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is there anyway to make it go away or less red?

http://www.health911.com/remedies/rem_sunb.htm

^try some of the remedies

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Ok is it wrong to go out with a 17 year old guy if you are 14? even if you really know him because he is a friend of the family.

not at all, age shouldn't matter if you like someone.

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Okay, so i like this boy. He's a sweetheart. He's 17, going on 18 and leaving for college at the end of august. i'm 15 so it's hard to hope or look forward to anything. he said he liked me back, and he also told a trusty friend that he wasnt sure what would happen between him and I. He's not the type to use a girl.. and i'm not just saying that because i like him, it's seriously true. he's had one girlfriend ever, which was during his senior year. it's not like this is a full on question... i just need some opinions.

i wouldnt get into a relationship. hes going into college and you guys will hardly get to see eachother, also he could end up drinking at college, then cheating on you...but if you think this wont be a problem then go for it

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ok. I have this friend and we have been friends forever... and I got invited to my friends sweet 16. and she in the past has had drinking problems and has done drugs. but at this time she was clean. well my best friend didn't want me to go to the party, she was scared I wold drink or do drugs (which there weren't any XD) I even told her that there were parents at the party. But she called my mom and told her about the party and how she didn't want me to go because of her suspicion of drugs and alcohol. So no basically my mom doesnt want me to hang around the girl at all. because being the idiot she is my friend used names. and so now my mom things that my other friend ( who I really love) is a druggie and drinks alcohol.. and im really mad at my best friend. she should trust me more. I feel that its not her place to do things like that and "look out" for me. I understand that she was trying to help which is why I dont' want to be mean to her. but im really pissed that she would go behind my back and ruin things like that for me... so Im really pissed off and were now fighting.. any ideas on what I should say to her??

tell her its your life, and you are able to make your own decision. It was none of her business to go behind your back and do that, especially since she jeapordized your relationship with your other friend, and becasue in the first place she was wrong about the drugs and alchol.

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The guy I like told me he liked my friend, but after he told me that we just sat there talking for like an hour. Him and my other friend, c, went to the locker rooms with me, but waited outside, i told them not to leave, c left, but he stayed and waited. He has to walk home after Jr. guards every day, but he stayed an extra hour after with me while I was waiting for my swim practice to start, but I'm not sure if he was there for me or for my friend, but when he heard me say, bye to everyone else, he turned and asked me if I was going, I said yes, so he said ok, and said he was going to leave then. Before he left he said call me, and gave me his number. Do I have a chance or not?

yeaaaa seems like he likes you, him telling you he liked your friend might be because he didn't want you to know he likes you.

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i cant find it anywhere but how much did liveearth tickets cost?

i know its over, im just curious. thanksssssss

no, the first girl is right....and the ones that were supposivly for $11 were probably being sold after live earth

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i have the wet 2 straight hair straighenter and it's wearing out. the metal part is rusting, i think it's from using it while my hair was wet. well that's what it was meant for. but anyway, i need a new straightener. i have easy hair to work with and it takes me 30 minutes to do my hair with the wet 2 straight hair straightener. but i need a new straightener. please give me good ones that will do my hair in even less time but a reasonable price to buy. & the straightener has to be ceramic! thanks!

http://www.conair-store.com/product_detail.asp?T1=CON+BC173&HDR=INFINITI

^kinda pricey but works really good

http://www.conair-store.com/product_list.asp?SKW=hairironstraight&HDR=HAIR

^this has many of them, and there are some cheaper ones

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ok so like you how people have the underlayer of their hair dyed? like a lot of blondes dye it dark underneath or things like that. can anyone find me a really good picture like that? i tried google but it didnt give me much. im going to get mine redone like that on tuesday and would like a picture. the first [and only] time ive dyed my hair i loved it but you couldnt really see it unless i moved my head around to expose it, and this time i want it to show through more. thanks!

try searching: lowlights on google images, thats what there called and there are quite a few good picutres

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http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f334/FizzyPop2/thinspo.jpg


that's my brain, that is what I think. I have the body of a whale though. I think I'm 5'1, 153 ilbs. Most of the time I eat when I'm bored... and I don't think about it. That picture is my brain though. I get seriously depressed after I eat. Is there anything I can do? I have tried going on a diet a million times, but I never stay. I have tried to become belimic, but I can't make myself throw up.

eatting disorders are very bad and can cause many damages to your body. I would suggest running, or simply trying not to eat when your bored...or find a healthy snack that tastes good so whenever your bored you can eat it and it doesn't add up.

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ok im 15/m and im 5'4 all my freinds are taller than me even though i used to be taller than them, is there anyway i can grow taller eating stretching if so what kind of foods or stretchings or whatever i can do, oh and dont recommend those grow taller pills or suplements, it dont matter if what the foods are i wont get fat i have a great metabolisim, thanks

unfortunatly not...ill give you some of my height, im 5'8 (15/f) and i hate it

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i accidently synced songs on my mp3 and now i can't seem to delete it from it. whenever i open my mp3 on my computer, the synced songs doesn't show. what do i do?

i had the same problem, and i still dont know the proper way to do it, but what i do is go to mycomputer (it should be somewhere on ur comp), then i click on the icon that is an image of my mp3, then it comes to a bunch of folders titled the name of the singers, then i just start draging the songs i dont want into the trash folder...it works for me--BTW i have a sansa m240

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if i liked you would you like that
if i kissed you would you kiss back
if you know me you should know that ill never let you fall.

"my hollow heart is one fire, so close well never know, its so long since weve said goodbye"

if its to hard to swallow
would you like me to follow.

jlkdjfklsgjdfg, OMG.
i cant figure it out.

HOLY SHIT. please help me/


helppp.

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=77850413

^i think that band, because thats all i could find when i searched a small part of the lyrics, and since its not a famous band thats probly why the lyrics are so hard to find...sorry if i wasn't much help, good luck

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ok so i went on facebook for like 3 minutes from my cingular phone and i don't have a media net (internet) plan... does anyone know the rates of internets on phones for cingular (like how much money per minute )... i tried google.

i have cingular with no internet plan, and on mine when i sign on the internet it charges $10 to my phone (i found that out the hard way) and im not sure if it adds on depending on minutes...im not sure if your phone will be the same way, but lets hope its not too much

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Hi. I'm 15/f.
Well there's this guy who is friends with my older brother.
Anyways sometimes we "talk", but I like him as a friend. My brother thinks I like "like" him, but is ok with it.
We were supposed to hang out yesterday night, but I was too tired so I stayed home and said we could hang out today.
This morning I called him and we hung out-- and drove around for hours (it was a bit awkward).
When my brother got off work, we picked him up. Then I went to a church thing with my other friend (a girl).
Afterwards, my brother and the guy were being complete jerks. I mean, they usually tease us, but they've never been really mean to me before. It sounds stupid, but I cried (I don't think they saw, though).
My friend and I were going to hang out with them, but instead we just left.

So why was he like that (my guy friend)?

Thanks.

probly cuase he was with another guy, whenever guys are with eachother they act like jerks and put up a bad boy persona...also he might not want your brother to know he likes you...sorry if im not much help, goodluck

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kind of awhile ago, i saw theres 3 pictures at ikea. i just re-did my room, and these pictures would look great with my new decor, but i cant find them on the ikea websie anymore, so i guess theyr not selling them anymore. one of them had a green background with a black silhouette of a women and an old fashion microphone. one of the other two had a red background and the other a blue background, but i dont remember what the image was. they were very similar to the singer one though. where else can i buy these? i dont know what to search for on google or ebay because i dont know what these pictures are called.

thanks!

i looked forever and i cant find it anywhere...i found these: http://www.dreamstime.com/silhouetteofsinginggirl-image172633

sorry, im probly gonna keep looking--if i find it i will write back


also you could do it yourslef--in art class last year we made those types of things, all you have to do is paint a background then enlarge a picture you want, outline it, cut it out in black, then paste it on.....it seems like alot of work, but its not

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I dont know if i should keep the friends i have right now. All they do is complain about their lives and critize other people and when i complain about my life they are all like im sorry i cant do anything about that. And they are rude like it doesnt even matter to them! One of them never even calls me and shes my BEST FRIEND. she never trys at all, like she always tells me that she never ever askes people to hang out. but i told her she needs to ask me because im her best friend. so i just wanted to see what she would do. and now my other best friend is all like calling her all the time and now they are best friends and they always leave me out. we always have history of alot of drama so this time i really want to make our friendship work. OH YEAHH our other friend went to mexico for the whole summer and all she does is gossips about her... and she gossips about my other best friend too so i bet she gossips about me too. and thats the whole reason we got in a big fight last time because she said I gossip to much! but now i try to hold back and shes being a huge hypercryte. Im moving from San antonio to houston and i dont no if its worth being friends with all of them anymore. i feel like ive matured so much and i dont want to be in a little group of gossip anymore, i want to change for the better and just be alot more independent. do you think i should just not be friends with them or what?

I think you should leave them behind along with your old reputation and bad memories, its time to start over since your moving. You should stay aquentinces with them, but dont let them try to include you in their drama.

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well im gettin to meet this guy this week and he likes me rite...thing is im maaaaad shy,
what are some things i should talk about or say,like when i first meet him what should i say?!pleaaase help me...my first date was a disaster cuza how shy i am

just stay calm and act confident. Bring up some common topics that could start up a conversations, such as sports, or something you know hes interested in. just remeber to act natural, just pertend hes one of your friends, guys like girls that act like themselfs...

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well I rreaaally like this guy; but i moved 3 hours away. We liked each other for a while and went out for a couple of days but i broke up with him which was really stupid. I told him that i missed him and he just said gtg. i dont know what to do! Please help me.

call him up and tell him how you feel and explain why you broke up with him, and how you regret it now...chances are he will understand and you guys could maybe try a long distance relationship...long distance relationships are tough, but they are normally the ones that last the longest...and if you guys decide to stay broken up, you guys could at least remain friends. best of luck

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My boyfriends in the army and before he goes to Iraq he said there's a military ball that he wants me to go to... what exactly is a military ball and what am I supposed to wear? Like, what type of dress?

prom/formal wear...i would go with neutral colors such as white or black, incase it ends up being more formal than expected.

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13/f How do you know when your hymen breaks? How do I know it hasn't happened yet? I've been getting my period for 6 months

Won't necessarily bleed when it breaks so there is a possibility that you won't know for sure. Generally you will feel some discomfort at the time. Women can break their hymens from doing many activities other than sex...

http://www.teenwire.com/
^this site will have good information

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