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Hey, my friend Emily is 14 and she just recently started to look up porn on the internet. I was thinking, this girl is 14! But, do you think it's normal for a girl in her young teens to look up adult images on the net? I need to know so I can tell her! Please help and I would really appreciate it! Thank you so much! - Serena (link)
haha!! Yeahh it's not exactly normal. Maybe for guys, but not so much for girls.


I haven't heard from my boyfriend at all since friday. He hasn't called or texted or anything. I've texted him but he hasn't texted back and I called him yesterday but he didn't pick up. I know that he's gone away for the weekend but he would always have his phone on him. I'm getting worried. (link)
Don't worry. He's prolly in some ditch on the side of the road and can't move to get his phone.
Geeez chill out.. call someone he's with.


i am 13. but i look like im 15. i want to get my belly botton peirced, and my mom will let me. but i still think im too young to get it dun. im almost dun growing...so im not sure about getting it done or not and if it will hurt. please help.. i rate (link)
I personally think you should wait till you actually are 15 but being 13 is fine. It only hurts for a little bit and if you want to just go for it.


I moved to Colorado, and i lived in cali, and i dont like colorado what should i do? . . .my parents are bungholes and i think im kinda stuck wit em, whats da best way to meat new peoples when u move? (link)
Move back to Cali by yourself and get an apartment.


Hey i have blonde hair about halfway down my back and i've been thinking about getting cut just for a change. Dose anyone have any ideas what hairstyles might look good?ThAnKs! (link)
oh my god don't cut it.. you're crazy. But if you must... get like side bangs and don't cut the rest o fur hair above ur shoulders. Ooo like the chick on Laguna Beach.


ok i figure im gonna have to start from the beginning i had a b/f and we went out for a little over 6 months then out of no where he text's me at 4 in the morning sayin he likes sum1 else and he wants to break up and that night hes all over this girl at a school game and i seriously wanted to cry the whole time i went home and cry then he comes on and tells me the real reason that he dumped me was cause i treated him like shit when he always made me cry and i gave up goin to cali to hang out wit him so now the girl he dumped me for dont like (if she ever even did) so now hes actin all depressed and talking to me when he knows i dont wanna talk to him and i like this other guy whos sooo swert to me and is so nice and hung out wit me that night at the game and listen to all the stuff i said about him and yeah no hes trying to ask me to hang out and stuff and the guy i like is starting to act kinda wierd what am i supposed to do i have no intrest in being my ex's friend cause of what he did but i cant help feeling bad for him SUM! HELP ME PLZ!!!! (link)
Yeah you're in high school and he'll get over it. Go for the new friend.


there was this guy that i liked alot and he asked me to our homecoming dance like 3 weeks ahead and it was going good until right b4 homecoming i realized i didnt really like him like that nemore and i just wanted to be friends but i didnt want to tell him until after so it wouldnt be awkward so at the dance i was trying to not lead him on but he took it as i was ditching him and now he like hates me and i've tried appologizing and i dont know what else to do and its always unconfortable for me if im near him what should i say or do? (link)
Just tell him what happened. If he's hurt, just give him some time alone.


well.. i'm in 8th grade. i feel way too old to go out trick or treating, but i have nothing else to do!! plus, nobody is going with me. should i just go for my last time, or skip it?? when did everyone else stop?? (link)
I'm 15 and most of my friends do go trick or treating. But I feel to old for it too. Maybe you can have a close friend that doesn't really want to go either and hand out candy and watch some scary movies. You don't have to go if you don't want to, but if you do, just grab a friend and go out for a little bit, they'll have a good time and so will you.


Well our school has like this thing where the 7th grade goes to like this "environmel camp" and we have like our own romms... 4 different 1's for the boys.. well my bestfriend and his friends beet me up and all my other friends.. and i think they r mad at me becuase i shoved him after he punched me and then he got all them to beet the rest of them up.. so now I'm... well.. alone

I don't know what to say to them..


help me plz! (link)
So.. he beats you up. And you're friends..
alright.


Okay, i'm freshman and i like this guy who's a junior. he's really nice and seems flawless except for one thing. He's a huge pot-head. You can tell when he's high and he's always making an *ss of himself when he is. Should i forget him or give him a chance? I rate... (link)
Well, he isn't flawless. I don't think you want to get involved with him. I know most people at school do pot but it's not cool to be around them. They have no idea what they're doing, so if he were to tell you he loves you, it might have been the pot.


Ok, I am 44 yrs. old and my husband is 47, we have been married about 6 months, and are professonal decent people. My problem is my husband is not interested in making love to me, when we first married, we had a decent sex life,. then no more for the past several months. If I bring it up he gets mad. Says hes just tired,or could be his antidepressants he takes, etc.. But he has time to be internet addicted, and reads a lot, anything to keep from being with me. I had caught him on the net several times talking to men, over a year ago, but he had a excuse for that, he was "just messing" with the gay guys for a laugh. Now I wonder. Ive tried talking to him but about this, but he dosent want to discuss it. So what do I do? I love my husband dearly but what do I do, Lonely (link)
Give him time to figure it out. It's probly really tough for him to be going through this if he is gay. And if he is, he needs to know you're be there for him. If he's not, I'm sure things will be back to normal soon.




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