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HI!I love giving advice to people and I love my violin.I like giving advice to people cause I like talking about problems.So when you have a problem or need help just leave it in my inbox!:)
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doe anyone know the name/artist of the song that goes like this "everythings gonna be alright..rock a bye.." ik its really old but i need it!! i rate (link)
Lullaby by Shawn Mullins:)
*Dont forget to rate*


my friend likes this boy and i think and everyone else think hes gay for example he only had girls as friends and he cares tooooo much of how he looks but hes really cool and everyhting everyone loves him as a friend.but is it weird that my friend likes him? (link)
It is not wierd.Many boys care about how they look.Mabe he only had girls as friends because he realy isnt ready for a relation ship.Dose he flrit with girls more then boys that is one way to tell.Just dont go with what everyone thinks.If you realy cant tell just go up and ask him.

*Good luck*Dont forget to rate:)


okay, so me and my friend ryan met like a year ago i guess.
recently we were talking about relationships and stuff and he told me that he liked me, and i was like i like you to. and we talk and hang out with friends and stuff but he hasnt made a move or anything
does this mean he doesnt like me anymore?
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No.It might just mean that since he told you that he likes you he is a littel shy now to talk to you.Since he isnt making the first move you should.You could plan a date with him just you and him.If he dosnt make the first move you should.

*Good luck*Dont forget to rate:)


how do you get a background on your my space (link)
Go to column settings and click on where it says over here to see the colors you want then type the two colors you want on the two emty boxs below

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f/13. school's pretty much over but i have a one hour day on friday june 24. i like this guy but i'm not sure if i should continue liking him over the summer. but i highly doubt that he would ever like me. last year whne i liked him i got over him during the summer, but then when school started i liked him again. do you think i should continue liking him this summer?

signed, summer lovin' doesn't happen so fast (link)
Just tell him you like him before school is over.It beats thinking about him all summer.If your scared to just go in his face and ask him just write a letter to him.And if he turns you down dont worry because there will be alot more boys in your life:)

*Good luck*Dont forget to rate:)



i have a problem my friends and there parents are calling me a slut and they think that i've already had sex before when i never did!what can i do to show them that im neither of these things?!? please help me!! (link)
Why are they calling you a slut?If you never had sex your not.Stick up for your self.Dont let them talk to you like that.If they call you that they must not realy be your friends.Find new friends because your friends who are calling you a slut are not.If you know your not a slut then your not.Ask your friends why do they think your the slut since your a virgin and there not.You shouldnt let anyone call you that.And just tell them out that you have never had sex.And if they dont belive you ask them to ask every guy you`ve been out with.And if they still dont belive you just forget about them and make better friends>

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I am 13 and female. My crush is 13 and male. I have been having a crush on the same guy since 5th grade. I made it clear that i liked him in 5th and 6th grade, but he clearly told me he liked me as a friend. This year I am going into 8th grade and i still have a crush on him. The only problem is is that he is going out with my best friend, Sarah, and i am going out with another guy, so i could try and stop thinking about him. By the way it did not work at all. Now the guy i like is thinking about breaking up with Sarah, and talks to me everyday. He is my best friend and i am his. We have some of the same problems and have similar interests. Does he like me? What should I do?? (link)
I think he might like you.But you shouldnt go out with him cause how do you think your friend will fill?When your crush breaks up with your friend try to ask her if it would be all right if you could go out with him(tell her your story).Or you could date him secretly.

*Good luck*Dont forget to rate:)


I really like this guy but i dont know how to tell him that i like him. He kinda likes me too.. but i dont know how to tell him...I rate high!!!

love,
how to deal (link)
Just start up a conversation with him and tell him you like him and ask him if he wants to go out with you.

*Good luck*Dont forget to rate(high):)


This guy I know and I have had a really weird relationship...
When he met me, he told me I was fit and was flirting with me for a few weeks. Then he got a girlfriend and forgot that I existed.
The day that he split up with his girlfriend,he came and was talking to me...but I just got a boyfriend so I didn't exist again.
Then, a while after I became single again, his friend asked me out. I said yes, but during the VERY short "relationship", this guy paid more attention to me than my boyfriend did. Got dumped by said boyfriend...
Then this guy started flirting like hell with me again. I got off with him once (drunk), and now I don't exist again.
What is WITH this guy? (link)
To me it sounds like he likes you.But when him or you are going out with someone he just forgwets you or when your going out with someone it makes him mad so he forgets about you.Just try to ask him why is he acting like that>

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Ok here it is, my boyfriend hasent called me in like 3 weeks and i called him 3 times in the past week and he hasent returned my calls. When i called him last Sunday to tell him somthing his mom pick up and i asked for him and she said "who is this Brittney" (My name is not Brittney) I have no clue what to do!!!!! Can you help me? (link)
Well mabe he is cheating on you.You should breake up with him before he breaks your heart.You have evidence:
1.He hasnt been returning your calls
2.When his mom piced up the phone she called you Brittney
Or mabe thats a relative of his and she is use to brittney calling.

*Good luck*Dont forget to rate:)


well i was walking home from school and an old man came up to me he groped me so i punched him in his nose it was the first thing that came into my head,and it started bleeding he told me he was going to press charges what should i do? (link)
He shouldnt even being the one to press cgarges you should.It was self deffence.Have you told your parents?he might hav wanted to get you scared.If you havent told your parents you should he might do it agin.Next time dont walk home alone.

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i am in skool right now and my friends are next to me. they got an e-mail that has a song on it, they are singing along and won't shut-up! how do i gewt themn to shut up?! now they are also dancing, even the teacher says they should shut up (IN NICE WORDS) and now i am going to kill them! wtf, they won't sahut the f***ing up! (link)
Just tell to shut up.But if you dont wanna lose your friends ask them nicely or secretly ask the teacher to move you or sperate them.

*Good luck*Dont forget to rate:)


my friend genesa is soo stubborn once she gets angry shes on mute and she gives them the devil's eye and turns people against you even if you give her a billion apologies she won't budge!???? (link)
You shouldnt even be her friend if you gave her so much apoliges and she still dosent forgive you.And she shouldnt even be turning people aginst you it is her and your argument not everyones argument.You shouldnt even be her friend if she acts that way.

*Good luck*Dont forget to rate:)


I am datin this guy but he checks out all these other girls and today he was like (name) has a nice butt.Then he was like man look at them titties and it makes me so mad what should I do?


sign,
confused (link)
You should dump him.If hes not focosed on anyone but you then you shouldnt even be going out with him.And he`s a stupid and the dump part is he would say it infront of you.So you should just forget about him and dump him.


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MY FRIEND IS ON DRUGS NOW HE TOTALLY RELYS ON IT he thinks its impossible to get off it he does pot and alcohol and HE CUTS HIMSELF HOW CAN I HELP HIM?! (link)
You need to get him help.There is no way you can help him you should have helped him in the beging.You should get him helpnow before he dose somthing realy dangouros.


*Good luck*dont forget to rate:)


My best friend since Kindergarden is acting really weird. i think it's her mom. Her mom really bashes people and says mean things about them.

Well, we have "popular" girls at our school. And I like them, I really do, and I hang out with them

Well my best friend is saying I am only friends with them to get popular. And it's not true. She also never calls, acts weird around me, and said she couldn't come to my party for a dumb reason. Her mom also said something nasty about me, and my other best friend. Please help me.
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Well it might not her more.Mabe she thinks that you care about being popular then realy being her friend.Try to spend more tie with her and settel your argument.And if it is cause of her mom mabe you need to ask her mom to stop saying all those rude things about you cause she has no right or you could ask your friend to talk to her mom when yall settel your argument.


I hopeeverything works out dont forget to rate:)


Ok et me see how I can make this short. I have this bestfriend and he is so sweet! I mean I liked him since the first day I saw him. But He didnt know. come to find out on the last week of school he likes me to! So we dated for two days. Then I broke up with him. IT was hard to date him bc if fellt like my brother. And I mean I didnt like his reputation. So I broke up with him. Therewas 3 days left of school and everyone and him told me he was gonig to move to his grannies house to go to the same Highschool as me and live closer to me bc I moved. And i Just feltso bad. So on the last day I planned to tell hiM I was sorry and I wanted him back. Ididnt go the last day bc I moved. It sucked! well yesterday I talked to him on the phone and I found out hes going out with one of his ex gfs and he got her pregnant again. So I still wanna tell him but now I dont ant him to leave her. What should I do? plz I rate so high if yo even just give me a short answer Ill give you a 3-5 plz!


help!!!!!!

signed
~M~I~S~C~E~L~L~A~N~E~O~U~S~ (link)
Are you sure you wanna date him agin after he got his ex preganet AGAIN.I would wanna be friends with him if I where you.But if you realy wanna go out with him I think you should be very carefull of what you do.


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my guy friend is having trouble with this and if im more informed, i can help him out a bit more. well he has this gf, kelly, who is a good friendof mine and i got them together. theres this girl who is kelly's friend, bernie, who is always clinging onto kelly (almost like she likes her...) and so this guy cant pull her aside to kiss her. theyve been together for 4 months and for some reason kelly isnt being very nice to the guy...she doesnt want to hang out for dumb reasons and she thinks theyre going to fast when they barely hold hands, she never calls him or does anything sweet for him. before we thought it was pms but its been going on for a reallllly long time. (poor guy.."i didnt think it was supposed to last this long") he really loves her and i dont know what to say to either of them. any tips? (link)
well if kelly is acting like that mabe the guy should dump her.By the way she is acting she shouldnt even be going out with him

*Hope the edvice helps*


Ok my boyfriend is turning 13 and i really love him and he loves me but hes birthday is coming up and i wanna get him a good gift any ideas?

ill rate 5's



hes not really into sports or anything like that but hes not a skater (link)
You could:
Buy a gift certifercit to a place he likes
Buy him a dvd or video
Buy him close(if he is intrested in it)
A CD that he realy likes
Just find him somthing he realy wants.


how do i get these gurls that hate me and want to beat me up to be my friend again!! and im scared to even go up to them because they are tougher than me please help me!!!! i rate high if your answers are good! (link)
Instead of talking to them you should get a grown up to get you and those girls to settel your argument.And so you know those girls aree realy your friends have grown-ups around you for a few days(so they wont do anything to you):)


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