Hey! I am a 14 year old girl who loves to give advice. If you have any problems, then just ask me and I will try to help. I promise I won't laugh at your problem, only help!! Thanx for visiting my column, and I hope I can answer any questions that you have!!! Although I am still going through, or haven't had these problem(s), that doesn't mean I can't help you!!! :-D
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okay, my best friend started dating my ex, which is no big deal cuz i don't like him, but he is a major stoner and its really starting to change her. she tried smoking for the first time, and about 2 weeks ago we went to the movies, and afterwards they went to the skatepark / a couple ppl and i went with, but since the stoners label me as a "prep" they wanted me to leave so i left w/ my friend rachel. I've tried talking to my best friend about how she's changing and just when things were good again she goes and ditches me to do that. she told me she'd chose me over him anyday, but she's not proving it. what should i do? ~*Tammi*~ (link)
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Time for an intervention!!! Talk to her!!
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hey alicia. you are soo pretty omg.you dont know me i just found your site. i need advice. it is goin to sound reallly dumb but oh well. my friends always talk about how they have gottn drunk adn stuff and i dont know i f i want to drink or not. i need to know if you do because u seem like really cool and nice and if you think i should still hang out with them even thought they might preasure me. answer ASAP (link)
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NEVER drink!!! if they pressure you 2 much they aren't really your friends!! Find some new ones!!
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I am 15 I had my 1st love and after we broke up I was down all the time and i cud never have a boyfriend cause they always reminded me of Joey then after 9 months of being single i got back with my ex CJ and we were happy i forgot all about joey then we broke up and he is with my bestfriend..I try to have a boyfriend to forget about Joey and CJ but it dont work..I cant find a guy 4 me...Whats wrong with me?? Please help!!!!!!! (link)
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Nothing is wrong with you, they just weren't the right ones 4 u. there r lots of other guys!!! everything happens for a reason!!! a pint of ice cream helps 2!!!
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i never do anything on the weekends except hang out at home... and with only one frined...i dont know what to do i want to start hanging out with more people but they always have plans (link)
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Ask them ahead of time.
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i have a whole spring break to make 300$! i need it at the end of the week! i borrowed my sisters ipod for a day and then someone stole it out of my purse! i have filed a police report but the chances fo finding it are very slim. PLEASE give me ideas besides just babysitting to come up with 300$ in a week! i dont have a job because im 15 but i dont have enough time to apply and make 300 in a week.
PLEASE give me any idea you have! i'll take it! I RATE! I"LL DO ANYTHING!
TIMES GOING FAST! (link)
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You should walk dogs, mow lawns, or ask your parents for money, (last hope!!!) Or you could feed other peoples animals when they are gone on vacation that is how i always get money good luck with getting money
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well were havin celeb day at school besides the olsen twins can anyone think of two celebritys me and my friend could do?
thanx a bunch! (link)
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Hilary & Haylie
Paris & Nicky
Paris & Nicole
Britney & Jamie-Lynn
Ashlee & Jessica
Ciara & Missy Eliot
hope i helped!!!!!!
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i know alot of girls probably do this.. but i always compare myself to models and girls who i believe are prettier than me.. im always putting myself down and looking in the mirror finding everything thats wrong with me and wishing i was perfect like other girls I know... does anyone else do the same.. how do you get over it (link)
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Hey, don't feel stupid!!! I do that too!! My friend gave me this advice, and I'll give it to you. Think about the qualities that you have that other people admire: hair, eyes, etc... Then just remember, the pictures in the magazines are computer generated. Have fun trying to imagine how terrible the s really look!!!
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I like this boy called Daniel, but I don’t know what to do! Today in PE my friends were saying, "Let’s call Lauren's (my) crush Daz, as a code name. As in Daniel" (they have these sad code names for the boys they fancy, like carrot and cabbage). I didn't tell them that I fancied him, but they must know, and plus in art, one of them asked if I fancied Dan. I shook my head but I was smiling a bit so I guess they knew =( I'm really scared they'll tell him! he said he liked my drawing in art, and that it was better than his, and he kept touching my foot with his foot under the desk too. and my friend was making fun of me, and he stuck up for me, then he said "I'm only defending Lauren" when my mate asked why. that was a few days ago, and now he's just ignoring me (I think he was looking at me, but I was scared I would start blushing if I looked at him, so I guess I'm ignoring him too) I'm real shy + ugly lol so I don’t know what to do! I'd love to go out with him but I'm scared my friends would laugh because they always fancy popular, 'hard' boys who get into fights. Dan is really sweet and mature. and plus he probably doesn’t even like me =/ any easy tips on flirting for SHY people? 'Cos I’m not good at flirting lol =\ please help? Thanks =) (link)
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I think you should try and make the first move. Maybe he's also too shy and he likes you too!!
P.S. NEVER say you are ugly!!!!
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