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*Name: Shannon Knack
*Age: 15
*Height: 5'7?
*Hair: brownish blonde
*Eyes: blue
*Location: MinnesOta!
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But they will always remember how you made them feel ..
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i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, in 18 and hes 19, we have sex often. im a 34b adn he thinks that i should get implants. should i do it just to please him?!?! i really think that he might be the one, adn we've talked about our future.
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don't do anything that you don't wanna do. And don't do it to just please him. It's changing the way you look, and if he isn't pleased with it, then .. Idk what the problem is. But if you really want to do it, and you think it's a good idea, then ... sure why not!


I had sex about 6 days ago, and i didnt use a condom! im supposed to start my period sometime this week, or at the end of the month! WHat do i do if i dont have my period, i wouldnt kno what to do because i dont talk to my parents about this stuff..pleez help me!!! (link)
Well .. take a home pregnancy test .. if it shows up positive ... have someone take you to the doctor and have you checked .. then if u are pregnant .. you know .. :-(


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okay, well, I think I want to break up with my "internet boyfriend". but I don't want to hurt his feelings, and I don't know how to end it :(

Lilly (link)
Just tell him that you would rather have a real relationship and that the whole online thing isn't what you're looking for. There's no way you can actually do it without hurting feelings, but it's only the internet!:-) .. good lUCk!
Love much, Shannon


my boyfriend never calls anymore he used to call all the time but now he never calls.....do you think there is another girl because he did flirt a lot in school...with me and other people....is he cheating on me...should I break up with him? (link)
Talk to him about it before you do anything! because you might regret it later on. If you think he's up to something, then just talk to him about it .. call him up and ask him why he ain't callin anymore .. that's the best thing to do


How do you french kiss? (link)
just follow the guys lead .. just stick ur tongue in and move it around! lol .. you'll dooo GREAT!

Love much,
Shannon


ok well .. i'm very critical on myself .. i think im soo ugly my friends say im not but i mean what r they gonna say ya i kno u r .. so they could b liein i mean ive had bfs nd stuff but i dnt kno how to make myself less critical of myself cause i got so mad at myself sometimes cause i think im so ugly .. x|0 (link)
Just think positive.. NEver look down on yourself because you are you .. Always just be yourself and if people don't like it, it's there problem. .. everyone thinks they are ugly at some point in your life but just don't think that .. :-) love yourself for you!


I dated this person 4 almost 4 yrs... I loved them soo much n then we went down hill. I don't know if I'm still "inlove" with them, but I always think about them. It's starting to get better and fade away, but they seem to already have moved on. It's only been a year!! What should I do?? Do you think they've moved on?We were eachothers first loves, and I thought first loves don't end!!!Plz Help!! (link)
Well, you have to move on sometime. I mean, they are your first love, and you will always love them .. This i know .. :-/ .. I'm sure they've moved on but they still remember you and they always will because you were that person's first love too .. Who really knows what is goin through their head .. they will always be in your heart, and you can't do anything about it but move on. I hope you're okay.. Break ups can be harsh


hey - my best friend has this boyfriend .. and like i KNOW shes to good for him and whenever the THREE of us chill something goes down and she gets mad at me .. because i "flirt" with him .. like i try not to and shes such a bitch sometimes i just cant take it and then .. she goes and chooses him over me .. how can i tell her hes no good without hurting her .. and this is something that totally bugs me .. you have NOO CLUE .. and maybe if it was 2 guys and 2 girls i wouldnt get into a fite with her .. and you know what i cant help that i like her boyfriend a lil cause he is really really HOT .. help me please !! (link)
Well, if he's too good for her, Don't you think he's too good for you too? It's your friend and you have to respect her choices over men. Maybe it'd be better if you weren't there when they hung out. You wouldn't end up flirting with him and she won't get mad at you. But you have to be there for her and you have to respect her decisions over guys. You can tell her that he's too good for her, but if she doesn't wanna listen, then its her choice and you really can't do anything about it. I know this from experience. But you just have to be there for her .. and it's kind of disappointing to hear that you like her boyfriend. You shouldn't, so try to get over him because, it's not good. And if she found out, There'd prolly be a WWF smack down or something! lol ..


i like this boy who goes to my school, he started going out with one of my EX close friend.we went out a couple of times and he broek up with my friend. we kissed a couple of time and i've texted like 7 times but he doesnt answer like last week a spended teh night at one of my best friends house and he called her. i feel so bad should i still b her friend... i know my friend doesnt liek him but i think he likes her.do u have any advice i'll rate u .... (link)
Don't be mad at your friend for him calling her. And you really can't do anything about it if he likes someone else. It's gunna be hard but you just have to get through it. Don't ruin your friendship over a guy. Chicks B4 dicks ..


I'll start from the beginning....
When I was little, i used to live in washington state, but then we moved when i was 8 years old.
this other family with this boy that had been in my 2nd and 3rd grade class moved to the same part of florida the same time we did, and we ended up going to the same school.
our families became close friends(my sister is about the same age as his little brother)
and we'd go over to each others houses a lot, and when we were little we used to come up w/ these little plays (some romantic, we'd "marry" each other...), and well, we got a little older. last year, he moved to orlando, and we spread apart a little. we saw them, and we were playing around and like fake kissing each other in this little "play" we made up (my little sister is only 8, and she really wanted to do a "play")
and now he's moving back to where we live. i dont kno if he likes me, but i kind of think i like him. what should i do?
signed,
confused love (link)
I think it's really cute. It does seem like he likes you as much as you like him but if you're not sure, just ask him .. and just tell him the way you feel. It might be awkward but it could be for the good! I hope you too get together because it seems like you already have a great thing going. Good lUckO!


hey

i am 15 f and i really like this guy 15 m and he like me back we just dont ever talk about it and i think we will end up goin out i just dont know if i should tell him that i have never even kissed someone and i know he had done stuff with girls so should i just go with it and not tell him or do u think he can tell? (link)
I don't think that he actually has to know, but if you feel comfortable enough telling him, then you should .. I doubt that he can tell if you've never kissed anyone so you don't even have to worry bout that. But for now, I would just kind of go w/ the flow, and if it ever comes up in your conversations, then tell him if you are comfortable enough. Don't lie to him though because he will probably find out some way or another, and that won't be good. Good luck!


i have two problems. i'm 15 years old and my first problem is that i have a great body. i have huge boobs and a huge butt and i'm so pretty and all the guys want to have sex with me. so i have sex with them but everybody calls me a slut. i dont kno what to do! the second problem is im pregnant but i dont know my babies dad:( shannon...please help me! i need this! (link)
Hmm, that could be a big problem. After the baby is born, you are gunna have to probably get a blood test or something, with all the guys you've slept with or something like that. I really don't know what to tell you. I hope it all works out .. I'm so sorry for everything!!


hi yannon i want to ask u something :) i hung out with a guy a few times and just talking to him for 2 minutes brightens up my days like nothing else it helps me get over my stupid ex but hes never home and hes only called me once..in three weeks..i call him alot but hes really busy and he can never do anything what do i do!?!?!?! (link)
Hmm, that is a toughy! lol he seems like he means a lot to you already but maybe, you just got to give him some time .. I know he may be busy because yeah .. he's got hockey and work and stuff, Sometime you'll hang out with him. Just don't worry bout it too much because ya know! lol .. i'll call up brett sometime and we can both hang out .. Like ont he pontoON again! it'll all work out .. and soon, you'll be together!! Love you Yenni:-)


i love shannon but she doenst love me back what should i do?
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who is this? .. n i can tell you


ok im skinny right now and i eat alot n im really active but i kno one day it will chatch up to me and i will be really fat...idk what to do... (link)
Watch what you eat now .. If you don't want it to catch up to you, then just don't eat a ton! Only eat equal portions in seperate times .. like the whole 3 times a day rule thingy. Maybe a snack. Stay active, that'll keep you healthy too!


HeY ! well im 14 and i weigh 86pOunDz or sumfin liek that .. buh i know its around 80 is that good enuff? im scared that if its not .. then something mite happen . buh u know i eat ALOT !! i just dont gain weight .. and im reeely skinny ;) hehe .. soo yehhh heLp?

xOxox maya xOXx (link)
Maybe you should see a doctor .. 86 pounds is really low on weight for a 14 year old .. depending on your height and all.. but still. Maybe you should go to the nutritionist or something.


I want to go out with you but I do not know what to do... (link)
well, I really don't know what to do either .. I mean, if i knew who you were, it'd be a lot easier for me to say something ...


THERE WAS A COLUMN IN HERE A COUPLE OF DAYS AGO THAT SAID GUYS ARE ALL JERKS, WELL NOT ALL OF THEM ARE, I TAKE THAT REALLY OFFENSIVE WHEN YOU SAY THAT, BECAUSE I'M A GUY, AND I TREAT MY GIRLFRIENDS WITH RESPECT. I THINK MOST GUYS DON'T, BUT THEN MAYBE YOU GUYS JUST CAN'T PICK THE RIGHT ONES, YOU NEED TO DECIDE A LITTLE BETTER FOR YOURSELF NEXT TIME AND PICK A GUY MORE LIKE ME, A NICE, GENUINE, GUY
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hahaha .. right jer! lol .. a nice genuine guy! lol .. jk! ur soooo nice n i love u! lol .. ur an awesome friend too, i've never been ur girlfriend, but i saw how you treated lauren! You're such a sweetie jer!


Okay well I like your advice, but I just got back from vacation and I heard some pretty bad rumors about Kurt.. Like with other girls and I really don't think I like him anymore, I really don't want anything to do with him, but I'm really tempted to talk to him once but I don't want him to think I like because of that. And I know this has nothing to do with my question, but I figured you'd know who it was if I had hte same question! And I'm not really sure about Bob yet.. but we'll figure that one out later!;-) (link)
Hehe!! I know who you are but i'll keep it secret! If you really want nothing to do with Kurt, then have nothing to do with him! hehe .. I know you want to call him .. and maybe you should. He won't think you like him. JUst make it more of a closure if you know what I mean .. like .. kind of saying goodbye. I mean .. 45 seconds is horrible!!!!!!




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