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Q: hi i moved july 6 and well i have the oppourtunity to stay at my school where i was going before i only have one more year ( going into 7th) and but i can go to a diff school if i want (it a long story) welll if i go to the new school i can start over but im not sure if i want to and if i go to the same school it will be the same ol' borin stuff!! well i need help and i will rate only 4's and 5's so? can you help?
welll....... its totally up to you... i think u should stay at tha school u were at

Q: well i have some of my friends going to my advice column and asking questions, which is pretty cool, BUT.. some of the questions are involving me and idk how to answer them! help! idk what to do?!
just tell them to stop.. or just dont answer them OR lol you could make a new account and just dont tell them about it!

Q: Hi I have a quesiton for all of you.

I'm 14 a gurl and for 8 years of my life (sence I was 5) I have been dancing. Jazz, Tap, Ballet all of it. I quit each one until I had Tap left. I will be honest I was one of the best dancers in each class I was in But I quit because I couldn't take my mothers constant complaining about the money and the time it took her to take me there and wait. I finaly gave in to her the begining of this year and I quit Tap also. after I quit everything reminded me of tap. I cried myself to sleep I missed it that much. I have made up my mind to go back when dance starts again but I having doubts that I won't be excepted by all the other dancers. and my mom is starting her complaining already and I haven't even found my tap shoes yet. I was wondering what all of you think?

P.S. I was in the highest class you could go (Advanced 2) so I was really good but I really am afraid that I can't take what all are going to say.
well.. i think you should go ahead and just do it! i mean if you love it that much then you must go for it!! and who cares what they say they'll prob jus be jealous of you and your talent!! i mean it!! if they say anything bad just dont think about it think to yourself.. IM GOOD!! lol
xox
crystal

Q: i am going to meet john cena and i want to know what i could give him .. i thought about giving him a jersey but im sure a lot of people will be doing that so i thought that maybe i would get him something else .. any ideas? pleasee respond
ooooh my gosh!!!! your gunna meet john cena??? he's sooo hot!! lol i am a fan of wrestling too lol... first off are you a girl or a boy? ummm i dont know what you could give him cause he has alot of jerseys already and he can basically get anything he wants so... yea just get something that you'll think he likes.. ummm... i have no clue what that could be tho... lol sorry if i wasnt of any help!! awwww man!!! ur so lucky!! well i gtg so byes xoxox
crystal

Q: Hey guys if you guys need help with ANYTHING just drop by add a question and ill try my hardest to get back to you within that day! :) *jess*
wouldnt help if we knew your site address?

Q: ok...i knew this girl since kindergarten(now were in 9th grade) but we both went to the same school in like k-4th grade and we were best friends but then she and her family moved to another school. and in the start of 7th grade i moved schools and i found out that the one i transfured to is where she goes, i was so happy :)....and then we started to hang out and stuff and then ppl who were my friends that i made when i moved here started to be mean to me like spreading rumors and stuff and just calling me names. and then she didnt like that so we decided not to hang out like that in school. so we stopped and now i IMed her to see if she wants to hang out or do nehting with me cuz its summer you know and were not in school...but she flipped...this is what she said..."no cuz ur a bitch and tlak behind my back at the swimming place my friend jen told me u and denise for so fuck u:-)" and that makes me mad and i have never talked about her behind her back or nething and i havent been to any swimming place so idk what that is about...but i really dont know what to do or say to her now :/...can sum1 please please please help me i will rate you!!!!
just tell her.and if she dont believe you. your doomed i tell ya doomed. no for real tell her the truth

Q: are those flirty skirts that go out like or have two layers... u know the popular ones? are those gonna be in this school year? i wanted to buy one tomorrow but i'm afraid that they will be out in a couple of months. what are your thoughts? i live in california.
yea prob... dont be a follower tho. jus be yourself it dosent matter what style everyone else has. dang!!

Q: I'm 14 and I broke up with my ex boyfriend 2 months ago, because we never talked or were able to see each other.Now that were broken up I see him more and more. We started hanging out. Well the other day he told me he still loved me and still wanted to be with me,but I didn't tell him it back because I didn't want to get hurt again.After that we started walkin with his friend and I had a stupid moment and kissed his friend (I've liked his friend for like ever),but I never stopped loving my ex.. Should I feel bad for what I did?
umm no not if you couldnt control yourself.... lol just figure out who you like more and if tha person u kissed says then why did u kiss me if you like him you could be like i wanted to see if you had soda yet that day..... lol i dunno!! lol thats funny!
xox
crystal

Q: theres this girl thats kind of popular and she always wants to steal my best friend. the problem is, i can tell my bf is more interested in the other girl. also, its really hard to just be friends with someone else, because no one is quite like my bf and i dont like them as much. oh yea, and the person trying to steal my best friend doesnt like me.. so its kind of hard to become the three amigos. i usually rate a 5!!!:)
jus tell that girl thats trying to steal ur best friends to back off. and tell ur friend that she just wants to be her friend to get you mad. dang! that girl needs to find her own friends!
xox
crystal

Q: hey. has anyone even been to sparknotes.com? more importantly has anyone even been assigned to read a book for skool and just read the chapter summaries on sparknotes.com? did it work 4 ya?
THANX!!
heyy ya i been to sparknotes.com and no i havent read tha only chapter just read the book!! lol

Q: Well I have this really birth mark/mole on my at the top of my left arm, but none of my friends know about. I always cover it up with a bangage or something that sort but the only reason I do is because people used at school used to stare at it and make fun of me about it. So my question is should I keep hiding it or should I just let it be and not care about it?
look thats what makes you so special.. trust me everyone has something different about themselves that sets them apart from everyone. So if anyone makes fun of it..ignore it cause u know that it sets you apart from that person and plus what if they had a birthmark like that they wouldnt like it would they?? hehe nope!
x0x crystal

Q: Okay my best friend just told me shes bi..And im a girl to.I dont know what to do, should I still be her friend or should I like not be..Im kinda creeped out cause I dont want her to like hit on me or nething.What should I do? Im only 14 to what should I do
hehe that happened to my sister too.. dont stop being her friend just because of it i mean dang have some respect!! if you just tell her : hey i dont think that there will ever be a future for us as a couple soo um try to hold back from this ok? lol and she prob wont hit on u if she knows your not like that!! trust me!!! lol she'll understand.. it will all work out for the best dont worry bout it!!
xoxo crystal

Q: omg im sooo nervous for school to start!! im going to a school different from all my other friends in a new town! what can i do to calm myself down and maybe make this a more enjoyable expierence (school)?!

thanks!
0o0 same thing here i am starting a whole new school and i just moved horray for me!! yeppii! well you should just be really nice and outgoing.. i know your proabably thinking 0o0 how well how can i be out going when all these people are STRANGERS but trust me you have an opportunity knocking at your door to turn over a new leaf!!
anything else just leave one in my inbox!!
x0x
crystal

Q: what are some things u can say when ur talkin to ur crush and u wana keep the conversation going but he stopped talkin n theres nothing to say....plz help
hmm u could ask him whoo he likes and if he says you tell me first you say no u tell me.. lol
( jus lil mind games to get him thinkin) lol
xox
crystal

Q: Just a few days ago my boyfriend bought me flowers just randomly. Well i got some pictures of us developed and had him pick out his fav. one. Today I'm going to get it inlarged and framed... and he guessed i was going to do that. Does anyone have any good ideas of little things i could get him including the picture. The flowers were sweet but I want to do something for him too besides a picture. Thanks and I will rate!
lol thats so sweet of him... hmmm what to get what to get??? well i have no suggestions gah mannit!!! lol oo well sorry i wasnt much of a help!! xox crystal

Q: ok I love my friends so much but I get tired of sum like Jake Yves Chantal I don't they're cool but most of them they get on my nerves I'm going to high school and I know alot of pplz there but I don't want to ditch Chantal and Jake the closest ones I have what sh0ould I do?....I need new friend other then sum
well dont just be afraid to go ahead and make new friends i mean once you make new friends those people that you are gettin tired of will get the hint!!

Q: i need a new sn but i can't think of one...i am a tall girl and i like o play basketball....can anyone give me an idea?
how bout
x0xTallnSportyx0x
bBallchIcax00x
BbaLlBaBieCaKEz
x00sportychick00x
BlaZinBbaLlchiCka

sorry if any of those werent good.. lol (as you can tell i like x's and 0's lol!!

Q: Does anybody know where I could get a icon that says my name?Plz help.thanks!my names tasha.thx bye (i'll rate)
how bout iconator.com or mytheme.com or any dollz websites... can you rate me please??? it would really help me!!
xox
crystal

Q: what are you guys opion of christians and other sprital stuff???>??
its cool.... my friend is sooo into christianity its scary... but he is a really good person so if it makes you a good person like him i say go for it your poor lil heart has not limitations!

Q: i used to cut for 2 years but my ex bf told after i went through a lot and he told so now im getting help...well the other day my friend came over and we were talking about cutting but i stopped so she said "well getting high takes it away like cutting does" so i got high, my friends would kill me if they found out...and theyd probably tell and i dont want that to happen...theyd probably all hate me too and i dont want that to happen cauze i love them all sooo much! but the only person who knows is that girl...help me please, what do i do?

dont get high anymore.. and if that girl requested getting high as a resort from cutting then she is def. not helping you out! she should know getting high is not the answer!! so just dont do it anymore and deal with your problems get help with the cutting and stop getting high.. hope i helped
xox
crystal

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