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hiya I'm shelly, I'm 20 and from England. I have the best boyfriend in the world and he means so much to me. I love to help people and I've just started using Advicenators again. I hope i can help you all with your problems feel free to email me x


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Sorry if this is the wrong category but I need help. Most of the time, when I'm hot, or if I feel sweaty, I get sweat stains under my arms on my shirt. And I just feel sooo embarrassed and I don't want anyone to see it. Sometimes, I wear my jacket to cover it up, and it sucks... I hate it, cause it kinda happens a lot. I hate the feeling of having sweat stains, and that people might see it and think "ew." What can I do? I don't wanna go to the doctor or anything. Is there anything I can buy, or anything that might help that I could do at home? Anything healthy.... It would help a lot. Then I would be confident in the shirts that I wear! I also wouldn't have to worry! THANKS!

You should first put a roll on deodrant on then wear a spray on anti-persprant deodrant and then apply talcum powder under your arms
Talcum powder will stop moisture coming through, so it will stop the sweat coming through onto your clothes.
Do this every morning and it will stop the sweat patches on your clothes and will also keep you dryer

Hope this helps

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how do u make hair grow faster? besides waiting and cutting it...

I hope these sites help with some tips

http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/tip214.htm


http://www.longlocks.com/how-to-grow-long-hair.htm

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16 f, okay so i recently made a demo of my songs and also karaoke songs. i want to add them to my MYSPACE music page becuase hopefully im an up coming artist. so i want to make my page background with a picture of me you know like all the other celebrites have? is it possible? and is okay if i put the karaoke there sung by me i dont want to be sued or anything? i would also appreciate to take the time to ask you guys to request me and listen to my songs i have uploaded, and tell me what you think. www.myspace.com/kittymusiic thanks soo much!!! MAYBE EVEN A REQUEST?

Im not sure about using a picture as a background, Im not sure how to do it but Im pretty sure that you are able to do that.
Maybe having a look on a site such as

www.whateverlife.com

OR

www.myspacehelp.com


These sites might tell you how to make them

Also you can put songs of you singing songs by other people just write it is a copy such as

"Copy of Piece of me by Britney or just simply Copy of piece of me"

Hope this helps and I'll have a listen later, right now im at college and myspace is blocked

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First off: I am by NO means a song writer! I admit that now.

Ok, I wrote a pretty corny song for my mom on mother's day. Seeing how corny it was, just made me want to do better. I just now put pen to paper and came up with this. I want your HONOST opinion. I tried to think about how it would actually sound as a song, but self critisism has always been tough for me. I want your 100%, completely honost, first-thing-that-you-think comments. Also, help on improving? I'm learning to play the guitar by the way, which is kind of my inspiration for song-writing. ANYWAY, here it is:

Going nowhere fast
time stands still
push away the past
try no to feel

you're not worth the effort
not a dime
so why's this stupid heart
breaking every time?

I've thrown away the gifts
ripped all the pictures up
pushed you out of my mind
burned that stupid close-up

Stop creeping back
into my mind
can't you see the
"turn back" sign?

I've gone through a lot
but not so much like this
heart's all cracked up
many things to miss
----------------------

and that's all I have. I also have no clue how to organize this thing. I guess it was just sort of spur-of-the-moment. Anyways, yeah, critisism!!!!

I think its really good, especially for a first time thing.
All I can suggest is to sort it out into verses and to make a chorus to it, you could make a chorus out of the things you already wrote

I like the verses below so one of those could be a good chorus.

Stop creeping back
into my mind
can't you see the
"turn back" sign?

I've gone through a lot
but not so much like this
heart's all cracked up
many things to miss


You could take ideas from other songs or write a few more and then merge them all into one song

Hope this helps =]

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in the new nike commercial where random clips of people are playing sports whats the song? its like hip-hop and the only lyrics went somewhat like this:
"when i see somebody, gotta free somebody"

Thanks:)

The song is
'List of Demands,' by Saul Williams


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I went out with this guy a while ago, and we went out for about 6 months, which was my first real "relationship". I'd dated a lot of guys, but he was special. I broke up with him because...I guess at the time I was just tired of his over-protectiveness. Now I see he just loved me. The thing is, I thought that by breaking up with him, I'd get a new start. Dating new people, since I hadn't dated in a while. I was really excited. I guess I just THOUGHT I got over him at the time. Currently, we are both going out with someone. Unfortunately, after the break up, he suddenly decided he hated me because I moved on so quickly. I want him back. A lot. I know it will be nearly impossible to get him back, but I'm willing to do anything. Next year, both of the people we're currently dating are going to a different school. We've been broken up and he's hated me for about 5 months. We haven't talked at all, I tried to email an appoligy to him, but he wouldn't reply. I know he hates me, but I would do anything to get him back. I really think I actually love him. I just don't know how to do any od this. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend, but I've been thinking more and more about my ex. I had a thought that I could wait until the end of the year and next year, start all over. We could start taling again, and see where it goes. But I'm not sure if I can wait that long. And I don't know if he'll attempt a long distance relationship with his girlfriend. I just need help. No specific question, just advice on what I should do. It kills me when he glares at me. I don't know how to deal. Thanks.

If you see him then try and get talking to him again, alot of things could of changed in 5 months of not speaking, so the first thing to do is to try and get talking again.
Tell him how you feel and that you still have feelings for him and ask if he has feelings for you.
If you know his number then ring him or text him.

I dont really know what else to suggest but to try and get talking to him again. Try emailing him again saying how much you miss him and ask him to reply.

Good luck with everything hun.

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So I have huge problem. I'm almost 17 years old and I have a baby sister who is two and she's spoiled rotten. the problem is I can't do anything without her screwing it up. for example, today I had bought a present for one of the seniors on my softball team. we're supposed to turn them in tomorrow at senior night, so I wrapped the present and put it away, thinking that my sister never find it where I hid it. A half hour later my mom comes in and hands me the remains of what's left. Now I have nothing to give her and my baby sister is afraid to come near me because I yelled at her. and this kind of thing happens everyday, I come back and find my backpack completely empty and everything thrown out onto the floor and hallway. I don't know what to do.I get so mad when this happens, but todays the first time I've really lost it. I feel bad but I feel helpless. my house is tiny and there's only a couple of place to put things like presents or my backpack, and they're not very accessible. what should I do?

Talk to your parents and ask them to keep her away from all of your things.
Put all of your things in your room, in your wardrobe or on top of it so that she cant reach.
Your sister is only two so she doesnt know right and wrong yet, you just have to be patient and when she does something wrong then tell her (in a way that she understands).
I know its frustrating but instead of yelling just talk to her or your parents.
When things get on top of you then go and see a friend or just go outside or in your bedroom away from her.
Hope this helps

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I Honestly I Have No Idea Where To Put This Question Under.
Anyways I Recently had my lip pierced [Its located on the left side].
Can anyone [especially people who have lip piercings] give me any Accurate info on how to clean it,what to use & etc.
I've visited different sites but they all say different things and im very confused.
Any advice that will help me out will be great.!
Thanks :]

When I got mine done the guy who did it gave me an aftercare sheet.
Wash it with saltware a few times a week for the first couple of weeks and then after that you shouldnt really need to do it. It stops it from getting infected.
Wash around the stud or ring, you dont need to take it out.

I clean my ring every month or so using a cotton bud and salt water and then I rinse it under the tap.

DO NOT use some kind of disinfectant treatment, my friend did that and he burnt his mouth really badly.

Hope this helps

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Well Im in 8th grade and hes in 6th grade. Im 13. Hes 12. He really cute. Well last night was our last school dance. I thought i should ask him to dance because he wont be at the dances next year because ill be at the high school and i would have to wait for 2 years. Well one of my friends boyfriend is his friend. So my friends ask him to ask the guy i like if he would dance with me. He said yeah and he asked me. He asked if i had a boyfriend and why i didnt have one and stuff like that. Then he asked me out and i said yeah. But now i dont know if he actually likes me or if he felt sorry for me. WHAT DO U GUYS AND GIRLS THINK?
Heres another thing. Im not that good with boys...as boyfriends....i can talk to guys who are my friends easliy but im shy around my boyfriends....usually he has to start a conversation because i dont know what to say...what should i do?

Hun, he wouldnt ask you out if he felt sorry for you trust me. Guys just wouldnt do that.
So I think he does really like you.

Try to be less shy around him because it will be awkward if he keeps having to start off a conversation.
Just act like you do when you talk to your guy friends, you will start to feel more comfortable and more confident around him as the relationship goes on


Good luck hun
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i recently got myself help for an eating disorder, bulimia most likely, and i don't even want help anymore. i feel stupid and now i don't even think it's a big deal. i don't want to talk it about and i wish i could go back in time. is it a huge deal? the counselor at school made it sound like it's not a big problem. i've been like this for almost 2 years. this will probably be with me the rest of my life anyways because now i don't think i can stop. part of me wants to get better, but i feel dumb! how should i motivate myself? is it even worth getting help?

YES 100% it is worth getting help and your school councillor isnt much help if he/she doesnt think its a big deal because it is

Eating disorders are really serious and can lead to death (My mums cousin died aged 24 from anoerxia, she weighed just 4 stone and left a 2 year old daughter behind when she passed away)
So please get help as soon as you can.

I know you may feel like you dont want help but later on in life you will regret not getting help when you could.

It will be hard at first but with real profesional treatment you will recover from your eating disorder.


I hope everything gets better soon hun
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where can i get one of these bags and i want it to be the real thing not a fake one... heres a picture..i don't mind e-bay by the way as long as its new and not used .

link::
http://photobucket.com/images/i%20am%20not%20a%20plastic%20bag/

pictures 2-7

i want it to be off white and blue balck or red writeing or another cool color not the purple one thats ugly to me

thanks in advance

Heyy I got mine from Ebay
you should know that the REAL Anya Hindmarch bags come in ONLY these colours
*Lilac
*Brown
*Blue/Navy
*Black
*Grey
*Green

All the rest are FAKE!
Also the bags DO NOT have an inside pocket so anyone selling a bag saying it has an inside pocket are selling fake bags!!


HERE IS A LITTLE HELP GUIDE TO SPOT A FAKE ANYA HINDMARCH BAG.

http://reviews.ebay.com/HOW-TO-TELL-FAKE-Anya-Hindmarch-I-apos-m-NOT-A-Plastic-bags_W0QQugidZ10000000004118604


This person sells the REAL thing online, I bought one from them and it is real.
Your best buying one on ebay or Amazon or maybe an online Anya Hindmarch shop but they are pricey



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ok so i guess this sounds kinda weird since none of you people know me but i'm 5'8 and my measurements are 32 chest 24 waist 36 hips 34 inseam and i weigh like 115 pounds. I think thats like really skinny and i try to gain weight but i can't but anyways alot of guys online who i don't even know are like wow you're so hot and beautiful and what ever and they like ask me naked pics and stuff (gross i know) but like in person alot of guys tease me and i've never had a bf or anything and i'm 16...so idk what's the difference between online me and real me but idk if these guys online think i'm good looking then y don't the guys i actually know?

Okay the guys you know may not see you as anything more than a friend or if they do they might think it will affect your friendship if they tell you or may think your too good for them.
Guys online can be weird, especially guys on chat rooms. They can say they are like 17 or something and can be much much older, so I wouldnt ever trust a guy online when he asks you for pictures.

Im sure the guys you know find you attractive they are probably just shy.

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ok im 14/f and im really good friends with a 11th grader.well hes really hott! and he found a note i wrote about him and now he wont talk to me because hes afraid that people will suspect things and he has a girlfriend what do i do i really want to be his friend again

Tell him that you dont want to fall out with him and that you really want to be friends again.
Tell him that you wont tell anybody about it, and you can just carry on as normal if he is willing to.
I hope you sort things out

hope this helps a little
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i wanna get a fringe across my whole forhead. i want it to look really professional, basicly like i'm a model which shouldnt be too hard because i have natural straight hair. it shouldnt make me look younger though.
i have long darkbrown straight hair.
so does anyone have any good pics???? how should a fringe be done so it'll make me look OLDER, not younger.
of course i'll go to a hairdresser, but im just curious :P
thankss xxx

Hey
Okay these are a some pictures for you


http://www.mlpodcast.com/blog/uploaded_images/asian_girl_cell-702549.jpg


http://myemohairstyles.com/images/emo%20girl%20highlights.jpg

^^ On the one above, she has just brushed it to the side but it can also be a normal fringe


http://a150.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/36/l_8877d3f36caeab1afe1933db0f9f6455.jpg


http://img.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2007/10_03/cherylcoleREX1610_468x781.jpg


http://img.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2007/10_03/richieREX1610_468x784.jpg


http://a.abcnews.com/images/Entertainment/wi_fringe_080226_mn.jpg

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i dont know what to do anymore.
everyone tells me im not fat, but i feel lit
and looking at all my friends and all these rock stars, i know i am not as skinny as them and i really want to be
im thinking about anorexia? because i have tried everything else and nothing seems to work
and im sick of being uncomfortable
and not wanting to wear bikinis, or even tanktops caue i feel so embarssed.
im very self concious and i dontlike it at all
and it doesnt help that im not the prettiest person out there.
i feel so gross, and i want it to all end
and its gonna cause this is the last thing i can think of to do
gimmie your opinion..

Anorexia is an illness not a lifestyle.
People are badly affected by Anoerexia, My mums cousin died of anorexia, she was only 24 and weighed just 4 stone.
PLUS starving yourself can have the opposite affect that you think it will have, in most cases you stay the same weight OR gain weight. Your metabolism shuts down therefore if you do eat something occasionally it stores it straight into fat and will not burn it off because your metabolism is not speeding up.

I would suggest you eat a breakfast, something like porrige and a piece of fruit
Lunch a sandwich or pasta
Dinner grilled chicken or fish with veg

And exericse.
This is the NATURAL way to lose weight and if you do this the weight will STAY OFF!!


If you want any more advice on how to lose weight, I will try my best to help. Just send me a message or add me to msn or send me an email
mrs_deacon_07@hotmail.co.uk

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Let me give you a background story, since about october or november consistently my period has been coming every 35-40 days. Say i start on the 10th one month, the next month, i would start around the 15th or later. so i dont know if thats normal, its never is the same each month, so i dont have a regular period.
My question is, Me and my boyfriend has sex, twice this month, using condoms correctly both times, nor did he come close to cuming inside me. and we didnt have sex on my ovulation days. My question is what is the chance i would be pregnant? I am late, from what i can conclude, but im never on time, ive gone a few weeks late before. Am i stressing about a minimal chance? becuase stress can cause your period to miss or be late.


Please answer, thankyou.

I would suggest you go to a doctor or gynacologist about your periods they can put you on tablets.
And I doubt you are pregnant, try not to get too worried or stressed out because this too can also have an affect on your periods.


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ok well i have a lot of free time and i dont like it. i want to DO something. what are some fun things i could start trying/doing? like in my own house. im moving soon and broke up with my bf so im trying to get my mind off him and just keep preoccupied until i leave. i dont really have any hobbies tho. im trying to do the whole 'move one' thing tho but i keep thinking about that jerk. i have been hanging out with my friends but i cant always do that because my parents are busy with the whole moving thing.

first does anyone know any cool things i can make for my room? like im getting a new roon and everything and does anyone have cool things i can make to decorate my room and be more organized?

and then any good hobbies/things to do that i can get into and stop thinking about him[that jerk] and so i can have something to do and focus on?

i like to read, write, walk, do anything girly and im pretty open to stuff. thanks!!

You could start scrap booking. Its really addictive once you start.

You could do an exercise video. Dance videos are the best because they are so fun and time just flies, plus you burn calories and get fit lol

You could just buy storage and trinket boxes for your new room, cute ones like hello kitty ones etc, this way you can keep everything organized.

You could also put different pictures in cute frames for your new room.
What I think is really nice is putting cute wrapping paper or wallpaper in photo frames. Things like Hello Kitty, gloomy bears or other cute things or things you are interested in

Hope this gave you some ideas
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is thinking about cheating or looking at other guys considered actually cheating because my friends told me it basically was but i cant help it like i still look and check out guys even though im not single but its not like im doing anything with them..

No it isn't cheating
Girls can't help but look at other guys lol, same as guys will look at other girls when they are dating.

Don't listen to your friends
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2 questions


whats the code for

1. hiding the "User Shortcuts:" in the top of your myspace which is below the advertisements? I really need to take off the user shortcuts is really ugly

2. the code for like having text sliding across ur yspace page like when you open it it will keep on sliding across the top middle PART of your myspace page i had it before but i lost it.. not everyone knew that you could do that!




but yeah i lost it


i reasllly care more about the user shortcust though but i am begging to know the 2nd question too


thanks in advance hopedfuukly you can helkp me!!

Okay Im not sure about the first question about the user shortcuts

But here is a link to have scrolling text

Your text here.


I think this will work.

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does anyone know if there will be another show or movie of zoey 101 or is it over?

I heard that there will be a new series when she has given birth but Im not sure if it was just a rumour or not.

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