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ok soo i like this boy... alot & i was straight foward with him ... i told him i liked him & when i told him we talked & we always gave eachother hugs& kissed ((only once on the cheek)). & then he bought me in this room in school just me & him & said I know you like me & I like you to but I don't want to go out with you right now because i have basket ball & i wont see you, so were not going out. but it's weird because he always is free on the weekend & i can go to his games & it would also be good because we would have space, but i didn't say anything. & now we never talk & when he sees me he just looks at me. I'm wondering should I give up on him & look for someone else or wait, but i'm also wondering if he even like me in the first place & he was just saying that??

----> confused♥

i think you should call him or pull him aside and say hey i still like you and ive noticed that you do have time and i can always come to your games. were you just telling me that you like me when we talked? and some other stuff. if you were upfront with him about telling him that you like him then you should let him know about how you feel. and if he says something like he dont like you nomore then just ask him if you guys can be friends and find some one else.


hope i helped..... good luck

x0x kayla

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i had some drama within my group of friends. me and my 2 bffls told some of our other friends how it annoyed us that they always talk about their amazing sleepovers infront of us and we're never invited. They all hate me now, and they really dislike my 2 friends, but since i did most of the talking, they especially hate me. They said some really mean stuff about me and even said they "never liked me." i know i shouldn't care about girls who pretended to be my friends for 3 years, but it really makes me so mad! i have friends on my side too, but i feel so crummy about the things that said about me, calling me a b*tch and a hoe and annoying and stuck up. what should i do? i'm so mad at them!!!

15/f

well ive had a lot of arguments with my friends. and just to let you know when they say they never liked you its totally not true! its just a thing they use to convince others that they arent upset and make you look like the bad one. and you were just telling the truth about them when you said that they were annoying.. so i guess they cant handle the truth. now when they call you a ho* and a Bitc* then thats when you need to stick of for yourself. personally i would say stuff back or fight them but its up to you. and it isnt better to ignore them because if you do then theres a chance they will keep talking out of their as*!

hope i helped...!! goodluck

---->>&&heaRts;kayla

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This guy that I really like in my senior class has been dating this girl who behind his back makes fun of him. He is so in love with her, he'll buy her a dozen roses for no occasion and bring them to school for her. I also heard he spent hundreds of dollars on a bracelet for her birthday. I know what she's been saying behind his back because she's in my french class. The other girls wanted to see her new bracelet and she just rolled her eyes and said "this is the THIRD one he's bought me"!. She is such a superficial bitch. She's also said she's only with him because his family has money. She's also a bigot, I've heard her making derogatory comments about homosexuals and african americans. I also heard she's cheating on him. I don't know what he sees in her. She is very popular and pretty, but has the personality and kindness of a dead squid. He would be heartbroken if he knew what she said about him and did behind his back. He is such a nice guy, I feel sorry for him. Should I tell him or just keep my mouth shut? Or, before I forget, HIS friends make fun of him behind his back for how hard he's fallen for her.

i totally think that u should tell him if your a good friend you would! explain to him that there is so many girls out there and that shes treating him bad hes just to into her to realize it! i mean if you dont tell him now then hes just gonna find out the hard way and that will break his heart even more!! it sounds like that girl is a bitch mabe you should confront her about it to! i mean beat her a**! lol! but ya you should tell him and stand by him at this time!! good luck!!

xox kayla

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Do u think im too young for sex? I WANT TO SOOOOOO BADDDDDDDD! uhhhh..hes 17, but he promises me i wouldnt get pregnant if we used a condom in he took it out before he cummed in me..is that true?

well im 14 and the first boy ive had sex with was 17! so sounds like ive been in the same posisition!! first its not about that you want to have sex! dont make the mistake of loosing you virginity with a loser! or some one that if you become pregnant wont be by your side! 14 is young but thats when i lost my virginity! but i did it with the boy that im still with and weve been going out with him for 5 months and i know he really loves me! and if you do have sex make sure he pulls out b4 he cums and use protection! my advise dont use trogan ulta thin! they break real easyily! hope i helped! and if he pulls out and you use protection its a high doubt you will get pregnant!! dont make a stupid mistake!


hope i helped!

--->>x0x kayla

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i had sex for the first time the other day
we used a condom and it didnt break
he didnt bust when we did it either..
he just had a little bit of cum and pre- cum in the condom...
so my question is..
is there still any possible way i could be pregnant?
what are some signs that you could be pregnant?

Well if the condom didnt break then there is a highly doubt you are pregnant! just always use protection! my advise is not to use trogan ulta thin! with spermacide! because ultra thin ones break real easily! i dont even know why they make them!

hope i helped! take a pregnancy test though!but i dont think you are pregnant!

---->>x0xkayla

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could you get pregnant if the you had sex without
any protection whenever a girl is on her perid?!

Yes unfortually! The only way you will know for sure if you are pregnant is to go get a pregnancy test! not only can you get pregnant you can stds and other things! not saying that the person has them but you never know! they have pregnancy tests that you can take 5 days after you had sex! you can get them at walgreens walmart! basically any drugstore!

hope i helped!

---->> x0x kayla

p.S and if you become not pregnant next time think before you do it! its just a lesson that needs to be learned and i learned it!

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ok, well my best friend (also my neighbor) she told me that yesterday her paretns got the flu and she couldn't play cause he parents did wanna get me sick incase she was sick. well about an hour ago she IMed saying she was going out to breakfast with her dad (i didnt get to talk to her i was away) and we don't really get to hang out that often and i'm not sure if i should play with her or not cause i really don't wanna get sick but i don't think shes sick and i've onl gotten like throw up sick 2 times in my life so i dobt i would get sick but i dunno. Please help me!!!

btw i'm 14/f if that helps

Well i think you should hang out with her! and if you get sick just think you will not die! and you will get to stay home from school! theres a high doubt that you will get sick! just dont drink off of her! good luck! hope i helped!!

---->>x0x kayla

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Hey im 15/f and i was wondering if there were any face products that actually worked on fighting zits and pimples. I tried almost everything! But it either makes my face dry or gives me more zits and doesn't work. I pop them when they come but they become a horrible problem.. so it there any products that i could use that work and wont dry out your face? And another thing is, i know that some foods will make you break out or do something to your face. What foods are thoughs? Thanks a bunch i rate high!

Proactiv! duh! It works really well and its not that expensive! 19-40$! the number to call is
800-996-3700! i really hope i helped! and the greatest luck to you!

--->>x0x Kayla

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I know this seems like a classic, but I'm in love with my best guy friend. We're both 16 and I don't mean puppy love. We tell each other that we love one another, but he is the kind of guy who wants to date you, but is afraid to. He flirts with me all the time. (e.g. holding hands, telling me that he loves me, hugging) I know he's a guy and all, but he is constantly starring at my breast. One time when he was giving me a hug, he "accidently" grabbed my butt. I know you're thinking that is is just a "accident," however; I though most people can tell the difference between your butt and your back. Anyways, I really love him and he knows that, but what can I do to get him?
~!Thanks!~

If i were in this situation i would tell him"" Look we have been good friends for along time" and we know how to treat each other" I know your probably afraid that ill hurt you" but i want to be with you"! hope i helped! but you have to remember that hes not the only boy out there!!
good luck!!

---->> x0x Kayla

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Well, I like this guy and one of my "friends" told him, but she said she didnt. I heard from about 6 people that she did but she keeps lying to my face about it. I'm not even mad that she told him just that she lyed to me. I even told her that I thought someone said they heard her telling him and she said "Well obviously this person doesnt want us to be friends if they're telling you this." What should I do?

I would just let it go! that shouldnt mess up your friendship with her! just tell her " I believe you when you say you didnt tell him" "But if you are lying i rather you tell me the truth next time! " i wont get madd"! hope i helped! Good luck with your friend!

---->> x0x Kayla

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I have two younger siblings. Some might say that I shoulk babysit them fir free, but I also cook, clean, and chase them around. I think I should get a little something. What do you think?

I think its totally unfair if your parents think that you should babysit them for free! you shouldnt even have to babysit them anyways! its your parents kids not yours! but if your not doing anything on the weekends or when ever you are asked to babysit them then do it (( but not for free))! i think its unfair! Goodluck with ur younger siblings!

--->> x0x Kayla

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