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E-mail: ATINARAT4ever@hotmail.com
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Location: Bethlehem, PA
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Age: 14
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Member Since: August 26, 2004
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im only 14 and about 3 days ago i got hit in the side of the face with a softball during warm up to a game... my mom took me to the doctor yesterday and he said that i had a concussion and to watch it closly because i might have a slow internal bleeding in my head... he said that if i started to act funny and get slurred speech and can barly walk that i probably need a cat scan to see what all happened for shure.. in the short time that ive have this the back of my head behind my ear has swelled up (i was hit in the front of the head) and i have really bad headaches... im getting to the point where i walk really slow and i almost fall over.. i scared of what will happen and when my friends found out they all started crying... the person who threw the ball that hit me in the head cant forgive herself and i dont know what to do.. i dont know whats gunna happen and i just need some help

i had a cat scan, wen i was 11 (nothing to be afraid of!) i also had to get a spinal tap...but go to the doctor if u almost fall over wen walking, i had a headache for 4 days, then went to the doctor, thats wen i found out i had meningites..the operation could have made me not walk again.. i should be lucky.

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ok heres the deal..i really want a cell phone! and i would use it and everything! i am always going to movies..the mall..and football and basketball games that i have to cheer at! and yet my parents still wont get me a cell phone! my sister has one and got one when she was about 14 and i am only 13..but how do i convince them to get me a cell phone?

i got 1 on my 12th birthday ! (my gram buys me what i want) xplain to them that u will use it when u really need it (i got in BIG trouble w/ mine, i was on it for hours w/ my b/f, and it had aim....) but dont use it wen u r calling ur frinds for just to talk..it wastes minutes

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ok about 3 months ago i begged my parents to let me get a hamster...they sed ya...so i got one and ive tooken really good care of it..no problems...well i hav a big enuf cage and i decided i want to get a female hamster n let them mate so i can make them have babies...my mom sed i hav to look into it to make sure its ok n stuff bc she thinks its nasty (she hates rodents) does ne 1 kno ne websites about breeding? also...how do ilet them mate..like will they attack eachother if i buy a female?/..i gues the websites will explain but idk ne websites...ne 1 kno any websites? or has ne 1 did this?

My dad did this wen he was young, and it was easy...but they got out and ate things
~Tara~

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does anybody know a site for ringtones that i could download songs that actually have singing with the real music? for a verizon wireless phone.
thx

www.musicjukebox.com
www.mrtones.com
~Tara~

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Ok, so there's this guy that I really like. I only met him about 4 or 5 days ago but he's really nice and he's a good christian. He had this thing in his AIM profile that said "single let me know if any of you ladies want to change that" and I told him that I could "help him out there" and as soon as I said that he was all "I was hoping you'd say that" He also told me, my cousin, and this guy that he thought I was hot and that I seemed like an awesome girl.

The thing is, everytime I try to make plans he never calls me back or anything. It really sucks... cause I like him a lot. Do you think he likes me? should I give up? please help! :(

.:.macy.:.

Well, mayb go to his house and say "We r saposed to c a movie now" and he'll have to go.

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My friend told me tht she caught her sister cutting....Can ne1 tell me wht tht is? I asked her wht it wuz and she looked @ me like I wuz crazii...Wht is it?! I need 2 no!!

her sister means shes cutting her wrists, you could end up going to the hospital cause of it.

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what is a good product to use to make your hair less frizzy?..i am kinda looking for something that i can rub into my hair when its when they blowdry it and not have to take as much time to straighten it..i guess something that blocks against humidity and frizzies if that makes sense

there is this stuff u can put in ur hair wen its wet..my mom uses it
u can get it at the drug store

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okay.. whats the difference in making out.. and french kissing and normal kissing? sorry... but i honestly dont know..

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french kissing is when toung is involved
normal kissing is just like little pecks, nothing that wild.

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I have a wedding to go to in about..a month in a half and I need a skirt like knee lenthy kinda wavy and layered kind of skirt solid color i prefer maybe with a little design i dont care but anyways do you guys know any sites online to order cute skirts and shirts to go with it and a cute shoe site with high heels or sandals too. thanks so much!

Can't you go to the mall?
cuz deb and rave have close w/ that kind of thing and shoes u can also get at deb..so....
hope i helped
~Tara~

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i have thisgirlSz screen name on aim nd me nd her have been talking nd we are like calling each other shortiiesz and all and everythiing iis good and exchanged cell numbers like 5 minutes ago - she iss like my true inner besst friend and well i aint never met her but i talk to her and her twin sister everyday and all and like i wanna meet her and al but like then again ii dont b/c im afraid she aint going to like the way i am personally or ii aint going to like her personality. but i reallly really wanna meet her and hang out with her all the time i mean she and i could be best friends for like ever im just nervous i think well she never gave me an eact date to when we were going to meet but like idk i just know that i need help and i just dont know what to do....HELP!

well ask to meet up somewhere, and get to no eachother in person, if u talk alot online and on the phone, but if i was u i woldn't giv my number out wen on the internet, unless u really no them, wut if she is like 45 years old?
wut if she is really a he?

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When I was 12 years old, I was raped, and became pregnant. I never told my daughter how she was conceived. She is 13 years old, and I just found out that she's pregnant. Her boyfriend's father kicked him out of his house as a result. Abortion is out of the question. We have to decide whether my daughter and her boyfriend will raise the baby themselves or allow me to adopt the child. So I have three questions.

1. How do I tell my daughter the truth about how she was conceived?

2. Should I allow her boyfriend to move in with us, and if so, is it okay to make them sleep in seperate rooms? (His only other option is to move out of the country with his mother.)

3. Do you think it would be better for my daughter to raise her child or should I adopt the baby? (I was unable to have any other children.)

Sorry so long, but any advice would be appreciated.

Because she is at a young age, you can aadpot the child and you kid can grow up and pretend it never happened, but for the baby, you two have to make sure that the same thing doesn't happen to her, tell you daughter...she should know.

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about a month or 2 ago, i tripped and fell and a nail sliced my leg all the way down...(sorry if that is gross) and now i have this really ugly scar...is there anyway to get rid of it? thanks! ill rate you either a 4 or 5!!

Well sometimes scars stay forever, but you can to to the drug store and look for cream to cover it up, i have lots of scares and the cream works really well!

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hey yall. if i do 32 sit ups 32 squats eat fruit and veggies um..i dont eat lunch when i start school i hardly eat breakfast. but anyways and i use a bike thingie were u just sit and pedal haha and walk everynite after dinner and i excersize after every meal how long would it take to lose 100 pounds? also what else can i do to lose weight? thanks so much i love you guys lol.

u can use wait lose bars, go on Jenny Craig, or on LA weight loss

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Hi well I already have a boyfriend but I bumpped into this other guy and he is so hot but I don't want to break up with my boyfriend.
I don't want to break his heart!!
THe other boy likes me and we talk but if My boyfriend found out I'd break his heart!
what do I do???!!! plz don't erase this because I need total help!!

Well xplain to your boyfriend that u wanna take a break meet new people date new people....he'll understand

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I feel like I can't be then 'just friends' with a guy. I really don't see why! All the guys go after the pretty popular girls, and I feel like I can't compare. :( Can someone out there give some advice?

Be yourself! Mayb you need to add a lil make-up or something and they'll notice u!

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Ok i have Black heads... they are like HUGE pores... does anyone know how to get rid of black heads.. the thing i did was pop them... but there is to many! any suggestons..

i rate..

neutragena (spelling?) i think it works, i haven't used it yet but it works for all my friends..

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hey. im starting to go thru puberty and develop my breats but the question is how long will it FULLY take them to develop. theyve been the same for lyk 4 months and there not growing. and no, i kno that they still have a lot more to grow cuz no normal person could have boobs this small. but anyways how long will it take them to develop FULLY. please help!

It can be until you are 20! I am only 13 with a 36C..i no, i stated early....but my friends wear padded and push-up bras so it looks like they have more.."up there" so... it can take up to ur 20's...

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when u slightly cut ur wrist does it bleed bad... just a small tiny slit...
thanks-
~worried~

dont do it..yes u bleed alot, u can also go to th hospital if some1 finds out.

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Hey guys! My first day of skool is Thursday (9/02) and I go to a trade skool( I just transfered into it for soph year). Im taking auto repair and I'm not really sure wat I'm supposed to wear. I know I'm wearing jeans. And im goin to wear a T-shirt. But should it be a cute one or just a normal one? I mean it is the first day of skool but its still goin to be messy shop. And wat should I do for make up and my hair? Up or down? K.. thanks guys!

put ur hair in a pony tail, no make-up and jeans and a t-shirt is fine...it doen't matter whats on it

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im really confused. I like the girly look, but i also like the punk-rock look. I listen to both kinds of music. i dont know what i should dress like this year. what do you think?

Punk is more...how do i say it?....FREE
There is a such thing as girly/punk, look at Avril...she wears skirts nd stuff, just in PUNK-y colors!

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