Okay well, im 13, and my mom and I are pretty close (kinda) I meen I tell her a little about my boyfriend here and there. But I really want to become closer with her, like be able to tell her anything that happens in my teenage life. Im scared what she will say? If she will listen and help me out, or not? What Should I Say?
--Amber--
tell her wut you just posted. im sure she'll be really happy that you want to get closer to her! :)
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I dont know if i should dump my b/f becuz he likes another girl but whenvever i ask him who he likes more he always says yes to me that he likes me more....should i dump him???¿¿¿
yes! if your his girlfriend then you should be the ONLY one he likes.
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Ok, well my friends turned on me at the beginging of this year (7th grade)I have been hanging out with other peeps thati really like. Then all of a sudden this girl marissa imed me on aim and said that since i left they are now the most popular girls in school and i have no style! i to have style. maybe i have to have the RIGHT style. Should i go by what i think or be one of the crowd. and if it do need some "style tips" can any popular/cool 7th grade girls tell me wat would look good. i have brown hair with blonde highlights. i have blue eyes.i a kinda short. i mean, wat kind of clothes r in? am i doing my makeup right?
PLEASE HELP ME
JENNA
ok if they did that to you, you dont deserve them. maybe they're the kind of people who think they're popular, but really not. i bet you have great style, but if you want to know some great places to shop i suggest abercrombie, holister, and bebe. you cant go wrong by shopping there. also if you have dark to medium brown hair you may want to consider getting brownish red colored highlights since going from brown hair with blonde highlights is kinda extreme. for makeup i bet you do that well to, these girls are just trying to bring you down, but if you want to know a great place to go for makeup, go to M.A.C. they have hundreds of colors and they have makeup artits who do you and then you buy the products they do on you, so you cant go wrong there. the last thing i have to tell you is dont let those girls bring you down! i bet your so much better of a person than they are! find some nice girls to hang out with and act like it doesnt even bother you that you're not with them anymore. they're trying to get to your nerves and you cant let them. you just have to ignore them and be happy. hope i could help!
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I started cutting my self about a year, and I just did it to see what it felt like and to maybe finally get some attention from my mom and now I cant stop... its like after every little argument I have with her I have to go up to my room and cut my self or it doesn’t feel right. I have tried to stop and I have even made promise to people but I just don’t know what to do any more it seems like its getting out of control and I don’t want to have to go see a therapist because I don’t know if I could come out and say I have a problem so basically I’m just asking what I should do...?
please go see a thereapist or a phyciatrist! you really need one! i hope things get better for you. good luck!
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 months now, which isnt much, but his birthday is coming up very soon and i dont kno what to get him. What do i get?
I think you should take him to a really expensive and fancy resturant for a romantic dinner and buy him a really nice and expensive cologne.
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hey again, my friend has wavy blonde hair and wants to kno if you kno any good shampoos and conditioners for blondes.
there is another kind of shampoos and conditioners by john frieda for blondes called sheer blonde.
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hey, wut do you reccomend as a good shampoo and conditioner? i have straight thin brown hair.
i have brown hair too. I would recommend using brilliant brunette shampoo and conditioner by John Frieda. hope i could help!
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I HATE MY MOMS BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Every one thinks hes soooooooooo nice but theres just something about him i dont like hes hespanic but my boyfriend is hespanic so im not against hespanics and he was my moms teenage love. I just dont get it i hate him and i told my mom but shes like o shut up u never do anything for me. And that really hurt me. Im crying every night and i cant live with my dad cuz he is always traveling and i feel like dieing. She doesnt get it and my mom was always nice to me but now since she has been dating this guy. She is totally agaisnt me. Its not fair. He claims to "care" for me and my brother but i dont think its true. He thinks that my mom is going to marry him and she said it isnt true but i dont trust her. PLEASE HELP!!! I will rate 5
i am so sorry! first of all tell her exactly how you feel and what's been happening ever since your mom started dating him, and then see what she has to say from her point of view. tell her that she's been acting differently ever since she started dating him. then say that you love her so much and you want the old her back and you've been so uncomfortable since he came into your life. maybe she feels like she needs to have someone like a man by her side so thats why shes so into him. if they just started dating then they probably wont be thinking about marriage for a while. maybe your mom will get over him and everything will go back to normal. also, even though its hard, you may want to have a talk with him. tell him that your just not ready for a new man in ur mom's life and that you want him to understand the way you feel. dont be like oh i hate your guts or anything though. also, how does your brother feel about him? you should also see a guidence counsler at school or from somewhere and talk about this with her. you probably dont want to but you really should. it will make you feel better. then after you talk to one, maybe you could set up an appointment with her, u, and your mom. i hope i could help!
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I have it! I've been useing special shampoo for 3 weeks but it's not helping! Please help!
get an opinion from a couple of different hair dressers. also tell your hair dresser that the one your using doesnt work. make sure when u shampoo to really massage it into your scalp too.
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So Im really starting to develop a thing for a friend of mine, but it gets even worse than that. Im 18m shes 15f its not a huge difference but still. She also has a boyfriend putting me in an even tougher situation. Im also pretty sure she doesnt even think of me in anykind of romantic sense, even if she didnt have a bf. I really dont know what kind of advice to even ask for mostly im jsut venting and seeing what kind of comments/advice im gonna get.
dont say anything about ur feelings for her until she ends her relationship with her current bf. you dont want to be a reason for a bad breakup. when they do breakup, an idea for telling her ur feelings for her could be sending her flowers with a love poem attached. then at the end of the poem write would you like to be my girlfriend and then have yes and no written and write to circle one.
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Ok, My boyfriend and I got in a fight that got misunderstood and now my Boyfriend doesn't want to be with me anymore... I feel awful!! What should I tell him??? He knows it was misunderstanding but he doesn't belive me!! PLZ HELP SOON!!!
tell him exactly what happened from your point of view. then say that you truely love him (if you do truely love him) and that relationships aren't always a smooth road, there are bumps along the way. then say but we have to work through those bumps or else we'll lose everything. being in a relationship means trusting and understanding the other person through the smooth road and the bumps. after that say that you love him so much and you would never want to lose him for anything. when your finished telling him everything, if he doesnt want to stay with you then he obviously doesnt trust you and you should find someone better. hope i could help!
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i think my best friend and i are slowly becoming a person you just say hi to in the hallways. she only hangs out with her other friends and is dumping me for them all the time. what should i do?
you need to tell her how you feel. tell her that you miss not having her around as much as before and that you really want to work things out because shes your best friend and you never want that to change. then give her a chance to talk about how she feels. you never kno, maybe she feels like ur both breaking away too and she really wants to fix that. hope i could help!
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I have a huge problem..im only 13 and weigh 98 pounds but i love to eat!! When i get home from school i eat like a bag of popcorn, some chips, and a salad just to make myself feel better. I excercise but not like a TON. and im healthy ..so whats wrong? I eat breakfast, then a snack, lunch, then a snack and dinner, then dessert. But, when im bored or sad - i eat. even if im not hungry..how do i stop this eating problem ?? =/
how tall are you?
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Im 14 my best friend is 16, we're both sophmores lately shes been annoying me, she has to be perfect in everything or she trys at least, I told her when I was in summer school this guys friend asked me if Id go out w his friend and yesterday she called me and said I talked to him about it I mean shouldnt she be keeping this I tell her to herself and then she doesnt treat me like a best friend, she ingores me and leaves me but when no ones their thats when she talks to me, last is when guys like her or even look at her she keeps saying it over and over like braggin...IS THEIR ANY WAY I CAN TELL HER TO STOP WITHOUT SOUNDING RUDE OR JEALOUS? If so please help me asap! Thanks!
what you need to do is talk to her. its the only way you'll get a straight answer. talk calmly and not screaming or anything. and about how she tries to be perfect, some people are just like that and like to do the best they can at things, so i would suggest not talking to her about that because it might make her think that you dont like her being good at things when all she does is try to be her best. invite her over your house and go up to your room. dont do it online or on the phone because then she could just sign off or hang up. tell her exactly how you feel but dont make it sound like shes the bad guy and DONT be like u think your so great at everything and u try to be so perfect. say something like "the past few weeks i've been feeling a little left out. maybe we could talk and hang out more in school. also next time can you try to keep things i tell you to yourself because i wanted the whole deal about that guy to be private." also make sure you tell her that she is best friend and will always be.
hope i helped!
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Besides identifiable sexual attraction, how can one tell the difference between a crush and great love for a friend? If a friend really wants physical contact with another friend, but not necessarily sex, what is that?
Please answer. I really will rate.
maybe whomever you are talking about does have great love for you, but doesnt want to go as far as sex until marriage. i do also agree that if you really loved someone it wouldnt matter how much you were messing around w/ them, but that only occurs to some people which is fine. others like to save it until marriage. he probably wants to get close to you, mess around w/ you, but just not go to sex. hope i could help!
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ok, problem. theres this guy at my skooL.. he likes me a lot he even told me he loved me. i really like him too! i can't go out with him though.. he had sex when he was 11 and im afraid he'll want that from me and only think about sex. the thing is though i REALLY like him! i mean ive never liked anybody this much before. ive seriously thought about going out with him, even though he is considered a "nerd" but i really don't care what people think. i just dont know if i can go out with him bcuz of the whole sex thing.. what do i do? please if you could help me thatd be great =c) thanx!
well thats pretty dumb to have had sex when hes eleven, i mean most people dont even think about it then, but considering you REALLY like him, you never know, maybe hes changed. i would say go out w/ him. if he starts gettin a lil too close to you and even just mentions sex, no matter what dump him for your sake and dont let him pressure you into anything. if he never mentions sex and goes just as far as u want.. then thats great and probably means that he really does like u. also if he wants u to like take your clothes off or feel you or something like that, then ya hes just using you and definetly dump him then. hope i could help!
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I have a prob. my bf knows how to kiss n wants to kiss me but ive neva kissed any1! i want to kiss him, but...
ok well go out w/ him to like a movie at nite, not mentioning the kiss. then rite when u have to leave, lean in, close your eyes, and kiss him. sry the way im explaining this isnt that detailed, but you'll just kno how to when you do it. its a natural kind of feeling and thing to do that cant really be taught, you'll just kno. hope i could help!
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okie so heres my question
my brothers girlfriend allie
is gonna be 18 on sept 30
and me and her are like bestfriends
and in our school like everyone decorates
lockers when u turn 16 and 18 and i want
to do hers as a surprise but im not sure
how to decorate it and i need some ideas
on what to do so if yas could help id really
like it
Outside of locker - put streamers all around and on a big sign in the middle write HAPPY BIRTHDAY and then her name!!
Inside of locker - have tons of little balloons and then one huge balloon. On the huge balloon u and all her friends write a message to her and sign all your names. Then cut some pieces of paper about the size of an index card and on each one, either type or write something that she likes to do. For example if she was a dancer on one you could write dancer and then make other ones for every other thing she likes to do. Last put up pictures of her w/ you and any of her friends.
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theres this guy who i really like, but im not sure if he likes me back. i kno him a little and he seems to look at me a lot, but maybe thats just me thinking that. anyways how can i tell if he likes me or not?
ok if you have a friend that is going out w/ one of his friends or is good friends w/ him or one of his friends go out to like a movie or somethin w/ ur friend, him, and his friend and get to kno him better. talk to him looking into his eyes because if you dont make eye contact he could think your not really interested in talking to him. flirt w/ him a little, but dont overdue it and smile a lot. ask him open ended questions that he cant just answer w/ a yes or no and listen carefully to what hes saying so that he enjoys talking to you. at the end of the nite say that you had a lot of fun hanging out w/ him and u were wondering he he was interested in doing something again sometime. after you hang out w/ him a couple more times explain your feelings to him, but make sure to do it in person so that you can actually see how he reacts. hope i helped! if u need anything else just put it up here or instant message me
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hi. im 5'6 and i weigh 103 pounds and i know thats not considered alot but i REALLY want to lose a few pounds so i wanna go on a diet where i dont eat anything at all for a few days. i dont know cuz i feel like i might b anorexic and it sux.. help what should i do
go to a doctor please! i think you are anorexic and you need help right now. ok you are not fat so why risk your life by not eating for a few days when you dont need to lose any pounds. just make sure to follow my advice, this is really serious. hope i could help!
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