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What is the best foundation or press powder brand. i been having tons of trouble with my foundation stayin put andi hate reapplying it i just would like to be able to put it on an not have to look in the mirror every minute or something. Thanks alot in advance for people who help!

try maybeline`s dream matte moose . that`s what i use and it stays on. [♥] LEJ

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is it ok to wear an (light) orange polo with a denim mini and pink flats?

yes i think that would look really unique . go for it !! [ ♥ ] LEJLA

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Brown Gauchos & Brown cowboy boots.

^yes or no?

if you want to be different then go ahead. but you should try to match ! ♥ LEJLA

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my name is alexis and the guy thatr broke up with me keeps sending me messages that seem lke he still likes me.. and i love him more than anyone i have ever loved.. and none of my friends understand and i cant talk to anyone about this.. every one keeps saying get over him but i cant get him out of my head.. and i cry all the time.. sry so long please help

omg hey babe. i`m going thru THE same thing. you love him but it seems liek hes giving you mixed signals. but u know what. he BROKE Up with you right!!? well hes missing out on a AWESOME person! and thats his fault. but the fact that he seems like he regrets it. its good. becausc he KNOWS he made a mistake. let him liek..weep lol for a little bit. and then if he still wants you back then ... give him another chance or you`ll regret it later !! =/ but just make sure hes crawling over broken glass (its an expression) to get to you before you take him back! LEJLA

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ok. well im a girl. im 14. and i wanna know how do you know when your bi, because...i think i am. cause i like girls and guys. but i dont know. cause i like guys a lil more. but im craving to make out with a girl. cause i never have. and anyways. please help me!!

it`s normal to WANT to make out with the opposite sex at the age you are. "everyones doing it" if you want to that bad. do it. and if you like it. i think u might be bisexual
lejla maya

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pretty long... but please read and help

ok so around the beginning of october this guy told me he liked me.. i sorta liked him and we were good friends but i still didnt know him too well.. ok so he asked me out on the 6th.. but i said no.. we kept talking and we ended up going out 3 times between them and now. we talked all the time and it was like i knew him better than any1 else EVER i had fun with him and i liked how he treated me..he seriosuly treated me the best!!!!..ok so i broke up with him 3 times.. and during those times we still acted liek we were going out, we just sorta took space, and eventually went out.. its kinda like i want what i cant have!! && i hate that!..i dont know but on monday i found out from my friend that he smoked that saturday [we broke up thursday] i was so mad.. he didnt even tell me and he also told me he stopped.. i 4gave him b.c we werent going out then and it wasnt toooo big of a deal but still.. the next day i find out he likes another girl.. now when we were going out he would always say i love you soooooo much blah blah and he really did, but he said the same thing to that girl! he lied to me alot these last few days.. he even said he wanted me and didnt like the girl anymore, then that night he came out and said it was a lie.. so now he doesnt like me or the other girl BUT a new girl [he went out with a couple months ago] theyre prob going to go out and i just dont know what to do and feel..this last week i coudlnt concnetrate at all at school and ive been so sad. now i know this sounds really stupid but there is so much more to our situation and so many more lies.. but now that he lieks this other girl def. i just idk i like him so much! i dont know what to do.. i think i might have loved him..please just tell me what im going through and what i do and how i get over it


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you had your chance .. good luck

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I know that 13-year-olds are too young to fall in love. But does that mean you can't say "I love you" to your boyfriend?

hey ther! i don`t think you should say i love you until you truly feel like it!! lejla maya

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i really really really like this guy in my global, gym and study hall classes he always glances or stares at me but ive never really had an acutall conversation just shot backs how do i get him to ask me out/like me?

i think you should get to know him first. go up to him before or after class one day. and just introduce yourself !! everything shoud fall into place from there !! =D lejla maya

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i just had the worst break up ever my boyfriend of 1 month broke up with me today and i found out that he cheated on em. the worst part was he didnt have enough guts to tell me so he ha one of his friends do it. and i thought i loved him what should i do???

oh my ! i just got done going thru nearly the same thing .. i could say so many things, and give you alota sugestions but they wont work. if you loved him they WONT work at all .. all you have to do is show him you don`t care. as much as you might. because he wants a reaction out of you and he`s gonna do things that`ll make you cry but babe just keep your head up high and dont let him break you!! GOOD LUCK!!! lejla maya

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my friend just broke up with her boyfriend and me and him are really close but i do not know if i like him more than a friend he likes me and he wants to go out with me but i don;t know what to do please help me thanx confuse.

hi . i don`t think that`s fair to you`r friend. make sure with her tho if you do feel something more then just a friendship vibe between you and him. let her know. and you`ll eventually have to choose between your friend and the boy
lejla

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today is my boyfriends birthday and I want him to have a good day but I already gave him his birthday present and I don't have no money. What could I do to make him have a good birthday?

aww! happy birthday to him!! lol. uhm let him know that you love him if you do !! that should make his day im sure you`re gorgeous and he`s lucky to have you !!
lejla maya

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ok. 15/f
my boyfriend and i have been together for a year. but jwe broke up about 2 weeks ago. is there a way i can keep him as my friend but not cry myself to sleep.

let him know how you feel. that way you can`t regret not saying it later. and that way he`ll know and it`s all up to him from there.
lejla maya

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So I got in a fight with this guy that I was basicly seeing and it was because I got jelouse when i heard he was hanging out with other girls. I really want him back cause Im head over heals for him.
What can I do to get him back?

hi ther. i`ve learned this the hard way. show him that you care first. and he will push u away at first but..then you act liek you guys are nothing more then like best friends . he`ll want you back!! lejla maya

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alright im 15.f is that helps.
so i have a boyfriend who i totally love, but i cant help it but have a little crush on this guy. the guy i have a crush on i THINK likes me hes constantly flirting and calls me too. i mean i wouldnt break up with my boyfriend for him, but i think about him alot and really like hanging out with him. any advice on what to do- thanks!

hey !! i don`t think it`s fair to your boyfriend that your crushing on this other guy. you need to choose which one means more to you!!
hope i helped
lejla maya

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I have contacts and I want to get my naisl done but how will I be able to take out my contacts? Does anyone have there nails done and has contacts?

omg that was so me a while back!! hehe. you don`t use your nails to grip the contact you just use the bottome of your finger to slide it down to the bottom of your eye and then you can grip it with your nails. hehe
hope i helped
lejla maya marie !!

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So my acne is really red. What kind of makeup do i put on to make it close to my skin color. I don't know what to use...I have really dry skin too.

hey ! you can use lukewarm water when your in the shower and jst wash your face. and when you get out of the shower put some baby lotion on your face. !!
hope i helped
lejla maya

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14/f

So I have sweaty palms all the time, no matter how cold it is. Now, I was going to put deoderant on my hands, but on the instruction label, it says "underarms only". Am I going to get a rash or something if I put deoderant on my hands? Or is there some other (inexpensive) product I should be buying?

5's for all

If you have swaety palms anf feet at times besides when you are playing, you most likely you are suffering from a medical condition known as hyperhidrosis, which causes a sweat gland found in the feet, hands, and armpits to be overactive. If suffered from this condition my whole life, and as a pro bassist, I was thrilled to discover that there is a relatively minor surgery to fix. Maybe you already know about this, but some others may not. I haven't had it yet but plan to in late January when I'm going to be in LA. For those of you that recommended "just relax", you are obviously unaware of how uncontrolabel this condition is, i would say my palms are sweaty about 65% of the time, regardless of whether i'm nervous active, whatever. (If i'mk nervous or excited, as playing music often is, then they are definetly that way.)Hand washing only helps for about one minute, i've also tried acupuncture to no avail. This surgergy looks like it will completely eliminate the problem. ANyway you should check out "Center for hyperhidrosis" for more info if any of you are interested. (You''l get mulitple hits on a search engine for this condition.) Good luck!

got that from.. www.basslessons.com

hope i helped ya!!
lejla maya marie

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Alot of people smoke weed. Even my boyfriend used to but i made him quit. Even my parents do. For some reason i dont like weed. Ive never really tried it. But knowing my parents do it makes me think bad about them. It makes me think why do they do it but they are supposed to set a good example. Most of my friends do it too. I guess im just a good girl. But my boyfriend tries to convince me that theres nothing wrong with it. And i never agree and i dont think its right. Its a drug and im ashamed of everyone that does it. I dont know why though. Is there somthing wrong with me? anything will help! but please dont leave me rude comments.

Love-KMR

well if you don`t want to try it. and have really made up your mind on that. then don`t let anyone influence you. and there is nothing wrong with you for having your self respect and saying NO!! thanks.
lejla maya

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I'm dating this girl. I'm really happy, and I love her very much. but theres this other girl that likes me, and she happens to be a close friend. She has a b/f and she's wants to dump this b/f for me. But how do I tell her I don't wanna be with her? I don't want her to get mad and stop being my friend.....idk....

just let her know. if she`s truly a close friend she`ll understand

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is it true that if you work out with layers of clothing on like sweatpants and sweatshirt that you'll lose more weight?

yeah it is. you`ll sweat more.

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