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Ok I seriously LOVE a music freak in California but I live on the other coast, and he doesn't like me.......! What should I do?
Even if he did like you, there's not really a way you could have a relationship because of the distance issue. Sorry. :/
14/f..
ok. things that make it seem like this kid likes me:
-when he says hi, he blushes & then looks down
-he looks at me a whole lot.
-he always smiles at me
-all of his friends, ask if i'm jaci.. [ thats my name]
-at this party, everyone screamed, JACIS HERE!
& my one friend said, that he looked over at me smiled & then looked down
-hes really shy around me..bc he talked to all the other girls=/ is that bad?
-at this fair..everyone said he'd watch me wherever i went & followed me around.
-at this baseball field.. his friends kept looking at me & so did his brother & theyd smile at me, & then i could hear the kid i like say "shh shut up, she might hear you"
-9 people are like positive he likes me.
& stuff like that.
The one bad thing, that i think he doesnt like me..
some kid asked if he liked me.. & he said, "hell no" really quick. but, my like best friend, which is guy, is like "he probaly just said that, because he doesnt want anyone to know because hes afraid you dont like him back"
do you agree with what my best friend thats a guy said? or no?
do you think he likes me?
or is it pretty obvious, he hates me?
should i ask him.. if he does? or something? like what should i do.. HELP.
Sounds like he likes you. He might just be shy around you because of that! I don't think he hates you at all, he's just probably too nervous to talk to you, etc. Try and spark up a conversation with him, you never know how much you could have in common. And about the "hell no" thing, some guys hide their feelings when talking to other guy friends. They won't admit if they like someone or not sometimes, and in his case it looks like that's what he did.
I'm watching my friends kitten from saturday to wednesday. I'm going to have to keep it at MY house. I have to feed it, play with it, and all that stuff. How much should I charge?
I wouldn't ask for money unless they mention a payment of some sort. If they do, I'd ask for about 30-45 dollars. As the person below me said, ask them to bring the toys & rest of the necessities to your house. (so you wont have to go & buy all of that) If they don't mention a payment, don't sweat it, you did something nice & I'm sure you'll love the kitten. :]
heyy,
does anyone have any ideas on how I can display/organize all my jewlery such as bracelets, long and short necklaces and short and long earrings...
thankss
Well, for my necklaces & bracelets I use a tie hanger. Haha, it works so good. This is what it looks like - http://images-p.qvc.com/is/image/a/28/a131328.001?$proddetailmain$ except it only has one row of the knob things, so nothing ever gets tangled! Mine doesn't look exactly like that, but that's the idea of it. I got mine at target for 8 dollars. You can get them anywhere really. For earrings, maybe keep them in a jewelery box? I keep mine in a little box next to my sink! Anyway, good luck! :]
Okay im watching dazed and confused right now and the song at the end goes....
slow ride.... take it easy ....
Whats it called and who sings it!!?!??!?!
I'm watching it too! Haha, it's "Slow Ride" by Foghat!
i dont know if i put this under the right category or not..but..my friend from school is having a little going away party for her..and theres gonna be guys and stuff and i just got the invite and it says, "COME READY TO SWIM" and the last party we had for the end of the year party..i didnt go to becuz i was self concious..now im 115 pounds and im 5'3 but i still feel like im wide and from the front i have all that lower tummy fat..and like everyone of my friends are skinnier than me and i just cant go to swimming parties cuz im always so down on myself! i dont know what to do! all answers are appreciated! thanks!
Aw, hey girl. If you're going to swim, try a tankini, which is a long top, and bikini bottoms, but it covers all your stomach, so its great. And you're not fat at all, I typed you into am-i-fat.com and it said you were a Perfect Score, Stay as you are! Don't worry if other people are thinner than you, that's just how some people are. If you're not going to swim, it's fine too. You want to go to say goodbye to your friend, anyway, & that's really the purpose of the party! Have funnn. :]
Is the hole the tampon goes in the same one the penis goes in during sex?
Yes it is!
I think one of my friends might have stolen my camera when she visited us on vacation. I asked her to put it in her purse, because I didn't have mine with me. She has already gone back, but the last thing I remember was giving her my camera. I called her, and have been harrasing her, even trying to guilt her about it. I even went to the store we went into that day, but NO ONE has seen it. What should I do? It's been about a month, and my parents won't let me get another one because its my fault its gone.
Well, if she won't admit she has it, and you're pretttty sure she does, ask your mom/dad to call her parents. Or you could call them. Tell them what happened, just don't blame their daughter. Just say you think it was a misunderstanding and she accidently kept it, but you need it back. Good luck girl! :]
Well, i wanna go rolling but i cant drive & my moms always awake whats a good way to sneek out i have a 2 story house and how much tolit paper should i bring
Ooh, if you have a pet, let it outside, then just leave when you're out there. Hha, or just tell your mom you're going outside for a minute, or meeting up with a friend or something, or going on a walk, etc. Say you feel dizzy and need some fresh air. Haha, and how much toilet paper depends on how many houses you're gonna do. If just one, then I'd say 4 rolls. Have funnn. :]
I recently got onto advicenators today, and my account is not showing up under "SEARCH COLUMNISTS" and then "NEWEST". Because of this, I only answered one question to a person who put it on a public forum type thing like this. I really want to help. My column is AskGenevieve.
Thanks!
Ah, hey girl! No worries, your column won't show up until you answer at least 5 questions! So keep answering & everyone will be able to see it! :]
what are some good pop rock/punk songs??? like the type of music that aly & aj and the veronicas sing. thnks =]
Ah Ashley Parker Angel!! He's soo hot & sings soo good! ANY song by him! Soundtrack To Your Life, Let U Go, Better Now, Alright, Ok, Feels So Alive, Beautiful Lie, etc! He's even on tour with Ashlee Simpson & The Veronicas so I'll bet you'll like him. :]
Hey there,
I happened to be clicking on random sites and I came across yours. I saw that picture of you and I wanted to know where you got your shirt from! I've been looking for a top like that for months, cause I'm attending a black&white coctail party, I saw a shirt just like that in a magazine, but when I called the store, they said they didn't sell that style anymore. So, if you don't mind, where'd you get yours from? Thanks! (=
Ooh, that party sounds so fun! Haha, anyway, I got it at Target a long time ago, unfortunately, hah, so I don't know if they still sell them. (It was about 3 months ago) But I went on their website and found this one, http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html?_encoding=UTF8&frombrowse=1&asin=B000FMTA90 so maybe they still have them available in stores? You could always check & I'll pray it's there for you, hah.♥
well i feel REALLY self concious. i feel like i want to have surgeory done. Not implants, but a breast reduction. I am a "36 c" and i feel reaaaaally weird about my breasts. They dont really sag, but are halfway there, when i take off my bra they r really low, and then are so big, they also are on my sides. even when i wear a bra. I waited a little longer to wear a bra, i remember i had about a small "b" when i started to wear a bra cause mom said i didnt need one yet. well now i am probly *f-ed* up...i am soooooooo self concious, because of this i can't wear tank tops with out a bra, i cant wear one peice swim suits or even a strapless/strapped dress with out wearing a bra. and if i do wear a bra, the part at the back goes HIGH up and then some inches lower in the front are my breasts. i even had a bra strap break, but i think that was just weakly done. how come those girls on all thos commercials have great breasts? like i saw on a commercial for girls gone wild i saw the sides of their breasts, and how they stayed up so perfectly without a bra? i am only 13 and i have large breasts, this limits me to clothes, and brings worlds of self conciousness to me. my friend's maid says "i have a gift" but to me it is not such a gift when i have a bra on. do you think when i get older ill suddenyl get more support? or is there anything i can do? i am not overweight but i have a risk, very veery small one. i can fit into clothes i had three years ago even better so..please HEEEEEELP me! my mom tells me...oh your good..but she is my mom.. i KNOW how i look when i dont have a bra on. please i feel like i wanna get surgeory done and get a "b" but the cost is evil and then it STILL wont help the sagginess so... my god!....what can i do? this is the thing on my body i hate most.
There really is nothing you can do. Read this, it'll help you understand - http://www.ayurvediccure.com/breast_sagging_shapes.htm Most of the reason they're sagging is because of age & gravity. Just wear bras all the time, get comfortable ones so you'll want to wear them, and that should help the self consciousness.
ok soo im going to a wedding tomorrow and im going to a hair salon to get it done. any ideas? my hair is medium length w/ long layers.
Well, wedding are pretty dressy. I'd ask for either a curly/wavy look. Here are some examples:
http://tinyurl.com/n947a (thats me, haha)
http://c.myspace.com/Groups/00008/62/95/8645926_l.jpg
http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f334/yaaah222/aubreeeeeyhair.jpg
Yeah, I just think those are so cutee for occasions like weddings, parties, etc. You could also try a curly updo. :]
my mom is sooo annoing with puberty and stuff. she acts all embarresed when i talk about it (which i hardly ever do cause since her behavior it makes me humiliated) and she reminds me of a 3 year old. I told her i had my period and she's like ok put a pad on and then for the last 2 days she has been acting all weird to me. We had like 3 pads left when i first got my first period and that was 2 days ago and i still have my period. So right now i'm on my last pad and i've been wearing it all day cause i'm way to embarresed to ask my mom if she can buy more cause then it will be awkward and the awkwardness is just beginning to wear off from when i told her i got my period. and also i'm extremely embarresed to go to the store and buy pads myself. I have no older siblings and I don't want to ask my dad to do it. Gosh PLEASE HELP HOW CAN I GET PADS??? Please I know this annoys you but: please dont tell me to ask my parents to buy some. Also please dont ask me to buy some cause when i went to cvs and bought acne wash for the first time the employee was trying to hide a smile.
Ah, who cares what employees think. But anyway, since you don't have a pad handy, try something else. Use toilet paper bunched up, put layers of it, then use it as a pad. Or you can try a small washcloth for now. Your period should be over pretty soon, so you won't have to do it for long.
17/f
Haha this is a very strange question but I tend to get hard nipples (when it's cold.. etc) and they show through my shirts. I have tried padded bras (they don't help much) and duct tape (doesn't work at all). It is also quite embarassing if I am wearing a swimsuit and they show through.
How can I stop them from showing.. I don't mind if it is uncomfortable but I do not like having to put on more shirts since it can usually even show through hoodies and what not.
Thanks for your help
I know you probably don't want to buy anything, and just want a simple fix, but I don't know any. I'm sorry, haha. But here's a site with these things you can put over them, they stick on I think, (they're very similar to bandaids, idk if bandaids would cover them that well, but you could try those as well) http://www.lasenza.co.uk/level3.asp?style=74&s=2&category=7&se=Breast%20Daisies&gclid=CJzFlM-87IUCFRioQgodiE8bwg Idk if that helps you, but I tried. Wearing looser shirts in that area might help as well.
i was watvhing the infomercial for sheer cover last night,lol and i thought it looked like it worked good. so anyone who's tried does it work good and is it worth the money?
thanks
Hm, I haven't used it but I looked up some customer reviews. On this site, it was rated basically 4 or 5 stars everytime - http://www.drtv-online.com/health_and_beauty/sheer_cover/ But I researched some more, and on this site there were a lot of 1s, 2s, and 3s. http://www.infomercialratings.com/product/sheer_cover So, you never know. I think as long as you find the product in your skin tone, it'll work fine, because most of the people that rated it low got it a shade too dark, etc.
Well from the last question about my hair I need a shampoo and conditioner that will throw away all the frizziness and dryness without it being expensive but all shampoos and conditioners work the same on my hair but they work different on other peoples hair. I need major help! Thanx
-Anonymous-
Well, conditioners/shampoos don't really take away frizziness. For that you'd have to get a specific hair product used for frizz control, Frizz Ease by John Freida, and Garnier Fructisse Smoothing Milk work so so so good! They're both under 6 dollars, so I'd try at least one of them. You rub the stuff through your hair when you're done showering and it makes allll the frizzies go away, haha & your hair gets very soft. As for shampoo/conditioners for the dryness..I would try V05. My friend has very curly, dry hair and she uses V05 Shampoo & Conditioner. They work great for her, it makes her hair look much healthier, with more volume & shine. :]
Whenever I'm not with my boyfriend I'm happy. And when I'm on my way to see him I think to my self "why didn't I cancel? Why am I going to see him. I don't want to see him!"
But when I do meet him and when I'm with him, I like it and I want to be with him. But then When I have to go I get happy for leaving him!
What's that all about?? Don't I like him? Is it somethig wrong with me??
He might not be the guy for you. And that's fine. Or you might not be sure if you want to be with him or not yet. Most people I know love to see their boyfriends & never want to go home! But you're normal, yes. It could just be nerves (if you've recently started dating). Just try to make the converstaion/whatever you do when you see him more fun, haha. So you'll feel like you want to stay & want to come over next time!
I love my ex boyfriend. He broke up with me about 5 minuetes ago. Im crushed. I dont know what to do. He said we dont have a good connection. I really loved him. I dont know how to get over this. My best friend has a party saturday and hes going to be there. I dont know what to do. Any help??
Aw, that sucks. It going to take a lot of time to heal this. But go to that party, and look really hot, and you know he'll talk to you. Talk to all your friends and stuff, be occupied with other things at the party so that you won't think about him as much & it looks like you're having a blast. When he does come to talk to you, just be casual like "hey", etc. Have fun & I'm sorry.