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Ok... I am 14/f and I weigh 100 lbs. My friends think I am anarexic and last year my teacher turned me in for anarexia. I eat, alot, do you think I should she a doctor about my weight.

NO! if you eat then your not anarexic. god i hate teachers! lol
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i was datin this guy for almost 3 months but i wasnt really happy so i broke up with him! i thout i didnt like him anymore and that when i broke up with him i wouldnt think about it anymore...well i was wrong...WAY wrong! he is all i can think about! day and nite! i thout i didnt like him but now that i dont have him i want him sooooooo bad!!! i want to tell him but i dunno how...i dont want him to get freaked out or not feel the same way or for him to have some other gurl! i havent talked to him in about a week because he has been at his moms house but he comes home friday n i jus wanna talk to him! we have been broken up since monday november 1 and monday november 8 would have been our 3 month anniversary! what do i do??

awe! i no how you feel. just talk to him and tell him how you feel... but dont tell him too much cuz yeah it might freak him out or somin. mayb you should ask if hes with another girl first

hope i helped
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alright, if it helps, im tara and im 14.

i've been cutting myself for some time now. always on my wrist and always in the same general area. whenever its a cold day i wear a jacket, and whenever its hot out i just wear bracelets. nobody has ever noticed or said anything. so last night i was laying in bed and i forgot to put on a jacket. my mom came in and saw my arm and said something like 'what's that?' .. i freaked out and pulled it away and said i was drawing.. and she asked why and i said i couldnt find any paper. she asked me if i wanted to talk about anything so i just yelled no and she left. i dont think she has even heard of people cutting themselves. so this morning i covered my wrist with coverup and a few braclets so that she'd think it really was drawings that had washed off. it was very akward and i tried to pretend nothing happened. all she said was 'is body art a new trend or something?' i dont know if she believes my excuse or not.. what do you guys think? and do you have any ideas of how i can cover these darn cuts up? mucho thanks in advance.

PS: oh and please dont tell me to stop cutting. im working on it, i promise. but its like cigarettes or drugs, you cant just stop. it takes time and effort.. =)

well idk she might not know just make sure she doesnt see it again x3*

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Ok, my boy friend is really nice and I've been waiting to talk to him for sometime now, but I haven't been able to see him and I feel as if I've been losing connection and I don't want to do that! Well, I have this really big cold sore, that I accidentally bit and it's really big! It's the size of my upper 1/2 of my thumb. Tomorrow is the only day I can see him this week but NO ONE can see me like this, let alone HIM!! What do I do?

go to a pharmasist at a drug store and ask them wut you should do
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Okay, I like this guy we will call him M. I only have one class with him, but he sits at my table so we talk all the time. So I asked my friend K to see what he thought of me and K was like M said you were cool and he doesn't know if he like likes you and he doesn't know you that well. So I was talking to one of my friends online and hes like you should go for it and ask him out. I just don't want to get hurt again so quickly after my last crush. I don't want to rush things but I really want a b/f. What do you think I should do?

thanks

aSk HiM oUt iF yOu LiKe HiM...
and it seems like you do so GO FOR IT

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does anyone have any advice for me. i have asked out about 20 people and have gotten a no from all of them. i dont know what i am doing that is wrong. can someone help me? please.....

well you should get to know ppl before you just ask them out...
idk wut's wrong with you

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My friend just started going out with her first boyfriend, and I am really happy for her, but he is also my X. It was kind of weird, because shes taller. And I jokingly teased her, about it. and a little part of me was because I was kinda mad she was going out with my x, but I don't have feelings for him. ANyways, she was getting mad, and I didn't know, so she talked about me behind my back to her other friend that doesn't go to our school. Then her other friend was online one day, and I said hey, then she started going off on me. I was offended, and unsure of what I should do NOW.. What should I do??

explain to her you were just kidding!*

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ok i'm 15...n i meet this guy the other nite n he was so0o0o awesome i mean...he was so prefect for me n everything..well he looked about 15 (he also told me he was) well i called up my friend Chris n was talking to him about it n he was like dude that boy is n 7th grade his like friends w/ my lil bro! n i was like wtf...omg! yeah it was crazy...so i talked to him last nite n iwas like y didn't you tell me blah blah...then i was like so how old are you really n his only 14..n idk wat to do...cuz his so cool n his so awesome n everything...n his suppose to come to my house on firday to hang out...idk...wat n the world should i do




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well age is just a number and you shouldn't change your mind and not like him just cuz he's younger cuz that's not really fair! email me if u need more advice..
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there is this boy in school and i have a crush on him. i've known him since 1'st grade.he is cute,funny,and really nice.he is never mean to anyone.he gets good grades and everything.he knows me and i know him but he's kinda popular.
i'm not sure if he likes me too.my best friend hates him! i can't tell her i'm afraid she wouldn't understand.what do i do? please help!

tell him how you feel! and that's not a very good best friend if she wouldnt understand. well good luck!

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I love my BFF so much. We've known each other our whole lives. The problem is, this year, she has drastically changed. She hangs out with the 'popular' girls who smoke, do drugs, have sex, etc. She has started also to do these things. I know these girls are her friends, but they are a very bad influence on her. She used to be so brave and not care about what these girls did, she was herself. Now, I can't help missing my old best friend. She's changed the way she dresses, talks and barely even hangs out with me! I just don't know how to bring all this up to her at once, I feel like she'll get upset and be mad at me for being honest. What should I do? I need her in my life!

aw! i know how you feel. just talk to her adn tell her how much you miss her being your best friend and tell her she should stop wut she's doing or hanging out with them!

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People say I'm skinny, but I think I could lose weight. I'm 13/f, and weight 108 pounds. Is this a little overweight?

well it does depend how tall you are and stuff but no! if you want to loose weight tho just try to eat healthy foods but don't stop eating or nething like that!
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Ok there is this guy Eddie Im like madly in love with him, but people in my family just wont except him because he is punk and wears eyeliner and black nail polish. they all of a sudden think he is all santanic. I dont know what to do...

Also he lives like a 30 mins away from me would this be a long distance realationship and would it work

awe» talk to your parents and tell them how u feel. if u dont think that'll work then just try it without telling them. also 30 minutes isn't really a long distance relationship so im sure it'll work out!x3!

tell him how you feel about him and make sure you tell him he deserves better cuz that's not right at all!!!

hope i helped and tell me how it goes...
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hi ive had this horrible sore throat for like 6 days. ive tried everything and nothing seems to work. ive stayed home 4 days from school and am really far behind. what is there to do ive watched like every movie and slept but i get so tired, how do i cure this and what can i do while im sick

gO tO ThE dOcToR! you could use the phOne* - cOmputer* - watch Tv* - LiSteN to muSiC

--»hope i helped
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I was talkin to a girl online and i had to go and she typed gtg, lybe. So...What does lybe mean when talkin on aim?

idk prolly a typo* x3

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im 18/m. I had a gay realtionship about a year ago, and it went on for about 6 months. Im now tired of guys and im with my girlfriend. I really should tell her that i was with this guy, she has no idea that i was. She even knows the guy. How can i tell her w/o her finding out who it was, and will she leave me if she finds out?

dOn`T tEll HeR!!!

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hey i have this best friend which is going out with a guy i like they dont talk much tho they have been going out a while and i like the guy my best friend is going out with i know it is confusing...

yeah very*

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A friend of mine needs a roommate, and I really want to move in with her because she's got a cool place and I'm sick of living on my own. The problem is that she's got a cat and I'm allergic to cats. The duplex has all hardwood floors and I'd have my own cat-free room, but I'm really nervous about moving in because cats really make me sick. Should I risk it?

1st trying staying a night or so b4 you move in*

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How do you know when your in love?

you'll know wen you're in love x3*

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Ok, do all guys wait for GIRLS to make the first move? I mean, i kno this guy likes me but he wont make a move. what should i do with him?

you should go ahead and make the first move*

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Some times my pubic hairs kinda hurt when i pull them, so i yank them out and they have this sort weird sticky white thing on the end. after i pull them out it doesnt hurt there any more. this happens every once in a while and i yank em because if i dont it hurts to touch there. anyone know waht these are? i call them evil hairs.

ew

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