Ask sharpie457!

Advice Column | Ask a Question | View Feedback |

About sharpie457



Hey. I'm a great advisor and I can help with just about everything. Please at least take my word for these things, I'm not gonna force you to go with my choice but you should at least consider it.BTW you can call me Miz Morgan ;]

Ask Me For Advice
View Feedback
Make Favorite Columnist

Member Since: May 11, 2008
Answers: 72
Last Update: June 2, 2008
Visitors: 3793



Advicenators.com



I was at cheerleading practice yesterday and I must have turned my neck the wrong way to fast cause it popped and started burning. It went away for a minute, then I got this excrusiating pain in my neck. I can't turn it to the right, or lean it back, and if I'm laying down I have to use my hand to pull my neck up when I want to stand up. Has this happened to anyone before, and how long will it last? thanks =]

I totally feel your pain! Actually, I was at a theme park and the upside down roller coasters kept julting my head back and forth and when i woke up the next morning it hurt really bad! Luckily my stepdad is a chiropractor but it still hurts. I know it sounds crazy, but try putting pressure on it and get an ice pack and ice it for about 20 minutes, take it off for an hour or so and put it back on. Also, massaging the muscle helps too.

[view]


so there is this boy i have been talkn to that is great freidns with my best frends boyfriend and the boyfrend told him (dylan) that i am into him which i am and he responded like oh thats cool and hes kinda a shy guy he txts me or ims me every so often to often and at school he will chit chat very little i cant tell if he is into me or not..becasue he is shy and all i like him and i want him to be all cuddlly and flirtyy with out looking like an idiot...how do i get more flirty with him and is he into me

It seems to me he likes you. Maybe try asking your friends boyfriend to ask him for you.. But be careful, sometimes messengers are bad ideas, they can mix up the words into saying "I Don't think I'm ready for that" to "I don't think I'll ever be NOT ready for that" Srry that was a bad example but you know what i mean.. Anyway, just flirt and ask him yourself. Life is short, take a risk!

Hope this helps

[view]


anyone who has ever been to a young life summer camp , i might be going this summer for the first time, i went to winter weekend but never summer camp and i am just wondering: at the dances and proms and stuff, do people actually dance? like normal grinding dancing? or do people just stand there or dance weird because i know it is lke a christian thing even though no one i know that goes to it is good it just seems like they would be scared to grind in front of the counselors and stuff. so yeah i don't care but i was just curious if people dance like they do at school dances and parties and stuff. probably not as dirty? but idk. and also do people hook up because i've heard of people making out at the camps but i think some people might thinks it's bad? like would people talk about it or do a lot of people hook up like what happens at other summer camps? thanks!

Well its pretty normal for hook ups and stuff. It's a part of life and you cant really stop them from it. But there's gonna be some kids there that feel the same way as you. And if some weird guy comes up to you and is making you feel uncomftorable just walk away and so "No Thanks.." or "ew." or something. I've been in situations at a very YOUNG age where even worse things happens but with the older kids. I'm sure you'll be fine, and sometimes the camps dont even have dances. AND you will be with a certain age group, so if you are like ten you wont be with nasty 17 year olds.

[view]


i have a dance coming up in june and i bought my dress and everything but now theres a problem, the straps are too long. they are attached spaghetti straps. what can i do to shorten them without making it look like i altered them. if i sewed them, the thread would show up on the back so id rather not do that. any ideas? thanks so much

Go to a taylor they can remove the straps and re-do them. They have all the right tools for it too. Also, dry cleaners and maybe even the store you bought it from can do it for you.

[view]


I was playing soccer and This guy pushed me and i slid across the grass and it felt like something was scraping along my leg like.. splinters (or bindies sp?). After a few hours or so, i looked onto my leg and saw about 10 - 30 "bite marks" at first they seemed like bindy.. marks but they still havn't gone after a day!

Can ANYONE tell me what this is, and how can i treat it without going to a doctor (trying to keep doctor as a VERY LAST RESORT).

THANKS IN ADVNCE.

Kronix

Soak your leg in epsom salt in the bath everyday for about a week. I know its for sore muscles and stuff but it will help. A band aid of course, and im sorry to say but if doesnt work then go to the DOCTOR!!!!!!

[view]


I want to become some kind of creative writer whether it be a poet or some kind of author. I already have wrote alot of stuff...i just don't exactly know how to get it out there. Any advice/suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks.

Look on google for someone looking to buy a story. Sometimes you can sell them a story and they will "copy write" it. Or if you want to be the author with the credit go to a local bookstore and talk to them about it. Also, try getting a grammer specialist to help you type it all up. Also, a tech ed [technical artist] to help you witht he cover of the book. Hope this helps

[view]


Ok, 13 / F / UK.
I go to a Private School and i guess i know everyone in my year/grade to have all of them as friends. But i'm soo shy it's untrue! they always talk to eachother but never me unless they want to borrow my mirror or something like that. I never get invited anywhere these days, i can't remeber the last time i was invited to some ones house or into town to shop. I feel left out at school all the time. i try to be myself but they think that 'myself' is weird, well they don't say that but they react in that way. i just want to be Individual. Have my own fashion sense, not copying the other girls fashion sense, but my own individual fashion sense.
Does any one have any ideas of how to get more friends and be invited places?
Suggestion that could help with my shynesS?
Any one have some websites where i can find Groovy Chick outfits/clothes?
Anything will do, please help. x

Just talk to other people. Hang out with the people that have the same interests as you and be yourself. Also, start inviting girls over and they will probably do the same. hope this helps!

[view]


Heyy Everyone!

i keep getting a similar dream. it dosent happen if ive been sleeping soundly, just if i wake up and take a nap. ive gotten in twice in the same week.

the first time i woke up in the morning but i was still in bed. i was thinking about the boy ive beeen hanging out with lately and i realized i think im bored with him. i couldnt think of any fun moments together that we still had sparks. then i fell asleep. but i didnt know i was sleeping, i thought i was still awake. i felt like i couldnt move my body at all, and my heart started racing and it was hard to breathe. it felt like there was a thin wooden board going accross my whole room, starting from the edge of my bed and it was holding me down. i could only open one eye a tiny bit, and i could see my mom standing over me saying "i dont know if she can save herself. we may need to take her to the doctor." i got so scared then, my neck started to burn up. trying to break free i started wiggling my toes and stroking the wooden board until finally i woke up and could move. i jumped out of bed almost shaking i was so scared. this was twords the begining of the week.

yesterday (saturday) i had it again. (after i ended things with the boy.). i had woken up and gone into the other room to watch TV. i was all comfy under the blankets just resting. i didnt think i fell asleep. i felt like i couldnt move again. the back of my neck got hot and it was difficult to breathe. then i saw myself slipping from the bed, from lack of oxygen. then a horn sounded. while the horn was going, there was no air and i could get back in bed but when it stopped i started falling off again. then i hear my mom in the background telling my little brother to stop blowing the horn. finally i woke up.

i told my mom about these, and she said it was anxiety. she asked me what im anxious about. lately ive been thinking it could have been the boy ive been hanging out with. the second time i fell asleep, i was thinking about how sad he looked after i ended things between us.

so my questions are:
1. what does everything in the dream represent (in your opinion).
2. how do i know what im anxious about?
3. how do i fix this and make the dreams go away?

thanks so much!!
and help would be great, thanks!

I totally understand what you are going through. Almost everyone has this. You obviously have something on your mind when your sleeping which forms this strange dream. I'm thinking you like the boy and dont know what to do so you feel like you cant move.. Then when you "dumped" him you felt bad and went right back to where you started. A.K.A. the guilt trip!
Try to think about better thoughts before you go to sleep and also try to clear things up with this boy. Maybe even tell him about the dreams [if akward dont bother haha]


hope this helps

[view]


my b/f is kind of confusing me. wenever we're together he'll put me on his lap and we'll start kissing and ill kiss at his neck and stuff, but then he makes me stop cuz he says im a tease. but then wen we're sitting there and kissing he'll lead my hand down there. but then wen im down there its like its not as good as wen i was sitting on him. i need help with wut to do...like, i feel like he wont get hard or something. i just dont no wut to do... and i dont want advice like suck his dick or nething...im only 15 and i dont want to do that yet.

Yeah, guys can be VERY confusing.. I think he's trying to play that "hard to get" scene. Just do what seems comftorable.

[view]


f/15I used to be bulimic. and i was for about a year. i lost 30 pounds. but scince ive stopped ive gained back 10. a week or two i was depressed. so i threw up agian now everytime i eat something sweet, drink soda or smoke a cig. my throat burns really badly.I know why it hurts cause im geussing stomache acids burning away my throat...But how do I get it to stop? I know to stop being bulimic, and im trying but what else can I do so it wont sting?

First off, go to your doctor! I know it's embaressing to talk about it sometimes but it will help. Also, I don't think ciggarettes are very helpful [but yet i know its hard to quit] Drink alot of water and healthier food to get used to the stinging. It WILL go away

[view]


well im trying to make a flyer to advertise for me and my friend to baby sit together
but I dont know exactly what to put on it or what to say
should i put that we are going to split the money and put how much we would wanna charge?
or do the parents of the children do that?
help please!

Personally, dont put the price at all. Because they might offer a higher price than you would except and that would be great. OR they might not like your price, and not even bother hiring you. 1. Make sure they pay you AFTER your done so you get your full price. 2. Pretend your name is Emily and Sharon [haha idk just go with it!] Then on ur flier say "Emily and Sharon babysitting! Split Cost, blah blah.]

Hope this helps!

[view]


i've had acne for a a few years and i finally got it clearing up. thank god!! well anywaysi have some scars on my face and i was wondering any products or remedies you could suggest...i once heard that if u you baby pee, it helps...but i don't think i wanan go that JURASSIC....

You know, I'm not EXACTLY sure but keep cleansing it and some lotions will make them go away. Look it up on google just in case and ask your doctor, i know they have "Scar Away" medicine.

[view]




<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker