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Hey Guys! My name is Laci, I'm 18 years old. If you send me a question I will try and answer it ASAP :-)

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Gender: Female
Age: 18
Member Since: June 30, 2004
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Last Update: September 4, 2004
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If you wear a condom during sex does that mean you most likely won't get pregnant or do you have to take birth control pills too..? (link)
Condoms protect around 98% for not becoming pregnant. For extra protection you can use birth control pills.

Hope this helped!
*Laci


Thing is me and travis dated for three years and broke up my freshman year. he kinda 2 years younger then me.. now i am 19 and senior and he is sopmore 16... i know age not matter but matter is that I never went out any othner guys. and i do know other guys... see we thinking we are soul mate like we feel we belong together and we both get along and feel so comble with eather family. but problem is I am not in love with him and I sard that i maybe find someone else for a reason.. I do want go out other guys and i dont want lose my best freind... we been friends forever. thing is i dont want waste his school year and stuff.. sorry if this sound conffuseing i trying explaime question i try writ but if this not enought just email me and i try put out more... thanks
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First of all I agree age doesn't matter too much. That's ok that you never went out with any other guys before. If your not inlove with him then it isnt your fault. People always fall in and out of love, with no explanation or reason. It's just what happens. I don't think you will lose your bestfriend if you guys were that close and still are. Just explain to him everything that you feel and tell him that you need to experience other guys because you might end up realizing you do love him and wnat to be with him. Do you understand what I'm saying?

I'm kinda confused on how you typed this but I'm trying to give it my best shot!

Hope this helped!
*Laci


I'm a virgin, 15 yrs old & totally in love with my boyfriend. We're both ready to have sex & the only issue I have on it is do you guys like hair 'down there'? I know some guys dont mind or & some guys really do. What do guys my age like? I dont want him to be disgusted when were about to have sex cause of my hair! He's not a virgin. (link)
hasnt he done anything with u before? If not then u probably shoudl do that first before you jump into sex. Ans make sure that its what you want 100% percent!


i'll be 16 dis (link)
i answered this on the first question you sent me! Hope this helped!

*Laci


I love my boyfriend but how long in a relationship do u think u should wait to have sex? (link)
Until you feel like your ready! Don't do it unless you feel like you are 100% ready!

Hope this helped! I'll be glad to answer any mroe questions you might have!
*Laci


my brest are a 34a and im 16 do u think that i should get inplants if so y or if not y?? (link)
No way your only 16...they will grow


Well i'v lyked dis boi since da beginig of da
"03-04" school year and i knew when he first sat nxt to me in class i would lyk him. we flirt wit each otha lyk 24/7 n EVRYONE use to ask y i dont go wit him n i was lyk "ur askin da wrong person"! he was really popular n ALOT of grls lykd him so he flirted alot, n i got jealous but neva really let it get to me cuz i flirt alot too! but he moved durin x-mas break n we kept in touch n planned to go to da movies a couple timz but neva wrkd out. is dat a sign i should move on? He's also da type dat dont call, he want u to call but i dont lyk dat but i do neways. well i havnt called him since june 13 n i REALLY miss talkin to him! i mean he makes me melt when i hug him and i smile when i hear his voice and i just think im in love, but sometimes i fell lyk he dont feel da same. My b-day comin up dis thurs (July 8) ima see if he rememeber....if he dont should i 4 get him? or call? or wut? PLZ HELP
P.S do u think im in love?

~KiSsEs~ (link)
Well first I need to kno how old you are goin to be

You should call him after your birthday if he didn't remember and ask him whats up. Be like hey, i feel like your leading em on and everytime we try and make plans they never seem to happen. What up with this? Is there anything between us or are we just friends. And if he does remember your birthday or call you before it then you should just ask him the same thing. Hope this helped I'll be glad to answer any more questions!

*Laci


My bf and are are 17 and when we went to have sex his penis went soft after a few minutes i gave him a hand job and it took a few minutes for his penis to get hard again is this normal? He's a bit insecure about it What can we do about it? (link)
He might just been really nervous. When some guys get nervous that happens. Or when guys are on something that will happen sumtimes! Hope this helped! Lemme kno if you have any more questions!

*Laci


Alright well Im 16 yrs old..Soon to be 17 and I've slept with 7 different people. Is that considered a slut? I dont think Im skanky or anything, I just enjoy sex! Is that wrong? Im very open about my sexuality and people think Its wrong to be, Alot of people joke around and say that Im a nympho and shit like that..I need advice and I want people to truthfully tell me what they think. Dont be afraid to tell me the truth..Be straight up!! *Thnks* (link)
7 does seem like a lot but who am I to judge? Theres really no ballpark for people to be considered a slut. You could be a virgin and people could still be callin you a slut. Its just people that want to put down others to make themselves feel better. Its not wrong to enjoy sex! I think everyone here that has had sex enjoys it!!

Hope this helped! Always here for you to ask any questions!
*Laci


i have had my belly button pierced for 4 years and lately i have been filling the bar in between the top of the bar to the bottom i used to always be able to fill it but lately i can feel it more than ever so i was wondering could it be possible that it is growing out and should i take it out before it gets ripped out please help (link)
Yes navel piercings can grow out! Hope this helped!

*Laci


I wanna go get my tongue pierced but im scared that its going to hurt real bad..is it going to hurt??? what does it feel like??? Im 19 but another thing is if my mom finds out she'll be really really really upset and mad at me and i think i might be kicked out of the house...is there anyway i could hide it from her????? PLEASE HELP FAST!!!! (link)
I got my tongue pierced! I'm only 17 and I used a fake ID. My parents would kill me if they found out. I got mine done in April and so far they havent seen it. Just when I talk to them I try not to open my mouth up really wide. I didn't think gettin it pierced hurt. Once it was through I was like holy shit thats it? it just felt like pressure. Maybe it didn't hurt as much because I was expectign this pain that is unbearable. My belly button hurt worse gettin it pierced.

Hope this helped! I'll be glad to answer any other questions!

*Laci


how old were u when ur got ur belly button pierced..? (link)
When I got mine done I just turned 16


has ne 1 had there belly buttons pierced. i have had mine done and puss keeps cumin out of the holes and it bleeds can sum 1 help me is it infected (link)
I had mine done. It got so infected there was a big bubble on top where the ring was goin into me. It was full of pus and green guck would come out and every now and then it would just be blood coming out. I think your might seem infected but I would ahve to see it to telly ou. Your best bet is to go to the doctors. Hope this helped! I'll be glad to help you anytime!

*Laci


This is a very personal question and i feel weird to ask this but do yalls shave your pubic hairs? Cause some guys don't like it and i was wondering if it was ok if i mowed my lawn? Please Help if you can sorry if my question bothers you :/ (link)
Its ok if you did. Every girl I know shaves

*Laci


can you get pregnant if you have sex without a condom while on your period? (link)
You could get pregnant it doesn't mean that you are goin to get pregnant. Hope this helped! I'll be glad to answer any questions!

*Laci


i like 2 cum in girls ears is that normal (link)
That's weird! Not really normal I've never heard any1 else that likes to do that! Hope this helped! I'll be glad to answer any of your questions!

*Laci


Im 5 ft and i weigh 91 Ibs...is that fat? (link)
No very skinny


Me and my ex were together for 10 months and we loved eachother alot! Everything was great and we hung out everyday..recently he started to work alot and we drifted apart a litle bit. We'd only see eachother a few days a week. Well then it started to be like a week 1/2 without hearing from him so naturally I would track him down and ask what was up! He told me nothing and its just he's been "really busy" but hes going to find more time for me, blah blah blah blah. Next thing you know he shows up MY BIRTHDAY NIGHT at 2 a.m and of course stupid me drops my friends and goes with him!! Ugh Im so stupid. So we went to HIS buddies house,ended up having sex and he took me home the next afternoon. He kissed me told me he loved me and I never heard from him ever again! Its like he disappeared?! A couple weeks later he has another girlfriend!! And everytime I see him out on the town he acts as if NOTHING ever happened between us! Even if hes alone without his girl, he acts this way! Whats goin on? Im still deeply in love with him and I need some VERY GOOD advice. Please HELP
*Kris* (link)
Seems to me from what you said that he was just using you for sex. Did he know it was your birthday? Maybe he thought you might of wnated "Birthday Sex"? Just try and get over him because obv if he has a new girlfriend he has moved on. Try not to let it bother you and go out with your friends and scope out the guys! Hope this helped! I'll be glad to answer any of your questions!

*Laci


how can i hide a hickey? (link)
Turtlenecks if it wasnt summer :-\ But you can use green concealer its anywhere you buy your makeup. It's purpose is to hide i think bleamishes but I used it before and it def made it less noticeable! Hope this helped! I'll be glad to answer any qustions you might have!

*Laci


OMG i just realized one of my boobs is bigger than the other, WHAT DOES TAHT MEAN am i an alien? i must have a disease how do i tell my mom? what do i do? (link)
No two body parts are alike. Don't stress it. Your not an alien you probably don't have a disease. Many girls have 2 different sized boobs. Hope this helped!

*Laci




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