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is it true that after 16 a girl stops growing?? if this is not true then what age it is?
the age 16 has nothing to do with it, after a girl gets her period, her growth slows down, but she still grows up to 18, after 18 you dont COMPLETLEY stop but you definitley will be done by 19, my dads a doctor, just ask me if you have anymore questions :)
-Jenn
JSIMT
What are good kinds of sraightners? Preferably under $50.00. Thanx in advance!!
oooo get the ceramic ones, its one of the best their is and i got mine for $29.99
ok exactly 1 year ago from this past saturday was the start to some scary a$$ sh*t..vases flying off walls,rooms being completely rearanged..yes i mean everything moved to a new place,moans & cries coming through the heat vents at night..oh yea scuri..but we got the house blessed and after about a month it stopped..
so we thought..
well like i said exactly 1 yr ago..we're siting in the living room and i hear a scream..i look over n my friend is sitting,pale as a ghost looking up..a shelf that has been on the wall since we moved in is in mid air oh yes i mean FLOATING..was there for about 30 seconds then crashed to the ground..well that night there was banging coming through the vents..then today i came home and my bed is soakin wet ..like not water..but a sticky liquid..enough to fill up half the bathtub..their was literally puddles..and it smelled like death..oh yea and even better my moms room was dry..however u culdnt walk into it and breathe at the same time b/c it smelled so strong like mens cologne
please some1 b serious when you answer this..im so not kidding about one single word i typed..i was just a little freaked out..but now im scared..especially after i saw it floating & the liquid..out nowhere..please any advice or if any1 has a paranormal story to share.. i just need a piece of mind..
Thats really interesting, but to me, i grew up with knowing stuff about the spirtitual religion and my sisters and i have been into ghosts and stuff, and yeah, im deathly scared of them for some reason, i just dont like the fact of seeing something thats not really there...but, okay, since they seem pretty mean, what i would do, is honestly say a prayer out loud or something, and then you should HONESTLY just talk to them...I know your kinda like "uh what do i say" just try having a conversation with them, its really scarey how these things work because sometimes they will communicate back with you, and what they say to you, you dont HEAR it, it just comes back as kind of like a thought, or an idea or something like that, its in your head... my mom, my sister, little sister and myself have encountered things like this, my mom was ghosts, my sister was ghosts and angels, mine was a guardian angel and so was my little sisters, I saw mine in the middle of the night sitting on my desk looking at me. my big sister, said one night i was sleeping and she woke up and saw a ghost floating over me....its just things like that, and yeah, people think that this stuff in unusual when its really not, the bible states that if you were to see everything going on around you, you would die of fear....so its just some people encounter it and some dont, just talk to them, even if they are mean ghosts, talk to them...everyday when you get home from school or whenever you get home just scream out " HEYYYY HOW ARE YOU GUYS TODAY! I HOPE YOU HAD A GREAT DAY!" and just go up to ur room or something, if they had done something to your room or something to your house, they might just be messing around with you, pushing your buttons, treat them as little kids be like * You guyyyysss! you did it AGAINNN* and lauhg or something, dont show fear or hatred or get mad...befriend them...im sure theyll start being nicer, and if they dont, have a talk with them be like * Alright, Ive been living in this house with you guys here also. and I enjoy your company, but I dont understand why you are trying to scare me, or hurt me, and harm me, messing around and playing pranks is funny, but if your going to be mean im not gonna be happy, please just be nice* or something yeah, isound stupid but it works, I used to have ghosts at my old house, you kind of make friends with them....just be nice :) be cool, and dont be scared, if you show fear, theyre bound to keep on trying to scare you more and more to the point that they want to physically hurt you. DONT show fear. If you need anything else ill be happy to help! GOOD LUCK BABE! STAY COOL! byee
-Jenn
JSIMT
im 14/f...and the hair that i have above my upper lip has gotten really dark and noticeable...its embarassing...my mom says not to shave it, im scared to get it waxed, it hurts when you pluck it, and well is there anything else?!
for the love of GOD do NOT shave it, wax it, or pluck it, honestly just BLEACH it...totally, I swear itll be better! when your older, you can get it taken off with laser surgery babe! just dont remove it until you laser it!
ok me and this girl are pretty good friends i mean we've done sleepovers movies went to a bat mitzvah together and went trick or treatin together!! well shes jewish and im not well newayz she recently sent out her invatations.... but im not invited! i mean i thought we were friends after all of that but i guess not! i almost cried but i didnt because i found out at school! but newayz ya! and when i ask her about it she just acts like she doesnt hear me or anything! it makes me so mad bc she invited people she barely knows and then she doesnt invite me! what shud i do!
Just be the mature one, dont get into a fight about it, dont make a big deal about it, if i were you, id get her a present anyways and give it to her and just say something like * I like to keep my part of the friendship strong...even though the other person might not* dont say it like your mad or gonna bite her head off, just say it maturley, like you still care for her but your dissapointed in what her actions were, also, tell her you thought you both had something going, a good friendship, ask her what happend...
itll be okay! dont worry about it babe, you hurt now, but youll look back on it, and realize you never realli needed her. OHHHH one more thing, make sure she just didnt forget to give you an Invite! :) byee
-Jenn
JSIMT
Okay. so theres this guy that i like(d) whos a year older than me. i dont really know him but my friends have introduced me to him before and ive just seen him around school and hes really cute n funny.
well i kinda got the feeling that he might have liked me bc if i would see him walking down the hall he'd always look over at me or kinda try and find me i think-- but never came up and talked to me. well i told one of my friends i liked him so they told him and i didnt think it would go farther than that but he said he liked me too ((or he thought i was pretty)) and my friend asked if he would ever go out with me and he said he would think about it...well a couple of weeks later after a lot of aggony and i still never really did talk to him he said he wouldnt ask me out bc he didnt know me well enough [and he told my friend that] soo yeah then another one of my friends started to talk to him about a month later and he said he still liked me but he wasnt going to ask me out bc I WOULDNT GO UP AND TALK TO HIM. yeah i know i kinda started the whole thing but arent guys kinda suppose to come up and talk to the girl or is that just me?? :\ im really confused and i feel kinda stupid...please help
Just go up to him now :) confront him. or get his number an call him or his screen name or something, write him notes, ask him to hang out, just do SOMETHING that shows effort in talking to him, sure, itll feel weird but once you break the ice, itll go SOOOOO much better for the both of you, Youll have each other :) just be funny. use one of the cheeziest lines...AKA my favorite lol "Hot Penguin" then they say "what??!" and you go "Oh nothing, just trying to break the ice" , man gotta love that one :) JUST BE YOU AND DONT BE AFRAID!!! GOOD LUCK BABE!!
-Jenn
JSIMT
Sorry its long!!! But ill rate you if you answer.
Over the past 11 monthes i have liked this one guy. His name is Craig. And we dated a little while a few monthes ago but some stuff happened and we broke up for no reason. So he got over me, but i never got over him. So recently we went to a party and we played football. well the entire time he kept tackleing me, but none of the other girls. And he didnt want me to leave. Then my friend asked him if he liked me and he said he never thought about it. I really want to tell him i like him to make him think about, but i dont want to A. risk our friendship, and B. get rejected. What do you think about all of this and how should i handle it?
Well first off. Craigs a hot name :) haha, and second off, look for signs that he likes you. When you guys were dating, im sure there was that vibe there....if you start feeling that vibe again its a total go!, but if not, start showing him little by little...flirt with him back if he flirts with you, but one thing you NEED to avoid...is jumping to conclusions...its the worst thing to do, i know its hard to avoid but try too, because if you dont, your just going to get yourself hurt even more than what you would if you didnt jump to conclusions. If you get to the point and cant take it anymore and just wanna KNOW whether he likes you or not. comfront him. or have a friend do it for you. just flat out say * Listen, I like you. a lot....and i dont know if you feel the same way, but theres nothing i can do about my feelings. you cant make yourself not like someone.* or just ask him. I hope I helped! If you need anything else just e-mail me :)
Good luck!
-Jenn
JSIMT
i was sitting in class and then all of a sudden this guy in back of me said crack kills and i had no idea what he was talking about so i was like "i don't do crack" and then they started laughing and it was about 5 days later that i realized it meant my buttcrack was showing. i feel like sugh a loser i don't know what to say and they make fun of me for it like everyday!!
haha, dont worry about it hun!! Its just a joke, sure they make fun of you now and your mortified, but in a couple more weeks, itll get old, just find something else to laugh about, and if it doesnt blow over, make a joke out of it, its the best thing to do :) you shouldnt be totally embarressed about it...everyone has a butt crack just tell them theyre jealous that they dont have one as beautiful as you. haha laugh it off babe! youll be okay!!
xoxo, Jenn*
Jsimt