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Q: hey everyone my harvest moon dance is coming up! its kind of like a homecoming but you see i need a dress.. and most people wear a short dress .. like a fancy coctail dress. well does anyone know where to get a really cute one? or like some websites to look at them? oh and whats 'in' for dresses? i was thinking like either a light pink and gold one or a brown and gold one .. is that like too cheesy? thanks everyone! xO!
The Deb Shop, go there, lovely cheap dresses.

Q: I
Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants (all 3 books) they ROCK! Esp. for all girls yipee! Also, Lord of the Flies. That book was fabulous, and its an older book, but it still ROCKS. ROCK!!! RoCk! ROCK!!

Q: does anyone know what "desee que yo la tuviera" means???
Wanna part?

Q: Quick! How do you say "to climb" in Spanish???
muy bien

Q: Hey. I have this big pimple under my skin. Like it isn't on the surface but it is under, and it looks like I have a big bug bite on my chin, and it is huge. Now I normally wouldn't worry about this but I have to go to a viewing tomorrow, and I was wondering if there is away to bring it to the surface to pop it? Also please don't suggest to use make-up because it only makes it look worse the next day. Thanks :)
Nope. Its a cist. Just leave it alone, and eventually itll leave. Sorry! (A viewing as in a FUNERAL viewing? In the case, I dont think anyone will be paying attention anyway...)

Q: I'm in a high school production of a popular classic play and we open on Wednesday. We haven't even had a full run though of the show yet, and did I mention that one of the acts isn't even completely blocked?...

I think we'll pull it together, but do you think we are screwed?
Screwed

Q: Hey okay heres the deal , i want to make my hair like scrunched/wavy but i dont want to use roller things cause they break my hair to much. What should i use to scrunch it ?? By the wayy my hair is super straight naturally.
Gel.

Q: sorry this is long, last night i dumped my bf, john, after 9 months of going out and i said that i didnt want to go out with anyone for a while, later that night i was with my friends and they called the hottest guy in school and he said he wanted to go out with me so now im going out with a hottie but i love john so much i dont know what to do i want to go out with john but im already going out with the hottest guy in school, i think im having a problem with letting go

please tell me what i should do i rate 5s for any answer
Hottest guy in the school!!? Girl, I would LOVE to be in your shoes (considering I adore the hottest guy in my school...he is sooo hot) but...to you, it might not be worth it if you love John so much. Think of it this way- you dumped him for a reason. It just didnt feel right, apparently. YOUVE GOT THE HOTTEST GUY IN THE WHOLE SCHOOL! Okay, frock trying to be reasonable, stay with the hottie! After 9 months with him I'm sure you'll love him just as much!

Q: Girls only!!


I have had started to get pubic hair in like 4th grade and it's been getting bad. I don't know what to do because it like sticks out a little in bathing suits. What should I do??

I'll give 5's for good answers
Okay, cut it was scizzors so its shorter, and also, shave (or wax, whichever you prefer) you're bikini line. Another thing to do is if you dont want to shave or wax (like you arent ready) is get shorts-bottoms bathing suits. They are just as cute, and you avoid the problem altogether!

Q: Ok....first he broke up with me but he also told me he wanted me to find someone better then him.....but....he told me he still wanted me.And that he still loves me.He only told me to go and find someone better because he smokes pot so yea. So i dont know what to do or say to get him back.

can anyone help and not tell me that he doesnt want me when he keeps on telling me he does!??????!?!?!?!!

ill rate high!
Ditch him, he's a pot smoking loser. Can't you get a boyfriend that does more hardcore drugs??

Q: okay so am i so bored with life. I am sorry if this is geeky but its true. i want to live in a fantasy with dragons and stuff like that. if you read the book eragon or the sequel eldest thats what i want. i hate life b/c its boring and thats the only thing i really ever will want. first i want to know if there was ever any evidence that dragons were alive and if so by chance could a scientist make them live again by some cloning technology. if you have anything else you would like to add please halep. i am really serious abou this.
No, dragons never existed. But dinosaurs did, so maybe you could study to be a scientist and be the brilliant one who can clone a dinosaur! If you are bored with life (and are over the age of 18), you may consider working with wildlife. Like, not at a zoo, maybe in Africa or something. Or live with the gorillas like Jane Goodall (I forget her name). I know, life in this day and age is pretty boring. Just think of some cool random stuff to do and go with it!

Q: Do females find guys with ape like hairy chests sexy?
No lol...and I'm a girl and I dont like ape like hairy armpits either! Wax baby wax!

Q: okay. i dont know if i should make the first move. we have hugged and my friends told him i liked him and he had a big smile on his face. and we talk alot..
so..i want him to ask me out. Is there any more flirty thingys i can do? or should i just ask him out?
i jsut dont know...
please just tell me what you think...
Flirt with him and make him want you more, kind of play hard to get. But not TOO hard to get though. Then if he doesnt ask you out, then you should do it.

Q: my bff tryed helping me get with my ultmit crush but i think she tryed too hard b/c somehow he hates me now...he want to tell me to `F off` today!! wat should i say wen he tells me!?! hurry its today!!
13/f if it helps
thx :D
Say "you're so hot when you're angry"

Q: What could be causing blood while urination and pain?
Urinary Tract Infection? STD? Bladder, liver problems?

Q: I want to annoy my OLD STUPID friend out of my locker. I hate her. it was my locker to begin with. So what can I do to make her beg to change! I know its stupid but hey I want my own locker! P.S We don't talk now!
Well have you asked her to move her stuff out of her locker? If not, just take all of it out and set it on the floor. Or leave a note in one of her books saying "Please leave my locker!" Since you guys dont talk, and if you dont care if you are ever friends again, be as mean as you want lol!

Q: I get sharp Pains after I'm done peeing, and blood is coming out, only a little, but still bleeding... And I'm always peeing at least every hours. My period Ended on Thursday and I've been getting the pains since two nights ago.... The pains started getting duller yesterday, but they're back to very painful, sharp pains....

Can anyone tell me what this is and how to treat it? Even better how to treat it without my parents finding out?
Go to the doctor!! That's scary, I highly recommend telling your parents. Are you sexually active, because it could be an STD. Maybe a yeast infection, but I've never heard of that bleeding and sharp paining.

Q: There's this girl that I really really really like and I was going to ask her out but then I see an away message up on her screenname that says shes single and she really really likes someone. What should i do?

P.S. i asked and that person isnt me
Well...I guess she doesnt like you, but you can try and ask anyway. But don't be surprised if she says no- she did say she really likes someone. If she does say no, just wait a couple months and ask again (if you still like her). Best of luck!

Q: i am 16/f and have been taking dance at the same place since i was 3 years old. it's not a competative place...it's just once a week for an hour. last year it really wasn't as good as the earlier years, because the dance's were odd & babyish (not what we signed up for!) and the teacher (same teacher since i was 3) missed a lot of classes. this year the classes were shortened to 45 min, and it still costs the same amount. also, most people i know are not doing it again. i thought last year was stupid, but i still enjoy dancing. however, i am not as enthusiastic as i use to be about it. the thing is, i have been dancing for 12 years there, and i would only have two more years & i almost feel it would be a shame to give it up when i only have 2 more years. should i continue with the class or not...i just don't know because it's not the most appealing thing to me anymore & i didn't enjoy it very much last year, but i just feel its a shame to leave with only 2 more years left. what do you think i should do?
Well, if you enjoy dancing then stay unless you are planning to go to another dance class at another place. This way you can still dance. So unless you really hate dancing I'd say stick with it. If its too much money for you're parents and with the shorter time though that would also be a plausible reason to leave.

Q: I don't know what to do anymore. My little brother thinks im pyscho. Today, my mom asked him to take out the trash and walked away. After she left he refused to do it and stated that I should do it because I never do anything. But, I had helped my mom ALL day with getting ready for this garage sale. So, I told him that he should do it because he was told to. He started screaming and freaking out on me. So after like a half hour of that I punched
him. I just can't take it anymore!!! That's the first time i've ever hit him, and I don't even feel bad about it. He's hit me louds so i guess that's why. I don't want to apologize, but how should I handle my anger from now on???
You should just walk away from the problem, walk away. Take a few deep breaths and try to calm down and just ignore what he's saying.

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jenymca
Hi, I'm Jen. I'm a 15 yr. old sophmore at my highschool. I'm just an all-around-average girl (okay, I'm not THAT average) I enjoy giving advice and asking it lol. I play the trombone in my school band and jazz lab, I sing in the chorus and in my church choir, I have a few friends but not a crapload...and I'm always there for my friends with advice! Sometimes its not always what they want to hear, but I always mean the best. So, ask me a question and I'd be glad to answer!
JEN!!

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