I AM A 13 YEAR OLD GURL WHO IS ALWAYS LOOKING TO GIVE SOMEONE ADVICE. I LOVE HELPING PEOPLE OUT WITH THEIR EVERYDAY PROBLEMS. I AM AN AQUARIUS. MY B-DAY IS FEBRUARY 4. I LIVE IN NORTH HIGHLANDS, CALIFORNIA AND I LIVE WITH MY MOM. I HAVE 3 SISTAS AND 1 BROTHER. I HAVE ONE OLDER SISTA AND SHE IS ON THIS WEBSITE AND HAS AN ADVICE COLUMN TOO! SO NO QUESTION IS TOO STUPID FOR ME TO ANSWER SO DROP ME A LINE AND ILL BE HAPPY TO HELP YOU OUT.XOXOXOXO
E-mail: ciaradawn@sbcglobal.net
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Location: California
Age: 13
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for some reason people think im bisexual even though im not how can i make them stop because i do tell them if i was it wouldnt matter and then they make fun of me so how do i make this madness stop? (link)
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Well you need to stop letting it get to you because they like messing with you and that is how us kids are. There is a girl at my school and everyone says the same thing about her and she ignores it and even though they still talk behind her back they dont tease her about it so she is okay. Just go along with your friends and act like nothing is wrong! BYE!XOXOXOXO
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i've been really fed up with everyone -- for no reason at all. i can barely stand one of my best friends and i have the urge to scream at my family all the time for the smallest things. i'm not a bxtch or anything, and i'm not pmsing. i've also felt really anxious lately. and i have gotten two white hairs in the past few months, and i'm just a teenager. does anyone know what the frick is going on? thanks. (link)
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Its PMS or in other horrible words time to start your period! PMS makes you want to yell at everyone all the time and be mean to the ones you care about. One thing that you can do for that is try "PAMPRIN" it is a over-the-counter medication for teens that have bad PMS and heavy periods and bloating. Take some and then you will be alot better hopefully!BYE!XOXO
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okay there is this guy that i think is pretttty hot....ok REALLY hot, he liked me last year, but now theres only one problem, HE LIKES MY BESTFRIEND! HELPPP ME!....but she is totally wrong for him....i am alot like him.....we are bother realllly hyper...dont care about shcool....and she is really calm....and thats all she does is study...it sux bein a teenager! (link)
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Okay I know how you are feeling because I used to feel the same thing! Well just support it for now and if they end up going out then we will let them see what you are talking about. However dont say anything to them about this okay because they will think you are bieng a hater. So just let them find out the hard way and in the end maybe it will work out the way you want it to! Have fun and wait trust me it works!!! Love ya lots!!!!!
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i want to wear a strapless bra do they hurt casue i havnt worn one b4 lol isnt this stupid but i wnat to no and do they feel the same?
i dont no where to put this but ya! (link)
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Strapless bras are no different but they are sometimes a hassle because you have to stop and pull them up! So my advice to you is Wear Something tight with it! Okay!!! Love ya!BYE
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Do you all think that you are responsible for what you dream about? Like, lets say for example, you don't cuss or something...Well, are you responsible for that kind of stuff? (link)
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OKAY, NO YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR WHAT YOU DREAM ABOUT. YOU KNOW THAT THE OTHER NIGHT I DREAMED THAT I WAS PREGNANT WITH A PUPPY. IT WAS WEIRD AND I GOT FREAKED OUT BUT IT DOESN'T EVEN MEAN ANYTHING. IT WAS JUST SOMETHING THAT WAS SUPPOSED TO KEEP YOU COMPANY WHILE YOU SLEEP!!!!LOL! HAVE FUN!!!
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ok, there is tis guy at school who really likes me. so he asked me to the school dance, i said yes and we went together. i really wanted him to ask me to slow dance but he didn't until the last song, when i was tired and didn't want to dance anymore. so i said no thx, not maybe next time. now he thinks i rejected him from being a couple, and he won't even talk to me anymore. what should i do to get him to talk to me again? (link)
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YOU NEED TO BE HONEST WITH HIM SO THAT HE WILL KNOW THAT YOU KNOW THAT A GOOD RELATIONSHIP TAKES HOONESTY AND TRUST. ALSO JUST TELL HIM THE REASON YOU DIDNT WANT TO DANCE AT THE LAST SONG WAS BECAUSE YOU WERE REALLY TIRED AND YOU DIDNT FEEL LIKE IT.ALSO KEEP IN MIND THAT THE REASON THAT HE ASKED YOU ON THE LAST SONG WAS BECAUSE THAT HAS ALWAYS BEEN THE SPECIAL DANCE FOR COUPLES. SO REMEMBER THAT AND HAVE FUN!XOXO BYE!
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ok... well theres this boy named dave. and he likes me. everyday in school he flirts with me and i flirt back nothing harmful. but today when he asked me about homecoming i told him i was going with some friends. he wanted me to be his date but didnt state that. well he asked me if i liked him b4 and i said jus as a friend and ijust got out of a relationship that im still upset about and im not over my ex nor do i want to be. so with telling him i jus want to be friends and that im not ready for anything and that maybe ill see him at homecoming... was it the right way to handle it? i felt bad bc i dont like to hurt ppls feelings and he is nice and everything.. but im not into him.. did i handle it ok? (link)
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BELEIVE ME YOU SO DID THE RIGHT THING. YOU NEVER DO KNOW IF YOU DID THE RIGHT THING RIGHT AWAY BECAUSE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU WERE MEAN AND LIKE YOU FEEL HORRIBLE.BUT YOU DID WHAT YOU THOYUGHT WAS RIGHT SO DONT LET ANYBODY TELL YOU WHAT YOU DID WAS WRONG BECAUSE IT WASNT.DONT WORRY YOU DID THE RIGHT THING!!!!!!!!!HAVE FUN AND HAKUNA MATATA IF YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS
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There's this boy that I've known for a few years. We talk on email every single day, and we see each other at school.
It feels like we're just friends, but the other day my best friend pointed out that it seems like we are "more than just friends".
I don't believe that, he's just my friend. He's weird, funny, nice, creative, and lots of other things, but I don't know if I really "like like" him or not.
Can someone help me out in trying to figure out my real feelings? (link)
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OKAY I THINK THAT THERE IS A POSSIBLE CHANCE THAT YOU LIKE HIM,BUT I THINK THAT YOU LOVE THE ATTENTION FROM A GUY. SOMETIMES THAT HAS HAPPENED TO ME BUT NOTHING SERIOUS.SO HAVE FUN AND JUST GO WITH THE FLOW.
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when i was on the bus the other day i was talkin to my friend chris (he's a boy) lol and my friend was like stop flirtin...what would be a good come back b/c she's always puting me down and i don't wanna do that sweet thing and ask her why she does it and stuff like that ... please help :) (link)
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BE LIKE "DONT BE JEALOUS" OR "DONT BE HATIN'". THEN SHE WILL NEVER SAY THAT AGAIN.IF SHE DOES THEN YOU SHOULD SAY "WHAT YOU LIKE HIM OR SOMETHING?" THEN SHE WONT SAY IT AGAIN AT ALL,SHE WILL BE SO EMBARRASED.
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I love my boyfriend so so so much but he's kinda insensitive and he's always busy or wont give me a reason why he doesn't want to meet up or anything. He talks more to my friend (who's in all his classes) and his ex girlfriend (she doesn't live near but he texts her all the time.) I don't want to break up with him even though I know he doesn't love me but I can't keep on crying over him every night..what should I do? (link)
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DUMP HIM NOW! THERE ARE OTHER GUYS THAT WILL TREAT YOU BETTER THAN HIM. THEN WATCH AS HE COMES CRAWLING BACK TO YOU! BELEIVE ME WORKS EVERY TIME. IF YOU DONT DO IT HE WILL SO ACT FAST.(PS:GUYS HATE TO BE DUMPED SO HE WILL COME BACK AND ASK YOU OUT AGAIN.SO BE READY!!! HAVE FUN!!!!!
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dear ciara,
i love my girlfriend very very much and i think she loves me to i hope and i dont know what to do i mean she wants me to make the move (french) tomorrow at school and im fellin a little scared i mean ill do cuz i love her and all but i dunno if i should just to prove to her friend i can and will i mean i want to very much but i dont know how i should start i what shoul i say before i do it cuz im gonna do it plz help love cutie?! (link)
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DEAR CUTIE,
WELL IF I WERE IN THIS SITUATION I WOULD JUST GO UP TO THAT PERSON AND BE LIKE "HEY" AND THEN JUST KISS HER. YOU KNOW JUST REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE HER BOYFRIEND AND SHE LOVES YOU VERY MUCH AND PROBABLY COULDNT STAND THE THOUGHT OF NOT BEING WITH YOU. I THINK YOU SHOULD JUST SHOW HER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HER AND DONT WORRY ABOUT EVERYONE WATCHING YOU AND JUST DO WHAT FEELS RIGHT.OH AND BY THE WAY SHE KNOWS YOU LOVE HER VERY MUCH. I CAN TELL! SO CAN SHE!!!!
LOVE ALWAYS,
CIARA
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dear ciara my girlfriend is asking when do i want to have kids what should i do from cutie (link)
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Dear Cutie,
just tell her the truth and ask her the same thing, but dont make her mad at you by saying the wrong thing. Just answer her questions and then be nice. She could be going through a rough time and you might not be noticing!!!!! Good luck, cutie!!!!! Love always, Ciara
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In the "Your Space" style on advice columns where it says "Home, View Feedback, Ask Question..." How do you change the highlight color? Right now mine is a really dark purple and I don't like it!
Thank you so much! =)
xoxo liddylflirtx3 (link)
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Well if you go down to where it says your column
colors there will be a list of colors you can click on and it will change the color on your advice column.Have fun and put in another question if you still dont get it!Bye!!!
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hey i am going to be 13 in about a month and i havnt got my period yet and most of my friends have and there all younger then me... (link)
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okay listen everyone has a different body and different bodies change at different times.I started my period a week b4 my 13th birthday so dont worry it all depends on when your mom and gramma started.it all goes back to your family tree!Ya see what I am sayin'!Have fun while you can periods are no cup of tea!!!!!!!
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My best friend has been acting really weird lately. My other b/f just got home from Kansas the other day and she wouldn't even play with us. She didn't talk to me on the way home from her play and she always wants to do stuff with little kids then hang with us. Whats wrong? (link)
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I know exactly why she doesnt want to hang out with you and your boyfriend!I was just in the same situation and kinda still am!She likes him and it kills her to see you two playing together so she gives herself other options.So talk to her and ask her for the truth and talk to her about it!Also set aside time for just the two of you two if you havent already!Good Luck!
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HELP ! I've got chosen for the school MUSICAL , and my voice isn't that great . Not only that , but my crush is in there too ! do you have any idea how i should practice singing ? (link)
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hire a voice coach and practice all the time.just make sure you try your best and dont show off,have fun!
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okay so i was in a chat room and out of no where this guy asked me to cyber. i said no cuz i didn't even know him. well he started saying shit anyway and i was just about to say shut up to him and block him when my mom walked up behind me. well she read what he said and now i'm grounded for two weeks! but i didn't even do anything and i tried to explain that to her! what should i do!! (link)
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well what did you say that made you get in trouble with your mom?Are you even allowed to be in chat rooms?Give me more info.on this question and maybe I can answer it okay?Bye!
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it's my boyfriend's birthday in a couple of weeks and i have no idea what to get him! does anyone have any ideas? it can't be rude or too adult we're only 13. Thanks! (link)
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OKAY I AM 13 YEARS OLD TOO AND LAST YEAR ON CHRISTMAS I GOT MY BOYFRIEND A LITTLE FOOTBALL WITH A DOG ON IT AND HE WAS HAPPY!SO ANOTHER IDEA IS TO GIVE HIM A PICTURE OF THE TWO OF YOU TOGETHER OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT.SO HAVE FUN!
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im moving and im so nervous about makin friends and enemys and acting stupid in front of guys. How can i make lots of friends? thanx a bunches (link)
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you need to just be yourself. you need to try to get along with everyone and not gossip and not spread rumors unless you know they are true.Like i said just be yourself.have fun.
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I love my new school and my parents promised i would stay there but yesterday my mom said we are moving and im switching schools! How can i fit in at a new school? I want friends! (link)
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just b yourself and try to have fun and stay out of trouble.Hope you have fun!
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