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Okay so i have this awesomely cool neighbor i cant say her name caus its a secret. but it starts with a k and ends with an endall. i wannt be like her. she is funny and has a soft weenis. do you have any advice for me?

look dahling, i know that you have a crusty wenis, but life just goes on! ya know? welll hunn, haha, hunn!! HUN, you need to just be like you. be you. be you. be true! that rhymed =)

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okay well i want to get my nose pierced and im allowed and everything but i was just wondering if it hurts and like how bad if any. thanks :]

Ohhh yes it does hurt. your nose is very sensititive and if u get it peirced you have to be on top of it and watch it very carefully.

♥ Kendall

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I wore all of my favorite shirts last summer at camp and it was really hot there so everyone sweat a lot. Is there any way to get rid of pit stains? I don't want to have to toss my favorite shirts, but it's really gross!

Tide-2-Go

It really works =)

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Im 15/f and i tend to sweat a lot. Even if im not cold i sweat under my arm pits without even knowing it. I always want to wear a sweatshirt over my t-shirt because it gets bad. Yes i wear deoderant! I've tried like every kind out there and nothing seems to take away the wetness. Its embarrasing because everytime i lift up my arms people see this big ole sweat "puddle" is there anything that will help??? Thanks a lot!!!

You might be wearing deoderant, but are you wearing anti-persperiant? Deorderant just smells nice. Anti-persperant smells nice and it prevents sweat. If your deoderent does not say anti-persperant then go by one that does. I used to have a problem like you, and I started using DRY IDEA. It can be found basically at any pharmacy or wal-mart or anything like that.

♥ Kendall

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I'm not exactly sure what I'm looking for; what kind of advice I need. I don't even know if I need advice.

I'm 13/f, btw.

Last year (2005), during the summer, I met with a guy I knew over the internet. He'd told me that he was 14, and lived about 30 miles from my house. I met up with him, and well, it turned out he wasn't exactly what I expected. Things happened, that, well, weren't exactly supposed to happen. I personally just don't like the term "rape" but sure, lets use it. Since, no matter how much I hate the word, it's what happened.

I've done a pretty good job at hiding it from everyone. Luckily, I have heavy periods, and so I was on the pill at the time to make my bleeding lighter, so I didn't get pregnant. I was 12 at the time. Should I be hiding it from everyone? I've told three people so far. One of them, it was on accident, but she ignored it as if I had never said it. I've also told a good guy friend of mine, let's call him Anthony, but I don't think I can really trust him with the information. And I've also told my boyfriend, let's call him Andrew. He thinks I should tell someone, the poliece, or something. But I refuse to. It's just a weird feeling. I don't really want people to know, I don't really want people to do anything about it. But I don't know, should I tell more people? Like my mom, or the poliece? The guy, well, he told me that if I ever told anyone about it he'd track me down and kill me. And I know some people would think it stupid to listen to a threat like that, but I don't know. I really just don't know what to do. It's like it keeps coming back to haunt me. I was doing a good job at ignoring it, forgeting about it, but lately, it just hasnt been working.

Sorry it's so long.

It's okay, long ones are the best. I did something bad like that except that he didn't rape me and he didn't tell me he would track me down and kill me! You need to tell the police, I am sorry, but you do. Rape is a serious matter and your boyfriend is absolutly right.

♥ Kendall

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i just started going out with a kid form elementery school (now where 8th grade) but i haven't like really talked to him since 6th grade, my friend hucked us up. the only tyme we see each other is on the way home(we go to different school) from the bus stop.Anyways i'm kinda shy what should i do? what should we talk about? i want him to love beindg around me? ~Please Help!!!!!!~

Just talk naturally about...

-Sports
-School
-Friends
-Parents

hang out w/ him over the weekend

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Hey there. Well ill get straight to it. Im 14 years old, and im a devoted christian. Thing is i was born into christianity but my family are backsliders so now im back into church. Before church i dressed..sorta punk (i really dislike labels) anyways when i became christian, i somehow became involved with rap? because of some of the boys at my church. *bad influences* but now im back to my normal self liking everything i like..but i dont know how i want to be anymore! I have to wear skirts all the time..i like this guy that goes to a dif church..and he doesnt seem to like either..ugh im so confused. anyone who took the time to read this and reply, i def. will rate high.

Don't go with the punk thing. If you have to go to church and wear skirts, you might as well be that girl :)

♥ Kendall

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ok. i like these 2 guys from school. one i have gone out with for 9 months, and the other one i have been going out with for a week. (right now i am going out wiht him)but i still like the other guy a lot!!! this guy right now is way too touchy, and the other guy is preverted.When i go out with the one i really like, my best friend thinks he is a loser! so i really need advice! What should I do???

Don't go out with any of them. That way, you're friend won't think he's a loser, and you won't have a touchy guy or a pervereted =x guy.

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What are some things you can talk about with your friend? Just conversation starters that normal people would talk about. Nothing like the weather, something that 15 year old girls would talk about. I will rate for good answers! Thanks In Advance!

-Make-up
-Shopping
-New clothes
-That cute new boy ;)
-AIM
-Your other friends
-Spring Break
-Pets
-Parents
-Annoying Siblings
-Books

thats alot :)

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if you have foundation and then under eye concealer,which do you put on first?

thanks.
5's for your answers

Put the eye concealer on first.

♥ Kendall

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i think the guy i like likes my best friend. we both like him but he flirts with her. i began liking him first and we started talking. but then now we dont talk. he says hi to her in the hall. and he has a girlfriend. i dont care as much if the guy doesnt like me back...i just want to start talking to him again. but i also dont want my friend to have him cause i know she can get him if he broke up with his g/f. (which he prolly will). how can i start talking to him again and get him to notice me a little more?

Try to do your hair different and flirt more around him. If your friend catches on to what you are doing, then don't do it around her. Be very polite to him and compliment him too!

♥ Kendall

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im taking birth control, but i haven't had sex in over 7 months now. i missed 2 periods already with being on the pill. whats going on?! im a little concerned..

If you missed two periods already then there is a big chance you might be pregnant. Talk to your docotor or look it up on google to see if you could be. There is a possibility. If you haven't had your period for that long, maybe about 1 1/2 or 2 years, it still could be irregular.

♥ Kendall

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okay well i just got my ipod on saturday and like it doesnt work with my computer and i dont really want it so im taking it back but i dont have the receit

I don't know where you got it back from, but whoever had it probably messed it up. I think you need the receit. But, you can try. My iPod fell in the hottub so I don't really know anymore lol. I am going to try to take mine back and I don't have the receit, so try!!

♥ Kendall

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I Am Sixteen, Female. I Feel Like My Best Friend And I Are Growing Apart. She Doesn't Seem Like She Likes Talking To Me Sometimes. And Sometimes We Don't Know What To Talk About. How Can I Bring Us Back Closer? I Will Rate Fives For Good Answers. Thank You So Much!

-Movies
-Bowling
-YMCA
-Sleepover

Talk to her and tell her how you are loosing her and you feel like you to are growing apart.

Good Luck

♥ Kendall

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i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. everyone has always hated my bf. because he is black. i have dealed wit it. but saturday i went wit my cousin to see my bf (just like everyweekend) and he brought his best friend with him. i got attracted to him. my bf noticed it to but i always denny it. anyways me and him kept talkin and on the way home he started talkin about my currennt bf and how i should leave him and all this stuff. i listened to it but couldnt leave my bf i have a lot of feelings for him. he is my first boyfriend who i have loved so much and he was my first kiss, first make out, first everythin in a realtionship. idk if i should leave him or not. i will admit he has raised his voice at me but apologized. my cousins friend likes me a lot he always tells me he loves me and puts a whole bunch of comments on my myspace about how cares about me. (my bf doesnt noe about any of them. he thinks my cousins best friend is my cousin.) lost and confused can someone give me some advice.

I don't think that you should leave your boyfriend. This cousin sounds like a fake, and he isn't right for you. Relationships have their bad days, like when he yells at you. But that is good that he says he's sorry. those things happen and its not a big deal. i think that you would be making a bad choice if you left him.
HE LOVES YOU!!

♥ Kendall

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I'm 16/female and the guy im talking about is 16. He has always been there for me and i think that i love him. I've known him since grade 8 and now we are in grade 11. He has a girlfriend that he tells me he's going to dump. Every time i see this guy he is with a different girl. He knows every girl and every girl i talk to likes him. But, i don't think that he likes them in that way. But then he tells me he likes me and that he always has. He tells me that he can't resist the urge to make out with me. meanwhile he has a girlfriend. So, what should i do about this guy that i love because there are so many other girls in his life. Even if we start dating he will still be all over his other friends that are girls. I'm desperate, i love him and he doesn't know, and i cant tell him either. Please help i need to know if this guy is playing me and these other girls or are his feeling are real for me.

All the other girls that like him are probably thinking the same thing as you. THIS GUY IS A PLAYER. He likes girls, and that's a main part of life, but he is doing it way too much. I don't think you going out with him would be a good experience. What if he is saying that he wants to make out with other girls too? Ask your friends that like him and ask them if he has said anything like that to them

♥ Kendall
good luck

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I don't usually confront boys about how they feel about me. i've known this one boy for about 3 weeks, and we've talked every single day and before it used to be like we were rushing to talk to each other. we had amazing conversations.

this week, there has been a decline. i can tell that we both don't really put our all into conversations, that there are bigger priorities in terms of people to talk to. so i called him, and asked him what he thought we were, just friends?

he told me "yeah.. we're just friends.. but whatever happens..happens.." "of course we'll be friends, but down the line, i don't know."

what is that supposed to mean? can you break it down for me, because when it happens to me i have such a hard time understanding exactly what he means by that!

Boys are very hard to understand. But..what he means is that he is your friend, but if you want to take our relationship further, then that is fine with me. You don't have to have a GREATTT conversation with the same person everrrry day. But, if you do that is good. If you don't, thats fine too. There will be off days and maybe he just wants to give you a little space. I say, go for him!

♥ Kendall

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im 16/female and i have diabetes type 1, ive had it since grade 2 and im still living. I need to know if anyone else who has this disease can help me. I want to know what would happen if my nondiabetic friends took insulin(what i use)and what would happen if i did pot. Thanks

Okay FIRST OF ALL:
do not use pot. you shouldn't be using it/having it with you if you are a diabetic or not! it is against the law and very bad for you.

SECOND: this would be not great for your friends, it might make then hyperer, but do not ever do it again

LUH LUH LUH LOVEEE,
♥ Kendall

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ok so this guy asked me out. and i dont know if i like him or not. he is really nice and cool and i dont want to hurt his feelings by saying no. but i dont know if i like him!

i dont really know him. i only hung out with him once. im so confused. i dont know what to do!!!!!!

PLEASE HELP!!! ill rate 5's for anything.

I think that you should go out with him. Tell him that you are not making a big commitment, and to not be surprised if things don't work out. You've only hung out with him once, but at least that's something. Make sure you talk with him a lot and hang out a lot and get to know each other a lot more.

♥ Kendall

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ok so i have this one friend that always wants to hangout but i mean i am not that great of friends, she bothers me, calls me all the time and walks with me in the hallz, do i tell her i dont want to be that close of a friend or something i dont want to hurt her feelings but were just not alike and i dont want to be her bestbud or nethhing but any advice??? thx

You have the same problem as me! There is a new girl in my class and she keeps hanging around me and it is getting to be annoying. When she tries to talk to you, walk away or just start talking with other people. You don't want to be mean to her immediatly. Take it slowly. Be a little mean to her, and then the next day start to be rude. TELL her that you don't want to be best friends, but you two can be friends =)

♥ Kendall

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