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Q: so i kinda like my best friend (hes a guy) and he doesnt know i do, although people say all the time tht we look like a couple. but one of my friends likes him too, she told me she doesnt like him much tho and tht she would nvr let anything happen. but she wont back off, he and i always sit next to each other in class even if we hav to move people, and we always walk to class together, we r super close, but she always tries to find some way to come in between us. since hes my best friend idk if i should tell him i like him (ther might b a slight chance he likes me back but idk) or should i just accept defeat and let her hav him? please help
hello if you like this boy i think you should tell him or tell your friend that you like him and see what your friend might think about you or what your best friend might say when you tell him you like him .peace and love

Q: 14/f
Alright, so I had been friends with this guy for two years, then we went out for about four months. I broke up with him about a month ago for a variety of reasons-he was taking things to far too fast, I stopped liking him in "that way," and he was too... physical in public. I wanted things to go back to when we were friends. So I broke up with him at school, he was crushed and I felt like shit for a week because he's a really nice guy and probably my best guy friend. But anyway, he still hasn't gotten over me and it's been a month. He comes over to my lunch table EVERY day to talk to me, whenever we're in a group situation he ALWAYS has to stand next to me, and if I am talking about a guy with my friend he will run and stand next to that guy and stare at them. He also keeps making these "subtle" comments about how he's sorry for whatever he did (he didn't do anything, we are FOURTEEN for Pete's sake) and once I was playing ping pong with my friend and he,of course, had to come over ad e on my team . We lost, and he put his paddle on the table, hugged me while quietly saying " I'm sorry" and walked away. WTF??? He makes little remarks like that all the time. I don't feel bad for him anymore... I mean, were 14, what did he think was going to become of it? That we were going to get married? He won't leave me alone and he turns off other guys because he's ALWAYS there. I've started to be kind of a bitch to him as of late, simply to get him to stop liking me because it's driving me crazy. Help! What do I do about him??? He won't leave me alone! I'm fourteen I don't want to be tied down to him!
hello! i do think your to young to be dating but anyway,i had a boy that was also in to me .so you know what i did? i had to be mean to him to get him off my back ,but i ended up sorry for hurting his feelings ,you should try talking to this boy in a nice way and telling him that you don,t appreciate him wanting to be more than friends maybe he,ll understand or you can try ignoring him completely he might just leave you alone ,peace and love :)

Q: Hi!
I'm thirteen years old and in the eighth grade. There's this guy at my school who I like...a lot. He's a really sweet guy, but I've only known him for about a month and a half. I don't know how he feels, though...we've only really had conversations when we did group projects in class. Whenever I see him in the hallway, he usually just smiles in my direction. Sometimes he'll call my name and wave. The problem is that this really popular girl likes him, too, and at the last school dance they slow danced together (she asked him). He seems like the "too nice to refuse" type, but I don't know whether they're dating or not. HELP!
hello! i do really think that your to young to be dating but if you like this guy or want to know if this girl is his girlfriend ,you should try asking him in a playful voice or if you want him to know that you like him ,while!you will have to tell him,i know that it will not be else to do, but its better to let him know how you feel if you want him to like you back ,which i really do think that he will like you back :)peace and love :)

Q: Hi! You know those dreams where you die and then wake up really suddenly? I get those 2-3 times a week. In the dream, I normally end up falling of a cliff. And I'm not falling of the bed or anything!
wow! i have does dreams:) some times when i wake up my body does be in shock ,it,s like every body have does dreams, my friends have them my family ,and different people .i believe or want to believe that its a part of life peace and love :)

Q: How can i move on after things ended with the person i love the most in this world? I cannot move on and i need advice on how to. Also, my ex somehow has completely wiped me off from his life, yet we spent 4 years together. How do i move on?
hello will it,s very hard to move on from someone you love but you have to think about yourself and note what this break up is doing to your life ,if this person who you say you love learn how to move on will you should to,they are more important things to think about in life ,when ever someone you love goes and move on they are not yours,who knows ,maybe god have someone else better to give to you, all you have to do is ask him and he will answer you ,always remember that prays do work peace and love:)

Q: I have alot of friends, who did talk behind my back a little, but always would confess and say sorry, but since this other girl came, she has stolen all my friends, now they all hate me! I don't want her her! I have NO friends and she tells them to never talk to me or they'll do something and never talk to them! It makes me mad!
hello you may feel very angry right now, but gods your friend and once you have god, you don,t need any one else ,you don,t have to study them if they don,t what to be your friend you must not show them that you care because friends like that are not to be called friends you will always find new friends and im sure that you was a very nice friend to all of them and will never do them that ,and you must not say you have no friends because you will always have 2, god and me :)and if you will ever like to talk visit me on facebook or twitter as lenica crawford peace and love:)

Q: me:13f
him:15m
So I've been dating this guy, let's call him "a'...so a is a druggie..but has recently been tryinf to stop, he is the sweetest guy I've ever met. My parents already know him...But they know him as a druggie...he has been changing though..I really like him, and hope my arents can acept him for who he is..butthey most likely won't..they will tell me that i cant date him, cuz my parents are very strict about the guys I date....I love him.. can someobe help me?? Please??
wow!your 13 and dating and he,s 15 and in drugs ? while lets see if i can help you understand the meaning of love ,love is an deep emotional feeling that can not be break ,you will do almost anything for that person ,you will give up your wrong doings to never put the one you love in danger , you will never what to hate that person ,so you say you love him ,but the question is does he loves you is he willing to give up being a druggie completely for you. love is something you can not just say ,you have to mean it fully with all your heart and i really do think you to young for love ,just trying to protect you peace and love :)

Q: I love his personality but Im not attracted to him physically at ALL. I don't want to sound shallow but that's how I feel. I could talk to him for hours on the phone and laugh and have a great time but when I look at him I just don't feel like I could kiss him. I feel like the most I could do is cuddle and hold hands. I feel horrible and I wish I could be physically attracted to him but I'm not. What should I do?
hello it seems like you have a really great relationship as friends with this person and not a deep relationship as what you or he wants it to be , its not bad to be just friends maybe he can be your best friend peace and love:)

Q: My oldest sister is 19...I keep writing about her because if I don't have anyone to hear my story, then I might harm myself...again. To make a long story short...my oldest sis is a trainwreck,a bum, embarassing,slow, and very confused. She once ran a red light and claimed she was thinkin about something else. Not to mention she doesn't even have a license. She even walks around the house with her boxers talking to random girls and acting like she just...has it ALL figured out. If only they knew what she was really like. Ok so my other sis who is 17 made me and my mom some nachos with ground beef. I was eating and my 19 yr old comes down and picks one piece of ground beef out to eat it. She knew it wasnt hers and she wasnt suppose to have a piece. I leave to go tell my mom and five minutes later the ground beef is pretty much gone, their is only small pieces left....I HATE my sister. When I say I do I really do. There is sooo much that she has done that I choos not to mention. If you all knew and could relate. This is only minor but she has been this way FOREVER. She is an oppertunist and only gives a fly---u know what...about herself. A very greedy person and we are constantly having to restock on groceries or suffer during the week because all the food is gone. One day her time will come and all the karma will come back on her for what she has done over the years. It includes her greed situation...and also all of her other stuff she has done. Lets just say this...um who video tapes kids on a carousel to try and call it art? And who video tapes dolls doing "things" and the dolls are the same gender..." who does that at 19???? yeah....I'd say a real TWISTED person. I mean yes children and kids may do that during their "discovery" ages but not with cams and being 19.....I'm so sick of her I can barely keep up. What do I do....can someone speak to me? Calm me down. Tell me something I wanna hear but tell the truth...??? I'm sorry for this long blog, but it had to be written.
hello i think i know how you feel,you feel like your sister has no respect for you and she does just do what she feels like , is,t very else to get really mad at someone who do you wrong but over all she is till your sister i have a big sister and because she is older than me she feel like she can do me what she likes ,i will not say i hate her but sometimes i don,t like her but i learn how to forgive and u should to, ask the lord to help her change her greedy ways or try talking to her and letting her know how you feel about her . peace and love :)

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Jesus is Lord of my life. His love warms me and keeps me together. His name brings peace to my heart and his hands are rest upon my life. He creates my path and lead me where they is good,but only if I trust him. I love my creator and I know he loves me. He helps me and he will help you too. I pray that all who comes to this page receives the blessings the lord has for them. I rebuke all depression, anger, lust, fornication and all the demonic threats the devil neatly planned out for you in the precious name of Jesus. Amen

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