ps good luck
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I feel empty. I want to be happy and I want to live my life like I always have, to the fullest extent. But now it seems like every reward is meaningless. And I hate to say this, but it is because of a guy. When I let guys control my life, I dont know. But it happened. I can not stop thinking about this one guy. I dated him for 7 months but then I was the one to break up with him. I mostly was just scared hed fall for someone else and eventually dump me. But I cant stop thinking about him and my heart hurts everyday from thinking about him. I feel lonely constantly even if i am around all my friends. I hate using that cliche about putting on a fake smile but its true. And I am even more depressed because thats never been true. Not only that but the guy I like is also liked by my really good friend. We have been friends just this year and she doesnt know I dated him. I dont want to tell her and I am determined that if they just date then I can get over it. I have cut myself over this. I dont do it to kill myself I do it because I want to hurt myself. This has been my freshmen year and one of the worst. I know I must sound annoying with all this teenage drama crap. But it just hurts so bad. And I dont want to hurt like this. I dont want to keep crying myself to sleep praying that this will soon be over. I know I am being melodramatic and I know im being whiny but I cant help it anymore. I have these thoughts of him constantly of when we would kiss and when we would cuddle. And it kills me. Ive told him I like him and he says he likes me too but he also likes another girl. And that kills me even more. I just want this to stop. I cant take this anymore. Please someone tell me what to do. Im 15, sick and tired. (link)
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you shouldnt waste your time worring about a guy you should try and have fun you said that even when your with your friends you still cant enjoy yourself to that i say have a all gurls night it will take your mind off of the guy and allow you to have fun it will also relive yourself of worring about life for one night about the cutting i used to do that i know wat you mean about not wanting to die just want to almost punish yourself dont you have done nothing wrong but you should find a really close friend and let them know about this so that they can help you stop it took me two months to relize that i wasnt hurting myself but really hurting those around me while you are consitrating on this you shouldnt worry abou the guy but in time you will see that you dont need a guy to make you happy and while you are having fun you might meet a guy that you really love
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