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ookaaay so i got my period on the 25th of april. now im ussaully on a normal period cycle. i had sex with my boyfriend on either the 2nd or 9th of may. we used a condom. and i wasnt itchy down there. but i havent had my period since. and im having horrible stomach pains. its been 41 days since i got my period. does this sound like im pregnant?... and are there any signs i can look for? (link)
Just because of the fact that those two signs are present,you should get to the doctor right away.If you are pregnant it's probably too late,but it could be nothing.


Okay. Im on birthcontrol. I take my pills regularly. Me and my boyfriend have sex..alot. I was wondering with the use of a my birthcontrol and a VCF pack.{a spermicide killer} that he could cum in me..and i wouldnt get pregnant? i dont know if i would or not. only answer if you truly know. thanks in advance (link)
The only true form of birth control is abstinence.With both of the forms you're using the chance of getting pregnant is EXTREMELY low,but it's still there nonetheless.


what is the meaning/difference of these words?

oral sex:
anal sex:
blow job:
hand job:

also, can a blow job and hand job be performed on both a man and a woman?

thank you very much (link)
Oral sex:Mouth to genital sex.
Anal sex:Penis to anus sex.
Blow job:Oral sex performed on a guy.
Hand job:Jacking a guy off.

Blow job is the terminology used for oral sex on a male,so it can't be performed on a female (oral sex on a female is usually referred to as eating her out).
A hand job is the terminology used for using your hands to simulate sex on a guy,so that technically can't be done on a girl either.Usually when you use your hands on a girl,it's called fingering.


do not read this if you dont know what im talking about. Im a guy. and.... when i checked the inside side of my foreskin i found these small white bumps, quite tiny. There is quite a few of them. at first they stung and the skin around them was sore and bright red. now they dont hurt at all but i was wondering was it an STD or something and is there a cure? (link)
It sounds like an STD,if not it's at least some kind of infection.

Why would you ask a bunch of people on the internet about something like this over a doctor?




i love christian screamo. like. underoath.
does anyone know any good bands like that?
that are christian? (link)
Marilyn Manson
GWAR
The Doors
Slipknot
Christian Death

Really,why does it matter if they're Christian or not?Most Christian bands don't even sing about anything remotely Christian.Is it just that you're so blinded by your faith that you have to turn away from people that don't adhere to it?


My style of decorating is really fun, and I want to translate it to my clothes. I need some advice on how to do that. I love my room! Let me give you an idea of what it's like. I have a lot of random stuff on the walls, like a bunch of cds I glued together. The window has green strips of material hanging to the floor, marti gras beads, a scarf, a necklace from Hawii, and a mirror. It sounds funny, but it looks put together. Then I have lots of little posters from my church tacked to the closet doors and a little nook with a ton of pillows where I read. I made some of them. I have LOTS of color and LOTS of patterns and textures and one of my favorite parts of the room is a snake lamp with about ten heads and a different colored ball at the end of each. These are the lights. It doesn't look bad at all. It doesn't even look crowded because there's lots of open floor space.

How do I make this into what I wear? Any suggestions would be great. (16, btw) (link)
So you more or less want to transfer your creativity over to your clothing,right?An easy way to do that is to look into older styles,and from there you can mix and match things from different time periods.It may sound stupid,but it can look good if you can actually find a way to pull it off.

Another thing you can do is incorporate other cultures into your style.Find things from other places that grab your interest,and think of what you can do with them.

All I can really tell you is to find the balance between fashionable and outrageous,and you're good to go.


What are some signs your boyfriend is falling out of love with you? (link)
Major sign is if he stops saying it,or at least say it less often then he used to.If he doesn't talk to you as much,shows more interest in other girls than usual,and stops spending time with you...it's safe to say that he doesn't love you anymore.


My son is 8 years old. He has a very good memory power. He now can tell capitals of all the 193 countries in the world.
Can yu advice me of any other items like above which he can master? Eg currencies of countries, etc.
Kiddly advice.
Regards
Anish (link)
-Currency
-Leaders
-Major religions
-Important events (in chronological order)
-Who made certain inventions and where they came from
-Important pieces of literature from specific countries
-Wars that countries were involved in
-How to enjoy being a kid instead of wasting his time on trivial things that only make you feel good as a parent.


Im Thirteen, and im a female.
Im going into 8th grade, and this
guy i like is going into 9th.
We like each other, but im having troubles
trying to get to where I..trust him
I guess you can say. He's had a past
girlfriend, who im very very good friends
with. And they well.. went out for about
two years and had sex. And Me and Him
just recently broke up from like just a one
month relationship, i broke up with him.
And I here him & my friend he had a past
relationship with had started talking,
and said they still love each other,
but im suppose to not know that, so i cant
confront him or her about it. And he says
I love you. And i say i love you too, or
the other way around. All over text.
We do not whatsoever seem to ever talk on
the phone.
So i guess what im asking is,
how do i control all these feelings of
knowing they have a past relationship,
and knowing they have recently talked about
it. Although he says he loves me.

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If he's into someone else and he can't even tell you that he loves you outside of a text message,just move on.Being only 13,you have PLENTY of time to meet the right person...not to mention the fact that he's going into high school so he'll be getting introduced to new people and things anyway.



I've been with my boyfriend since October 23rd 2005, i'm 15 almost 16 and he turned 18 in March. [ if that helps ]. He started living with me about 6 months after we met. We fight sometimes , but when we do fight he sometimes gets abusive. We got in a fight like a week ago and he grabbed me by the back of my neck forcing my head down in the my bed. My first thought after he did it was " well i don't feel the pain now , but i know in a couple days my neck will hurt ". and so it did.... i really love him alot and i wish he would change. is there anything i can change about myself for him to stop this , because i know in the future if this keeps happening , we won't be together.


thank you so much.
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It's not your fault and you don't need to change yourself to meet the demands of an abusive piece of shit.Break the relationship off if you're smart.If you just sit around and take it,he's going to see that you're weak and the abuse is just going to get worse and worse.When people are killed in relationships,do you think that it happens out of nowhere?No,it starts like this and gradually gets worse and worse until you're left with no way out.

If you don't want to listen that's your deal.You're putting your happiness and well being in the hands of another person,so don't blame anyone besides yourself when it blows up in your face.


I really want a 'scene' style haircut.
At the moment my hair is about an inch below the shoulder, with a couple of long layers, and no fringe. It's also really dry and goes flat on the top and sticky-outy at the bottom.
I know no haircut is going to cure the dryness, but I'd like something that will stop it from being flat on top and sticking out at the bottom.

I want it trimmed, with lots of layers put in so it has quite a bit of body on the top, and then a sweeping side fringe (sort of like an emo fringe if you know what I mean).

The problem is, I can't find any pictures.
So I'd really like it if you could find any links with pictures of haircuts for me, preferably from a face-on angle, because it's easier for a hairdresser to know what you want from a photo where the person is properly facing the camera.

So yeah, if you can find any pictures, please give me the links.

Thanks in advance, xxx (link)
Just tell them that you want to look like every other kid that thinks they're original,even though they're all carbon copies of eachother.They should understand.


ok for a project in school i have to make up an interview with a durvivor from the genocide in darfur. but i have no idea waht to ask and what the answers should be. help?! (link)
Ask them:
What they saw
How they felt
If they thought they would make it
How much they lost
What they think of the people that did it to them
Why they think they weren't helped earlier

For the answers,just think of what you would say if you were in that situation.


hey im a 14/f and yeah i know your thinking wow she is young to be hving sex!! but i dont want to have real sex or anyhting and neather does my boyfriend but we want to have oral sex , How do you do that please help and one more question what kind of noises should i make to turn him on ?? (link)
Well,you take his happy stick and put it in your mouth.From here you basically just suck and lick.Moan for extra effect,and touch yourself if you're feeling extra daring.


Hey im a 14/f and i adore my boyfriend and he adors me acording to him anyways but i trust him but yeah my question is what kind of things turn guys on ??? like i want to cuddle my guy and stuf and have it seem, really.... sweet and i really need help si can you heklp me ???? and what kind of things would turn you on if yor a guy ?? give me some idea's please and um when i kiss him what should i do so it doesn't just seem like a regular kiss?? i mean i have kissed him befor but i dont want it to be like every other kiss
love,
bubble gum
P.s. please help (link)
Naked girls usually turn most guys on.


15/m/uk
right well basically im pretty bright and a mainly always get a's some b's and a few c's i am complete mad about sport i am a gd long jumper aswell i want to have a good job in my future but i havent a clue what i want to do i want a high paying job but anything to do with sport is low pay and if there is a high paying job i dont know the qualifications could anyone name some jobs with hgh pay in sport in the u.k and could anyone tell me what qualifications i would need for an accountant i consider being a fitness trainor but its difficult to get started anyone with experience and a succesfull job with high pay please post back so i can ask chat i realy would like a succesful future thanks to everyone for reading this. (link)
Well if your good at sports,play professionally.I don't know how it is in the UK,but in America professional athletes are right up there with actors and musicians.Doesn't seem like bad pay to me.

And by the way,try not to post a monstrous run on sentence next time.


So i have had a lot of boyfriends in my past, and had no problem saying yes. It used to be like when someone asks me out i say yes right away, but this year it's been so hard, i have had no boyfriends. guys have asked me out but they just don't seem right. what is wrong with me? no one seems right? should i just go out with the...or whatttt...? (link)
It's just the fact that you've learned not to give yourself to anyone that asks,and you actually want someone special.What's wrong with that?


i am always wet not always horny i have tried fingering myself but it does nothing i dosent even feel good help! (link)
Try razorblades.


my name is Rachel and iam 18 and i don't have an id and i don't think my mom'll get me one either is there anyway for me to buy ciggerates without an id can i use my highchool id?
iam sorry if this isn't under the right category. (link)
Hmm...why did you feel it necessary to tell us that you're 18?

Anyway...it really does depend.Certain places won't look at your school ID,and some people just don't care and will sell them to you anyway (especially if you look like you're of age).

If that doesn't work...get an 18 year old to pick them up for you ;)


Alright well to start things off i have no cable. i've been watching cool anime shows on the internet and they are quite awesome i was wondering if anyone knew more like Naruto,Bleach, and Inuyasha? i only watch the english dubs and im at the point where they now come only once a week. i need more anime shows to kill time while i wait for the english versions of my other favs. =P (link)
Hellsing's really good if you don't mind something a little more mature.Everything from the music,characters,artwork...it's all great.

Rurouni Kenshin is one of my all time favorites.I thought that the story was really good all the way through,even though it's a fairly lengthy series.

Azumanga Daioh can be funny if you don't mind the show consisting of pretty much all girls.

Most iterations of the Mobile Suit Gundam series are awesome.It's one of the forerunners of the Giant Robot genre.

Dragon Ball Z's always nice to go back to but it's gotten pretty old.

That's all I can think of for right now.


hi, well ive seen two people/charecters with like, belts hanging from there pants. does anyone know what im talking about? steve from the tekken 5 game, and "the miz" from wwe wrestling both have this thing going on. its like a belt, but hangs from where the welk is, and creates a sort of loop. like instead of wearing chains from your pants, they're belts. i was just wandering if these are belts, or do you get these things specially made for it? thanks (link)
They're suspenders.If you don't wear them like they're intended they dangle like that.




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