Hi! I'm a 14 year old girl. I'm noticing that I'm interested in girls more than guys. I want a girlfriend. Not a boyfriend. But I can't tell anyone about my sexuality because people don't accept gays. I can never have a girl spend the night thought because I don't want something to slip. But I really want an intimate relationship with another girl. Its that ok?
yes its perfectly fine .. u should probably keep ur sexuality on the dl ( down low ).. u might not wanna find a gf yet because ur a lil bit to young .. but its fine that u like girls .. i hope i was of some help :D
-serena x3`
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i like this guy he's in 12th and im in 9th, 3 year age difference, i don't really kno him that much anymore but i want to get to kno him again. we used to hang out all the time, cuz our families are friends... wat should i do.... is he way too old? should i wait a lil while?? should i move on??
well ur not that much younger than him .. u should try to hang out more like just the 2 of you .. you never kno .. he may have a thing for u aswell :D . i hope i was of some help!
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Hey..I'm only 14, and a girl. Lol. Well, I have a lot going on in mii life, I have had three boyfriends, and I am pretty good in school, but when it comes to makeup, I need help. I know that I look fine and everything, but when I do make up, I hate the results..does anyone have any good tips? I mean mii make-up doesn't look horrible, I just want to look better, but I don't seem to be any more pretty. Thanks! ;-) Katie
hey! well if ur not the best at make up then u should have a friend or family member help u touch up ur make-up so u can have that feeling that ur pretty .. but im sure ur probably pretty with out make up :D
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okay so i was at my cottage and this guy was like chillin with me and my sis and my cuzins and so we were chillin and my sis was beggin 4 his sn!! i wasn't even really interested but he gave it 2 me secretly!! doe sthis mean he likes me?? or does it mean he wants to be friends??
well it could mean either one .. u wount kno for sure unless u tlk to him .. n if u c that hes flirting with u then he probably has a crush on you .. i hope i was of some help :D
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im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl....
hey! u should go out with him if you rele like him .. and who cares if ppl tlk .. not matter wut u do ppl r gonna tlk .. its called jealously .. ppl r probably jealouse of you .. i would say go for it! :D
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Hey im bisexual and me and my girl have been together for a year as of Aug 15th. Well she is REALLY good friends with my guy cousin Micheal. They went to middle school together and crap. Well she says shes in love with me..and i love her to death but theres one problem. My cousin likes her and she likes him. And it kinda hurts me because Im scared that one day im gonna loose her over him. I really love her. But i dont know what to do. I cry every night because it hurts to see him doing this to me. They flirt like crazy. And when she gets offline she writes him this long ass paragraph on how she loves him and shell miss him..bla bla but when she says bye to me all she says is i love you bye. Is it right? What do i do? PLEASE help me..
Ash
well u should talk to ur gf .. if u dont like them flirting with each other and she dosnt care .. mabey its best if you didnt go out with each other and find some one else .. yea it might b hard but if ur gf dosnt want to b with you then there not much u can do about that .. also u should tlk to ur cousin n tell him how u feel .. i hope i was of some help :D
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for a couple months and I very much enjoy kissing him. The problem is, he always makes the first move. Out of all of my boyfriends, I've never made any first moves or anything. I want to just try something new and make my boyfriend realize I'm spontaneous, sexy and not shy. Any kissing techniques I could use on him? I really don't want to come off like I'm trying too hard, but I need help to get over this shy thing I have with my own boyfriend!
well u should like take him to someplace romantic .. perhaps the beach or movies ( lol )mabey like a romanic movie .. n when the time is right .. u should french him ( french kiss ) .. ive done that before .. trust me .. u gain alot of confidents .. i hope i was of some help :D
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haha ok, i like my brothers friend.. and they are pretty good friends not best. I think he likes me cus hes all flirty and stuff and ahh...idk what to do. bleh, plus hes like 2 yrs older than me or more... idk... my brother mentioned something about his friends liking me or something.. idk.. and he said his name i was like WOW but idk.. what can i do?!?!?! bleh thank you very much for listening to me
hey! well u cann tlk to tha kid .. if u rele like him and he rele likes u .. i think u should go for it! i hope i was of some help :D
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OK, I met this guy at the mall and we got to know eachother. He calls me almost everyday and we flirt ALL the time. The thing is, he already has a girlfriend. I think he likes me and all but i don't want him to break up with her for me but i REALLY like him. What should i do?!?! PLease help me!!!
i think you should try and wait until he breaks up with his current gf but for now dont interfer with there relationship .. i hope i was of some help :D
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i have a classmate who has terrible body odour and we duno how to tell her that she really needs a deodrant or perfume! how can i tell her that shes BO, without hurting her feelings?
u should just tell her up front that she smells but not mean in hopes that she wont take it the wrong way .. i have some one like that in our class 2 .. lol i kno how u feel :D
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OMFG i love your advice column! it rocks!
aw thanks :D
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There is this boy that is really popular, but drinks and has sex all the time and is two years older then me. Then there is this boy that is extremely cute, nice, and smart, and doesnt party like that at all. But he is a year younger then me... They both like me, but I dont know which one I should chose. They're both fun to hang out with, but I'm not really into younger guys, or guys that have sex all the time. HELP!
well in my opinion u should go with the guy who DOSNT party and has sex all the time .. first off .. if you choose the popular guy and ur not with him when he goes to clubs and stuff hes gonna end up gettinng drunk and cheating on you .. you dont want that .. i dont kno if your into getting drunk and having sex all the time and dont care if your "boyfriend" cheats on you .. but it would be smarter to go with the boy whos cute, nice, smart and dosnt party .. age is nothing but a number .. lol .. im not telling you who to choose but i definitly think you should go with the boy whoes younger than you .. i rele hope you work that out .. hope i was of some help!
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I'm totally in love with this kid. Him and I use to be best friends. Then we sorta got, in a huge fight. Things just havent been the same since. I'm really sick of him ignoring me, and always treating me like shitt. But I love him more then life. I feel like all I can do is give up. Do you have any advice on how to make letting go easier or just.. another option I may have?
well first you need to try to talk to,ask him y hes ignoreing you, and if he give you a reason then apologize and just hope that he forgives you .. now you say that ur totally in love with this guy .. well if he dosnt want to forgive you to be friends again you might not want to love him because ur just gonna hurt your self thinking " this guy dosnt want to be my friend and since hes not my friend he not gonna want to go out with me" just dont even think about that .. i rele hope everything works out between u 2 .. i hope i was of some help :D
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my best friend and i were tighter than u could imagine. then one day we got in a fight and she called me a slut and shes a total bitch now spreading lies and shit but i miss her so much and i dont know what to do. also.. my other best friend is smoking now and he wont listen to me about quiting. i also have a problem with choosing two guys that both like me and shit and im goin thru hell. please help me.
well about your best friend .. if she is calling you these names and stuff after you've been friends you have to talk to her and ask her why shes doinng this or just not be her friend .. about ur guy friend .. you cant rele do much but encourage him to stop .. and give him reasons y he should .. and last about choseing between to boys .. just follow your heart .. it will tell you what to do .. i hope i was of some help :)
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my bf wants to have sex with me .. wut should i do .. i dnt want to but im afraid to say no
well you should be able to say no .. if your not ready then your not ready .. if he cant accept no then hes not a good bf for you
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