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Hey everyone. My name is Bianca and I am here to actually help you. I've delt with alot of stuff with school friends family and relationships and so much more. And so I think I can really help people. I guess you can all me The Dr. corny I know but hey its true.



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E-mail: queenbianca2004@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
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Age: 16
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Member Since: June 9, 2004
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Last Update: August 11, 2008
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Hey my friend said this to me the other day:
My boy friend and I and having fun together and well when i give him a hand job he is satified but i haven't really given him HEAD yet.

What does hand job and HEAD mean? I'll rate 5 for the first 3 answers!!!

Ok head is when you put your mouth on his wang hand job iswhen you use your hands.

Bianca

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hey boys this is ilovepink101..well im in the 8th grade and i need advice from the boys..
ok theres this guy i like his name is garrette..and i told him i liked him a couple of weeks ago..and he just totally started acting alot nicer and flirting..ALOT!!and i always wanted to ask him if he like me..but you know im kinda shy..but im the kinda gurl that i dont care what people think about me and my realationships..but garrett is a whole diffrent story..he cant go outr with girl like me because im not a jock or a prep..and he carse what his friends say about me..and i dont know what to do..so a coulple of days agao i told him ilkied him..and he said i know!i wasnt suprised..but im like do you like me..and hes said no..so heres my question..!!
he always touches me and puts his hands down my shirt and he gave me a kiss on the cheek and he just always FLIRTS WITH ME ALWAYS!!and i want to know if this sounds like he liks me..but he said that were just friends with benefits!!but i think he likes me!!and do you think i shouild sit around waiting for him evn though he dont supooslvley"dont like me"????i rate 5's on anyone..i just need help..helllllllllllllllllllllllllpppppppppppp!!
love always,
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette

stop waiting around! tell him how you really feel!!! stop being afriad whats the worst he can do Bridgette say no!! I love you too much to see you hurt!!

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Well today this kid liked me who wus hottt nd well he said he wus gonna sk me out to muh cuz then well mi friend likes him to i think she talked to him nd now hes like idk if im gonna ! it makes me sad wut should i do???

Well I know it sounds silly but who called 'dibs' first? Meaning who said he liked him first? Youll need to talk to your freiends and tell her how you feel. And as for the guy, its all in his ballpark now. But if he told you he liked yo he should stick to his word. A good way to get this off your mind is to go play outside or go talk to your friend but dont bring it up bc it will just make you sad. I hope I helped you....


BiAnCa

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hi there, me again, the guy i slept with, we have spoken but nothing about what had happened, this was like, last week sometime, and his sister has invited me to a party, where i know he will be ther, do i go or not? tell me as it is tonight
thank xx

Well if this guy you slept with is there and he wont talk to you then let it be. But dont let him ruin your time bc you can still have fun without him. So go have fun!!!


Bianca

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Well im 13/f and i weigh 105 or 110 i was wondering if i was the right weight or not and if im not then how much should i wiegh im worried!! Help me pleaze!! Bye bye!!

Is a the exact weight your supposed to be at! My sister is the same. Its all god. Hoep i HELPED

bIANCA

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Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex and i bled on him, we thought that it was jusy my period coming because i am late...but it wasnt my period. He said that it could be possible that i contracted a std from my previous relationship or i could be pregnant. Im not sure what to do or what to believe~Im going crazy because i dont have anyone to talk to about this and if i do have a std he'll probably leave me...and i dont think that i would want to live without him; i'll be better off commiting suicide.

He could be right. But he can be wrong. you could of just popped your cherry. Or mabye he went to deep bc it can make t=you bleed. But to be sure. Talk to your mom and get her to take you to the docter. I hope I helped


Bianca

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alright, my pubic hair has grown outside of my bikini line and it's really noticable whenever i wear a bathing suit... what could i do to get rid of it besides shaving or waxing??? please help, it's like really really embaressing...
~mandy

Well there are two ways it wont hurt you. You know those shavers men use to make there heads bald..... you can ise that and it dont hurt at all. and no rashes. Or you can use a cream product. Like Nair. It will be red for a couple of minutes but it goes away. Now if you dont find a pubic remover lotion then you can use the kind for your face. BUT YOU HAVE TO BE VERY VERY VERY CAREFUL!!!!!!!!!!!! Because if not and you get it in you puss then it will burn soooo bad.! So I hoep I helped you


Bianca


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Ok i dunno what this would go under and alot of people look here so... I wanna know how to my face clean like no pimples or blackheads like what are some products or things i should do?? Thanks

There are so many thimgs you can do. First make sure you have a facial cleanser and wash your face with it twice a day. Neutrogina is good and they have one that prevents acne. Use blackhead strips. I suggest you get the Biore strips. And anpother good product would be is Clean and Clear or Clearasle. Or you can go to the dematoligist and get prescribed ones. Thats what I do. I hope I helped


Bianca

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I keep having these sexual fantasies where I'm sexually dominated - the guy hits me or forces me to have sex; mostly, they revolve around rape. These are my most frequent fantasies. I'm a very strong-willed girl in my actual life, and what I can't get is, why is this the most surefire way to turn me on? Would this scare guys? (I've never had a boyfriend). Am I a sadist?

I wouldnt call you a sadiist. Your more a dominatrix. If you dont know what it means its someone wh likes to recive painful sex or give it. It uses alot of whips and handcuffs or even pretend rape. I am the same way. My mom says I am going to become one and I think I will to one day. And some guys like it and some dont. You really have to find a guy that does bc it would be aquard with someone who doesnt. I hope I helped


Bianca

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my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and we're both religious and waiting for marriage before we have sex. recently we've been really open and getting comfortable with eachother. we've been talking about sex a lot on the phone, not us doing it, just positions and what feels good. last weekend I jerked him off, and afterwards I got really upset. then yesterday we had dry sex. it was just like the real thing just with our pants on. After every time we do that stuff we promise eachother we won't do that again, but everytime we're in a bedroom it happens. Please help I'm so upset & disappointed in myself and it's so hard to not do these things with him cause I trust him so much. But we're only teenagers and I dont want to do it, plus its against my religion. He never forces me to do anything, I just do it... help =[

Ok this a big horomones thing. And I mean sometimes you cant help it. I mean I myself have had dry sex. I didnt plan it it just happened. So I think if you wanna stop you might wanna stay out of your room. Or tell him if you wanna do it tell him to stop you or if he does then you stop him. I know its hard but you'll have to try and hold it in. I hope I helped


Bianca

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Ok, my friend is really shy about everything. Like making out, holding hands, etc. Is there any way he can be less shy with girls? Thanks!

Well he is probably in confident about himself. Thats how I get when I first start dating a boy. I get quiet and shy. You need to tell him its ok to hold hands and kiss. I mean its HIS girlfriend and if she dont like him to kiss or hold hands then she dont need to be his girlfriend. I also think he needs to atleast try and kiss her or shell breakup with him for being boaring. I hope I helped and I wish the best of luck for your guy friend


Bianca

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ok i had asked a question this morning buti have to say something else that i need advice on that happened tonight...

ok well i just gto home from a party and this guy tommy asked me to have sex with him and i said no and he called me a tesse and alot of other guys called me a tease b/c i wouldn't let them do ne nasty stuff to me the tommy took me into a room and put duck tape on my mouth and then un zipped his pants and mine...and then he took the rest of my cloths off and made me stand on the bed naked he was just lookin @ me...then he fingered me and raped me and he told me that if i told ne one that he would do it agian and kill me...there was no way for me to go b/c hes a football wresaler and really strong...by the way im 16 and he was 18...i don't want to tell neone because hes on of my moms ex boyfriends son and she treats him like a son and i would never think that he would do nething like that...HELP what should i do?

First dont let him tell you he will kill you. Because he reaped you. And he will try and say you asked for it bc you were a tease. Dont let him. If you say no then he should of stopped. Listen if you dont tell ne one he will keep doing it. Also you HAVE HAVE HAVE TO TELL YOUR MOM. If not he will keep on. And you need her to take you to the doctor!!! asap. He could of really hurt you. I know your sacred and think he will kill you but he wont! He will be in Jail with a quart order befor he even comes near you. You have to stop this now . Please tell your mom this isnt right and that bastard needs to go to jail. Remeber you didnt do anything wrong. It doesnt matter how you dressed or acted or if you were a tease be cause you said no and he didnt stop. I hope you make the right choice! go to the doctor tomorrow with your mom the sooner you go the faster they cant test to prove he did it. Please dont hesitate. I hope to hear from you soon. Plese e-mail me any time Keep In Touch.



Whats you name?

queenbianca2004@yahoo.com


always,
Bianca

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ok if someone is pregnent how soon would morning sickness kick in? and do all women get morning sickkness? do most women get morning sickness by the time they are 2 weeks pregnent?

Well diffrent people hjave diffrent side effects. Some get mornibg sickness right away or in two weeks. But its most likely to come in the first week of ppregnancy.Im pretty sure all pregnant women get sick. Well I hope I hel;ped you







Bianca

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Hey i am 13 and i live in australia. So when me and my boyfriend talk, he always looks at my lips and mouth...its kinda weird..i dont reli care about it but its just..weird...>

Hes probably admiring you and wanting to make out with you and kiss you. Next time he does it lay a big kiss on him!!!!!! lol


Bianca

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im sure you probally have heard this question many times before but what do people usally use when they shave down "there"? like razor or wax? i would really appreciate any helpful answer, thanks

It depends really if you care for pain. You can shave but if your not careful you can vut yourself of if you dont have ebnough soap and water you get bumps or rashes. If you wax it lasts longer but it hurts really bad. There is one way to get good trim w/ out rashes and hurt. You know those shavers me use to shave there haeds bal. Get on if those it can trim your hair or it can cut it off. No bumps & no hurt. I hope I helped


Bianca

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what is a dildo.? i would appreciate any helpful answers!

Its a womans best friend and a mans worst enemy. its a toy for girl in the shape of a guys wang. Now dont get it mistaken for a vibrator bc its the same thig but it vibes. Dildos dont.


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ok i have a few questions..

what store can i find a vibrator at?
(or a dildo..etc..)
about whats its price range?

will they let 13 year olds purchuse these kind of things?

any advice on how i can purchuse these things with out my parents knowing?
if it helps: 13/female thanks for any help i can get! i rate!

You can buy it at porn stores or spencors in the mall.

Because your 1 you arnt allowed yet. you have to be 18. Tje only way you can get one is if an adult buys one for ou.

If you have any adult close friends ask them to buy it for you.

Prices go from like 13-30 dollars or more or ess depending on the brand or how well it works or what it comes with ect. Hope I helped


Bianca

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well I was going with this guy and i had stayed after school and I had told my parents that I was staying for tutoring but I was really staying with him we made out but then all of a sudden he grabbed my hand stuck it in his pants I told him I didn't want to but then he let my hand go and then you know what happend I gave him a hand job I felt really bad I stil do cause you know I have parents what should I do

Its hard to forgive yourself sometimes because you felt it was wrong. But you cant change the past. But I suggest ou dont tell you parents if you ever want to be trusted again. But nextime if you dont want to do something dont feel pressured and dont do it.. Im sorry your feeling bad but you can aways talk to your friends to let out your feelings. I hope I helped you


Bianca

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whats dry sex? i think i know what it is. but i wanna be sure... thanks.

Its when you do it out of the blue and your not really that horny

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wut does it mean to "eat a girl out" ?

If you dot know what it means then you problbly to young to understand it. Sorry



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