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What if your heart is in two places?
Well, I have a boyfriend. We have been dating for about a year now. And he's moving away August 12th.
Just recently, I met one of his best friends. And I guess it's pretty safe to say that I have feelings for him. And now I"m at the point where I'm a little confused.
Help please!
A.K.
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Long distance relationships are really hard and if your heart is not in it then it is doomed to fail just make your choice wisely make sure your just not Infatuated with the idea of having something new i also would not advise the best friend well atleast not for awhile it in my opion is a disreguard of his feelings and the last thing you want to do is mess up a friendship
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Sweetie, you need to think about this hard. Disect your problem.
Your boyfriend moves away and you can't deal with a long-distance relation--move on!! You shouldn't put yourself through this trial if you already know the answer!
Say you aren't sure if you can handle a long-distance relation ship--give it a try! If it doesn't work out, tell your sweetie you can't deal with it, he will understand. If it works out, go you!
Whatever you do, DO NOT date his best friend, at least not with out your bf's consent. Think about it, your not just ruining the relationship between you and your bo, but between him and his friend.
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Ask yourself two things. Who do you think you like more and can you handle a long distance relationship? If the answer to your questions is your boyfriend and yes, stay with him. if not, its time to take a break and maybe try your relationship later.
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