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how do i lose 20 pounds in 4 weeks??

all you have to do it get up and eat breakfast, if uve heard the saying breakfast is the most important meal of the day whoever sayd that is beyond true. if u dont eat breakfast you will gain wait. also if u do start losing wait by eating healthy and exsersising dont get worried if u gain wait before you lose it bacause before you lose wait you gain wait because your body feeds off you muscles before your fat. that all i got to say talk to u later.

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i am 14 years old and i am pregnate. my mom wants me to give the baby up for adoption but the father of my baby doesn't want me to give it up. i am 7 months pregnate and i don't know what to do. it is a girl and i am afriad that if something goes wrong and i can't have children again and i give this one up i am never going to have a baby again. what should i do?

im 14 and i know i couldnt take care of a kid but its really very sad to give up a child u just carried around for 9 months. so this is one of your decisons u have to make for youself make a good one.

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if uv notticed iv asked a lot of q's. sorry about that..but i got a lot of problems..ne ways..I'm really shy..and a lot of guys i feel take advantage of me..they r always trying to get me to give them a hand job..or touching me..and i feel really unconfterble..idk wut to say to them..i wana tell them to stop..but then idk y but i feel bad so i just let them..wut should i do the next tiem some guy slaps my ass??? or the next time a guy ask's for a hj..or trys to flirt with me???? N how do i do it nicely..i feel like iv been molested too much :/

okay dont tell a guy not to flirt with u like dont get all defensive or something. but if guys are asking for handjobs? youll get a reputation as a big slut. so the next time a guy starts feeling you up or sumthing just look at him give him a weird look and be like what are you doing??? theyll get the hint.

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is it a good think when a guy calls u a barbie?

if u are a prep i guess but if some guy walks by and calls u a barbie usually he is making fun of u cuz u r dressing like a super model or something, or care about what u look lik to much. but if a friend says it to u in a non-mean way.. then i guess he could be calling u perfect like barbie.

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i cant sleep EVER! i've had trouble sleeping all my life. I'll go thru times when i can fall asleep within 1.5-2 hours which is great but anlot of the time it takes atleast 3-4 hours to fall asleep. For the past few nights its been even worse. i couldnt fall asleep untill 7.00 am :(
its a nightmare! what should i do
ps i have seen my regular dr. but all she said was to do things to relaxe but it doesnt help!

well if uve tried sleeping pills and stuff then u cant fight it ur an insomniac i cant sleep either... its 4:06 in the morning right now. but another reason u may not b able to sleep is because you sleep during the day?? just a thought.
--later.!

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how do u make urself throw up. i no that i lean over and stick ur fingers down ur throat and cough.. is that rite..what else do u do
-just wondering

if your like drunk and u wanna puke then u can stick ur fingures down ur throat and do it cuz when ur in that state it really doesnt matter. but if ur doing it for some other reason... then if u absolutally cant stand something lik fish or some kind of alcohal that uve thrown up from b4 it makes u gag and youll throw up.

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i live in a small town and there was a rumor that i was a lez but it blew ova a while ago but i still cant get a boyfriend in my town but i go to allot of otha towns and i can get any guy i want in but i like guys in my town more that probably y i can stay in a true relationship....how do i get the guys in my town to like me?

okay if u wanna boyfriend in your town then go for it and cram it into thier heads that ur not a lez but if they dont wise up and go out with u, then to hell with them go get a guy that really matters somewere else.!

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Okay, I like this guy, he's 20 and I am only 16. No he's not a rapest. He's got alot of respect for me and my father (he's afraid of him) and also he won't date because I am too young. But he said he likes me back... what should I do... I know he's 20 but I've cared about him for about a year now... and he knows I want him.... so do yall think there's a chance for me in the future? Tell me what you think! Be honest Plz!

man my mom is 6 years older than my mom! 4 years is no biggie mabe if ur dad says something lik "i forbid u to see him" then wait till ur older and move out then u can do whatever your little heard disires!

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i have a very bad addiction of fingerin myself..once i almost got caught what do i do?

get a boyfriend.... if ur addicted to it and do it so much u obviouslly have nothing better to do.

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i hated life for a long time and i try painless ways to kill myself like pills but it doesnt work i cut myself a few times but im so fed up wit life i dont kno what to do...im only 13 and i have to much 2 handle in my life...i see all of my friends layd back and stuff and i cry..when i talk to people they only tell me the same thing(well think of your mother and how she feels much worse-my moms got cancer-yea i knoo that there's more to the story but im not gonna talk about it but everything rests on my shoulder)..i dont kno what to do..if no1 helps me u'll be seein me one the news--"13yr old from massachussets committed suicied yesturday"
'i cry everynight and even though there r people out there who r less fortunate than me-yea i feel bad- but im npt used to it...hellllp me please

okay i can understand why u feel this way im only 14 and i feel that way all the time unwanted alone and like noone wants to be best friends with me... ive thought about suicide but then when i thought about it more and more it seems like a selfish thing to do. think of how your friends would feel and yes if u were thinking i have no friends, if u go to school you have friends if u died the whole town will be affected ive lost a friend in highschool that i barely knew and eveveryone knows who he is now. now if you are hurting your slef you should really think about seeing a councilor or something, maybe they can find out just what is making you feel this way. maybe you lost a boyfriend you really cared about or friend but time heals and killing yourself isnt the way to go. it doesnt just hurt you it hurts everyone around you and i say this with all seriousness. think twice about it and look at your future, youll make the right decision.

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