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hello! im kristen yes i am a cheerleader and i am not a snob, brat, whatever you wanna call it so you shouldnt be haten i will answer anything and everything that i can and im not rude about any probs so dont be shy. i hate when people judge me, my friends or anyone so please dont judge me.

~love~*always*
~*kristen*~
Gender: Female
Location: kansas city missouri
Age: 14
Member Since: February 4, 2005
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Last Update: November 10, 2005
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well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 months then all of asudden he says he wants to take a break. i asked him why and he said we need to live our lifes. what do you think he ment by that? (link)
ok i think what he ment was he wants to see other people because u only get to live once i dont my bf said that once i mean my x that turned gay but im sure he will come back dont worry love*kristen*


hi im really confused because me and my boyfriend got into this really big fight and its all because he thinks i like this other boy and i kinda do but i dont wanna hurt him by dumping him because i really like him two and theres these to other boys i also like so this makes four boys that i like i dont wanna like that many but i cant help it there all soooo hot i only want one tho what can i do to try to just like one boy??? (link)
well you cant control who you like so i just say follow your heart love kristen


hi im cait and 5 boys like me and half of them are cheating on thier girlfriends (which are a few of my closest friends) and keep calling me and flirting with me and all that stuff that boys do when they like you and i dont want any of my friends to get hurt and i dont want all theses boys cheating on my friends what should i do??? (link)
talk with your friends and tell them that threr bf are cheating on them. if they think your just jeluos tell them that your being totally serouis
hope ive help love kristen


Okay V-day is coming up and I have yet to find some good V-day sweets. I have searched the internet but its hard to find a recipe that is unique and out of the ordinary. I love to bake but I don't feel like cakes/cookies this year. I want to make a treat that will be remembered.
I was thinking of doing suckers but I decided I didn't want too. I have a cool recipe that you take Large marshmellows and dip them in candy chocolatte and put sprinkles on them. Everyone loves it but I wanted something new. Any ideas?
Any answer will be a help.
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i love to test things so i think you should just follow your heart and create somthing


I'm really upset. I just recently tried out for Grease. And I don't think I got in. And I think the only reason why is because the director couldn't read my e-mail address. I think I did good because the man I sang to for my audition said I did excellent. I am wondering should I e-mail the director? She didn't send out all the cast things yet but it's just not fair that she is sending out roles on different days. What should I do? (link)
i say you e-mail them and ask if you got in or not if not oh well you could probley do better anyway im sure you did get in and they just made a mistake from *kristen* p.s i love to sing to


I broke up with my boyfriend because he was slacking off on his school work and getting in trouble. But other than those things, I still really like him. I can't get over him! Today we hung out and had a lot of fun. I think want him back but I'm scared to ask. And what about the reason I broke up with him in the 1st place? Has anyone got any ideas on what I should do?
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ok thoes in my opinon arent really good reasons to break up with a guy but if you say so you should tell him that you still have feelings for him and explain why you broke up with him in the first place and maybe hell change good luck from *kristen*


My friend just "decided" to like the same guy that I do. I didn't go out and tell her that I like him before, but it was really obvious (i.e- everyone was telling us to go out, we were flirting a lot) Now today, she decided she can't figure out who to like, but she thinks she's going to go with the person I like, and she was crying like some little kid at the end of the day because she doesn't know what to do and.. Do I have a right to be mad at her?? I mean, now, if he ever asked me out, I couldn't say yes, because a friend is more valuable than a boy. (link)
same thing is happening to me right now my best friend is dateing a guy im totally in love with and she knew that i liked him i say you talk with her about it and try to tell her how you feel and if that doesnt work try to be happy for her if she does date him thats what im doing
from *kristen* p.s yes you do have the right to be a littel mad


ok my best friend is dateing this guy that iu so totally had first and he kissed me and held my hand and then all of the suddenhe likes my best friend when i see them together i get so sad and she keeps on saying oh i will dump him and then she doesnt what should i do by lost and forgotten (link)
ok i say you tell your friend how you feel and hopefully she will understand


ok it all started one saturday when my moms friend neede a babysitter! I am grounded and i am not allowed to leave the house. But i really neede the money. MY lil sister got offered to babysit the next Saturday. She is only 10 and i am 15. I was soooo mad at her 4 doin that to me. She made a face at me like she was proud that i didn't get to babysit. Should i hate her and ignore her? I needed the money to raise for a car. I have always wanted a car. should i try and be as rude as possible or just get over it. Since my sister gets $50.00 for 5 hours! Please help me! (link)
ok it sounds like your ethier jeelous or your being selfish you should be happy that your little sister finnaly gets to be like you in some ways dont be mean to her and act like it dont bother you or shell just doit again from kristen


This person Ive been thinking of constantly is becoming one of my best friends. I think I like him because when I'm with my friend hes all I think about and i get this weird feeling when I'm around him. Valentines Day is coming up. I think I'm going to ask him if he wants to go out with me the day before but I'm wondering...What do I do if he says no? I dont wanna look like a moron or start crying or anything.. (link)
well just say ok thats cool like nothing happend and if he dont want you dont act dessprate act like you dont care and find someone else


I am 16/f and my boyfriedn and I are planning to get married when I am 18, My bf is 21, but my mother said she wont except this marriage as i am too young and have to finish my education first. I dont want to hurt my mother as she is very upset. But i am absolutely in love with my bf and so is he. We are totally sure about this marriage. What should I do? (link)
your faimly and education comes first so you should ask your bf to hold the marrige off untill your mother excepts it and if he wont then he isnt right for you and if you dissobay your mother she could be mad for life but i guess she could get over it?from kristen


i have some friends named elizabeth kirsten chandler and kate. kirsten is jelous of elizabeth elizabeth is jelous of kate and chandler is jelous of everyone but mostly kate. i have no clue wat to do. please tell me b/c its driving me insane there like pulling me 4 diffrent ways!!!!! (link)
try to explain to your friends that you just cant take the naging and if that doesnt worktake a breake from your friends and have a realaxing day with your mom dad sibling but try not to sweat this ok i hope i have help from kristen


I have really really wavy hair and I was wondering how to straighten it and keep it straight for the day without drying it out or causing it to break or start dandriff. Any suggestions? (link)
you can just im brittany at cheerlead4giants if you have any questions about it hope i helped more


What do you do if you like this one guy lets say his name is Brian but he has a girlfriend and at lunch time he comes and sits next to me and talks to me when he could talk to 5 other grls and he always is flirting with me.Do i tell him i like him? Help!!!!!!! E-mail me at TexashotT04@aol.com if you would like!! thanks (link)
ok i had the exact same problem i say you tell him how you feel and see how it goes from there because i didnt tell the guy i liked how i felt and he kissed me and the next thing you know hes dateing my best friend so you do whats in your heart girl from kristen p.s good luck


should you do something you know(or are almost absolutely sure) you are going to regret? (link)
no because you will probley never forget it and if it will hurt you or make your friend s un sure about stuff then dont my friend did stuff she regrets and she is so messed up now in fact were not even friends any more


my friends are always asking me to do stuff but not together like they all want me to do something with them sepratley. i never no witch one to choose i just want to hang out with all of them but they kinda don't get along wat do i do? (link)
i say you get all your friends together and talk with all of them about it and see if they really do wanna be friends and hang out all together because if you have friends that dont get along that could be pretty bad so try to talk with them from kristen


What if you think your falling for your best friend and its not a guy and you know she BI do u tell her how you feel? or what Help i kno this sounds gay but please help!! (link)
there are always some what if's in everyone's life now before u tell her how you feel think about if you really like her because once you have told her you like her its hard to take it back so try to think but if your sure go ahead and tell her because the sooner you tell her the sooner you will get this off your head from kristen


ok well my name is ashlee.. and im in the big junior high my first year and it sucks beacuase there are so much gossip and yesterday i was tied down with a bigg roomer..and i skipped school today i know it sounds weird but i did bc i like lost all my friends yesterday bc this boy named alex wrote a note saying i said bad stuff bout my 2 so called best friends..maddy and sonisha and its gotten worse and we were all suppose to go to the movies today and im just feelin rele bad.. AND I DIDNT DO ANYTHING and i swore up and down i didnt it sucks i dont know what to do..bc i have like no friends cause they're all believeing sonisha and maddy and alex..i need some help on what to do i mean im crying cause of this=( and i skipped school today cause of this... i need some help please help me=(
signed..lonesome child (link)
alright were do i begin. ok now you need to be caolm about this and try apologizeing even though you didnt do anything because if you say they mean this much to you it shouldnt matter if you did anything there your friends and i know what your thinking no im not apologizeing they should aplogize to me but reakky think about it dont let some one who is jelous ruin ur school year from kristen


Yesterday I saw my friend smoking, so today I hoped to stop her from getting addicted or doing it again. I asked her if she tried smoking yesterday (rumours were going round she had too) and she acted as if it was a joke, said no and kept trying to change the conversation. I know she has told other friends. However, she does know I am strongly against smoking and she has in the past told me that she was too. How will I get her to terms with what she has done and stop her from ever doing it again? She seems to ruin her life at any opportunity- in the past she has been a cutter, anorexic and bullimic. Please help! (link)
ok i have had a friend just like that and i told her that i wouldnt be mad if she just told me the truth so try convinceing her that you wont be mad but you really wanna know and just tell her that smoking and cutting doesnt help.
please take any advice you can get but please remeber your friend needs you

from kristen


well im going out with this kid that is rude to my best friend but she is really rude to him to and whenever im with him my friend always starts with him and my friend thinks hes totaly rude and wants me to dump him but i dont want to cu i like him alot and she is really mad at me cuz i wont dump him cuz he is rude to her what should i do??? (link)
ok girl i say you try to talk with your friend and your boyfriend about this problem and see how they both react and if that doesnt work explain to your friend that he means alot to you but always remeber your friends will always be here boys come and go
from kristen




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