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Hey guys,
I'm 14 yrs old and I'm in 8th grade. I havn't exactly got my own life figured out but I'm pretty good at givin other people advice. So please give me your questions!!!!
Favorite Bands- AC/DC, The Beatles, Rolling Stones, Evanessance, Nickelback, Breaking Benjamin, Janis Joplin,(pretty much ALL classic rock)

favorite food- LASAGNA!!!!! (i'm not crazy i swear.......:P)
favorite quotes- just becasue i'm smiling doesn't mean i'm happy......In a world full of cheerios why not be a fruit loop?.....I was uncool before uncool was cool

so......geez thats all i can think of now sry if all that is crap 2 u. I'll work on it later. Much luv!
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how do you give a hand job ? (link)
well, I really don't know. I havn't ever given one. I'm sry i could'nt help.
-marsbars


How do I transfer my music in my iTunes to my iPod. There is no little iPod picture under 'Sources'. (link)
To transfer your music in your itunes into your ipod(well at least for my ipod) you just click on the song you want in your library and drag it into the ipod icon that should b there if you have your ipod plugged into your computer. Idk if that makes sence. Hope that helps. I just got my ipod today and I had the exact same question. Thats wut my friend told me 2 do, and it works.
much luv,
marsbars


Does anyone here play runescape? I need your help if u do. (link)
Ya i used 2 play runscape. But if i can't help u my brother is like lvl 90 and i could just ask him. So leave ur question in my inbox.
much luv,
marsbars
Merry Xmas!


Your one cool chick. Your taste in music is superb. Rock on. I added you as a favorite columnist. Angela-(Hearts,Lies,Friends) (link)
lol o thnx!


my nose is very sore and irritated from blowing it so much. what can i put on it to soothe it?
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If ur nose is like chapped then you can put chapstick or carmex on it. I know this sounds weird but it helps! Its just like if you have chapped lips only not......
lol much luv,
marsbars


Hello there. Too get straight to the point im very confused about who i am, and who i want too be, all my life ive been into rock and that sorta..thing, well sometimes ill feel like i want to be very girly and i bought a bunch of pink stuff but then i listen to my music and i think what im doing? and i go back..i dont know what to do, is there something wrong with me? (link)
Hey!
I think most teenagers are the same way(I know I am) Its just about finding out who you want to be and what makes you happy. You shouldn't change the way you look because of the music you listen to. Be who you want to be and do what YOU think is cool. I know this is kinda corney and probably ALOT easier said than done. I hope this helps!
much luv,
marsbars


alright, so i moved into my new school last year (7th grade) and i didnt start of with a good reputation, because i was the new girl. but now a year later i have a very good reputation. i mean, i am friends with the populair people, i cant compiments, and people always say they want to be me.
there is this kid in one of my classes, and i have gotten a very big crush on him. he is nice, sweet, and very cute. i did some asking around and i have found he is a loser. like .. dork kid. hanging out with other dorks.
i think dating him might effect my reputation, but should i go for him anyways?
some one please help me. (link)
Hey!
Ok personally I think you might be alittle shallow if your caring so much about your "reputation". Does it really matter to you what the popular people think about you? cause i'm sure all the regular people don't really care if you go out with a "looser" if you think he is cute, nice, and sweet then there doesn't seem like there is anything to make him a looser. So I think you should go with ur heart, and if you like him ur heart should be telling you to go with him.
hope this helps
much luv,
marsbars


13/f

Okay I'm gonna hang out with my guy friend (who is super hot and I really like) He is coming to my house and we are gonna just watch movies and cuddle on the couch and stuff so I need to wear something comfortable. I was thinking about wearing my PE shorts which are black and loose and down to my knees. Then a white wife beater that I cut a V sorta shape of the chest part. And a black bra. Then my hair in a cute but messy bun. Do you think thats cute? or slutty?

Thanks, I'll rate 5's (link)
hey!
personally I think the black bra is kinda sluty looking. Cause you'll be able to see it through the shirt right? I think you should wear a white bra underneath and you'll be set! Good luck with her friend. Have fun"watching" a movie lol
much luv
-marsbars


I kinda liked/like this guy in my class. He's so nice and were deff like really close friends were always laughing and joking and I thought I just liked him as a friend, but he's such a good guy I can totally see myself being more then friends with him. We talk everyday, he leaves me myspace comments, messages me, texts me, and we have a bunch of jokes together.
Well, turns out, my step brother heard about me sorta liking this guy, and he asked him about me. My bro said when he asked him he was like smiling and stuff and that he might like me, but he wasn't sure so not to get my hopes up.
Soooo, what? Just best friends? or What? (link)
Hey,
If you are good friends with this guy, just be like"so i heard my step brother said I like you" then see what he says. This will bring it up casually and maybe you'll find out if he likes you. If you find out if he likes you or not, it will be alot easier to decide if you like him. If he likes you, maybe you could like him to. If he doesn't like you then no sweat just stay friends.
hope this helps! much luv
-marsbars


I wanna get the side-swept bangs hair cut and I was wondering something..

Do you personally think it's better to have the bangs on the right or left side? Like, which do you think looks better?

It'd also be nice if anyone had good pictures of the haircut (of yourself or famous person or anyone) cause I wanna see some :)

Thanks!
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I think they look cute to the left, but it mostly depends on your face. hope that helps sry no pics
much luv,
marsbars


my girlfriend and i have been going out for 4 months and we think its time we make out. how can i signal to her that its time to make out? im 14 and shes 13 and she has made out before.can someone plesase help me? (link)
Hey,
If you've been going out for 4months I think that maybe you should be comfortable enough with eachother that you can just say"hey you've made out before rite?" "well, i was wonderin if maybe you'd wanna make out with me" idk if this sounds corny thats just wut I would say(if i was a guy, which i'm not lol)


Okay.....how do you get over a guy you really like? Do you go out with someone else to get ur mind off him? Or do you just let things be n see what happens? Help Please!! (link)
I think that everyone has this problem(unfortunatly). But what has always worked for me, is that you just have to hang out/talk with the person your trying to get to like you, as much as possible. That way they get to know you, and you are friends(which makes is easier to get him to like you). I don't think you should b sluty and wear low cut shirts, that just makes u look stupid, not getting them to like you. Just get to know them and drop suttle hints that you might like them, 5 or 6 times. Then just let things pan out and see what happens. Keep doing this untill you get the results you want.(works for me pretty often)
hope this helps, ask me for advice NE TIME! :)
-marsbars


hi my friend shes always soooooooooo obsessed with the hair on her stomach and back. What am I supposed to tell her. IT gets me really crazy.
Is there anything she could do to get rid of it. Do a lot of brunettes have a lot of hair on their stomach or back. Whenever she asks me these questions I kinda blank and say beats me.
But please tell me so she can shut up about it.
Oh sorry shes 13 a dark brown brunette close to black. Shes worried guys won't like her because of it because shes never seen any girl with hair on their stomach or back etc. etc. etc. Help me make her feel better. BOYS she needs your advice as well. Oh see also wants to know if brunettes and blonds have a lot of hair on their stomach or back? Thanks (link)
Hey,
I'm 14 and I have dark dark brown hair(also really close to black) and I have the same problem that you friend is having. Tell her, that having hair on our back isn't uncommon and I don't think anybody will mind. But having it on my stomach makes me uncomfortable too! So when i'm going to be in a bathing suit or anytime when my stomach will show, I use hair removal loation. U just rub it on and it like 6min your hair is gone. It lasts a while too. It may smell kinda nasty but its worth it! So your friend is not alone, i know lots of grls with this problem. I'm not a guy so I don't know if they think its gross or not......(i wanna know that too :P)
hope this helps,
-marsbars




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