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It seems I've spent many hours talking to my friends and offering advice, and as people keep coming back for it, I assume I'm not bad at it.



I know what it's like to be in love, and I also know what it's like to have your heart broken. I know what it's like to be depressed and feel anger towards all the people that love you - your friends, your family, your parents, your teachers. Advice is something I've always been good at, as my friends tell me. So if you want honest advice, ask me and I'll do my best to answer.








Aside from that, here's the basic info on me:





BASiCS



001.Name: Valerie
002.D.O.B.: July 10, 1989
003.Place Of Birth: St. Petersburg, Russia
004.Location: Navarre, FL
005.Religion: open minded
006.Occupation: student at Navarre High




APPEARANCE



001.Hair: brown/blonde highlites, past shoulders
002.Eyes: blue-green
003.Height: 5'4"



STYLE



001.Clothing: Aeropostale, Pac Sun
002.Music: Yellowcard, Simple Plan, Avril Lavigne, Linkin Park, Trapt, Switchfoot
003.Make-up: eye liner and lip gloss
004.Body art: none





EITHER / OR



001.Club or houseparty: club
002.Tea or coffee: coffee
003.Achiever or slacker: a bit of both
004.Beer or cider: beer
005.Drinks or shots: shots
006.Cats or dogs: cats
007.Single or taken: both have advantages
008.Pen or pencil: pen
009.Gloves or mittens: gloves
010.Food or candy: food
011.Cassette or cd: CD's
012.Coke or Pepsi: Pepsi
013.Hard or mild alcohol: mild
014.Matches or a lighter: lighter
015.Sunset beach or sunrise: sunset




HAVE YOU EVER...




001.Dated one of your best friends? yes
002.Loved somebody so much it makes you cry? yes
003.Drank alcohol? yes
004.Done drugs: no
005.Broken the law: who hasnt?
006.Ran away from home: no
007.Broken a bone: no
008.Cheated on a test: ....yes
009.Skinny dipped: no but sounds fun
010.Played truth or dare: yes
011.Flashed someone: for me to know
012.Mooned someone: no
013.Kissed someone you didn't know: no
014.Been on a talk/game show: no
015.Been in a fight: yes
016.Ridden in a fire truck: not yet
017.Been on a plane: yes
018.Come close to dying: yes
019.Cheated on your boy/girlfriend: never
020.Gave someone a piggy back/shoulder ride: yes
021.Eaten a worm/mud pie? no
022.Swam in the ocean: yes
023.Had a dream that made you wake up: yes





ARE YOU...




001.A Vegetarian?: no
002.A Good Student?: yes
003.Good At Sports?: only if i like the sport
004.Good At Wakeboarding/Snowboarding: not rly
005.A Good Singer?: no, but i try LoL
006.A good Actor/Actress?: yes
007.A deep sleeper?: no
008.A Good Dancer?: so/so
009.Shy?: not really
010.Outgoing?: most of the time
011.A good storyteller?: ppl say I am






AM I...



1. Quiet or Loud?: can be both
2. Short or Tall?: ppl call me short...
3. Weird or Original?: heh...both
4. Nice or Mean?: nice
5. Friendly or Selfish?: friendly
6. Normal or "Special"?: you decide
7. Smart or Stupid?: smart...but blonde
8. Boring or Fun?: depends





5 things that attract me to the opposite sex:
1. eyes
2. smile
3. personality
4. sense of humor
5. honesty










Life throws things at you, your choice is what to do with the things you catch...Will you drop them and complain about how hard it is or will you catch them and learn from them? Its your choice...



advice

okayy, well i mean ive madeout with guys before but i was just wondering if there was a way that you could do it wrong? im always afraid that they talk behind my back ro say stuff about how i like do it wrong.

There's really no right or wrong way to kiss...it's different for everyone. As for for the talking behind your back, that usually happens when the guy has no respect for you or feels like he has to prove something to his guys.

JyNxiE

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OK well I have AOL 9.0 And Its only suppose to be like 24 dollars a month or something. But we get billed like 2 times in a month. Anyways, What is a good internet thats cheap and good? Like 10 dollars a month. I know like peoplepc.com but I dont know If thats good. Thanks.

NetZero and EarthLink are pretty good.

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Ok well I know this question is really stupid but i don't know what to get my dad or brother for x-mas. My brother is 16 and plays guitar and stuff and i don't know what to get him. Any ideas for either of them? thanx!
~I rate!~

Guys are impossible to shop for, arent they? I'm starting to run into the same problem. I'd say buy your brother something guitar-related. My cousin playes the guitar as well and last xmas my family got her the Beetles SongBook. She seemed to really like it, plus its useful for practice. As for your dad...cologne or shaving stuff always works. HOpe this helps!

JyNxiE

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OK... im a freshman and theres this boy that ive been liking for a week or so.. we always flirt when we see each other i.e he takes my pop, we play fight etc.

and i really like him alot and i wanna go out with him but im not sure if he really likes me enough to go further... So what should i do? How do i find out? Should i jus ask him out myself?
:( im jus really confused rite now.

Please help! Ill give a 5 jus for effort! thanks a bunch!

*confused chic*

I'd say watch him when you guys flirt. Watch for eye contact and such. Or ask some of his friends if he's mentioned anything about you or not. Or the all time direct approach works...suggest the two of you going somewhere together and see where it goes.

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ok so im goin out wit this guy and i like him but i started goin out wit him after i broke up with the first guy i actually loved and it was partially to keep my mind off it but then i started to really actually like him now so i hadnt talked to my ex bf all summer and now he randomly started talkin to me agian and i still have feelings for him anbd i cheated on my current bf wit him a few times but i dont no which one to choose ...help me ....

Last summer I was in a similar situation. My current boyfriend was stuck between his ex and me. I'm sure it's different circumpstances, but dont word it like "I dont know who to choose". The guys arent items you choose from...because believe me, it didn't particularly feel that great to be 'chosen'. But, my advice would be to take a break from both of them and think. Go for a walk and think. Some sorf of compromise or solution should come eventually. Good luck!

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ok well i have straight hair but for some reasons its really really frizzy! and like i have "Frizz-ease" but you can only use that when your hair is wet . .. and i usually shower at night and for school its soo frizzy ! does anyone know a friz-control product that you can use on dry hair ?

i`ll rate you a five !! thnxx!

I use Frizz-Ease. It's something my mom bought for her hair, but it didt work cuz she has short hair. I used it once and it worked wonders. I've been frizz free ever since. Hope this helps!

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k..my friend is out of town right now and i like her boyfriend..the other day we madeout in his truck when he drove me home..and we've been hanging out a lot since she left for thanksgiving..i feel really guilty but i just cant get him off of my mind..i like him way too much..and i dunno what to do!..i swear im gunna end up going crazy..what should i do??

I don't mean to judge you but that's low. Making out with your friend's boyfriend? What kind of friend does that make you? Aside from that, my advice would be to put some distance between that boy and you. You don't want to hurt their relationship, right?

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ok so here's the thing...There is this boy that had a crush on me last year and I didn't like him that way. But this year we are flirting w/ each other like crazy and I don't know if he likes me. How do I know!! I mean guys flirt w/ me but most of them just do it for fun, and I think I may really like this by now! HELP! I rate 5 for the effort!

Well, I'd say if you guys are already flirting with each other, there's a mutual feeling involved. While it's true most guys flirt around for the fun of it, but they also don't just flirt with everyone they see on the street. I'd say there is a possibility he may like you.

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