i have 2 boys to pick from, and their both long distance.. like one lives in maine and one lives in virginia.. and ive met them both before. so i know what their like.. and i get to see them pretty often. but i like this kid named tj and hes so sweet but he doesn't trust me, and he always calls me lisa. and i think lisa is a girl he likes her something and it makes me soo mad, then theres this other kid named Fred and he always wants to have phone sex n stuff and like it doesn't bother me that much. but like i duno who i like more.. who sounds better??
I think you should tell both to stop whatever you dont like that they are doin. Trust is the best thing in a relationship. Tell them how it makes you feel when they do something you dont like.
good luck!!
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I need help taking care of people. I am a tough chick but need to learn how to be more tougher, and to tell people off. So if anyone can help me here please answer. Thanks.
Say, this kid who is really mean to you and is messing with you. Just say to him/her "why dont you leave me alone and go find a life" something like that.
If this really geeky kid asks you out just dont be mean or anything just say "no thanks" or something like that.
Or if the group of mean girls in your school start messing with you and start making fun of your new skirt or something, just say "why dont you fix your crapy makeup" or stuff like that.
good luck!!
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What do you do if you think someone is really annoying and she is at your house all the time..she thinks that i am her friend but im not..what should i do?
Just tell her to stop (whatever gets on your nerves) and just say to her," i dont think this friendship is working too well" i know it seems hard to say to someones face but, whatever you got to do.
good luck!!
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ok thnight we had a dance at school and my boyfriend danced with a nother girl. usally that would be ok but this girl hates me and i hate her and she talked about me to him and it was gossip and yeahso now he think stuff about me thats trus what should i do?
13/f
thanks i rate
I think you should talk to your boyfriend. First, ask him why he danced with another girl. And if he 'knew' you did not like this girl then ask him why he danced with her.
Next, i think you should tell him that whatever that girl said, wasn`t true. If he believes this other girl about what she said then just tell him that why wouldn`t he believe you (his girlfriend) then believe a mean girl.
good luck!!
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Ok, well, i've been looking around advicenators and stuff. I noticed all these kids between ages 13-15 are so damn caught up on sx and shit. Well, for you to know, I'm 13, and in my town people are so layed back. It's a really small town. I know almost like everyone in the middle school which are ages 12-15. No, one does any of that shit. They all think it's stupid at this age. You never have to worry about having sex at the right time and when. Everyone is like a virgin in my school. I was really confused and distirbed about this......do you think 13-15 is to young to be having sex or not? I'm so confused. Is there something in my town that we're not getting?
thnx so much
-roxy-
It really depends. My opinion is 12-15 is way too young. I think you should wait till you really really love some1. at ages 12-15 you should be having fun, going to parties, chillin w/ friends. you know?
good luck!!
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Well I have this best friend thats a guy who has had this girl friend for 9 moths and now he wants to b me wit me but i dont know wether or not if its for sex or not. But at the same time he's still wit his gf and he wants to break up wit her but doesnt know how and he always says hes goin to but he never does. So I dont know what I should do and any advice would b soo great. Thanxs~Lauren
If you want to go out with him tell him to break up with his girlfriend. If he really wants to go out with you, he will break up with is ex.
If you dont want to go out with him, just tell him. Just say "i just want to b friends" or something like that.
Or if your not sure if you wants to go out with you for you of just 4 sex. i think you should spend a day with him and see how he treats u.
good luck!!
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Hey MiSSc here,
I'm kinda bored with my hair. It's layered, brown, thick, and maybe 2 inches off my shoulder. What can I do to make it more like a celebrities hair but something fast and easy but looks good? Lately I've been wearing pulled up because I don't know what to do with it. I want it beautiful, full, but fast and easy to do. Any advice?
maybe you can get your hair cut in a different style you ould like. sometimes at barbershops they have a hair styleing book.(they probably sell them at CVS too) or if you dont want your hair cut, then try looking at a M magizine, sometimes they have ways to show you how celebrity`s do their hair.
good luck!!
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hi..okay i had asked this guy i liked out to do something with me..before this we hadnt' rally talked too much but he sorta followed me a little at lunch and i cud tell and it was pretty cute..ppl told me that he prolly likes m n stuff so wen i asked him he sed he didnt know if he cud make it to where we were going..then on monday (i has asked on friday)he completely ignored me and on tuestday too..What do u think this means? I was getting a good vibe from him before and now he just randomly started to ignore me..cud he b nervous, or maybe he just stopped liking me..thanks a bunch you guys.
i think he is afraid you might ask him out. Not that its a bad thing but i think he is just nervous. try talking to him. If he keeps doing it just give him a few days.
good luck!
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i have a 3 year old bichon frise, and he IS potty trained. when he was younger we would let him out like 10 times a day to pee. well all the sudden this year he's been peeing on the carpets like at least once a week. we're selling our house, so we got BRAND NEW CARPETS throughout the house, and he still keeps peeing on those! we even get the spray stuff to disguise the smell so he won't go back to the spot but he still does. my dad says if he pees in our new house we're giving him away! =( so how do i get him to stop? i suggested obedience school but they said no he's too old. how do we discipline him PLEASE help if you know about dogs.
Some dogs cry if they need to go to the bathroom, (that lets you know they need to go) idk if your dog does but when you think he is about to go, let him out quick. or if he sits by the door (idk if your dog does that either) but if he does that means he has to go. if that does not work you should take him to the vet and see why he is peeing so much on your carpet.
good luck!!
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my bestfriend moved to va to go to college and i wanna move up there with her soo bad and go to college there but im still n school and im tryna tal my parents into letting me get my ged n go to college so i can live with her i need some advice to make my parents let me
I think you should tell your parents how important this is to you. tell then if you move there you will be very happy to see your best friend. tell them how you are feeling about it.
good luck!!
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i went shoppin with my friend the other day and we kept running into my dad there and everytime my dad would ask me a question shed answer for me. well a little later my dad got rly annoyed and raised his voice at her and told her off for doing that. i got a little pissed because he had a point but i didnt like the way he was talking to her. so i told him to not yell at her because shes not his kid and he took her home just because i said that. then later he told me how my friend is a liar and she bossed me around and she takes advantage of me and all this shit. i kind of agreed with him on some parts but some of the other things she said was totally out of line. now i dont know what to beleive because my dad got me all confused. is it fair what he said and am i being bossed around? ill rate high because this is so long. thnx
I think you should talk to your friend. Just say "look, i really dont like when you boos me around and anwser my own questions and stuff like that." just tell her how your feeling. She will understand. And tell your Dad that you talked to your friend about it and there is no need to yell or talk to her anymore.
good luck!!
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I'm starting to make a collage on my one wall, with like band pics and my concert tickets and all that. I don't have much stuff yet. All I have are my tickets, Taking Back Sunday picture, a Something Corporate picture, and a My Chemical Romance picture. Does anyone know any good magazines to get like full-size pictures of those types of bands? Or anywhere else, like internet addresses? Thanks so much!
you can get really good pictures of bands or singers or celebirtys at CVS in the M Magizine. they have really cool bands and stuff and lots of cool stuff to read.
good luck!!
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Well I've Liked This Boi Jeff For 4 Years And He Finally Nos I Like Him and I Found Out That He Likes Me To. But I Asked Him Out and He said I Don't Know. But I'm Going to Hang Out with Him Today He's Perfect for me My Parents Like Him My Brother aproves of Him..(which that never happens). But he juss is a nice person i don't no how i could flurt with him Sunday like what can i do?..I gave him a hug and stuff but im scared to hug him all the time..soo??
Tell him how you feel. Just say "i really like you and i think we would have a really good chance that if we go out we would be together, and i really want to b with you"..stuff like that. and ask him out again. if he says no, just ask him why. just tell him how you feel about him and everything will work out.
good luck!!
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my friends are drinking and taking drugs! i have tried to avoid them because i am uncomfortable being around them. My friend just called and told me that one of my friends just had drugs while she was driving her attitude and mood is changing and it's not a good change! my other friend i'm not mad at him but i think he thinks i am!! What should i do?
i think you should talk to your friends. just tell them exactly how you feel. if that does not work avoid them. what they are doing is not good and not healthy. as for your other friend just call him up a.s.a.p and ask him "are you mad at me?" and he will tell you and you say "i just wanna let you know that im not mad at you bc i thought you thought that i was mad at you but im not"..
hope everything works out
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i like 3 guys ons name is patrick on is miles and i dont exactley no if i like ryan, patrick and miles are both in the 7th grade like me ryan is in the 8th but we talk more ...Help im so confuzed..cause i really like them..but patrick is what i ant the most.....well patrick knows i like him..............but i dont no if he likes me he flirts...some times but so do th others....HELP
i think you should ask all three guys if they like you. if they all do and you like all 3 of them then it would not be really fair to them. sorry to say but your going to have to choose one. spend some time with each guy one at a time. after you do that think of the one you like most. like, which one made you laugh more, which one smiled at you most, which one was nicest to you.
good luck!!
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I know that guys love outgoing girls, but what about the shy ones? Ive heard from someppl that some guys think that shy girls are kinda cute.. what kind of guys think that? Like outgoing guys? Or shy guys? Or what? And how can a shy girl get a guy to notice her? thanks
if your the shy type then just ask a really cute guy (or the guy you like) if you can borrow a pen/pencil. or ask him what tonights homework was, or if he does not go to your school but you see him around just say, hey, and work into a conversation, if you want, practice on one of your guy friends..lol.
good luck!!
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ok on monday I was dumped and I'm really unnhappy about it but now my ex keeps slagging me off to all my friends one of my friends told me what he'd said when I got to school he was being really nasty to me he kept calling me a ho slag slut and a bitch and said he regrets going out with me and that he never even liked me but when we were going out he text me saying I love you so did he have feelings for me but now he's being really nasty to me and now he's going out with his ex ex and I'm really stressed now what can I do please help me!
i think one of his guy friends put him up to this. sometimes when boys are with their guy friends they do silly or mean or nasty stuff. they sometimes dont know what they are saying. just ignore him. if he does call u names again think of some comebacks like...'go talk to your guy friends' or 'just leave me alone' stuff like that.
good luck!!
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alright ..w ell i'm a freshmen and last friday was our homecoming dance - the kid i originally liked who's a sophmore .. well i tlked to him a little but we didn't dance i don';t think he even like danced at all .. well my friend was there too and he came at a slow song and was touching me and was like me and my gf broke up and i talked to him .. but he's very touchy-feely and he was touching me and stuff .. a little while later he came and danced w. me for a song and then he left .. near the end i came over and he was dancing w. some ugly fat girls but he stopped to tlak to me - and like we wnet to a corner to talk and then we danced and like he was touching me and stuff like that .. but when we were talking his friend was like nudging him like i dunno that way wher you know he's talking about you but like isn't saying nething .. well i sorta like both these boys and i thin they both do .. like i have the feeling but i dunno how to find out b.c one is my like best friend and we''re together a lot in school .. but the other one is more like tlkin to me in geometry and flirt with me a litl during class .. i wanna kno how i can like find out if they like me er they jst wanna be friends .. i can usually o it myself but i can't now for some reason ..
i think you should ask both of them if they like you. they sound like they do. tell them how you feel about them to bc they will probably ask. but tell them how you feel about them and ask them if they like you.
good luck!!
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My guy friend and I just started liking eacother..( begining of thanksgiving break )..and we just told eachother * which is something I like NEVER do * but I am so afraid that he'll just change his mind..and I'm gonna feel SOO weired on monday at school. Ahhh what do I do..we're not like BEST friends but we're pretty close..and I've never felt this way about another guy before. Please Help!!
i think you should go out with your guy friend. i dont think he will change his mind bc you two seem like you two like each other. its normal to feel silly when your dating someone thats in your school/class. it seems like he is into you so he wont change his mind. if he really likes you we wont.
goos luck!!
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ok these TWO guys like me..... well im not sure about one of them but im definite on the other .... the first guy's name is lets say mike well he likes me... but hes kinda a loser.... plus hes a big jerk.... ya this is the guy who likes me and i no that he does. the second kid lets call him tyler.... im not sure if he likes me but all of my friends say that he flirts with me... but i dont even try to flirt with him!!! so the real question is does he like me??
o ya by the way i sorta have a crush on him but i dont wanna tell my friends bc last yere he wassa humongous loser and now hes all hot and sexy lol!!
plz dont delete this i really need advice!!
~*l0sT aNd CoNfUsEd*~
i think you should ask the guy you like if he likes you. tell him how you feel about him. (never be afraid to speak up 4 yourself) it sounds like he likes u so i think you should go 4 it! ask 'tyler' first b4 you tell your friends that you like him. after you tell him you can tell them. its just better to go straight to him.
good luck!!
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