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11. 08. 2008. I'M TAKING A BREAK FROM THE ADVICENATORS FOR A GOOD WHILE. I HAVE WAY TO MANY OF MY OWN PROBLEMS WITH MY OWN LIFE RIGHT NOW. IF YOU REALLY THINK I'M THAT GOOD THAT I CAN HELP YOU, EMAIL ME.


BE BACK AROUND CHRISTMAS.


advice

Im a senior this year and i am so close with my best friend jessica, but i started hanging out with my old friends...and im extremely close with them again, and are with them everyday. I still try and call jess and i see her at soccer practices, but she's started acting really bitchy towards me. I have'nt abandoned her...and its not that i dont care or dont love her still but its not really affecting me all that much...but i dont wanna completely lose her...so what do ya think???

I've had this happen to me before, but ten times worse. And If you were Jessica, think how you would feel. If you guys were really close and you just started being really good friends with your old friends, i'm sure it hurts her. Even if you didn't abandoned her, it still hurts. Why don't you try spending time with both of them at different times and start hanging out with Jessica, i'm sure she misses you. Try that, and she how things work. (:

Best of luck !

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My weight is 120 pounds.
I used to be 160 and with the work that i just mentioned i became 120.
so yeah... its gud rite.

If you said your 5'6, which I believe you did, then yes. that is a very good weight. (:

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I want to play field hockey in college (D1), but the thing is, I'm not a starter. Its not that I'm not good, I'm very good with a lot of potential, its just that our team always goes to states and wins right? So I just don't start or even play that much.
And I reaalllyyy wanna play in college. So I'm a junior, and if you wanna play in college, you have to start sending out things already. The thing is, I don't want to because I don't start, so its just doesnt look too good.
So what should I do? I have to start thinking about it already

Ahh, field hockey is my favorite sport. (:

If you think as yourself as a good enough player, which I'm sure you are why don't you send papers out for colleges to come watch you, and talk to your coach before hand about starting because you have a college watching you, if she won't let you then don't make a big deal out of it, they won't all deny you just because you don't start.

Good luck (:

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well i just started at a new school and ive already made lots of friends but im really trying to get popular! so how do i get popular? before i knew who the cool people were but here i have no idea!! and how do i get invited to a party? i dont have classes with the cool kids so i have no idea how to become friends with them! i cant just walk up to them randomly lol. and i have met some girls who are kinda cool and go to parties and stuff but how do i take it from acquantinces to friends? one of them im friends with but the others not really. i feel kinda out of place with them and dont really kno how to approach them. and how do i meet more guys?? please help! thanks!!! :)

oh and dont think im shallow or anything..i just want to get my reputation in place :)

This question really made me LOL. Ok, If I come off sounding like a bitch here, I'm sorry. But your question is absoulty freaking ridiculous.

YOU BE YOURSELF.

and stop trying to be all "cool" and shit, most people don't like the snooby girl you sound like.

If you can't walk up to them and talk, how do you except to make friends?

To go to a party, you wait to get invited. Pretty simple.

If you wanna be real cool, and not talk to them face to face because your scared or something- add them on facebook or myspace and message them.

Your reputation? It's like your third week at school? I'm sorry hun, but get over yourself.

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Not lettng things brother you

If your question is how do you let things not bother you, it all depends, on what is acutally bothering you.

Your family - go to a friends house.

a friend- stay away for a good while.

school- take a break. no one needs to come home after seven hours and go stright to homework.

find something you ENJOY doing, that will help you un - stress [i've heard of people writing, dancing, walking, singing, yoga, a sport, almost anything] and stick to it. (:

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15/f

i am about 5'5" or 6" and i'm like 120 pounds so i'm pretty average. i really like this dress and would like to get it for homecoming. if i do get it i'm buying it online so i was wondering if you think it would be too short on someone like me? i know dresses from these types of places tend to be really short.

http://www.charlotterusse.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3227306&cp=2843536.2744998&parentPage=family

or if you have any other places online i can get a dress for under 30 dollars that would be great! thanks

The dress shouldn't be that short on you, the bottom spandex part is pretty decent size length. If you live by a Charloutte Russe, why don't you go try it on? If not, I really don't think it'd be to short.

A store in probably any local mall called DEBS has adorable, dressy dresses, very cheap. You can also try amazon.com or ebay.com. I didn't find anything under google for dresses under thirty dollars, but inbox me if you need anymore help. Hope I helped, have fun at the dance. (:



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ok so it's been almost 3 weeks since I fell off of my horse. I was riding him in the pasture, bareback, with split reins and a halter. And I wore a helmet...good thing. Well there is a nearby lake, and a blue heron was nearby and scared him, so he took off and bucked me off and ran toward the gate. I fell on my butt, im pretty sure, but i was face down when i like landed on the ground. And I knew it was stupid..I shouldn't have ridden outside without better control, but ive done it before without falling off. But it's been three weeks and my tailbone still hurts, like when i sit back...idk what to do?

Just ice it, but after three weeks it shouldn't be to sore. I know this isn't much help, but i'm not a doctor, so make an appointment to get xrays to make sure it's okay. (:

hope you feel better.

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Treadmille 50-60-70 minutes everyday
Speed: 6.0-6.1
[Speed walk]
Burn 300 or 200 and something calories.
Is that good enough?.

Well, whats your weight?

& how much do you want to lose, weight wise?

and 200-300 calories, depends on how many you take in.

I need more information to answer your question.

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is there i way i can make sure a certain person can not know i have a facebook? for example.. i moved a few years ago and am not currently friends with my friends from my old neighborhood on facebook. i want to be! however, there are people from my past that i do not want to interact with! what im specifically asking is.. if i add a friend lets name her jessica and jessica is friends with amy but i do not want amy to see that i have a facebook. is this possible? im sorry this is so confusing but i didnt know how else to say it lol. thank you so much in advance!! a quick response will really be appreciated

The only way is to block them, but you have to be their friend, then block them.

If you block them they can't see anything , or message you.

Sorry :/
Inbox if you need more

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15/m
Ok, so I live near St. Louis and I went up to Milwaukee over the weekend and I met this girl at a wedding reception. We both were staying at my aunt's house. We were up all night and we made out and slept in the same bed (no sex.) Now we both came to the conclusion that we would go out if we lived closer to each other, but we don't, so what should I do so she doesn't stop liking me, because I can't seem to stop thinking about her (and it's really starting to take its toll on work and school...) We talk everyday on the phone, but what else can I do?

If the girl doesn't want a lng distance relationship then you can't really change her mind. Have your personaly asked her what could you do to make her like you more?

The only thing I can tell you that girls love are the phone calls, and the text messages, the nice text messages. (:

Inbox me if you need more!

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http://www.folica.com/Sedu_Revolution_d2880.html

or


http://www.folica.com/Sedu_Ionic_Cera_d1557.html


dont care about the price, whch is better ?

The Sedu Revolution has way better comments then the Sedu Ionic. It really all depends on your hair.

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im gonna get a haircut soon and i just wanna see if its gonna look good

this will be my bangs:

#1
http://img231.imageshack.us/img231/1936/1469668813lji0.jpg

and this is the rest:

#2
http://img175.imageshack.us/img175/7148/greatwebhairsd2.jpg

do you think i should just stick with #1 hairstyle or mix the #1 and #2 hairstyle? i want it choppy haircut
thanks!

I personally like the bands on picture one, and the hair on picture two.

There both cute but I don't like the bangs on picture two.

Hope my opinion helped. (:

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what are some easy workouts i can do while watching t.v that burn mucho calories?

do some housework as that is also a good fat burner.

Start by lying on your back, head flat on the floor/couch/bed (floor recommended) and pulling your knee up towards your chin (they do not have to touch), then SLOWLY pushing it flat. Do not let your leg touch the floor. Do this 25 times each leg.

Lie on your side, make your bottom leg straight and the top leg lifted a few inches in the air, bent at the knee. Now lift your leg up until it won't straighten any more. Do this 30 times each leg.

Take the weights; depending on your strength, take one or two (five pound recommended; if you don't have weights, anything heavy like soup cans that will fit in your hands will do) and stand up and put your arms over your head. Bend at the elbows so the weights and your hands are behind your head. Do this 25 times.

Lie down on your back with one weight in each hand. Start with your arms an inch or two over your chest. Lift all the way up and all the way to the sides (your left arm to the left and your right arm to the right). Don't let your arms touch the ground. Do this 25 times.

Lie on your back and hold the weights to your chest. Lift your back several inches off the ground (do not use your head to pull yourself up--your back needs to be off the ground, not your head). Do this 25 times at least twice a day. If you cannot do 25 crunches in a row, then do three, take a breath, then three more. Do at least 10 sets.



Tips-

Doing this every time you watch TV will help, especially if you make a habit of exercising during commercials. Don't skip!

Another thing you can do is find a good music channel and dance to every song that comes on. Dance with your whole body!

You don't have to do every exercise; mix it up and do different ones during each commercial break.

Don't eat while watching TV.

Sit on a stability ball instead of the couch while actually watching the program. Bounce a little.

Use commercial breaks as an opportunity to do pushups or other exercises that take your eyes permanently from the TV. Keep the volume on if you find yourself constantly looking to see if the commercials are over.

Work yourself hard during the commercials, and then stretch for a short time when the commercials are over. After stretching, continue your standard exercises.

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I don't really know about what category to put this in...
i hope it's alright as it is.

ok,
I don't like masturbation at all.
It doesn't make me wet.
It doesn't even turn me on.

Is this weird??
Is something wrong with me?

P.S: some people say it's healthy... is that true?

P.S.S: yes. I've had sex.
[don't know if you needed to know that, just thought i'd put it out there.]

There isn't anything wrong with that.

So no, there is nothing weird, or nothing wrong.

Not ever girl likes masturbation.

I've never heard of it being called heatlhy, or bad. But I did find this on Google, to help answer your question.

Sexual activity, including masterbation, causes many changes in the chemicals in your body. All of which are normal and healthy changes. During masterbation, your body creates huge amounts of endorphines (which make you excited and alert) and hormones (which drive your sexual appetite). Sex and masterbation is basicly like exercize that feels really good. When you have an orgasm or exercize extensively, your body releases another chemical called seratonine. This is the chemical that makes you feel good. Seratonine has an almost sedative effect. Meaning that it's purpose is to calm, relax, and make you feel good. Most people who masterbate or have sex experience what you are describing. They become sleepy, lazy, and pretty much just want to lay around. Don't worry, it's just the seratonine. It's completely normal and harmless.

There are NO side effects to masterbation and it is actually good for you!

Hope I helped.

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i would like a list of old songs (love, sweet)

for example i have; fast car, keep on loving you, waiting for a girl like you...

anymore? thank you. astist and titles!

Here are the 100 top oldies love songs. (:

1 Let's Get It On - 1973 Marvin Gaye lyrics
2 The Rose - 1980 Bette Midler lyrics
3 Love Me Tender - 1956 Elvis Presley lyrics
4 Thank You - 1999 Dido lyrics
5 More Than Words - 1990 Extreme lyrics
6 Building A Mystery - 1997 Sarah McLachlan lyrics
7 It's Only Love - 1977 The Beatles lyrics
8 Let's Stay Together - 1972 Al Green lyrics
9 You're The First, The Last, My Everything - 1975 Barry White lyrics
10 I'll Be There - 1970 The Jackson 5 lyrics
11 Nothing Compares 2 U - 1990 Sinead O'Connor lyrics
12 I Got You Babe - 1965 Sonny & Cher lyrics
13 Wicked Game - 1989 Chris Isaak lyrics
14 Wonderful Tonight - 1978 Eric Clapton lyrics
15 Faithfully - 1983 Journey lyrics
16 And I Love Her - 1964 The Beatles lyrics
17 I Want You To Want Me - 1979 Cheap Trick lyrics
18 Careless Whisper - 1984 Wham! lyrics
19 Superstar - 1971 The Carpenters lyrics
20 I Will Always Love You - 1992 Whitney Houston lyrics
21 Endless Love - 1981 Diana Ross & Lionel Richie lyrics
22 I Would Die 4 U - 1984 Prince lyrics
23 Always - 1987 Atlantic Starr lyrics
24 That's The Way Love Goes - 1993 Janet Jackson lyrics
25 Maybe I'm Amazed - 1970 Paul McCartney lyrics
26 P.S. I Love You - 1964 The Beatles lyrics
27 Alison - 1977 Elvis Costello lyrics
28 Your Song - 1971 Elton John lyrics
29 Wild Thing - 1966 The Troggs lyrics
30 Feelings - 1975 Morris Albert lyrics
31 Fallin' - 2001 Alicia Keys lyrics
32 Every Little Thing She Does Is Magic - 1981 The Police lyrics
33 I'll Make Love To You - 1994 Boyz II Men lyrics
34 Time After Time - 1984 Cyndi Lauper lyrics
35 This Boy - 1964 The Beatles lyrics
36 Best Of My Love - 1977 The Emotions lyrics
37 She's Got A Way - 1971 Billy Joel lyrics
38 I'd Do Anything For Love (But I Won't Do That) - 1993 Meat Loaf lyrics
39 Three Times A Lady - 1978 The Commodores lyrics
40 It Must Have Been Love - 1986 Roxette lyrics
41 I Just Want To Be Your Everything - 1977 Andy Gibb lyrics
42 First Time Ever I Saw Your Face - 1972 Roberta Flack lyrics
43 Nobody Wants To Be Lonely - 2000 Ricky Martin lyrics
44 Unchained Melody - 1965 The Righteous Brothers lyrics
45 I Need Love - 1987 LL Cool J lyrics
46 Love To Love You Baby - 1976 Donna Summer lyrics
47 I Want To Know What Love Is - 1985 Foreigner lyrics
48 My Heart Will Go On - 1997 Celine Dion lyrics
49 Eternal Flame - 1988 The Bangles lyrics
50 How Do I Live - 1997 LeAnn Rimes lyrics
51 Baby, I Love Your Way - 1976 Peter Frampton lyrics
52 Hero - 2001 Enrique Iglesias lyrics
53 Roxanne - 1987 Sting & The Police lyrics
54 Tell Me What You See - 1965 The Beatles lyrics
55 I Don't Want To Miss A Thing - 2002 Aerosmith lyrics
56 Here And Now - 1989 Luther Vandross lyrics
57 Don't Speak - 1995 No Doubt lyrics
58 Crazy For You - 1987 Madonna lyrics
59 Stop To Love - 1986 Luther Vandross lyrics
60 Total Eclipse Of The Heart - 1983 Bonnie Tyler lyrics
61 How Deep Is Your Love - 1978 The Bee Gees lyrics
62 Heartbreak Hotel - 1956 Elvis Presley lyrics
63 I'll Follow The Sun - 1964 The Beatles lyrics
64 Open Arms - 1982 Journey lyrics
65 Breathe - 1999 Faith Hill lyrics
66 You're The One That I Want - 1978 John Travolta w/ Olivia Newton-John lyrics
67 Happy Together - 1967 The Turtles lyrics
68 I'll Stand By You - 1994 The Pretenders lyrics
69 You Don't Bring Me Flowers - 1979 Barbra Streisand w/ Neil Diamond lyrics
70 All Out Of Love - 1980 Air Supply lyrics
71 Secret Garden - 1995 Bruce Springsteen lyrics
72 We Belong - 1985 Pat Benatar lyrics
73 Un-break My Heart - 1996 Toni Braxton lyrics
74 I Will - 1968 The Beatles lyrics
75 You're In My Heart - 1978 Rod Stewart lyrics
76 This I Promise You - 2000 NSYNC lyrics
77 Unforgettable - 1991 Natalie Cole f/ Nat King Cole lyrics
78 I'll Be There For You - 1989 Bon Jovi lyrics
79 Girl - 1965 The Beatles lyrics
80 All Cried Out - 1986 Lisa Lisa & Cult Jam w/ Full Force lyrics
81 Iris - 1998 Goo Goo Dolls lyrics
82 More Than A Feeling - 1976 Boston lyrics
83 By Your Side - 2000 Sade lyrics
84 If I Fell - 1964 The Beatles lyrics
85 Love Will Keep Us Together - 1975 Captain & Tennille lyrics
86 Never Tear Us Apart - 1988 INXS lyrics
87 I Feel For You - 1984 Chaka Khan lyrics
88 Alone - 1987 Heart lyrics
89 I Can't Make You Love Me - 1991 Bonnie Raitt lyrics
90 Woman - 1981 John Lennon lyrics
91 Here There And Everywhere - 1966 The Beatles lyrics
92 You Are The Sunshine Of My Life - 1973 Stevie Wonder lyrics
93 (Everything I Do) I Do It For You - 1991 Bryan Adams lyrics
94 You're Still The One - 1997 Shania Twain lyrics
95 You Are So Beautiful - 1975 Joe Cocker lyrics
96 Always On My Mind - 1982 Willie Nelson lyrics
97 Because You Loved Me - 1996 Celine Dion lyrics
98 I Melt With You - 1983 Modern English lyrics
99 Save The Best For Last - 1991 Vanessa Williams lyrics
100 Words Of Love - 1964 The Beatles lyrics

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helllo:D
i have no extra curricular activities to my name! i'm not much of a team player, so sports are out of the question! i also dont really like anything they have to offer. So is there anything i can do that will be useful to put on my resume? also, do extra curricular activities have to be in school? can stuff like amrtial arts be "extra curricular" if i dont do them at school? thanks?:)

You can look in your school office for programs that are related to your school, that have nothing to do for school. If you join them, I believe it goes on your resume. It's like mostly people who sponser you school, but I do believe it counts on your resume.

No, extra curricular activities do NOT have to be at school. Martial arts counts at e.c, but not on your resume.

Good luck finding something you enjoy!

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