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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]

advice

How can u tell if your pregnant if you have an irregular period??

well the only real way is to take a pregnancy test. or you could wait a few months and if you dont get your period then youre most likely pregnant.

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16f\ not a virgin
I've beeen with my boyfriend for 10 months.
we fool around alot. but I always wear just boy cut underwwear...
do guys think thongs are slutty?
like, if I wore one when he came over, would he think it was slutty or hot? lol
thanks alot! xo

hi. no thongs arent slutty. i mean like some guys think they are, but in a good way. like they like it. he would think it was hot if you wore one when he came over. im almost 16 and last year i wore a thong everytime my boyfriend came over and he loved it.
good luck

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Why would a guy/group of guys start talking to you for no reason?

maybe they think youre pretty =)

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OK I'm turning 14 in March, and I need to start studying for my driver's permit test. Are there any websites that can help me? I live in Arkansas btw :) thanks

honestly the drivers permit test is so easy. most of it is just signs and common sense stuff. and youre allowed to get 7 of them wrong. so you should be fine. i didnt even study for mine and i got 100%.

but if youre really worried then go to your local DMV or the place where you take drivers ed and get info on the test =)

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I'm SO picky on my prom dresses. I absolutely hate those big poofy neon colored gowns with slits up to here and front cuts down to there. I'm all about simplicty with a small embellishment. I love empire waists just because its forgiving and I hate spandex. My favorite colors for a prom dress would be either cream, black, or ruby/pink.

Any advice on websites or designers I would like would be very much appreciated!

go to macys or go on the macys website:

macys.com

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I've always had a 6th sense for detecting peoples body lang. and things like that. I also get these feelings that I have to protect someone...

I'm a 15/m and I feel like I have to protect this guy. And I don't know why or how or when b/c he barely talks to me. His life is not the best and I think that's why I have to 'take care of him', kinda like a brother... but the guy won't talk to me and it's very hard for him to trust people b/c of family issues... idk what to do... normally I would just let it go right? ... WRONG!!!

I can't stop thinking about him... and it's not like I like the guy... I just can't stop wondering if he's ok today, or if he's smiling and happy. I feel like I have to play the part of father? I don't know what to do! Why can't I just stop thinking and worrying about him!?

What should I do? Have you ever felt like you had to protect someone that you've never met?

Please Help!
Thanks in advance.

-Andy

umm no i havent felt like that before. that is very strange. you need to realize that this boy is probably fine and hes just living his life. youve never met him, hes not your responsibility. he can take care of himself. you probably creeped him out if you told him this. try becoming friends with him first.

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My boyfriend fixed my computer a couple weeks ago. And all my music got deleted. Now I have like no songs to put on my Ipod(i just got it) Can you guys give me songs, I like anything, just not the head banging stuff. thank you! =D

try going onto itunes and listening to some of the songs on there. like look at the top 100 and stuff.

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How do you use limewire? I just downloaded it and the songs I try to download say "need more sources" with zero progress. After I get something downloaded, how do I get it onto my i pod?

try restarting your computer. my limewire does that sometimes too. after you download it you have to search for one of the files on your computer and then open the file it is in. that will get you to the shared folder. then you open your itunes and double click on the song in the shared folder and it will go to your itunes and you can then put it on your ipod. sorry if this is kinda unclear. if you have any questions feel free to ask.

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Hello, summer is coming up and i'm interested in getting a new bathing suit, preferibly a bikini.

So, if you could, find me a cute bikini. There's no limit and price and I like a lot of things.


Thanks !

-Hope that made sense

okay there are SO many cute bikinis out there.
but heres some:

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=3H-223682&page=1&cgname=OSSWMNEWZZZ&rfnbr=3958

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=3H-221468&page=4&cgname=OSSWMBIKZZZ&rfnbr=1232

all the bikinis on that site are cute! just look around =)

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my friend told me if you like a gay guy youre considered a lesbian, is this true?

thats not true at all. just because he is gay doesn't make him a girl/not a man.

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I want to get my belly done for my birthday which is in april.But the thing is i do circus 4 days a week and i don't want to damage the piecing by doing something at circus.Wat could i do to stop it getting hurt or damaged?
Thanx

put a bandaid or something over it to tape it down to your skin so you dont hurt it. i dont know exactly what you do in circus, but i do gymnastics and one girl on my team last year ripped her pierce from doing bars. so if your stomach is going to be like rubbing up against something then you should take it out.

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15/f

gahh. this one girl, annoys the heck out of me. shes alwaysss copying me. like not the flattering way though. like i used to be INLOVE with ryan sheckler, before he had his show or anything, when i was in like 5th, 6th, 7th, and 8th grade. & this girl was always like, your so weird your like obbessed with him. hes not that cuteee. and i'm like well i think so. so i go on her myspace the other day, and she has him on there, and it says like under it, FUTURE HUSBAND, love himmm. and like she lies about stuff too to me. like i told her all this stuff i got for christmas, and shed be like oh i got that too. or ill wear something to school, and she'll be like, oh i have that. ive never ever seen her wear it before. and swear to god i'm ready to go a-wall on her.

WHAT SHOULD I DO?

okay shes obviously jealous of you or she really desperately wants to be friends with you. just stop talking to her and show her that you dont like the way she is trying to be friends with you. hopefully she will realize that what she is doing is annoying and will either leave you alone or find her own interests.

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So I just recently quit work at a Japanese restaurant where I met the new bus boy.

He’s very nice, really. But he’s decided that he’s madly in love with me.

It was nice having someone to talk to while I was working, but he’s one of those guys you can have as a friend at work, but don’t really hang out with anywhere else, you know?

So, he asked me to go to lunch with him and some other guys from work. I was like, that doesn’t sound too bad. So I gave him my number (maybe a mistake?) and he never got around to calling me. Okay.

So… he called me right before I left school for the holidays, twice, both times asking what I was doing the next day. “I’m leaving tonight,” I said both times.

He called me a little into winter break to ask for my permission to go to a party. This seems a little weird to me. He calls me again later that week, to ask about another party. “You don’t have to ask for my permission. You can do whatever you want.”

I stopped answering his calls after awhile, and then he stopped calling. Then about a week later, I get two texts from him saying “I love you”. Now I’m starting to get really sketched out.

I got a voicemail from him not but two days ago, along the lines of “Hey, baby, I was just calling to apologize for not having talked to you in awhile. I dropped my phone in the toilet and had to get a new battery. I wanted to wish you a happy new year and everything. I love you, bye.”

I really, really did not feel like calling him back, so I settled for texting him:

'So, I’m off the schedule now at the restaurant, but I guess I’ll see you as a customer. You know I just like you as a friend, right? Happy new year.'

He called me just now. Just 10 minutes ago to ask me to accompany him to his parents’ house. In two years. Because apparently he called them and told them all about me and they think I sound like a nice girl and would like to meet me.

I have known this guy only since November.

“I don’t know what I’ll be doing in two years,” I protest. I'm thinking of studying abroad, but I don't bother to tell him this.

THEN. He asks me to marry him. In two years.

I am absolutely speechless. SPEECHLESS. “I—” I stammer, “two years is—that’s quite a—you know I just like you as a friend right?”

“But we can still keep in touch,” he insists, “and get to know each other more better.”

More better. I’m not even kidding you. …He got expelled from high school by throwing a chair at his principal.

I can’t help but feel like I am partly responsible for the situation I have put myself in. It’s just, you know, most people that I know are, well, normal.

And in college. Or have graduated from college. Or have aspirations to go to college.

Note to self: guard cell phone number with my very life!

I'm incredibly concerned, and could use a little advice. :(

okay this sounded like a big joke to me when i read it. either hes joking and you just dont realize it or there is something seriously wrong with this guy. im guessing there is probably something seriously wrong with this guy because you obviously wouldnt be asking for help unless you thought this was serious. just stop answering his calls and texts. simple as that. i wouldnt really go into the restaurant again for awhile unless you want to have to face him confronting you.

good luck

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13/f

lately, my sthomach has been really toned.i havent been working out or anything. is that normal for around my age?

maybe you grew taller so you got skinnier and your stomach became flatter because of that. and then the normal things you do everyday made your stomach more toned because its easier to tone your stomach when you're skinnier.
just an idea

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I want to make a new screen name--i want something i'll live with for a while.-i'm a dude btw

you could do something with a band you like
example: disturbed9324 (if you like the band disturbed)

you could do something with a sport
example: hoops0923 (if you like basketball)

you could do something with your name
example: jsmith2034 (if your name was john smith)

you can switch up the numbers too.
or do the numbers of your birthday
example: 121 (if your birthday is january 21st)

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I am looking for a leopard bikini. A triangle top and low rise bottoms (string bikini) would be fine. I have tried googling and been to certain department stores and found nothing. Where can I find one THANKS A BUNCH

try macys or victorias secret :)

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Can a girl become pregnant from precum?

yes, there is sperm in precum.

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i have a lot of guy friends and think they all rock. four of them happen to like me, but im a senior and moving to texas to go to college so there is no point in dating you know. but what if i dont find a hot guy in texas. how do i get to meet people and be well liked.

well you still have like half a school year, so if you want to date one of them you do have some time. if you like one of them then go out with them =) you might regret it if you dont. if you guys are still going out when you are ready to leave for college you can then make the decision if you want to keep going out with him or not. you can go to college being his girlfriend as long as you dont cheat on him. if you find a new guy you like better then you can dump him. im sure theres tons of hot guys in texas. and if you dont like southern guys or whatever theres probably gonna be guys from all over the world at your college. so you dont really have to worry about that. you meet people by doing different activities and meet them in classes and stuff.

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But are they Homemade

yes they are homemade. you just buy the bag of chocolate chips and then the recipe is on the bag.

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i have been going out with this guy for like 3 weeks now. and everytime he trys to french kiss me i freeze up. and go mmm noo. nott now. or something stupid like that. and i want to kiss him i really do. but i dont know why i freeze up like that. its like a reflex or something.
any idea whyy?
thankss in advance

that used to happy to me with my last boyfriend. maybe youre nervous? just go for it. dont think about what youre doing and just do it.

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