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hEY iM MELiSSA.
iM REALLY ENERGETiC AND i LOVE TO PLAY SPORTS. MY FRiENDS WOULD DESCRiBE ME OUTGOiNG, ATHLETiC, SMART, NiCE, AND GOOD AT GiViNG ADViCE, SO i DECiDED TO USE MY "TALENT" TO HELP OTHERS. i AM REALLY FRiENDLY AND EASY TO TALK TO SO PLEASE DONT BE SHY AND ASK ME ALL THE QUESTiONS YOU WANT TO.

ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA
Gender: Female
Location: USA
Occupation: student
Age: 14
Member Since: March 31, 2007
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I`m a music fanatic.
I always post music questions on here.
But i never get what I want.
I love these songs & bands.

tears don't fall-bullet for my valentine
here in your arms-hellogoodbye
baby, it's fact-hellogoodbye
find a new way-young love
seven years-saosin
lost without you-blink-182
& etc.

i dont like heavy metal screamo or rap. or pop like gwen stefani;akon.

please name some good songs and who sings them PLEASE.
dont tell me to look on pandora because some of those dont even come close to relating to the bands i want.

My music teacher says I have a good taste in music, and wants me to make a mix and go over the bands and why i like them.

PLEASE. :]]]]]] (link)
Ohkay try these:
Stars-by: Coldplay
It Ends Tonight-by: the All-American Rejects
The Best of You-by: the Foo Fighters
I just want to live-by: Good Charlotte
My Bloody Valentine-by: Good Charlotte
3 AM-by: Matchbox 20
This Aint a Scene,Its an Arms Race-by Fall Out Boy
I would Walk 500 Miles-by: The Proclaimers
Dani California-by: the Red hot chili peppers
Remedy-by: seether
Its Been While-by: Staind
Vertigo-by: U2

Hope at least one of these work
ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA

Ghost of you-Good Charlotte
Movin on-Good Charlotte
The Day that I die-Good Charlotte
Broken-Seether
The Gift-Seether
Sugar Were Goin Down-Fall out Boy
Carpal Tunnel of Lies-Fall out Boy
Thanks fr th mmrs-Fall out Boy

Im not sure about the spelling of the last one but thats how it was on the internet

ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA


does anyone know of aol instant messenger giving your computer spyware or viruses of any kind? thanks! (link)
AIM and AOL are usually pretty reliable.
I know alot of people who have them and they have never gotten a virus from it. Its pretty darn safe

ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA


I have an almost 1 year old long haired Chihuahua, with the possibility that he's mixed. (I think he's mixed because he's WAY too big to be a pure bred chihuahua). The first few months we've had him there have been no problems (I've had him since the middle of June). But recently he's been jumping up alot and biting people. He's drawn blood on two people so far, including my nephew whom he bit in the lip today.


We punish him whenever he does this but to no avail. My mom said that if he bites another person and draws blood that we have to put him down. Obviously I don't want to put him down, he's my baby and I love him but this is getting way out of hand.

So far my options are to muzzle him or put him down. For now, until we can figure out something else to do we're going to muzzle him. But I don't want to keep my dog in a muzzle all the time.

What else can I do? I don't want to put my dog down... (link)
There is this stuff called Bitter Apple Spray. You can get it at Petco or somewhere like that. When the dog does something bad you spray the stuff into its mouth.
Or if you dont want your dog to have to taste that stuff you can get a little watergun and spray the dog with water when it does something bad.
I know people that do both of those and it seems to work.

good luck
ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA


yellow sweat stains are appearing on my white blouses in the underarm area. is there a solution as to how to wash the stains off? (link)
Go to Walgreens and buy a bleach pen. BEFORE YOU WASH IT AND ONLY BEFORE YOU WASH IT put it on the sweat mark. It works like a miracle.

Make sure you dont get the tide to go pen.

ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA


ok so i have been looking around on myspace and i see all these pics of posers and/or just pics people have there url or sumthing like typed on it i was wondering how i can write stuff on my pics please help me i dont know how to do it (link)
Go to paint..then click edit then click paste from...
I find it sometimes hard to use paint so I use Microsoft Picture It! Its so much easier to me. It was already on my computer so check and see if you have it.

ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA


ughh. im in a very bad mood sometimes. like alot of my friends have boyfriends and stuff. and i admit it..im sooo jealous. well like i used to have one but i dumped him because well its a long story. well anyways. i see how like their boyfriends protect them. and im reading advice things on here and one was on this thing where her best friend wanted to have sex with her and she had a boyfriend. and everyone is like tel lyour boyfriend he would be so protective over you. and i miss all that. and like i can never talk to my friends on the phone because there on with there boyfriends. and if i hang out with them and their boyfriends its awkward. you know? becuase we all used to go on group dates. and now i either go alone or i cant. what do i do to not be in a bad mood? like its really annoying me. (link)
This may sound totally cliche...but try to focus on stuff you do have like good friends, school, good family. While you're happy because of the things your proud of...one boy is gonna find that totally hot.

ALWAYS&&FORVER
MELiSSA


well this is pretty embarressing but whenever i open my legs i get this really nasty smell and i discharge way too much. i don't think its an infection or anything cause its been this way since around i hit puberty which was like 4-5 years ago. is there anything i can do to get rid of the smell? (link)
Make sure you wash it well in the shower and put baby powder in your underwear.

I think you should have it checked out though, especially, because there is a smell. That is not a good sign.

ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA


I feel really awkward when people ask me about my religion and stuff because i'm agnostic and don't think there is a way to prove if god is real or not. I really don't want to tell my friends that because most of them are really religious and i'm scared they wouldn't like me if I did. Why do people think it's such a big deal if you don't believe in god? I don't know if I should tell them or not. (link)
Its your choice to tell them or not. I think you should. Its part of who you are...just like their religion is part of who they are. You accept them for their Religion why shouldnt they accept you. If they don't they truly arent your friends.

ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA


i am a slacker, all i want to do is socialize which is normal for most teenage girls. But, my grades in school are far from adverage. Honestly, i would love to be able to have alright grades so that way i wouldnt be in so much crap with my parents along with the worry of failing out of 10th grade. My parents have some help teacher on my case he never leaves me alone even when i was doin well last semester he bothered me, i hate this guy. Along with that i am constantly faced with the critisms of my parents and half the time i am completely ignored even when i try to speak. The other day my friend told me my mom called hers and said "two more years and she is is out of here."Take that as you will but, it hurt me. I went through a stage where i would run away because at one point my dad use to physically abuse me therefore i ended up in counciling and my parents have me as a registered run away(last year) but i grew out of that and now i just find myself trying to humor them. The problem is it is putting my mental health at risk. i am pretty convinced my parents are tryin to manipulate me. I dont think they want me to grow up and the problem is i feel like no one can help what should i do?
ps. im already in consuling. (link)
Sometimes I have trouble studying or doing my homework...so I listen to music for a while or play a game or something. Then I go back to studying. If that still doesnt work try listening to music as your studying. Or have noise in the background.

Hope I helped
Good luck
ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA


what does this song mean
i love it and all but i want to know the story f it
thanks!



Artist : Vanessa Carlton

Title : White Houses

Album : Harmonium

Genre : Pop


Crashed on the floor when I moved in
This little bunk alone with some strange new friends
Stay up too late, and I'm too thin
We promise each other it's til the end
Now we're spinning empty bottles
It's the five of us
With pretty eyed boys girls die to trust
I can't resist the day
No, I can't resist the day

Jenny screams out and it's no pose
'Cause when she dances she goes and goes
Beer through the nose on an inside joke
I'm so excited, I haven't spoken
And she's so pretty, and she's so sure
Maybe I'm more clever than a girl like her
The summer's all in bloom
The summer is ending soon

It's alright and it's nice not to be so alone
But I hold on to your secrets in white houses

Maybe I'm a little bit over my head
I come undone at the things he said
And he's so funny in his bright red shirt
We were all in love and we all got hurt
I sneak into his car's black leather seat
The smell of gasoline in the summer heat
Boy, we're going way too fast
It's all too sweet to last

It's alright
And I put myself in his hands
But I hold on to your secrets in white houses
Love, or something ignites in my veins
And I pray it never fades in white houses

My first time, hard to explain
Rush of blood, oh, and a little bit of pain
On a cloudy day, it's more common than you think
He's my first mistake

Maybe you were all faster than me
We gave each other up so easily
These silly little wounds will never mend
I feel so far from where I've been
So I go, and I will not be back here again
I'm gone as the day is fading on white houses
I lie, put my injuries all in the dust
In my heart is the five of us
In white houses

And you, maybe you'll remember me
What I gave is yours to keep
In white houses
In white houses
In white houses (link)
I think it means that this girl moved into a white house with her friends in the summer.

Then she "lost her virginity" to a boy there in a car.

Thats what I think. HOpe I helped.

ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA


what is clitoris? (link)
it means: a female sexual organ homologous to the penis
from dictionary.com

which in my words means a female sexual organ have the same relation as a man to his penis.

so its pretty much a vagina

ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA


does anybody know this song?

it said soemthing like
'she typed away the best intentions'

it's a guy singing and the song
is kinda fast

help plz =/ (link)
I think this is it:

Good Intentions
by: Toad the Wet Sprocket

This is the refrain:
And it's hard to rely on my good intentions
When my head's full of things that I can't mention
Seems I usually get things right
But I can't understand what I did last night

There's little relief
Give us reprieve, oh
Imagining the world outside
I'm positive that I'm not blind

ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA


I have a samsung t609 and i was wondering if i can set a recording as a ringtone..please help! thanks in advanceeee (link)
I am pretty sure you can, because at the TMobile website it said this as a feature:

Voice Notes* Record messages as reminders or just for fun.

Im guessing after you record, you have the option of setting it as a ringtone.

Its just a guess.

ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA


Hey what I want to know is how I can make my boyfriend horney. No I am not being a tease because he told me he loves when I do it but I don't know how I did. I don't want to ask him because I kind of want to suprise him. Also I can't really dress in "sexy clothing" cuz i dont have boobs and I don't talk dirty cuz its just not cool to me. But can someone give me some information on places where I can touch him or kiss him or something that will turn him on.

Thanks sooo much!
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Kissing him on the ear is a major turn on to guys. You can also slowly kiss him on his neck. While your doing that, slowly rub your hands through his hair.

ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA


Everyone hates me! Well , actually they don't but it feels like it. Everything is going wrong! I wrote a note to my teacher and he took it the wrong way. So now when the class doesn't get to do a certain something because of what I said in the note , they blame me. I don't blame them for blaming me but haven't I suffered enough? I'm depressed and I really need help. I want to be forgiven and I don't want them to hate me and I wish things were normal and I wish I never even wrote that dumb note! I even tried "forgiveness" or mean spells to get revenge on people who hurt my feelings last week , that doesn't help , WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!??? (link)
Write your teacher another note, but this time apologizing. Tell him what you meant to say in the first note. Ask for forgiveness and if he accepts ask if your class can do that special project now that he forgave you.

If it's not too embarassing ask him to read it to the class.

Its worth a try.

ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA


im 12 years old and i didnt get my period yet im worried but u know all my family got it at 13 but im still worried and i cant stop getting scareed
help (link)
Every girl gets it at different times. My mom got hers when she was seventeen. Its totally normal.

You have a lower risk for cancer if you start later...so that's a good thing.

And dont worry about, it will happen eventually.

ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA


is it just me, or does anyone else think that it would be hilarious for Sanjaya Malakar to win American Idol? I know it's improbable, but each week he escapes elimination I am laughing on my couch...he's just so bad, and in a way i am rooting for him.

A botched american idol seems pretty funny to me even though it's supposed to give someone an opportunity for a career.


american idol needs something else besides the mundane like the past seasons.



maybe it's just me ha.

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I get kinda mad about that. He is terrible. It makes me mad that people vote for him so American Idol is "botched" There is some amazing talent this year and I would be really mad if he took the title of "American Idol" and they didn't.

Sorry if I offended you.

ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA


Okay so I got highlights yesterday. They look awesome! The only problem is that there are some spots where the highlights are so blonde it almost looks white!! I don't want to go to school with highlights that are practically white in my brown hair so they stand out! Is there ANYTHING I can do to make it fade FAST?! (link)
Truthfully I dont think so. You could go back and ask your barber to redo those spots. He/she should do it for free, because they messed up. If not, comb the darker spots over the lighter spots so they dont show...or put your hair in a ponytail.

ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA


But my bff has this crush on a boy and i met him today. and oh my gosh he's so cute and funny and a type of guy i would like and he just seems like a guy for me. but she really likes him. and i know i'm not stupid i'm not going to tke him or be like hey bff i like him now too and ruin our friendship cause that just messed. but idk what to do to stop myself from liking him and right now i just want a guy so bad. i know thats so stupid but right now i don't have crush to crush on i have nothing no one and idk what to do. i don't wanna like him but i think i'm starting to and i can't help and i don't know what to do to stop liking and i just don't wanna stop talking to him. so do i just let myself like him and try to control the flirting and not tell my bff? or what? (link)
See what happens in their relationship first. Then tell your friend that you like him if it doesnt work out for them. Telling her right now wouldn't be a good idea, because she could get mad.

ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA


Well, a lot of my friends in real life are the type of people that take a picture of everything and stick it on their MySpaces. So obviously they take a lot of their friends.

And in every pic I'm either smiling or poking my tongue out and that gets quite boring after a while. What are some cool/funny/entertaining camera poses I can do? (link)
put your lips at the side of your face and look away from the camera like this: :*

or make a peace sign with your fingers and make like a little kissy face.

those are cute in my opinion
if you are confused im sorry if that didnt make sense you can message me.

ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA




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