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okay first of all let me just say that whoever the hell wrote all of those nasty comments about your thighs being too big or your nose being too high need to get over themselves. you go to my school so i've seen you around and you are so gorgeous justine...i think its so awesome how you are confident with your body and who you are because in a life like this with all of the "models too look up to" its hard. i don't know how you do it, but i admire you for that.
anyway, i have this best friend and she seems to be having moodswings alot lately...like one minute she will be all happy and ine with me but then the next she will make a joke out of something i do that bothers her. at first i just kind of blew it off and laughed at it because i realized i was being stupid, but its not like i can take any of it back and i dont like how she randomly calls me annoying or calls me out on something i do wrong. when i tried confronting her about it it turned into a fight. later i tried explaining to her that if i came across as rude i didn't mean it like that at all blah blah blah but she still does it. she is one of my best friends and i love her to death...i just don't understand why she can't be happy with me.
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thank you, that's really one of the nicest things some one has said to me, you are really a very sweet person.
about you friend.. i know you said that you've talked to her about it .. and that did not turn out too good.
next time that she does this, right there.. just be like why did you say that?
this might be a stage she's going through or maybe she's trying to tell you something.
I had a friend that used to do that to me .. and it made me feel like she thought she was better then me. and i hated that feeling. so i just called her out on it, we were in public and i was like why are you doing this?! you act like my best friend one sec. then the next you are my worst enemy. i can not stand it.
well, it turns out she didnt change and i just moved on, because i was not going to be friends with some one who treated me like crap.
i would talk to this friend, one last time. and tell her she's got to stop doing this or else you'll have to stop being such good friends for a while. and see if see changes
best of luck, let me know what happens ♥
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i am very fair skinned and so i do not tan naturally- i burn. well i've tried lots of different sunless tanning products in sprays, lotions, and foams in all the brands pretty much and i can't ever seem to accomplish an even tan. are there any tricks? thanks! (link)
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i'm very fair too, and those lotions just turn me orange. i tan in a tanning bed. i start in march then i stop when summer comes. but summer i am tan'ish and i'll tan in the sun. you might want to think about that for next summer.
but for now i would just use a high spf oil. and just reapply it a lot of your outside a lot and if you burn a little either put on a higher one or go inside for a while.
best of luck ♥
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Ok, well i have medium length, kinda thin, layeredish,side bang, side parted, brown hair. I never really do anything with my hair. mainly i keep it down or i put it up. is there anything easy i can do? or is there any sites that i can find hairstyles on?
PLEASE HELP!!
kailyn (link)
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you hair kind of sounds like mine. what i do is some nights after i take my shower i let my hair dry a little bit then i put some gel in it and i french braid it or have a family member help. then i sleep with the french briads in my hair and let it dry like that. then when i wake up i take them out and my hair is curly, and looks really cute.
seventeen has a lot of cute ideas:
http://www.seventeen.com/beauty/hairguide/0,,,00.html
you can just look in mag. too!
&hearts'
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Hey. My mom won't let me buy tanning oil because I'm fair, but my arms have a little tan. She says I will burn wayyy easy. I saw one with spf 15, but she still wouldn't let me get it. Are their any tanning oils with a higher spf than 15? If there are one's with higher spf , will it be the same as using sunscreen lotion? Thanks, i rate 5's (link)
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if i were you i'd use just lotion for right now, with spf 15 or something to get a little tan. and half way through summer i would start to use oil. i have very fair skin as well. so i start tanning in a bed in March then by summer i am tan already. so i dont burn badly at all. it works very well. so maybe you can thank about that next summer.
so start off with the lotion then go to oil. or do lotion and oil. like use a spf 30 lotion and a oil with nothing in it. that's just an idea.
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ok so justine. this is erica (trofa) and i saw one of your comments
okay, i worked on me so called self esteem problems and i came to this conclusion.
at least i dont sneak on the computer when i'm still grounded from making a o video.
oh snap. you hurt me real bad.
not.
those videos got over 3,000 comments. and got put onto a porn site.
so maybe my body isnt that bad.
so why dont you just tell me who you are, or are you to afraid to speak your mind?
that one...and uhh well...this kind of sounds dumb and all but did u like make a porno? cuase thats really weird. get back to me
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haha no not at all.
samm and i made a video making fun of Lauren Tilly. and my mother found it online. and she gets all mad at me and stuff. and this person thinks that they are really cool about calling it a porno. and it was no where close to being one.
this person is pretty lame, but it's very funny.
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i saw this kid from my old school (a year younger than me) at a private school dance a while ago and now i found out that he goes to an all guys school near mine. i really really like him but i dont no how to approach him, there arent any more dances. i found out that he goes to my friends church so i might go with her next week haha, but i have no idea what to say to him if i ever get the chance. i cant just be like umm i like you, ive havent talked to him like ver that i can remember. im pretty sure he knows who i am though. please help! thanks (link)
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go to church and accidently run into him. start talking be like "oh hey! i havent talk to in you in a while how are you ." blah blah blah."well i've got to go, do you have a screen name or a cell # so we can talk later and catch up?" then you'll exchange numbers. and then start talking to him. and see if you really do like him. and if you do tell him. but wait until you've been talking for a week or so. then be like .. wow, i am so happy you and i ran into eachother, i really like you. and see what he says. if he's like i feel the same way about you, then thats great. but if he's like i like you only as a friend then be like .. well then lets just be friends. i hope everything works out for you!
best of luck ♥
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Oh em gee! My names Jimmy. One of my BFF didn't invite me to her graduation party. What do I do?! What do I do if I have a crush on this girls ounger sister? I'm SOOOO confused. (link)
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well jimmy, i am sorry that this girl did not invite you to her party, you should try talking to her about it. and about the sister, i have no idea what to do about that ;)
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okay soo everyone knows that its summer. but i dont have any cute suits and the ones i like are like $90 bucks and i cant afford that. where can i get really cute suits for a affordable price?
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target.
target has really cute ones and some are on sale. they are so adorable. ilove them.
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Hey. I'm 13/F NewJerseyI know this may seem stupid. but i cannot stand freaking "popular" people. i have an advice collumn, and everyday i have a different message in my inbox from them like "stop being jelous of the popular people" or "why dont you wear preppy clothes and dress like everyone else? you'll never be popular if you don't." and i sware im not jealous, and i wear all the same clothes they do. why do they think there the best? there really not that great. and i know im not a loser, so why do they call me one? they are all extremely mean, and full of themsleves. i dont want to be friends with them, but is there any way i can make them stop this? i really cant take it anymore and its really lowering my self esteem. pleaes i need help as soon as i can get it! thank you so so much!
love always.
oh bye the way if you are one of the popular people at your school, i'm really sorry im not being steriotypical and saying all popular poeple are like that. so please dont take this the wrong way! (link)
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i really have no idea. but don't let them get to you. honestly. wear what you want. be who you want. if they thinky ou are trying to be them.. then they arent worth your time. for real.
and the whole talking trash over advicenators.. is real sad. if they are going to talk, they should say their name!
i am really sorry they are being so rude to you. just try to ignore them. they'll move on sooner or later!
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okay, i worked on me so called self esteem problems and i came to this conclusion.
at least i dont sneak on the computer when i'm still grounded from making a o video. (link)
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oh snap. you hurt me real bad.
not.
those videos got over 3,000 comments. and got put onto a porn site.
so maybe my body isnt that bad.
so why dont you just tell me who you are, or are you to afraid to speak your mind?
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really, your happy with your body? your like, 5 foot, and you have huge thighs. not to mention your nose is like, up to the max. I wouldnt want to be around you when you sneeze. or wear skirts, due to you wearing 5 inch skirts. and having a flat chest and wearing like 3 inch padded bras. boob implants are good!
this is my last comment to you, you suck at advise. (link)
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we apparently you have a low selfestem.
yes, i am , for the most part, happy with my self.
and i am sorry you are not happy with me, please. let me know what ever i did to you.
advicenatorts isn't ment for you to leave me hate comments, it's for people with problems.
maybe you need to work on your self estem.
then come back
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hey, i've been thinking about getting a nose job, and i'm 14, but my parents would definately pay for it, just i dont know if its alright for my age. I know you also might be wanting a nose job ( YOU CAN SEE UP YOUR NOSE! ) so what surgeon would you suggest? (link)
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oh dang your too nice. not
i am not thinking about a nose job because 1) i am only 14. 2) i have became happy with my body and 3) you wouldnt be able to get it now.
you have to get them when your body stop growing, or else you'd get a small nose. and after paying that much money .. i dont think you'd want a small nose.
you really should just be happy with your body, for real. a fourteen year old wanting a nose job .. come on!
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My hands sweat constantly, and it's very embarrassing. Are there any ways that I can stop them from sweating so much? Is there a medicine or something? (link)
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This happens to so many people, it's just a hormon thing.
you can go to your doctors, and ask them. there are pills for it.
my friend puts babypowder on your body when she gest out of the shower, and it helps her from not sweating, you can try this.
best of luck ♥
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sorry dont know what catagory this was. this is kind of embarssing. im a 13/f. i've been on my period for 2 years. and after first period was over i took off my pad and in a couple of hours i'd have moist on my underwear. i dont think its pee. so i keep a pad on all the time. i have to buy pads all the time. i told my mom once. she said it was ok. but please help i cant keep buying more pads all the time. sorry its kind of a gross quesion. (link)
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it's discharge .. and it's a pain in the rear-end.
you can get panty-liners, they are ment for this.
i got it really bad when i first started my period, but it's been four years now, and i dnt get it that much anymore.
so hopefully that'll be the same for you.
if it is really bothering you, ask your mom to go to the doctors.
best of luck ♥
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whats a good way to get rid of bacene...ive tried a whole bunch of stuff... but they havent worked for me. does anyone know any things that does help? (link)
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just make sure you wash your back two times a day, and use soap. i uses neutrogena body wash, it works great for me. you should try that.
you could also use proactive, but you might have to become dependent on it; which means you have to keep using it, and that's not good.
you can also just talk to your doctor, or wait until after summer. the sunlight usually clears it up.
best of luck ♥
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how do I get rid of scars from bacne? (link)
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i would go ask your doctor, there is no way to get completely rid of them, but if they are new you can make them less noticable. i would go to a doctor or a demotoligist and talk to them about it.
i have a few scars and they are less noticable when i am tan, so i go tanning, and you cant even notice. just an idea.
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I am 13/f and really want more noticeable eyes. how can i make them pop? what are some good products? thanx so much! (link)
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i would use eyeliner, that makes eyes more noticable. i put it on my bottom lid and the inside of my top one, i used black. it's nice. you could also use color eye liner.
the more colorful, the more people are going to notice.
also use mascara. the bigger the eyelashes the more people are going to notice.
if you are going to use a lot of liner and mascara, i would do some basic eyeshadow, like a brown or gold.
just have fun with it!
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15/F Virginia. ok well i have these two best friends, kate and sarah and before i met them they were like best friends and now us three have become really close. we usually hang out every weekend, but sometimes they do stuff without me. like today sarah is at the mall with her mom, and im sure she invited kate, but she wont even answer her phone when i call. and yesterday we couldnt hang out because i had lacrosse and she said oh well we can hang out tomorrow so then now i just feel like she ditched me, and if i ask her about it she would be like we had no plans. so i dont no what to do. so can i have some advice on what to do... and like i want to hear something other than get better friends. because im not going too, but this kind of thing just happens once in a whilee. k thankss byee (link)
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i would still talk to her, just let her know how you are feeling. be like, i know we didn't have set plans .. but i just feel like you kind of ditched me.
i think that would be the best thing to do, she'll understand.
best of luck ♥
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my 'friend' is spreading things about me, and let me tell you, she's a bitch. she's like the person everyone hates and makes fun of because of her forehead, and yesterday she made me cry. how do i get this bitch to just move on with life and leave me alone? she's quite the cough cough PROST ITUTE and always humps people at parties. How do i get her to stop? (link)
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you're really mature, not.
looks don't matter. so drop that part. you need to grow up. im sure you're not the prettiest girl (guy) alive. alright, so really. stop being an as..
and i'm sorry that this girl made you cry, talk to her about it.
prostitute is sleeping around for money, not humping. so use terms that are correct.
now, if you have a real question, ask me one. and don't be a bitch about it. alright? k cool.
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ok so my school is like part of a group of private schools that are like invited to do this thing called cottillion (spelling??). Almost everyone in my 8th grade signed up for it, but i didnt and some other people didnt. anyways its like ballroom dancing and like manors lessons i geuss? im not really sure but everyone went to meet people from other schools and stuff.. anyays my friend Katie met this kid Kevin there and then they started to be friends. He asked her to be his girlfriend after like a week but she said she wanted to get to know him first. he told a bunch of his friends that she was his girlfriend (from what she tells me) and they told her about it. now her and this guy don't really talk. she told me once like way after they stopped talking that she used to like him, which was WAY obvious but she wouldn't admit it. she says she doesn't lke him anymore but she doesn't hate him. well i dont see him much but me and my other friend Megan went to talk to him last friday at a dance because he had waved at us and we hadn't talked to him in a long time, but katie left before we went. i don't think she likes him, but she acts weird when we bring him up. I don't know him too well, but i think i might like him because.. well i dont know why. Do you think its stupid to like him? Would my friend get mad? if no and no, then what should i do next time i see him to get to know him better? thanks.. and sorry for the amount of reading! (link)
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just talk to your friend, and be like so do you like ___ anymore, and if she's like i dont know, or no just be like well, i might like him a little. and see waht she says. ask her if that's okay. and if she is mad about you liking him.
if she says it's fine to like him then go ahead and like him, if she says no then back off.
if she says yes, that's fine. then next time just talk with him more. and if you/him have a screen name be like we should talk more, do you have a screen name? and maybe be like you're really cool, we should chill some other time.
and just take it from there.
but respect what your friend says, if she says i still like him then back away. be a nice friend.
best of luck! ♥
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