I know that this a hackneyed question and it's hard to answer since you as the answerer are not the guy. But really, he's complicated like all the others
So this guy named Tim is in 10th grade and I'm in 9th. I sorta knew him last year but there wasn't much talking going on between us.
This year, he's in both my lunches and I see him at football games sometimes (he's in marching band) and I just see him at random times I guess.
He's always use names like sweety, darling, dearest, beautiful, and such when he's talking to me online. He's really nice and he says I'm beautiful several times. Sometimes he looks at me at lunch and i know this for a fact because everytime he looks at me, I look back and he looks away all of the sudden. And he lets me drink his soda or something when he never lets anyone touch his soda. lol
But the thing is -- I don't know if he likes me or if he's just normaly weird like that. He always hugs everyone..but girls. So he hugs any guys but not girls...and I asked if he was gay several times and he said no. Haha. Anywhos so he hugs guys only, he's never hugged me. He always says how is your beautiful amazing sister doing (my sisters a sophomore at college and he admires her musical talent)
But then again he stays up until like 3am just to talk to me and whne I have to go he says "sweet dreams" and he has never signed off before I have. He always waits until I say I have to go and then he signs off as if the only reason he was online was to talk to me when he was so tired.
I don't know,..he confuses me. Any thoughts on this?
From what you're telling me, it sounds like he likes you a lot, but the only sure way to know is to ask him why he does all this nice stuff for you/to you.
Let me know how it goes!
AIM:KayleexLikexWhoa
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OK heres the deal I wanta play basketball but if i do i dont think i will "play" i didnt last year and i doubt that i will this year. My coach last year the same as this... called me fat and he dont think i am any good so i think i will sit out every game. my friends want me to play and everything they will hate me if I dont. I need help deciding before Sunday.
PS my softball coach said that i should play and so did my volleyball coach. I think phhyiscaly i shouldnt but mentally I want to.
I think that reporting the coach for calling you fat and giving that as an excuse as to why you can't play. That's unfair and is unacceptable. And most importantly you shouldn't take this lying down. Stick up for yourself.
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I'm giving a speech tomorrow, and it's about "my basketball court" now ive wriiten everything im going to say - EXCEPT the introuction!
which, according to my teacher, is super important!
With that said, here comes my question..
I don't want to say "hey my name is.. and im going to talk about my basketball court" i want a fun way of introducing my speech!
something about the actual game, BASKETBALL, or the basketball court..
I know this is a total challenge for you,
but you're totally a good writer..so thats why im asking.
So thank you - you are truly amazing if you help me with this.
I've been brainstorming but it's not coming to me!
thank you so much :)
for any ideas AT ALL about introducing my speech.
Oh my god, I'm so sorry. I haven't been on in over three weeks because my power supply had sparks coming out of it so I needed to order a new one. I'm so sorry. How'd the speech go?
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I'm currently in a relationship. And i think i'm in love... But how can i tell? What the signs that a girl's in love?
If you're in love, you don't need to question it. You know when you're in love.
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is there any way to get a picture off of your phone uploaded onto your computer? i really need help & am getting so confused, and i really need the pictures. thank you. :D
You can send them to your email and then save them from there.
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13/f
its almost been a week ive been sad. and he still ignores me. i found out another reason... he thinks i like another guy, and he thinks i flirt wit' him... and its pretty much natural rightt? you flirt when you dont' know that you are... but he should've told me to change, or told me, or asked me if it was true. Instead of saying "its over." and leaving me there.. thenn some of my bestfriends is on his side, and im like "we have sides now?" and hes still ignoring me.. he looks at me.. but he doesnt takl to me, im trying to straighten things out wit him.. but he wont listen to me. its nearly impossible to get his attention. if i told my friend to tell him he'll say "so?" in a mean way. if anyone wanna know what else happened.. aim me.. i need ALOT of advice. As for it.
he seems happier than i am right now. my life is messed up at the moment, idk what to do.. im sad, im stressed out.. i cried yesterday.. i felt like crying today..
the things i wonder; if hes sad too..
if he regrets it.. [but hes hiding it.. not sure]
if he still likes me.
lemme guess you must be wondering.. "why do you even give a shit about him ?!" maybe because i still like him.. and wondering if he feels the same. i want him back at the moment. its like nothing .. or nobody can cheer me up or get my mind off of him.. HELPP ?! ADVICE.. ?!
Well, from what you tell me, he's overreacting and just being a complete immature jerk.
There might be something going on with him that you don't know, but i doubt that.
If he really cared he would've asked you what was really going on and unless he has some reason why he shouldn't trust you, he should believe what you're saying.
I don't know what happened before this, but if you wanna talk to me about it, feel free.
AIM:Shotgunwedding57
-Kaylee
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OK, i started school and i have all my classes with this guy. Let's call him Joe. well Joe looks at me some, but i dont know if it's enough that he really likes me. Sometimes i catch himn looking at me but not a LOT. I really like him but i'm scared to ask him out. Cuz if we break up hardly, then i have all my classes with this guy that i hate. Soooo...i dont know what to do!! I like him and i really dont want him to say no because that will be really really embarrasing. What do i do?
If that's the only reason why you won't ask him out, then you're just holding back and depriving yourself. If you don't ask him out, you'll probably kick yourself and always wonder "What if?"
Go for it. If he says no, you can move on and find someone else. If he says yes and you two break up, so what if he's in all your classes?
You just need to go for it. If you like him as much as you say you do, it shouldn't even be a doubt in your mind.
Just go for it. That's all I can say.
AIM:shotgunwedding57
Tell me how it goes!
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I feel like I don't want to live anymore. I did NOTHING this summer and I hate myself for wasting my summer. I lost alot of my friends almost all of them. My boyfriend and I just broke up. My 9 year old sister gets treated like a princess by my parents and my parents ground me for everything that happens when my sister always does the bad stuff. My sister gets to go to my neighbors beach house every weekend and sleeps over EVERY weekend while my mom makes me stay with my grandma who hates me while my mom and dad go to expensive restaurants having the best time. I used to be the smartest person in school with straight A's but now my grades are slipping so much I almost had to stay back. I'm so lazy and never get anything done. I've gotten soo much acne and I've went to almost every dermatologist in the state and my pimples are still there and my face hurts because its irritated. My hair always looks unhealthy. My eyes are too small. My nose is too big and is covered in zits. My hair is dead and I use the best shampoo. And today I got so mad because my parents pissed me off so much I cut my hair with scissors and I just cut a HUGE chunk of the front of my hair so now thats screwed up. My hair won't curl no matter what I use. If you had to live that bad, wouldn't you feel like wanting to die? Everything about me and my life is screwed up. I'm so sad lately and no body and nothing can cheer me up. If I could feel good about my appearence and friends and life then I would enjoy living. I used to. But this summer everything is falling apart. I don't know what to do. It's probably just hormones I'm 13 and I don't have depression I'm usually really happy. I don't know what I can do so that I feel better about myself. Help?!
Although you say you don't have depression, it sounds like you're depressed. Plus you're just becoming a teenager so you're going to be self conscious about your looks.
I've been through this before since I was eleven till earlier this year. (I'm 14 btw) I haven't done that much this summer besides when I'm dragged out of my house by my best friend. And I do that to my other best friend because she rather read or use the computer than leave the house. Which is okay cause she lives a few houses down and across the street from me.
Some of these things you listed arenn't that serious BUT because you may be depressed you're going to take everything a lot more serious than it is. I'm not saying that what you were claiming isn't important though.
If you need to talk about anything, anything at all, my AIM screen name is shotgunwedding57 and my email is cherryflavoredsuicide@yahoo.com cause I've been through all of this.
Hope to hear from you soon.
-Kay
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Ok, i have these three friends who treat me like conmplete shit! I mean i do everything for them, yet its not good enough. I dont know what to do anymore, i dont wana stop being there friend, but i cant deal with it. What should i do??
Why do you have to do everything for them? It seems like they may just be using you, but I don't know the whole situation. You should sit them down individually and just talk to them and tell them how you feel, if you do it in a group they may make you feel bad or say something bad. Just explain to them how you feel about them treating you badly...If you want to explain to me the whole situation so I can give you better advice, feel free to leave me something for my inbox. I'm always happy to help
-Kay
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I have a friend named Bailey. One day she did a prank phone call to me with a bunch of her friends. And it got me real upset because I thought she was my friend. So the next day she called me and asked if she wanted to hang out with me. And she sounded like nothing happend with the prank phone call. And I said, I thought you were mad at me, and she said never! And I asked her why did you prank me? And she said.. it's only a prank, and she hung up. What should I do?
-x Lauren x-
If she's going to prank you for the fun of it with her other friends, maybe you shouldn't be friends with her anymore.
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I am goin out with this kid and my friend likes him too I think I should tell her that I am goin out with him or should I not But we tell each other like every thing
I will RATED YOU HIGH
Please help mee
Always
Mee
You should tell her. If she's your friend she'll be happy for the two of you and put her feelings aside.
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okay, I have tried thousands of deodarants including Exta-dry and none work for me! I want to be able to wear nice shirts and all that stuff but the only thing that stops me are my underarms what advice do you have for me? What deodarant do you suggest? You should know that a girl having sweaty armpits is not atractive. HELP ME OUT!!!!!!!!
Talk to your doctor, it might be medical and they can perscripe something that works for you.
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Well I'm a lesbian and my parents don't know. How do I tell them? I'm scared they'll kick me out of the house or something.
I read in a magazine that if you're coming out and are afraid to tell your parents because they'll kick you out and/or cut you off finacially, wait till you'e out of the house to tell them.
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