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Q: Does anyone know of any websites where you can get cheap posters of like bands and stuff?

Maybe smartpunk.com, or hot topic's online store (although it's not so cheap). Also, ebay is a great cheap poster spot.

Q: 14/f Okay just wondering can you get an orgasm from intensly grinding (dancing) with someone? Like if the guy was (outside your clothes) rubbing his hand on your upper thigh/hip and it was really intense. Also what exactly is an orgasm? Thanks. I'll rate!

Mosty woman won't orgasm until they're around 25. Maybe, you were just extremely arroused.

Q: me and my boyfriend want to kiss...he has already kissed someone and he knows how to kiss..but its my first kiss and i dont know how to kiss at all...will i know when he goes to kiss me? is there any ways to practice kissing?

What's great is you totally know, yet you don't. Soemthings going to happen, but your not expecting the kiss.

Bwahaha. First kisses are amusing.

Q: ok i had sex on my period, couple of days after and that sunday it was the first time i go on the pill can i get a preganant? and if yes how can i b sure ? is my period going to come is thier any danger for the baby if i keep using the pill ? please help me i need all the info i can get it will realy help me with this agony i have...

Probably not, because you don't ovulate during your period. You ovulate about the 2 week between periods.

Q: My sister and i are going to see mindless self indulgence, a band, and both of our cars arent that great and the drive will be about 3hrs or so. How will we get there?, My sisters car can do it but shes really worried about her car actually making it there and back.

Well, there's always buses, metros, cabs. You name it. You can get anywhere for cheaper than those damned huge gas prices. Or hitch a ride with anoth MSI fan.

They rule. Have fun!

Q: ok i listen to music like fall out boy, my chemical romance, hot hot heat, green day, 3 doors down, system of a down and all kind of music like that but im lookin for some new bands can anyone help me out??

Well, some you migt like are:

The Rocket Summer
Rancid
Atreyu
Bensin
HelloGoodbye
and The Academy Is...

For any type of music advice, feel free to ask anytime!

I listen to way to many genres and bands to not have a recommendation for you. =D

Q: I am new to this site and it seems infested with young teenagers asking about bands who care more about their image than their music. Since when do trends like black hair and girls jeans take precedence on what muscians are there for in the first place? Everyone is following a cookie cutter sound and it seems no one cares about throwing something fresh into the music community and that the only way to get noticed is to follow the crowd.

I guess what I'm asking is, are the cookie cutter image based bands just marketed well and forced upon youth, or are kids not being exposed to the real music enough for them to get into it?

First off, have you ever been in a band?

If you haven't, the fact is that sometimes fans go a little, wlell, crazy. You put yourself in a poistion where kids will idolize you, wheather your a MTV or Underground musician. Some kids like to take little things from you because they think your cool: you look, your music style, you hair cut, you name it. Fans are fans. They're nothing musicians can do about it.

Kids hear what they hear. That's life for ya.

Q: Me and my brothers best friend got really involved and I gave him my varginity!! Now I am not allowed to be near him becuase my brother feels that it would hurt me more. The fact was that he used me and I dont hate him. I want to see him so I could tell him how he really made me feel but no one will let me! What should I do? (i am now almost 16 and he is 20)
What should I do? I want him to know how much he hurt ME!

Well, if he was 18 at the time or older, sue him for statutory rape.

BTW, it's spelled virginity.

Q: the thing is, people are telling me my boyfriend is cheating on me ..he has been doing stuff with other people when he went out with other girls.. whenever i talk to him about him cheating on me he always walks away and doesnt talk to me.. i dont know what to do! he says he didnt cheat on me but he lies! what do i do.. i love him so much

If he won't answer the question, there's definitely something up. People who avoid questions, don't have the answer you want to her.

Hope that helps.

Only other suggestion is get some tip offs on where he supposedly takes these "other girls" and try to catch him in the act.

Q: im 15 and i am girl need advice on how do you break up with a guy you have been dating for a year and four months because you dont like him or love him anymore and i dont have an explaination why??...HELP!!..he thinks it because of the hurricane and me loosing everything i had but its not ..my feelings were this way before that..and we are taking a break right now but he doesnt get the terms "TAKING A BREAK MEANS"...and i have basically created a monster..because i never get to hangout with my friends anymore or doing anything but be with him and its getting old and soo is the relationship because he takes it way to seriously considering we are only 15 and 16..he thinks that im "THE ONE" ..and wants to spend forever with me??..and there will never be another girl for him???..soo i need advice on how i should break it to him in a way that it wont hurt him that bad and we can still be friends!!

Well, you just answered you're own question. Your reason for breaking up with him is because you don't seem to be on the same page in the relationship. He has more feeling than you do, you simply don't feel the same.

Q: My friend asked this guy what he thought aboout me, and he wouldn't answer her, he just tried to get away from her.

Does this mean he doesn't like me?

There is always the possiblility that he does, but you can't judge attraction by one simple action. Test the waters even more, talk to him whenever you get the chance. If he is genuinely interested and/or seems to know something interesting things about you already, you may have some puppy love on your hands.

Q: this might be crazy, but why r guys stalking me everytime? lol

Maybe your just that great of a person.

Is stalking an exageration or are wierd guys just always hitting on you.

The best thing to do with the weirdo's always having a crush on you situation is to be nice, but be careful not to give false hope. Make sure you aren't flirty around them, and to be kind of quiet when talking to them, don't be extremely talkative. Eventually they'll get the idea.

Q: My girlfriend and I have been in a very seriuos relationship for about a year and a half. She doesn't really have many other friends other than me and hesitates when turning to her parents. (I am 17 she is 16). This leads me to one problem. When she needs to turn to someone, I'm the only one left. I love when she turns to me with her problems. It makes me feel like I help her out, but a lot of the time I don't know how to give her advice. The latest thing is that she's been under a lot of stress. She baby sits a metaly disturbed child who threatens her and she is taking advanced placement classes in school. I want to help her manage her time but it's hard to give her advice on a situation I've never been in. Please help me help her.

P.S. Any general advice to give her in the future is much appriciated.

To manage her time better she should look at her proirities. Maybe cut down on things that are simply extra. Only hold onto the things you love the most when it comes to an overloaded schedule. If your not great with advice, maybe encouragement is the route to go. Always let her know that you believe in her and that she can do things that she sets her mind to. (And your a damn good boyfriend if you already tell her that alot ;-) )

Q: ok i love this girl i was going out with her for 9 months and then she broke up with me but i found out she still loves me and i still love her but she odesnt want to love but she does and i dont know wut to do...i need help....i dont know wut 2 do.....

Well, I find your questions very confusing, but if you guys are "soulmates", eventually fate will bring you back together. For know I would try and talk to her about why she doesn't want to be with you.

Q: Does anyone know of a website that has different hairstyles for homecoming and stuff like that. Not just updos but everything..i want alot of options. Thnx!

One option would be http://www.promspot.com . Although it's for prom mainly, it has a lot of dress ideas and hair ideads, along with make up tips. =D

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