Call MeSKY
i;m 16 and i live in New York, The reason i decided to give out advice because i have been through alot in my life,
-I grew up without a father,
-dealt with abuse up till recently,
-dealt with many mental issues,
-dealt with death in a close knit family,
-dealt with disease.
-Jerk Boyfriends
-Sex issues
-Step Sisters
I've been through a lot, but it only made me stronger. I know what it feels like to be down, to be lower than you've ever been before, Sometimes you just need someone, even if you don't know this person just to talk too. When friends aren't as supportive as they should be, and parents aren't there. Thats why I'm here. I'm not perfect with advice but i will tell you straight up and do my best to help. No matter how big or small a problem is. I will be as open as i possibly can, and maybe just maybe( No promises though) i will help. Just know that talking is a good way to solve any problem..
-Sky-
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Okay sorry this is so long....
ight....my name is sarah,im white and im 15...i date this boy named brandon,hes black and hes 17 and i just turned 15 in march and hes about to turn 18 in may...well we been dateing since march 24th-2007 and when we were on the phone he said babe are you ready to fuck me and i told him no because im still a virgin and we only been goin out for 2 weeks.He said i better set a date or its over.So i told him ill be ready friday.Well we just started talking and he was like babe i got somethin to tell you but i wanna say it to your face but I LOVE YOU!!so i said i love you too.WEll he always tells me well be together forever no matter what.Well all my friends tell me were rushing but i never felt this way about a guy befor in my life.I just dont no what to do because my plan was to brake up with him thursday because im not ready to fuck him yet.Hes everything i ever wanted in a guy.The only thing is he wont wait until im ready.and everytime he says i love you and he blows kisses in the phone and always calls me baby...well when ever i hear his say that stuff to me its like i cry all over again and i just dont no what to do with him...
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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I'm sorry but this guy is not the man of your dreams..
If he doesn't want to wait till your ready that means he doesn't respect you..
believe it or not Sex is a big thing and it changes a lot of things
I Know what im talking about to.
I dated a boy named Tomas for about 11 months and even after that i wasn't ready to do it.
SO he warned me that either i do it or its over.
I didnt do it because he didn't respect me enough,
Ot was one of the hardest decisions in my life.
but i thank god everyday that i didn't do it because your first time should be special.
Your 15 you have a long time to decide all these things.
Your young and hes 18 (almost)...Don't do it because he wants it because you haven't been together that long.
And when he gets it he may leave you as bad as that sounds.
You need to talk to him and if he still doesn't respect your decisions to wait than hes into worth it
Its not going to be easy but its the right thing to do and i think deep down you know that..
don't give in to him because he says the L word..
He may just be saying that to make you want to do it.,
BE STRONG,
Wait and See because he may seem like the man of your dreams but you don't want to do something you will regret.
-SKY-
I AM PROUD that your dumping him,,,
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I'm just going to warn everyone in advance that this question is extremely gross and kind of graphic.
Okay so I started recovery from anorexia last week, so I have to eat small things several times a day. So I ate 3-5 times, only fruits, veggies, whole wheat toast, yogurt, etc., all high nutrition, high fiber things. I chewed everything up I ate very very well and ate slowly and drank a lot of water, etc. But I didn't poop for like a whole week. So I took 3 laxative pills and drank 10 ounces of Magnesium Citrate. It gave me awful diarrhea but at least I feel better. Was that dangerous of me to do? And how can I start eating again if this is going to happen every week? Help...I'm really sick and tired and grossed out. (link)
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My best friend had anorexia,, and it was not easy at all.... May i suggest if you haven't already see a health care professional..
And don't take laxative because that way you may start another form of eating disorder..
The road to recover is very hard and you cant do it alone..
Its not only just the physical recover but a mental recover too..
Just take it slow and everything will be fine...
But NO MORE LAXTIVES or anything
Be Well
-Sky_
you say your constipated but listen taking extremely above the dosage is not good no matter how constipated you were.
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Hello Advicenators! And Happy Easter!!
I have been here for a year, but I think its time to reach out to the others, to ask a question of my very own!!
Tuesday, I am going to a professional that I know is very experienced, and is the best in town. I have very boring, curly hair, that I striathten ever day. It is parted down the middle EVERY DAY, because it looks terrible any other place. I have never ever put layers in my hair, but last Tuesday, I got myself some pretty blond highlights. I don't have a picture, because my stupid camera broke. However, for the first time on Tuesday, I am going to go extreme, and do a major haircut, and put tons of layers in.
I don't know much about layers since I have never had any. Can anyone recommend some layers that would look cute. I hate parting my hair down the middle, I kinda want sidebangs. Something to also bring out my highlights. I do not want to cut my hair shorter, just the layers shorter, as I am trying to go for longer hair.
Pictures are greatly appreciated, I am going to show them to my hair stylist on Tuesday.
Thank you so much :]
-xWACKYJACKIEx- (link)
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Well i have curly hair too....
So i have some suggestions for you...
When you get layers don't get short layer because you may decide not to straighten it and it wont look right not straightened..
SIDE BANGS are very good and they are nice....
As for parting it down the middle you always can just simple part it down the side or something..
i think you should try some long layers because of your curly hair..
also ask them to give you some bangs or side bangs but not too short..
_SKY_
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my friend plugged in his ipod to my computer and then when i plugged mine in all the songs that were in my library were gone! how do you get back songs that you have already purchased but are not in your library?!? please help! (link)
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maybe you can try contacting the company..
One thing about ipods...
NEVER plug them into a another persons computer..
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okay well i want to replace all my junkie foods with
healthy foods. like cookies & chips. i know fruits &
veggies, but anything in parcicular that's superr good
for me? like help burn fat? boost metabolism? & any
excercises for my thighs? (link)
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Okay heres the deal
Dont completely wipe out all the junkie foods or substitute some of the junkie food for healthier snacks..
For example you like chips , instead try soy crisps or veggie chips..They are really good.
I'm just nervous that you may not eat any of the "crappy" food and you may binge one day...
Everything is good in moderation.
As for exercise..
perhaps you may think about joining a gym then you get tighten up everything not just your thighs
Hope i helped
-Sky-
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how much does an apple video ipod hold...like how many songs.
it says it can hold 27GB...how many songs does that equal to?
thanks (link)
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Are you Sure it inst 30GB because i know those hold 7,500 songs., but Google it.I'm sure they can give you a better answer.
May i suggest you look at some other Mp3 players.
Zens are just as good and cost a little bit less.
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in the shaun white album [best ever!]
can you give me a list of the music in it?
please and thank you (link)
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showdown - electric light orchestra
mad world - tears for fears
black betty - ram jam
juke box hero - foreigner
no not now - hot hot heat
stuck in the metal - eagles of death metal
fox on the run - sweet
blinded by the light - mafred mann
sweet lullabies - Jason Michael Clark & Chris Youkum
i think that is right...
I tried to help...
-SKY-
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is it impossible to make out if both people have braces? (link)
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Nothing is impossible.....
And My best friend and her Boyfriend have braces...
I cant honestly say that have not yet gotten stuck together.
GO FOR IT!
-SKY-
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when my boyfriend sucks my nipples it starts to hurt, is that normal? (link)
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Okay..
If it hurts and you don't like it then its not good...
Depending how how the particular boy does it.It may or may not hurt ..
If it hurts why to much then have him soften it up a bit..
Don't be afraid to tell him to be more gentle
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ok..how do you get over the buterflys during kissingand being afriad of sucking?? hellp (link)
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Butterfly's you really cant get over it you kind of just get over it on your own....
don't be Afraid of anything because if your afraid then you are gong to mess up or something embarrassing....
Like example My first kiss i was soooo scared i made out with his cheek...
try not to think about it just go for it
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15/f. This isn't really new for me. But it has been bothering me for the longest time. I apologize if this is long. If a person were to look at me, from an "un-biased" point of view (towards me) they would say my life is pretty cool. I get good grades. My parents get me anything I want. My parents actually CARE. But...lately I've been feeling ...sad. For NO apparent reason it seems. One of the main reasons...perhaps, is a guy. He's just been playing with me...and backstabbing me...and then coming back to me and asking forgiveness. He's made me depressed, and made my emotions go BIZERK. Also, my parents put too much pressure on me. Over grades....friends.....etc. They basically control and expect TOO much from me. I can't deal with it anymore. At school...NOBODY wants to be friends with me. Just because I'm smart. NOBODY ever talks to me unless they need something. And I feel so used by the people I actually call (and am able to call) my "best friends." No guy ever liked/likes me. I hate it. I feel worthless. It's a young age. But I can't help it. I started cutting myself not too long ago...and now I'm just confused. It seems like I have a good life...but it's all too much for me to handle. :/ How can I overcome this suicidal and worthless feeling? (link)
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Trust me i know how you feel.
I went through the cutting phase.
The guy thing i understand too, not to long ago i was in your shoes, but i saw that the way this guy made me feel was not good at all, as bad as it hurt me i cut things off.
My parents are crazy too about grades, and to tell you the truth it gets completely crazy sometimes you know how they want you to strive for the A and not settle for less.
Also i use to have those friends who were a bunch of backstabbing (well i think you know the word i was going to use) we will say Jerks.
Now to the whole suicidal thing, again i was in your shoes a couple of months ago, but what kept me from doing it was, think of it this way THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEONE WORSE OFF, and if that doesn't help think of someone the good things you have in life, example;Siblings, your parents, friends, and other family. How would they feel if you did something. You sound they a bright kid soo im not worried about you going something dumb.
Every person goes through this phase and trust me its a phase, you need to realize your not worthless,May i suggest doing something for yourself something you like to do and only you.
Your 15 enjoy life don't get caught up in the drama , your smart and thats whats going to get you somewhere in life. As for boys i know your probably heard this before, but the right one will come. You will have to get through a couple of jerks eventually though a good one will come.
Just remember:
-Cutting and physical Harm is not a good answer and i know how you feel but it'll get better without that.
-Boys aren't the most important thing and the fact that your smart intimidates them.
-Parents are going to put pressure on you, but just try not to think about it.
- do something to make YOU feel better.
-BE PROUD that your smart
I'm here to help if you need....
-Sky-
P.S Dancing to music helps me sometimes....
get your mind off things....
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