Hi! I live in Chino Hills, California and I came to this site to see if I can help anyone who needs it. I am 15 years old and am known in my group of friends as the "voice of reason" :)
I want to try to help as many people as I possibly can. I hope someone can find my advice helpful, although I know some will disagree--and that's totally fine.
I always tell people that I give advice to that I'm just a person who makes mistakes so before they consider my advice they should make sure they agree with it. They should also make sure it's the best thing for them to do.
I hope to help you with what I can with the information given!
*hope I can help*
P.S. When you rate my advice, PLEASE don't be kind. What I mean is give me as much constructive criticism as you can! I want to be able to improve in my advice giving! Thanks!
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i'm 15 years old..just turned 15..and since i have a year until i'll need a car..i wanna save up as much as i can before my 16th birthday..from now til april 16th..it's a long time..but i still need to save up as much as i can and quick..but..the only problem is..since i dont have a car right now..my parent's wont drive me to a big town to work..( we live in a small town..the suburbs)..and no job close enough in town will hire anyone under 16...so..what are some good way's that i can save up money?? (link)
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i have like, the same problem! OK, so what u need to do is find jobs where ever you can. Like babysitting, car washing, maybe even a bake sale or a garage sale (or them combined!) be creative, who knows what you could come up with. But if all else fails, i would just stick to babysitting.
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It kinda goes like this:
babyyy youuuu
youuu got what i neeeeeeeddd
but you say he's just a friend..
you say he's just a friend
It'd help me out if you had an idea :P (link)
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it's biz markie - just a friend
hope this helped some!
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I'm a girl,16.
Ok so I sorted out the last problem,thank you very much for all your help.
Now though,I like this guy. The guy I've liked for well..years.
I REALLY likie him,the first guy I have liked this much in fact. I dunno if he likes me or not, he used to. We kissed a few months back,but it was his first kiss so afterwards,nothing else happened I guess cos he was too shy to initiate anything and I didn't wanna push him into anything he wasn't ready for so neither did I.
I haven't a clue if he still likes me,but I like him as much as I ever did. For the past while,I've been considering telling him that I still do,but we talk the whole time and hang out quite a lot (We go to the same school so we see each other everyday) so I don't want it to turn out bad if I DO tell him. There's only like ten days left in school and I'm wondering,should I just be honest and tell him straight,or keep it to myself and enjoy being friends with him?
Thanks to anyone who helps. (link)
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Go for it! If you really feel this way then tell him! besides, its a proven fact! if a beautiful girl asks out a guy, there is no way in the world they can ever turn them down!! well, its almost proven
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First off, i'm a guy. I work in a place where I have to wear a shirt and tie. I saw this really nice pink shirt the other day and I even found a great tie to go with it. Dress slacks for guys are usually black, brown, blue, khaki or tan. None of these seem to really fit with a pink shirt. I guess black could but what color slacks would you suggest to go best with a pink shirt? i don't have a problem wearing pink. i just don't know how to make it work. any help would be appreciated. (link)
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Khaki in a lighter color would work. maybe even a light tan
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my boyfriend and i are having sex, and yes we're using condoms. but i am aware that condoms are not 100% effective (like everything else in the world) we are not at the financial level to be ready fr a baby if any slip up occurs and if I were to get pregnant i would be all for an abortion. He is not in agreement with me, he wants to keep the baby if something happens despite our lack of money and maturity. what should i do about this delema (link)
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If you are not financially prepared for having a baby, dont do anything that could cause you to become pregnant!! Abortion is never the answer. It is not just a fetus inside of you, but a person. By the tenth week of pregnancy, it will have all ten toes, and all ten fingers. It will also have finger nails! It is a person, dont get abortion
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Ok so i already posted this once but i didnt get as much feedback as i wanted. Please read this and tell me what you think. I had to write it for english it is loves/loses. Thanks in advance!
I love you now,
I lost you yet,
I will always be here.
Don’t you fret
I know it hurts
But life goes on
I will try not to listen
To those sappy love songs,
Cause when I do,
I think of you
And what we used to be,
I just wish you would see
I gave you everything,
Yet you pushed me away,
I promise I will miss you,
Every single day
Me and you,
We can find a way,
And maybe…just maybe
We can be together someday.
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wow! you are a really talented writter! this is a great poem! I think to make it flow better, you should try this (you dont have to it is just my own personal opinion)
in the first phrase try this:
I love you now
I lost you yet
I'll always be here
Don't forget
and in the third phrase, try this:
'cause when i do
I think of you,
what we used to be
I just wish you could see
In the forth phrase try this:
I gave you everything,
you pushed me away,
I promise I'll miss you,
every single day
I know it's alot but its just my imput, you dont have to take it
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I like this guy alot and he likes me alot too. The thing is he has had alot of girlfriends and i have never had a boyfriend before. We have been talking for like a week and he wants to go out with me but im scared. Im scared because i know how he is he gets mad over stupid things and i dont want to get hurt. Today i found out that he was staying after school to talk with his ex to see if they could get back together. I dont know what to do becase i am so upset about it. I want to go out with him but at the same time im scared to. THANKS FOR YOUR HELP!!!!!! (link)
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I no this may be hard to hear, but if a guy scares you STAY AWAY!!! If you are ever afriad of a guy, but still have feelings for him, run the other way.
You can read this guy pretty well, he will hurt you and you know it. He is not good for you! First of all, you are afraid of getting hurt. If you knew that the car you were getting into was going to be in a harmful car accident would you still get in? No, because you know you would get hurt, just like this guy will almost definitely hurt you. Secondly, he has had many other girls, and you haven't had a boyfriend at all. Think about it. When you start dating don't go for someone that is an expert at relationships. Chances are, he will play you. Thirdly, he is trying to get back together with his ex! He asked you out, and now he wants the other girl again. Give up on him. You deserve better.
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I am 16 year old girl and I don't know exactly how to say this- but I have no confidence in myself. I have no self esteem. I look in the mirror and my reaction is always like- oh wow my hair looks so bad. Or my makeup looks so ugly and dull. But then again, my friends are like- shut up you're beautiful. I am dissatisfied with many things about myself- I have a saggy ass, I have a camel toe when I wear volleyball spandex, my breasts are tiny, my whole body shape is petite. I'm tall and skinny. I have love handles, my hair is frizzy and only looks good when I straighten it and it gets even more damaged, I pick at my cuitcles/nails and bite my nails so they are ugly, I can't wear tampons still, I love to sing but I have a terrible voice. I like to dance but I'm a clutz and run into things. I break a lot of things I touch. I can't wear high heels. I've only been to 1 formal dance in my school and my friends are already going to prom. My friends are taking advanced classes and I am getting A-'s in regular classes. My parents are overly-strict. I don't eat healthy and sometimes I worry about getting diabetes or appendecitis. I am VERY stubborn. It's hard for me to make friends. I feel like no one loves me. I feel like I'm selfish a lot and when I try to put other people in front of me, I feel like they're more important. I feel like i'm too nice and I need to stand up to myself and be a little bitchy towards the people who bully me. But when I do become a little bitchy, I feel bad about it. Ahh HELP!!!!! (link)
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Girly, every teen girl goes through this. Just take a step back from everything. Don't get caught up in appearenes. The number 1 rule of being beautiful is BELIEVING you are beautiful! Don't think of yourself as a frumpy teen, but show yourself off! If you don't like your appearence, no one else will either. On the other hand, if you love yourself for the beauty you are, people are going to see that in you and love you for that. I'm not saying to be in love with yourself and get a big head, but work with what you have. If your hair feels frizzy and straightening it makes it damaged, fined a condition made for your type of hair! You need to start loving your beautiful self. If you love to sing, sing! Don't worry about what people think, as long as YOU are happy, that is all that matters. If you love dancing but are a little clutzy, who cares! Just go for it! Maybe take a dancing class if you are too insecure about it. If you are being bullied, stand up for yourself! Tell them what jerks they are being and how insecure THEY are.
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i don't think im good enough to take the course that i want in college and everything is stressing me out what can i do to motivate myself?
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Hun, don't be negative on yourself. Go for it! If it's too hard, try again next year! I know it is not convenient, but if it is what you want, chase it.
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Well, I have a boyfriend. We have been dating for about a year now. And he's moving away August 12th.
Just recently, I met one of his best friends. And I guess it's pretty safe to say that I have feelings for him. And now I"m at the point where I'm a little confused.
Help please!
A.K. (link)
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Sweetie, you need to think about this hard. Disect your problem.
Your boyfriend moves away and you can't deal with a long-distance relation--move on!! You shouldn't put yourself through this trial if you already know the answer!
Say you aren't sure if you can handle a long-distance relation ship--give it a try! If it doesn't work out, tell your sweetie you can't deal with it, he will understand. If it works out, go you!
Whatever you do, DO NOT date his best friend, at least not with out your bf's consent. Think about it, your not just ruining the relationship between you and your bo, but between him and his friend.
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Hi!!(Long.. I'm sorry. please read!!!)
Okay this guy ...his names Matt...makes me so miserable!! I'll start off by saying I use to like this guy...like..love this guy, well I'm just 13 1/2 so its not REAL love. Well, he absolutely hurt me.. so bad, he told me he didn't like me...the worst way possible...he let his sister bash me on his Myspace...and he didn't even delete the comment for me.Well...that was a long while ago and...we got into a fight like last month and he STILL hasn't became my friend again and I don't know why. He was mad at me because a day last month, my friend and I were talking...and we called matt and we were talking and joking around...and he said to me " I don't like you and I never will".( I have no idea if he was joking..my friend said so..because he ws acting silly) He said that out of no where! So...we called him back we got his message machine my friend was acting real mean...I told her to stop...and I didn't even talk..she told him I have a boy friend so he needs to shut up. So..he told me off the next day and now he won't forgive me. I told him that it wasn't my fault but he didn't care. I told him sorry just recently. My boy friend had my phone...and I told him that.He said " Ok. No...don't lie like that...that was you who was calling me names." I told him " It was my BOYFRIEND". I said .He said "Ya..right..I'm not going to be your friend after that..and WHO'S your BOYFRIEND"? I told him his name and stuff and he says " I don't have a problem with you , but were still not friends". I told him that he was making me upset and he told me if I new his personality I wouldn't be upset!! I know his personality. So...after all this..I'm over him, but now my friends think that he likes me now...and he just doesn't want to date me because I'm in 7th grade and he's in 8th and he popular. Well..I think he does to..because when I was at the pick up area (Yesterday)waiting to get picked up.. Matt walks up to me..and stands in front of me.. than...he stands beside me..he turns to me ..I look at him...than he leaves to go to his car!!Now WHAT the heck is that about? Was ...he trying to talk to me? Well, today..I was outside waiting again..he walks out..and stand a few inches away...lookin around and stuff. Than...I saw my moms car and walk off..than I see him look over his shoulder .. whatching me , I got to my car. Well...I put my books in my car look at him and he's RIGHT there by my car talking on his phone...he followed me. Whats going on?? I've been feeling like he's coping me..or following me..because I was at wal mart..and as I was walking out, and I see matts car..I look in and I yep It was i think,cuz when I looked back..I thought I saw matt's face. That same day I got a hair cut..and on Monday he HAD ONE TO! Weird huh? My hair cut is awesome..so is his..and I think he likes it. What do you guys think??
My friend thinks that he doesn't want to be my friend because he wants to be more than that..and I said ...that doesn't make sense to me...does it to you? Do you think he likes me now?? How can I get him to forgive me?? I really want to be friend, he's a nice guy well,when he wants to be..lol
Thanks SO MUCH FOR READING!
I'll rate fair!!
Thanks! :) (link)
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Hun, sorry to say this, but you need to get over this guy. He has already given you heartbreak once, what makes you think he won't do it again? All I'm saying is take a break from this guy, maybe you will realize you are to good for him, because you are.
I think this guy told you he didn't like you because he knew you liked him. I know it sounds dumb, but, he's a guy. No offense to all you dudes out there, but you have to admit it, when a girl likes you, you do get a little nervous.
And Hun, you are way to young to be worring about relationships and guys! No mean to sound like your mom, but you are still a kid! You need to focus on fun, not that guys aren't fun and all, but you need make sure they don't conquer your life.
I think this guy is just playing with your head, beside, like you said, YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND!!! I know you just want him to be your friend now, but, sorry to say, your relationship with him is over. You haven't ruined it, he has. You deserve more then him.
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[[Sorry so lond]] Well I moved to californa last month and stared school like 4 weeks ago so im new and i go to school with my cosuin and i like this kid a lot i've kinda been talking to him on myspace sometime when i lived in New mexico so we kinda new each other becuse my cousin .but he likes another girl a lot but she dosent like him should i tell him i like him or wait, tell him face to face or tell my firend to tell him....?? (link)
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Don't rush into things honey! If you have only known this guy online dont' rush yourself! You don't know this guy that well, give yourself sometime to become his friend and build a relationship with him. And DO NOT i repeat DO NOT tell him online or through a friend. It will just make you appear immature and unready for a relationship, which is a total turn off for (respectable) guys.
On the other hand, don't get to close to him, in case of rejection. I am 100% positive you are beautiful inside AND out, but some guys (not all) are too blinded by stupidity to see that. So don't get too close to him because of the off chance of rejection. If you and him build this relationship together and you tell him how you feel, your whole relationship will crush. (unless your sweetie is amazingly mature)
Just remember to get to know him better before you make your first move. Don't get too emmotionally attached to him, just incase.
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