Ok my dads been married 4 times...he is still on his fourth marrage. he got married about 7 months ago, when he got married we moved to another house and i had to change schools (i hate my new school so much too) well recently my dad came really close to getting a divorce, and we already found a house near my old school. well the day that my dad got the form for the lease, he started to have regrets about moving, like because the house that were in is my dads dream house, or this would be my dads 4th failed marrage, and the fact that his credit would go back to shit if he does divorce. the only reason i really want to move is so i can be at a better school and have all my old friends back, but at the same time i wanna stay because of my dad...any advice?
Well there's 2 options, you can tell your dad that you're unhappy and he might not see his dream house as being his dream anymore since his kids are not happy..or you can just let it go..stay in the school, make friends, and join clubs! Seeing your parents happy is always enjoyable, but knowing that you are the ones that made them happy, well thats priceless..
-Christine
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I actually have 2 kinda random questions. Number 1. How do you get to the music part of xanga? I can't figure it out.
Number 2. okay, right, i like hanging out with guys for no apparent reason, but for some reason, all of my guy friends always think i'm interested in them in a different way. Some even get mad when they find out i don't like them that way, i don't want to get into that kinda relationship with a friend. What do i do?
My only friends are guys too...I know where you're coming from..maybe you are interested in them in different ways, friendship wise that is..jus relax, (most) guys usually think that they can make any girl fall for them and that girls only talk to them if they're interested..its most likely not you, its the way a guy thinks..
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ok, i have this friend and i really am good friends with her..and then theres a guy i like and i finally got his sn and then she asked for it. i know this sounds really stupid. but i just dont want to give it to her.. i know that she doesnt like him but something is telling me not to..should i? *
dont give it to her..and claim that 'you arent at liberty to give out other people's screennames without permission'..or something like that..
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Hey! some of you might know already that i am making a power point thing full of memories for my boyfriend. I need some Love quotes guys!! Please help!!
THANKS!!!!!!!
*-KeLs-*
hey. my absolutely favorite quote is:
"Its because you make me laugh,
when I dont even want to smile"
..its just so true..
you might want to look for the lyrics of 'Because you live' by Jesse McCartney..its one awesomely song that expresses feeling very well..
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I've got shoulderlength fine brown hair. I was stupid and my round bristle brush got rolled up in it and i can't get it out. How do i get it out
PLEASE HELP ME!! I rate 5's to EVERYONE who gives me a CONSTRUCTIVE answer ON SUBJECT!!
uhh..take a shower..put in a decent amount of conditioner..wait a minute..then rinse it out..it should come out..or you can try leave in conditioner..
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O.K please help and fast... my mom has the flu and shes throwing up and stuff... what do i do? is there anything i can give her that will help her feel better?!? (not medicane) please help!
*i rate*
Actually..food wise..i wouldnt give her anything..when she's throwing up constantly its probaly everything she eats just comes right back up..hot showers are always nice..watching a movie with her might be good to, keeps distraction from being sick..
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does anyone know of any good conjestion reliever? Im all clogged and it doesn't feel confortble. (sp?) lol I also get a headach from it...
Any one know of anything natural that i could use to make it magicly disappear?!?
(i rate)
Umm..Sudafed 12 hour relief, its in a blue box..that stuff works really well..and a really long hot shower does some temporary wonders...
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i started to go out with this guy 3 weeks and i feel very strongly about him. we were such good friends before we went out. i feel like everything has changed between like 3 or 4 friends of mine and i've done everything i can and everything i could do and said. i just dont know what to do anymore.. i hate it and i dont know if anything is going on and i dont always know why im crying. im scarred of being hurt i hear that im going to get hurt and that im going to get cheated on.i feel stupid when i cry to. please give me something..
Don't feel stupid when you cry, that will just make things worse, because well crying isnt stupid. You're just emotional because your relationship between friends may change, dont worry its normal..if you're being told "you're going to get hurt or cheated on" means there's 1 of 2 options 1.) they're jealous 2.) If they're friends,and just trying to help...if you're relationship with you're friends is changing, maybe they think you're putting your boyfriend first..hang out with them on a friday night, let them know they come first..
I hoped I helped, or atleast gave you an idea..
Its okay to cry and good luck!
-Christine
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ok so i was best friends with my neighbor steve from first grade until about sixth when he moved to a different neighborhood. during his move and after, we kind of grew apart and now i want to ask him to this big dance my school is throwing in may and i want to be his friend again because he's moving back into my neighborhood. i never see him in school and we're both in the eighth grade. how can i start talking to him again and get to know him enough again by late in may? please help me!
This can be awkward. I know exactly where you're coming from..definitely a white one..and just talk to him in the halls..try to beat around the bush on how your getting him a flower, call him. I'm sure if you were neighbors your family and his family can hook up, and naturally you 2 being the same age would hang out together. Once you guys are good enough friends, everything will workout fine. Remember to just be yourself!
Good luck!
-Christine
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this is a little long but i hope someone will answer ok today in science i was writing a note back and froth with a girl then she said i was dared to ask you out and i said yeah sure why not now i dont know what to do becasue like this is the first time ive been asked out does everything like pan out or i just dont know how to deal with this situation. ITs confusing me so help it would be great
Claiming that it was a dare, is one of the more common excuses to ask someone out..if they dont really want to admit that they like you..I mean go for it..I mean hang out with her after school and she if she really has a thing for you..and find out if you have a thing for her..With the whole dare thing, she probaly wouldnmt say it in the note if there really was a dare..but be cautious, it might be a dare..
-Christine
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my bestfriend always calls me fat and everyone else tells me im not she is just jelouse what can i do to make her quite callen me fat it really bothers me?
shaiina
She sounds like a typical girl. Talk to her, tell her that it hurts,..if you want to do it the civilized way..but if you want to prove that your not fat without saying anything..let her try on your clothes..or go shopping with her..try something on, and if it fits..make her wear the same exact clothing in the same exact size just to prove a point..
-Christine
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well im goin out with this guy my mom hates and i mean she really hates him.... and she wants me to stop seeing him but i told her no and i got into this big fight with my mom but i really like this guy but my mom thinks hes not right for me.......what should i do??? ive already tired telling her how i feel about this guy but she wont listen
Try to keep the good in this. As it was already said, invite him over for dinner..yeah it will be awkward for him and your mom at first..but eventually everything will be calm...get them talking about things they both have in common,i guess..like bring out the good in your boyfriend..if your mom doesnt agree to letting him over for dinner..tell her 'Mom, you have to trust me on this one" ...or 'You're the one that raised me, and you did a good job,I wouldnt bring someone over that you wouldnt approve of"..something like that.
Good luck
-Christine
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this kid started liking me about 2 or 3 weeks ago. he used to say wicked sweet things all the time like how perfect i was and he'd never do anything to hurt me. i really started to like him too. we went to the movies and kissed and stuff and we kept talking and he told me he never met anyone like me and i meant so much to him. wel about a week ago, he stopped saying all this stuff and i just got the feeling he didnt like me anymore. my friend told me she talked to him and he said he likes me still he just doesnt want a g/f.. and idk he told me he loved me and i dont understand how you say that then 2 weeks later you "dont want a girlfriend" i really wanna tlak to him but i have no idea what to say/ask or if i should even talk to him about it at all and just wait things out for a while?.. please help & thanks a ton in advance
Well. That sounds like guy. Wait it out for like a week. If the guy is that questionable that he's not worth it. But don't make a bigger deal out of it..like dont get your hopes up..maybe write him a note asking 'whats going to happen' ..I dont want to tell you what to do, just throwing ideas at you..
Good luck,
-Christine
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okay i have a guy friend...hes nice and sweet but not liked very much at school...tonight he threatened to kill himself. im really scared b/c im not around him much at school and never after school...i care about him alot but sometimes dont show it very well. Should i bring our IM conversation to the councelor tomorow or something else...talking to him doesnt help...he doesnt listen.
please help...i rate hight
-x0x-
Dude. Tomorrow in school, find him, not matter what, and just give him a HUGE hug and tell him you care. Don't worry about who's watching, I mean there's nothing better then saving someone. If you don't have enough time or feel awkward telling them, give them a note. Explain in great detail howw much you care. tell them that making it through this will make them stronger. and give them options, like the counselor or a physch. ...if they dont like the options, then go to your school guidance counselor, tell them whats going on...and just be a good friend...
-Christine
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I really need to talk to my friend but there is never any time and I dont know what to do. So what do i do at this point please help!
it sounds really important. and if its as important as it seems. stop her in the hall, if you're late for class, you're late for class, (go to the nurse and fake being sick if thats what it takes to get a pass to not get marked late) I mean friends are there for each other no matter what. If you dont see her at school, call her. If you dont get her then leave a message stressing how important it is.. But talk to her before something happens that you might regret.
-Christine
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My friend vanessa has a friend named alyssa. When i became vanessa's friend i knew right off the bat that i didt like alyssa. almost everyone i no hates alyassa. one day alyssa decided to get revenge on all the peeps. She stole over $200
from the our purse's that we left unattended in the girl's locker room. She must hnot have lioke me cause she stole $9 and a gift card from me. Everyone then totally hated alyssa. The only person alyssa had then and only had so far in middle school was vanessa. vanassa imed me om aim and told me that she didnt ewant to be alyssa's friend anymore but she was the only friend alyssa had. Me and vanessa want to get away from alyssa but not really hurting her feelings, wat should i do?
*JeNnA*
Well..talk to Vanessa..if her and Vanessa are 'friends' then maybe Vanessa knows about Alyssa's background. If she doesnt then they cant be that great of friends anyway.yeah, she stole $9 and a gift card, for all you know thats the only way she doesnt starve..you just dont know.or you might and didnt mention, go to your school guidance counselor talk to her/him about Alyssa. but if her life is pretty good, tell her she needs to get her act together if she wants friends.
-Christine
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What are some good revenge things for evil people?
Revenge just makes you reach the same level as the 'evil' person...its makes you and this person look bad..so why not just let it rest and make this person look bad all on his own?
idk.
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does any one know how to lose like 10 pounds in like a week...i have a party comming up and i want to look a little "less" in my dress...thanks..
(i rate 5s!)
Okay. I know this might sound like a lot..and you may not lose as much as you want, but I promise that it will make you look so much thinner. Crunches,abs, sit-ups, whatever you want to call them. About 200 a day..Bring water to where you do them. You don't have to do 200 straight..thats insanity..try doing them later in the day, because in the morning, there's nothing really to burn off and you lose a lot of energy. drink lots of water and stay away from junk..and your set..if you have a gym class, try participating a little harder...
-Christine
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