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I got my first kiss wednesday and I want to be able to tell my mom and I want to be able to talk to her about things like that and I don't know what to do. Like what can i do so that my moms and mines relationship is stronger? and so i can tell her and talk to her about things like this. (link)
maybe u should just bring it up one day when u 2 are driving in the car or shopping together be like " mom how old where you when you got your first kiss" or something like that and when she tells you shes deffinatly gunna say "why?" and just be like "well i want to build our realtionship stronger so we can be able to trust eachother and stuff.. i kissed ((the boys name)) wednesay and i just wanted you to know" or say something like that ..just say what comes to mind but if shes one of those moms who will go off the deep end then you should wait to tell her.i know its hard for you to talk to yuor mom about that kind of stuff and u feel uncomfortalbe but no matter wht she will always love you


I'm 15 and female and I've never kissed a guy. I go to an all-girls Catholic high school, and I haven't kept up with ANY of my very few guy friends from when I went to co-ed schools.

*reads question, cringes at own stupidity*

So . . . how can I meet new people? I have a lot of really great friends, but it would be nice to meet some new people, and possibly get a boyfriend.

Any ideas? (link)
does any of your friends have boyfriends?
if they do then maybe you should ask your friend to see if her boyfriend can hook you up with one of his friends. or go to the place where all ur ppl chill on the weekends and jus start tlkn to random boys that catch ur eye. go0d luck!


Okay, first let me say I'm going to be 17 in a week.
I've been friends with this one girl for the majority of both our lives. We used to go trick or treating every year, and she's going to want to go again this year, whereas I feel I'm too old, and I don't want to go. I know I need to tell her I don't want to go and not just make excuses, but something in me doesn't think she'll understand that I just don't want to walk around in a costume, yelling "TRICK OR TREAT" for candy.
I mean, I LOVE sugar. Seriously, I do - but I'm sick of trick or treating. How do I tell her I don't want to do this without hurting her feelings? 'Cause I know it's gonna bother her. Our friendship is sort of dwindling...sucks, but true. She's 17 too, by the way. Thanks in advance for the help. (link)
maybe you should just talk to her and say we can still dress up but lets not go trick or treating lets do something different this year you can go to a party or have a party or something. and if she gets mad then theres really nothing you can do she'll eventually get over it . im 16 and i still dress up but i jus usually go to parties and chill with friends n stuff cuz im gettin to old for that to0. hope i helped go0d luck!


i jus moved to another skool and ive been there for like three weeks and everyone seems nice...but thats not the problem...all of my friends from my old skool seem to always seemed to b pissed at me!!it kinda seems like there happy that i moved! i tryed to talk to them and they all r sayin that ive changed big time scence i moved...i dont think i did!i really want to keep my friends but they seem to not wanna keep me ...HELP!!!
i rate good! (link)
did you move to a different city or did you just transfer sko0ls?
maybe your just spending more time with your new friends and forgettin about your old ones. or mybe by just hanging around ur new friends u are changing the way you act. you didnt really give us too much information so its kinda hard to say but all i can tell you is to be your self cuz if ur new friends where really ur friends then they would like you for you. theres no need in changing yourself(as your friends have sed) and just make time for your old friends.


i need to fake being sick to get out of skool tomarrow!!!! what should i do!! i need sum good ideas to get me out of the play tomarrow!!! i dont kno my lines!! (link)
i think that tongiht you should tell them that ur starting to not feel so good and when they wake you up in the morning tell them you threw up in the night and your still feeling queezy.


How should you go about treating an addiction (I don't want to be specific so just say in general) Please help! I'll rate anyone who answers back. Thanks so much. (link)
if its something that isnt serious then you should just take one day at a time and get away from it.each day is anothe step away from your addtiction. and if its something harmful that ur parents dont know about then you should do the same just try to stay awaqy from it and if ur friends are doing it then spend time away from them untill u get better. if its something that is harmfull and is becoming a problem then maybe you should go see a schoo0l counceler and ask them if there is anything they can do to help you. if u cant seem to overcome your addiction after that then maybe you should sit down with your parents(even thought it will be very hard) and just tell them that you need their help. iits not gunna make them happy but it would make them feel better if you came to them for help instead of having them find out about it on their own. hope you can over come this and if u need more help im here!!

~toni


Ok see i have this friend and we have known each other since we were little. For the last two years he has liked me and i dont know if i like him i tryed to go out with him once but i dont know i felt weird, so i broke up with him and never told anyone i went out with him. But see if he is going out with someone else i suddenly get jelgous and want to be his gurlfriend but when he isnt going out i dont really like him as much. It just really confusses me please i need someone to help me (link)
maybe your just being territorial and you dont want another girl to take your place and ur just thinking that you like him when he is with other girls. or maybe you really do like him but you just dont relize it when yall are together. i would say that yall should just stay friends because if you really like someone then you would deffinatly know it but this is something that your heart has to decide for you.
good luck hope i helped!!
~toni


i need help i found out my dad was visiting porn sites should i tell my mom(she might think it was me and i was using my dad)or would my family be gone or what? (link)
you should talk to your mom about it and if she doesnt believe you then maybe you should have a talk with your dad being there so the pressure is on him and also so you wont look like your lying.


I'm getting my braces off in about a month. I just wanna kno what it's like, if it hurts or not, stuff like that, so if u ever got ur braces off, tell me what happens and does it hurt?
Thx.
Much love,
Erin (link)
hey i had braces about 3 years ago it hurts a little bit but not that much its just like when u accidently pop one off from chewin ice or hard candy. when u get them off ur teeth feel like rubber and they feel
really big. go0d luck!!
~toni


hey its alyssa. me and my boyfirend for 3 months are ready to have sex but im still a virgin what position should we use me on top or me n bottem and also will this hurt? (link)
hey alyssa!! i suggest that u be on the bottem because youo dont have to do barely any work opposed to being on top. make sure you use a condom and lots of lubrication or else it will hurt..but its not an excrutiating and unbareable pain you can deal with it the first few times will be uncomfortable. also when you get more experienced then you should try to be on top and use other postions. hope i helped!!
~toni




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